This 90s-Inspired Makeup & Style Challenge Is Taking Over The Internet
TikTok is proof that the internet was basically made for Black creatives and the latest makeup challenge that has taken the internet by storm is the best thing you'll see all day.
In a trend created by makeup artist, Queen Hollywood, mavens from all over the country channeled their inner Queen Bee for the #CrushOnYouChallenge and honey, they slayed.
Rocking nostalgia-worthy looks inspired by Lil' Kim's verse on the 1996 classic, these queens served us multi-colored looks for days and now we want to do it, too.
While some users gave us big '96 Kim energy with fur coats and wigs, some TikTokers put their own spin on the challenge by implementing ASL and colorful du rags and head wraps.
For some of our favorite looks, scroll below!
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#crushonyouchallenge paying homage to @LilKim one of the best to ever do it!! https://t.co/soxtYavSmM— Rosalyn Moch (@Rosalyn Moch) 1589603245.0
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𝑆ℎ𝑎𝑙𝑙 𝐼 𝑃𝑟𝑜𝑐𝑒𝑒𝑑? #CrushOnYouChallenge 💚💙❤️💛 https://t.co/ZYTKpF7lFM— Daalu 🕊 (@Daalu 🕊) 1589758854.0
@joannaajames
Crush on you challenge 💙💚❤️💛@LilKim https://t.co/SLXgAhKFAL— tight curls (@tight curls) 1588972967.0
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Beyond Burnout: Nicole Walters' Blueprint For Achieving Career Success On Your Own Terms
Nicole Walters has always been known for two things: her ambition and her ability to recognize when life’s challenges can also double as an inspiring, lucrative brand.
This was first evident more than a decade ago when she quit her job as the corporate executive of a Fortune 500 company during a Periscope livestream. “I’m not sure if there’s an alignment of [our] future trajectory. I’m going to work for myself. I'm promoting myself to work for myself,” she said at the time before flashing a smile at the viewing audience. As she resigned on camera, a constant stream of encouraging messages floated upwards on the screen.
By 2021, she’d fashioned her work as a corporate consultant and her personal life with her husband and three adopted daughters into a reality show, She’s The Boss, for USA Network. This year, she released the New York Times bestselling memoir Nothing Is Missing, written as she was in the process of getting a divorce and dealing with her eldest daughter’s struggles with substance use.
Convinced that there’s no way the 39-year-old has achieved all of this without intentional strategic planning, I asked her about it when we spoke less than a week before Christmas. I’d seen videos on social media of her working on 2024 planning for other brands, and I wanted to know what that looked like following her own year of success.
She listed a number of goals, including ensuring that the projects she takes on in the new year align with her identity “as a Black woman, as an African woman, as a mother, as someone who has lived a [rebuilding] season and is now trying to live boldly and entirely as themselves.” But, I was shocked by how much of her business planning also prioritized rest.
Despite the bestselling book, a self-titled podcast, and working with numerous corporations, Walters said she’s been taking Fridays off. This year, she doesn’t want to work on Mondays, either.
“A lot of us think we work hard until retirement hits. I want to progress towards retirement,” she said, noting that she’ll check in with herself around March to see how successful this plan has been. The goal, Walters said, is to only be working on Tuesdays and Thursdays by sometime in 2025. “It is intentionally building out what I know I would like to have happen and not waiting for exhaustion to be the trigger of change.”
"A lot of us think we work hard until retirement hits. I want to progress towards retirement... It is intentionally building out what I know I would like to happen and not waiting for exhaustion to be the trigger of change."
Walters said the decision to progressively work less was partially in response to her previously held notions about her career, especially as an entrepreneur. “When I first started, I thought burnout was a part of it,” she said. “What I didn’t realize is that even if you’re able to bounce out of burnout or get back to it, there’s a cumulative impact on your body. If you think of your body as a tree and every time you go through burnout, you are taking a hack out of your trunk, yes, that trunk will heal over, and the tree will continue to grow, but it doesn't mean that you don’t have a weakened stem.”
But, the desire for increased rest was also in response to the major shifts that occurred three years ago when she was experiencing major changes in her family and realized her metaphorical tree was “bending all the way over.”
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“One of the things we have to recognize, especially as Black women, is that there is this engrained, societal, systemic notion that our worth is built around our productivity,” she added. “That is some language that I think is just now starting to really get unpacked.” In recent years, there’s been an increased awareness of achieving balance in life, with Tricia Hersey’s “The Nap Ministry” gaining attention based on the idea that rest, especially for Black women, is a form of resistance. Even online phrases such as “soft life” and “quiet quitting” have hinted at a cultural shift in prioritizing leisure over professional ambition.
"One of the things we have to recognize, especially as Black women, is that there is this engrained, societal, systemic notion that our worth is built around our productivity."
If companies are lining up to consult with Walters about their brands and products, then women have been looking to her for guidance on starting over since she invited them to livestream her resignation 12 years ago. As viewers continue to demand more from content creators in the form of intimate, personal details, Walters has navigated her personal brand with a sense of transparency without oversharing the vulnerable details about her life, especially when it comes to her family.
The entrepreneur said she’d been approached to write a book for several years and was initially convinced she was finally ready to write one about business. “I started to do that, and then I went through my divorce. When that happened, I said, why would I write a book telling people to get the life that I have when I’m not sure about the life that I have,” she said.
Instead, she decided to write Nothing Is Missing and provide a closer look at her life, starting with being born to immigrant Ghanaian parents (“You need to know my childhood to know why I’m passionate about entrepreneurship.”) through the adoption of her three daughters and eventual divorce. Despite her desire to share, however, she said she felt protective of the privacy of her family, including her ex-husband.
