Scorpio men are known for their mysterious, sexy, and enticing demeanor. They are the man in the corner of the room, perfectly okay with doing their own thing and being their own person, but who are also quietly yearning for a deep connection and a loving partner. So, how do you attract a man whose emotions aren’t easy to read and who is intrigued by the more unusual or taboo sides of life?
How to Attract a Scorpio Man
In order to attract a Scorpio man, you must approach them in a genuine, sincere way, giving them a space to open up to you and develop the connection. Love is sacred, sexy, and passionate for a Scorpio man, and they are attracted to a partner who feels the same way and accepts him for who he is but also leaves some room for the imagination.
What personality traits is the Scorpio man attracted to?
The Scorpio man is attracted to a little mystery. Scorpio men are looking for someone who matches their energy, yet also entices them to learn and know more. Scorpios value their relationships and love, in general, more than they initially let on, but they will be looking for a partner who values love in the same way. They are looking for a partner who helps them feel grounded and who is a more stable force for their emotional selves. They are attracted to people who can provide a sense of security for their transformative lives, and feeling safe in a partnership is incredibly important for a Scorpio to be their best selves in a relationship.
They aren’t the type to outwardly express their emotions right away, but they will be watching every move you make and taking notes on your behavior to see if you are a good fit for them. They want to know how you are feeling about them and will appreciate you opening up to them, sharing your emotions, or showing them how much you are into them. The Scorpio man is attracted to someone who is loving, yet they know how to stick up for themselves and not let anyone walk all over them. This is a trait that is needed when dealing with the Scorpio’s stinger.
What attracts a Scorpio man physically?
Scorpio men are attracted to dark colors, dark aesthetics, and someone who has a little bit of a moody vibe. The type of person other people usually stray away from or are intimidated by, the Scorpio man will be completely intrigued by them. The Scorpio man loves good sex appeal, and if you are confident in yourself, your body, and your sexuality, this is very attractive to them. They are not Virgo men who are highly meticulous over what you wear, or if you look put together or not- they are more interested in the way you are carrying yourself and if there is something different about you than everyone else.
The Scorpio man is attracted to people who turn heads and will want to know more about you if you have that type of enticing aura about you.
A Scorpio man will remember what you wore the first time you met them and what you wore the last time. They are big on aesthetics or the type of vibe someone has, and they are looking for someone who has their own figured out. Scorpio men also love some good eye contact, and you will know whether or not they find you attractive if you catch them staring at you. They are the type of person you make eye contact with and will immediately feel a rush of energy and attraction. They are all about intimacy and are attracted to people with deep and enticing eyes.
How do you know a Scorpio man is interested in you?
Scorpio men will know right away whether they are attracted to you; they are the type of people to be either all in or all out. It’s all about the energy and the electricity of the connection for the Scorpio man. This is why if you are questioning whether or not they are into you, they most likely are not because they will make that known right away by their actions and behavior. They don’t care about what you “should do” or what the “typical” way to approach someone is.
You will know if a Scorpio man is interested in you when they do little things to get your attention, or they come out of their shell a little more around you.
The Scorpio man is the type of person who will want to get matching tattoos or vow your love to each other in the most intimate way. They are not a fluffy, light-hearted love like a Libra man. They are the type to go to the ends of the world for you, and expect you to have that same type of devotion to them. If they want to spend all their time with you and are making plans for the future with you, you’ll know the Scorpio man is attracted to you. The Scorpio man will not see anyone else in the room when they are with you if they are interested in you.
Who are Scorpio men most compatible with?
Scorpio men tend to be more compatible with other water signs, and earth signs, and a lot of Scorpio men are also attracted to fire signs like Leo and Aries. The best compatibility match for Scorpio men is Cancer, Virgo, Pisces, and Capricorn. The Scorpio man is looking for their counterpart, someone who makes life a little easier for them and doesn’t cause unnecessary drama in their already transformative life.
Cancers make great partners for Scorpios because they are just as emotional and loving as the Scorpio man. They are both very protective of their relationships and form a deep connection. Virgos also make great partners for Scorpios because these are two people who have very similar personalities, interests, and tastes. It isn’t hard to form a strong bond between the two, and this is a pairing you’ll see often.
Being ruled by Mars, whatever sign the Scorpio man’s Mars is in as well will also pinpoint the type of person that specific Scorpio is attracted to and more compatible with.
What does the Scorpio man want in a woman?
All in all, the Scorpio man just wants to be loved and understood. To attract a Scorpio man is to attract someone who can get deep with you, yet also inspire and protect you. They are the lovers who appreciate the parts of you others may dismiss or deem unworthy, and they are the type of lovers who protect and cherish their partners. They are looking for this same type of commitment and dedication from another, and being genuine, honest, and a little kinky, will attract to you a Scorpio man.
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'Sistas' Star Skyh Black On The Power Of Hypnotherapy & Emotional Vulnerability For Men
In this insightful episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Sistas star Skyh Black, as he opened up about his journey of emotional growth, resilience, and self-discovery. The episode touches on emotional availability, self-worth, masculinity, and the importance of therapy in overcoming personal struggles.
Skyh Black on Emotional Availability & Love
On Emotional Availability & Vulnerability
“My wife and I wouldn't be where we are today if both of us weren't emotionally available,” he shared about his wife and Sistas co-star KJ Smith, highlighting the value of vulnerability and emotional openness in a relationship. His approach to masculinity stands in contrast to the traditional, stoic ideals. Skyh is not afraid to embrace softness as part of his emotional expression.
On Overcoming Self-Doubt & Worthiness Issues
Skyh reflected on the self-doubt and worthiness issues that he struggled with, especially early in his career. He opens up about his time in Los Angeles, living what he calls the “LA struggle story”—in a one-bedroom with three roommates—and being homeless three times over the span of 16 years. “I always had this self-sabotaging thought process,” Skyh said. “For me, I feel therapy is essential, period. I have a regular therapist and I go to a hypnotherapist.”
How Therapy Helped Him Heal From Self-Doubt
On Hypnotherapy & Empowering Self-Acceptance
Skyh’s journey is a testament to the power of tapping into self-development despite life’s struggles and being open to growth. “I had to submit to the fact that God was doing good in my life, and that I'm worthy of it. I had a worthiness issue and I did not realize that. So, that’s what the hypnotherapy did. It brought me back to the core. What is wrong so that I can fix it?”
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Adrian Marcel On Purpose, Sacrifice, And The 'Signs Of Life'
In this week's episode of xoMAN, host Kiara Walker talked with R&B artist Adrian Marcel, who opened up, full of heart and authenticity, about his personal evolution. He discussed his days transitioning from a young Bay Area singer on the come-up to becoming a grounded husband and father of four.
With honesty and introspection, Marcel reflected on how life, love, and loss have shaped the man he is today.
On ‘Life’s Subtle Signals’
Much of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here [to] fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.”
On Passion vs. Survival
Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
On Connection Between Pursuing Music & Fatherhood
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you're really just lying to yourself. You ain't growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her [his wife].”
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