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The Treat Yourself Collection​


Soft life me, please!

Reward yourself is your right, not a luxury. Whether it’s after a long day of work or just a long morning at the gym, the act of treating yourself is important and should happen often. Whether it's an indulgent and luxurious wash day using some of your favorite SheaMoisture products or a calming bubble bath, self-care is what you make it! This collection is inspired by the recent (yet extremely needed) trend of indulging in the ‘soft life’. While we can all agree that self-care should be a deliberate act, these products by Black women will be key in helping you create the perfect routine to love on yourself.

Manifestation Journal

Manifestation Journal

The Manifestation Journal is the perfect place to manifest the life you deserve. “Less Planning, More Manifesting” is embossed in gold foil across the front of this 100% recycled paper journal to be a constant reminder that everything you want is within reach. Choose between lined or unlined pages to best fit your journaling needs.

Aya Paper Co
$24

UNWND Rest Pack

UNWND Rest Pack

Don’t let this complex world be your vandal. Relax, sit back, review your time. Nothing is more rejuvenating when you UNWND. Enjoy this limited edition 3-piece collab brought to by the makers of lifestyle ease and elevation. You deserve it every time, even on the days you feel you fell short.

Set Includes:

  1. A Velvety Smooth Blanket by Unwrp
  2. A Sultry Fragranced Candle by Lit Bklyn
  3. A Summer Inspired Herbal Tea by Noirebud
Unwrp
$269

Wellness Drops

Brown Girl JaneBrown Girl Jane's Rest Wellness Drops

Pure and simple, this tincture is made using the finest-quality Broad Spectrum CBD oil, 100% Coconut MCT oil, and organic orange essential oil. Balance can be used for daily wellness, and won't cause any haze or intoxication.

Brown Girl Jane
$68

"Living My Best Life" Post-It Notes

Living My Best Life Post-It Notes

Go ahead and snag up these pretty pink post-it notes and remember what you gotta do in style.

Effie's Paper

"My Last Good Nerve" Tea Blend

"My Last Good Nerve" Tea Blend

Soothe those frazzled nerves with the relaxing scent and taste of lavender! Eases anxiety, lifts the blues and soothes nerves because... life.

Calabash Tea & Tonic Company
$11

Devotional Card Deck

Devotional Card Deck

This daily devotional deck of 60-cards helps you start your day and remind you that God is in control. Each card helps you posture your heart and mind for the day

Life en Privée
$26

Period Relief Vitamins 

My Happy Flo Vitamins

Meet your period’s new BFF. A potent women’s health vitamin that supports healthier hormones and alleviates the worst of PMS symptoms for a happier, healthier cycle.

My Happy Flo
$44

The Layered Planner

The Layered Living Planner 2023 is more than just a planner. It is a life system for the modern woman equipped with a yearly, monthly, and weekly calendar in addition to our signature components that make planning and pivoting a lifestyle.

HerSpace Co
$62

"I Rose Above It" CBD Bath Soak

"I Rose Above It" Bathsoak

Homebody's I Rose Above It Pearlescent CBD Bath Bomb Soak is the perfect addition to your daily wellness ritual, it's transformative in targeting digital overload and burnout. Relax and achieve beautiful inner peace as you soak and surrender all your worries down the drain.

Homebody
$14

We-Vibe Rabbit Sex Toy

Nova 2 offers constant clitoral contact with anew flexibility and custom shaping. Nova 2 has an ergonomic design which includes an all new adjustable internal stimulator to fit more body shapes and the softest, most bend stimulator yet.

Feelmore
$135

Lavender Bath Bombs

Honey Pot's pH balance bath bombs are great for relaxing after a long day. Taking bath time to new self-care depths. These vagina-friendly bath bombs made with apple cider vinegar, honey and lavender are sure to keep you centered and keep your vagina happy.

The Honey Pot
$14

Salt Detox Body Wash

Clogged pores and congested, breakout-prone skin are no match for the natural citrus power in our Detox Shower Gel! This powerful formula deeply cleanses pores to remove dirt, makeup, sweat, and other acne-causing bacteria and reveal clean, clear, glowing skin.

Salt xo
$20

"Restore My Sleep" Adaptogen Blend

This blend works to improve sleep quality and duration while reducing overall stress levels to improve long term sleep performance.

Peak + Valley
$38

Wanderlust Room Spray

An uplifting blend of wood & citrus notes. Proprietary blend made with Organic, Wildcrafted & Sustainably Farmed essential oils.

Aba Love Apothecary
$34

"Better Every Day" Guided Journal

With 365 prompts designed for self-love, reflection, and growth, this journal makes the perfect addition to your morning or nighttime self-care routine.

Inside Then Out
$40

Window Seat Candle

This soy blend candle infuses scents of pomegranate and ginger.

Alexandra Winbush
$29

Clear Home Energy Clearing Set

Introducing our revamped energy clearing set for you and your home. Clear and Balance ones energy with this set. Start with opening the windows and trace the outline of the body with sage smoke. Take a bath or shower with our pure Himalayan salt ball. Clear and set your intention with clear quartz. Selenite continues to clear and protect ones energy and space, and our new selenite charger is perfect for cleansing your crystals.

Cristalline
$50

"God Got Me" Mug

God Got Me Mug. Words appear on both sides so this mug is great whether you are left or right-handed.

Black Girl Flourish
$20

Bloom Hardcover Journal

Make your everyday journaling more personal, private, and stylish with this matte hardcover journal. Available in 5.75"x8" size of 75 lined single pages, these sturdy hardcover journals are fully customizable on the front and on the back covers. The matte laminate coating on the cover will make them stay true to your personal style.

www.BAPart.store
$20

Zen Chambré Spritz

"Smile, Breathe, And Go Slowly." Focus On the possibilities that can be found in each moment as the subtle scent of lemongrass and white tea permeates the air and provide an entry point to a more zen-like life. Use this light fragrant mist for your aura, body, pillow, or to freshen any room.

Chémin
$47

Crystals for Transformation

Set Includes:

  • Moss Agate - new beginnings
  • Howlite - helps mitigate stress
  • Golden Sheen Obsidian - strength & patience
  • Chrysocolla - helps emotions to flow
  • Smokey quartz - helps transmute negative energy into positive
  • Rutilated quartz - clarity and strength
  • Blue apatite - courage , drive & focus
Chakra Zulu
$22

Words by Courtney Simpson

Featured image designed by Qori B.

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