When discussing this with me, Walters said she was reminded of a lesson she learned from actress Kerry Washington, who released her own memoir, Thicker Than Water, just a week before Walters’ book release. Washington’s memoir grapples with family secrets, too, specifically the fact that she was conceived using a sperm donor and didn’t learn about it until she was already a successful TV star. While Washington reflects on how the decision and subsequent deception impacted her, she’s also careful to hold space for her parents’ experiences, too. “A lot of things she said was that she had to recognize where she was the supporting character and where she was the main character,” Walter said.
This is something Walter worked to do in Nothing Is Missing when discussing her daughter’s struggles with addiction. “I was very intentional about making sure that I did not reveal more than what was required,” she said. “If I say something about someone’s addiction, I don’t need to go into the list of the substances they used, how they used them, what I found. [I don’t need to] walk into a room and paint a picture of what it looked like for people to understand.”
Walters said some of the most vulnerable moments in the book barely made a ripple once it was released. She was extremely nervous to write about getting an abortion, she said. But no one has asked her about this in the months since the book was released. Instead, people have been more interested in quirkier revelations, such as the fact that she once appeared on Wheel of Fortune.
“I have bared my soul about this thing I went through in my youth that has changed me for people, and people are like, ‘So how heavy was the wheel when you spun it?’” she said, chuckling. “It just goes to show that people never worry about the thing that you worry about.”
With the success of Nothing Is Missing, Walters said she still isn’t planning to release a business book at the moment. But, as she navigates parenting a teenager and two adult children while also navigating a relationship with her new fiancé, Walters said she believes she has at least one or two more books to write about her personal journey. “There is sort of an arc of where my life has gone that I know I’ve got something more to say about this that I think is important, relevant and necessary,” she said.
In just three years, Walters’ life has undergone a major transformation. There’s no telling what the next three years will have in store for her, but it seems likely she’ll retain an inspired audience wherever life takes her.
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We get it: you’re a busy woman with things to do and places to be. From your demanding work schedule to tending to your little ones at home, we don’t blame you if making a fulfilling breakfast is the last thing on your mind. For decades, breakfast has been hailed as the “most important meal of the day,” and yet, it’s somehow the most forgettable.
According to a 2022 study, 35% of survey participants in the United States reported eating breakfast daily, while approximately 12% shared that they eat breakfast only a few times a month. Still, eating breakfast has a long list of benefits that shouldn’t be missed out on if we can help it.
Breakfast provides the body with the necessary nutrients and energy to kickstart your metabolism after a night's sleep and gives our body the opportunity to consume essential nutrients like vitamins, minerals, and fiber for the day ahead.
We all know that familiar feeling of fogginess that comes right before noon, but consuming breakfast can give us the fuel we need to reduce it. When we give our bodies the proper nutrition through breakfast, we can set ourselves up to experience better concentration and focus throughout the day. In this case, the right foods in the morning are essentially brain food.
With many of us making an effort to no longer skip breakfast, there has to be a way to fuel ourselves without it taking up most of the precious (and limited) time that we have in the morning. That’s why we’re sharing a guide to easy, “no-brainer” breakfast ideas that will take the mental labor out of what to eat in the a.m.
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1. Greek Yogurt with Granola, Nuts, and Berries
This grab-and-go breakfast is just as sweet as it is satisfying. Grab your favorite flavor of yogurt and granola mix and combine it with frozen or fresh berries.
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2. Avocado Toast
Spread mashed avocado on whole-grain toast and sprinkle with salt and pepper for a simple and healthy breakfast rich in good fats. For an extra touch, add red onions, tomatoes, or a squeeze of lemon.
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3. Instant Oatmeal with Pistachios and Cranberries
The older you get, the more oatmeal becomes a breakfast treat. But if you don’t have time to spend cooking your oats on the stove, opt for instant oats instead. Dress them up with pistachios and cranberries for added crunch and sweetness, and you’re good to go.
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4. Banana and Peanut Butter Smoothie
If you’re looking for a sweet and filling breakfast in minutes, smoothies are the way to go. For this easy recipe, blend banana, peanut butter, and your milk of choice together to create a delicious and protein-packed breakfast you can sip on.
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5. Pre-Made Egg Muffins
For the meal-preppers out there, you’re going to love this ready-to-eat breakfast idea. Whisk eggs into muffin tins and add veggies or cheese. Once they’re fully baked, pack them into the fridge overnight, and they’ll be ready to be warmed up as your portable breakfast option.
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6. Overnight Chia Seed and Oat Pudding
Take the thinking out of your breakfast prep time and leave it to the magic of overnight refrigeration. Mix chia seeds and oatmeal with milk into a small container and let it sit overnight. When you’re ready to eat, add fruits and nuts on top for a simple, no-cook pudding loaded with omega-3 fatty acids and fiber.
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7. Egg and Sausage Sandwiches
We know that nothing beats the feeling of getting a piping hot breakfast sandwich from your favorite restaurant, but why not make it at home instead? You only need eggs, sausage (vegan or turkey will do, too), cheese, and an English muffin, and poof, you've got yourself a protein-packed breakfast sandwich on hand. McDonald’s, who?
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8. Potatoes, Cheese, and Spinach Eggs Scramble
The best way to reduce the mental labor that goes into preparing breakfast is to take all your favorite things and put them into one savory concoction. That’s why we love a classic egg scramble. Add your potatoes, eggs, cheese, and spinach into a skillet for a no-brained meal that’ll leave you feeling satisfied.
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