Lip gloss was the first makeup product I was ever allowed to use.
From the roll-on version in the beauty supply (cherry was my favorite) to MAC's Lip Glas my mom let me wear to my tenth grade homecoming dance — lip gloss has been my day one. Over the last couple of years, I've traded my gloss in for full coverage lipsticks, but I'm now leaning to gloss again since you can reapply without a mirror and you don't have to worry about it taking up space on your teeth. My guess is that there are thousands of options on the market, but I wanted to focus on the brands made by black women.
Here are eight beauty brands that will keep your lip gloss poppin' any day of the week.
Lipmatic Lipgloss
Made with 98% organic ingredients, this fourteen-shade lip gloss line will add a pop of color to your lips and remind you of the streets of New York City. Fun fact, the lip gloss line is created by Nas' daughter, Destiny Jones.
Ka'Oir Cosmetics Lip-Pop Collection
Baby Doll
KA'OIR Cosmetics
If you love bright-colored lipsticks, Keyshia Ka'oir's vitamin E enriched collection doesn't disappoint. Many of the glosses are made to complement Ka'oir's lipstick shades, so you can rock the gloss solo or add some bling to your lipstick.
Beauty Bakerie Snickerdoodle Lip Gloss
Snickerdoodle Lip Gloss
Beauty Bakerie
Thanks to Beauty Bakerie's Snickerdoodle lip gloss, beauties with deeper skin tones won't have any trouble finding their ideal nude gloss shade that "smells amazing."
PAT McGRATH LABS' LUST: Lip Gloss
Nude Negligee Lip Gloss
PAT McGRATH LABS
Beauty billionaire and makeup icon Pat McGrath introduced her luxe gloss in 2018 and has since added 18 new shades -- like "Bronze Divinity" and "Secret Lover" -- that will look great on a wealth of skin tones.
The Lip Bar Minimalist Lip Gloss
Minimalist Lip Gloss
The Lip Bar
Next time you're in Target, don't forget to pick up one of The Lip Bar's 90% organic glosses. If you're looking for a clear gloss that moisturizes, their "Minimalist" option is your best bet.
Omolewa Lady Boss Gloss
Lady Boss Gloss
Omolewa
With product names like "Lady Boss", "Queening", and "Ceo Oh Oh Oh", you'll feel empowered while you add a little shine to your pout.
Fenty Beauty Gloss Bomb Universal Lip Luminizer
Fenty Beauty Gloss Bomb in Diamond Milk
Rihanna made the "Gloss Bomb" to compliment all skin tones and because she wanted girls "to get kissed more." We're here for that!
Marie Hunter Beauty
Poppy Lip Gloss
Marie Hunter Beauty
Marie Hunter's gloss is a triple threat thanks to the collagen micro-spheres that plump the lips, the shea butter that hydrates, and antioxidants that help protect the lips from environmental damage.
Featured image by The Lip Bar
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The origin of the word "discipline" can be traced back to the Latin word "disciplina," which means "instruction" or "teaching." Over time, however, discipline has come to be synonymous with punishment, with parents relying on shame, fear, and/or physical pain to curb undesirable behavior.
Teaching takes time, so nipping it in the bud in whatever fashion parents deem necessary (within reason) has become the norm. But is this what’s best for children? And when does it become less about curbing undesirable behavior and more about getting our licks back for offenses we feel our children should know better to do?
In my work as a parenting coach, I’ve often heard parents say, “I asked him nicely three times before spanking him. He didn’t stop doing it until I did, so clearly talking doesn’t work.”
And the parent isn’t wrong. Talking often doesn’t work the first, the third, or the even the 10th time. And the reason is directly tied to brain development.
Children cannot and do not process information the way an adult can. Auditory processing is not fully developed until a child is 14 or 15 years old. And even then, if a child has auditory processing delays or Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), they may always struggle with processing auditory commands. According to Susie S. Loraine, MA, CCC-SLP, the term auditory processing refers to how the brain perceives and interprets sound information. Several skills determine auditory processing ability—or listening success. They develop in a general four-step hierarchy, but all work together and are essential for daily listening.
Without this understanding, discipline can easily become revenge because parents will then view their child’s misdeeds as a personal slight. Instead of teaching them to do better, parents now want to show them the consequences of not doing better. This is why it's imperative for parents to discern between discipline and revenge to maintain healthy relationships with their children.
5 WAYS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN PARENTAL GUIDANCE AND RETALIATION:
Understanding The Intent
Discipline is rooted in love and concern for the child's well-being. It focuses on teaching lessons and helping children understand the consequences of their actions. Conversely, revenge-driven actions stem from a desire to inflict pain or punishment as payback for perceived slights or disobedience. Parents should reflect on their motives before taking disciplinary actions. Ask yourself whether your intention is to help your child learn or to make them suffer for upsetting you.
Example: If a child accidentally breaks a valuable item, a disciplinary response would involve discussing the importance of being careful and working with the child to come up with a way to replace or fix what they’ve broken. On the other hand, a vengeful reaction might involve yelling, harsh punishment, or bringing up past mistakes to intensify guilt.
Maintaining Emotional Regulation
Effective discipline requires parents to remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. It's natural to feel upset or frustrated when children misbehave, but responding with anger or resentment can escalate the situation and blur the line between discipline and revenge. Before addressing the issue, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts.
Example: If a child cannot follow instructions, a disciplined response would involve calmly explaining why their cooperation is necessary in working with the child to accomplish the goal. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve shouting, name-calling, or resorting to physical punishment out of anger.
Promoting Growth and Learning
Discipline should always aim to promote growth and learning. It involves guiding children toward making better choices and understanding the impact of their actions on themselves and others. Effective discipline strategies include positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, and providing opportunities for reflection and growth.
Example: If a child repeatedly forgets to complete their chores, a disciplinary approach would involve discussing the importance of responsibility and finding solutions together, such as creating a chore chart or setting reminders with Siri or Alexa. In contrast, a revenge-driven response might involve imposing overly harsh punishments or belittling the child, which can undermine their self-esteem and hinder their ability to learn from their mistakes.
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Building Trust and Communication
Trust and open communication are essential components of a healthy parent-child relationship. Discipline should strengthen this bond by fostering trust and encouraging children to confide in their parents without fear of judgment or retaliation. When children feel safe and supported, they're more likely to accept discipline as a form of guidance rather than punishment.
Example: If a child admits to breaking a rule or making a mistake, a disciplined response would involve listening to their perspective, discussing the consequences of their actions, and working together to find a solution. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve accusations, blame, or shutting down communication, which can erode trust and damage the parent-child relationship.
Seeking Professional Guidance
Parenting is a learning journey, and, disciplining children is a delicate balance between guiding them toward responsible behavior and nurturing their growth. By understanding the intent behind our actions, maintaining emotional regulation, promoting growth and learning, building trust and communication, and seeking professional guidance when needed, as parents we can help our children built on love, respect, and understanding.
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