
How Tracee Ellis Ross Stays Radiant At 52: Her Best-Kept Fitness & Self-Care Secrets Revealed

In Tracee Ellis Ross, we trust.
The California-born diva continues to inspire us with her vibrant energy, unshakeable confidence, and dedication to self-care. As the actress and beauty mogul recently celebrated her 52nd birthday, it's the perfect time to reflect on the rituals that keep her glowing and joyful. Known for her love of fitness, mindful travel, and nurturing wellness routines, Tracee exemplifies the power of prioritizing self-care.
Now, more than ever, Black women need to be intentional about how we care for ourselves. Here, we’ll dive into some of her go-to practices that keep her grounded, radiant, and aging gracefully—a true icon of self-love and wellness.
Take the Moments
In an interview with PEOPLE, the founder of Pattern Beauty emphasized the importance of meticulous planning and organization in presenting one's best self. According to Ross, setting up her Pattern headquarters necessitates "mapping out with military precision" to ensure a successful and effective operation.
“That is perhaps both an escape and a defense mechanism, and also how I get it all done. But I take the moments: what I call it is being mindful and slow between A and B. So instead of rushing between things, I really allow myself to be present between them.”
The rich auntie continued, “I'm not sleeping well. One of my responses to menopause has been I just am not sleeping well, but sometimes I'm able to sleep in. And this morning I was able to sleep in. And then I wandered around the city. So I get to recharge by being able to sleep in when I can, by being a person in the world, by cooking for myself, by taking a bath, by connecting and being with my family, all of those things.
"I'm just like everybody else, just trying to find the fun things to do, watching TV, way too much TV on my iPad.”
Tracee's Holistic Approach to Fitness
Keeping the mind and body strong is a top priority for this one. In the realm of fitness, the black-ish star adopts the Tracy Anderson Method, a renowned technique favored by a number of celebrities. In 2017, she told PopSugar, “I feel sexy, and strong and beautiful when I’m working out. The movements are very dancer-esque, and I’ve been really enjoying it.”
The method combines strength-training mat classes with dance-cardio classes, aiming to reshape your muscles into long, lean, and robust ones. This approach is said to be based on two decades of scientific research conducted by Anderson, who has helped women of various body types achieve a dancer's physique.
According to Tracee’s trainer, Jason Walsh, they’ve been focusing on full body patterns, and “her goal is increasing her overall strength and muscle coordination,” he told Shapein 2022. “We are always focused on reinforcing her fundamental movement patterns.”
From weights to kettlebells to battle ropes, there’s nothing the Girlfriends alum won’t try. Tracee also incorporates Gyrotonics into her fitness routine, prioritizing balance, strength, and flexibility throughout her body. The Gyrotonic Method employs specialized equipment designed to enhance an individual's well-being by opening energy pathways, stimulating the nervous system, extending range of motion, and boosting strength and movement efficiency.
Her pre-workout meal: applesauce. “And I do not like applesauce at all. But I was told that that kind of pure, good-for-you sugar 15 minutes before a workout will make your workout more productive. Whether it works or not, I have no idea. But I suffer through eating the applesauce,” she confessed to The Wall Street Journal in 2022.
When it comes to her food, she makes most meals herself, even deeming herself the queen of the salad. It’s her way of loving herself which helps with avoiding sugar, dairy, and gluten. But if she wants a treat, she’s gonna have a treat. The actor told PopSugar in 2017, “I eat chocolate if I want chocolate. I’m a big salty person; I love olives, I love potato chips, I love French fries.”
Choosing Gratitude and Compassion for Her Body Over Judgment
Best of all, she is gentle with herself. During the pandemic, she got transparent about her journey. “With all the sharpness and harshness and violence and fear that has been around, perhaps the softness of my body is a blessing. It has been able to nurture me in a way that my mind could not... I really encourage and invite all of us to receive the wisdom of our bodies right now and allow the softness, the weight, the whatever — and be grateful. I made it through this year!"
Frequent Flyer
The enthusiastic globetrotter is collaborating with Roku to create a thought-provoking docuseries centered around the concept of solo travel. With her characteristic passion, Ross aims to honor and motivate individuals who embrace the unique journey of self-discovery, empowering them to live their lives authentically and courageously.
Tracee’s travel style combines comfort, practicality, and personal rituals to create a relaxed yet intentional experience. This is what we know from her interview with The Traveler.
Flying Attire: As an airport outfit, Tracee opts for “fancy sweats” by Pangaia, preferring oversized pieces with deep pockets and a hoodie for warmth. She also wears thigh-high compression socks to improve circulation.
Preparedness: She always carries a large tote and a roller bag with essentials, having learned from past lost luggage experiences.
Hydration & Health: Tracee challenges herself to drink at least two liters of water on flights to stay hydrated.
Comfort Over Everything
For vacations, she values sunlight-filled rooms and authentic local food, steering clear of overly experimental cuisine. She frequently revisits her favorite destinations, finding comfort in familiar places she knows well, including a longtime favorite in Mexico.
A bathtub is a must-have, helping her unwind upon arrival, while strong fragrances in hotel linens are a pet peeve due to her sensitive nose. She also likes to settle in by unpacking her bags and sanitizing her space.
Japan and Spain are top on her travel bucket list, and she hopes to visit soon.
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Joce Blake is a womanist who loves fashion, Beyonce and Hot Cheetos. The sophistiratchet enthusiast is based in Brooklyn, NY but has southern belle roots as she was born and raised in Memphis, TN. Keep up with her on Instagram @joce_blake and on Twitter @SaraJessicaBee.
Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
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On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
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From Rock Bottom To Redemption: Paula Patton Opens Up About Her New Film 'Finding Faith'
When Paula Patton’s name is on a project, you already know it’s going to bring some soul. From Jumping the Broom to Baggage Claim, she’s long been a radiant presence on-screen. But in her new film Finding Faith, premiering in theaters June 16–17 via Fathom Events, Paula digs deeper—into grief, healing, and ultimately, redemption.
The film follows Faith Mitchell, a wife and mother whose life is upended by a devastating loss. As she spirals into despair, it’s the love of family, friends, and God that slowly leads her back to light. And for Paula, this story wasn’t just a role—it was personal.
“It connected to a time in my life that I could really relate to,” she says. “That feeling of having lost so much and feeling like so much pain, and not knowing how to deal with the pain… and numbing out to do that.”
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A Story That Hit Close to Home
Having been sober for seven years, Paula says the emotional territory was familiar. But more than anything, it brought her closer to a deeper truth.
“Once you give [the numbing] up, you have to walk in the desert alone… and that’s when I truly found faith in God.”
Turning Pain Into Purpose
While the film touches on loss and addiction, Finding Faith ultimately lives up to its title. Paula describes the acting process as cathartic—and one she was finally ready for.
“Art became healing,” she says. “That was the biggest challenge of all… but it was a challenge I wanted.”
More Than an Inspirational Thriller
Finding Faith is described as an “inspirational thriller,” with layered tones of romance, suspense, and spiritual reflection. Paula credits that dynamic blend to writer-director LazRael Lison.
“That’s what I love about Finding Faith,” she explains. “Yes, she goes on this journey, but there’s other storylines happening that help it stay entertaining.”
"Finding Faith" cast
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On-Set Magic with Loretta Devine
With a cast stacked with phenomnal talent—Loretta Devine, Keith David, Stephen Bishop—it’s no surprise that the film also came alive through unscripted moments.
“We did this kitchen scene… and Loretta changed it,” Paula shares. “She wouldn’t leave. I had to change my dance and figure out how to work with it, and it took on this whole other layer. I’m forever grateful.”
Faith When It Feels Like Night
The film leans on the biblical verse: “Weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” Paula says that reminder is something she’s lived.
“When you’re feeling so anxious, and you look out in the distance and see nothing there… that’s when you have to trust God’s timing.”
Divine Timing Behind the Scenes
Paula didn’t just star in the film—she produced it through her company, Third Eye Productions. And the way the opportunity came to her? Nothing short of divine.
“I said, ‘Just for one week, believe everything’s going to be perfect,’” she recalls. “That same day, my friend Charles called and said, ‘I have a film for you. It’s called Finding Faith.’ I thought I was going to throw the phone down.”
What’s Next for Paula Patton?
When asked about a dream role, Paula didn’t name a genre or a character. Her focus now is on legacy—and light.
“I want to make sure I keep making art that entertains people, but also has hope… That it has a bright light at the end to get us through this journey here on Earth.”
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