

Two years ago, Black women became the leaders of the "Great Resignation," but we've always been the queens of the "Great Change-Up." Whether it's building careers that allow us to prioritize family, moving on to something that we're more passionate about, being forced by a termination, discrimination, or layoffs, or going where the money flows more abundantly, we've been at the forefront of embracing the career change.
According to research, women are changing careers at higher rates than men, shifting jobs, or going for a whole new work experience. There's even indication, according to reports, that now is an ideal time for a career change, especially for Black women. And while there's still work to be done when it comes to pay equity and other work-related challenges, the uptick in the labor market has apparently presented opportunities for better-paying jobs and more career options that can usher in new hope after years of post-pandemic hardship.
Get inspired by these women who have inspiring stories of changing careers and thriving in their respective industries to find fun, fulfillment, and success:
Jenee Naylor: From Retail to Full-Time Fashion Content Creator
Naylor worked in retail, landing a gig in leadership at Target before going full-time as a content creator and fashion influencer. Through her YouTube channel filled with style inspiration, lookbooks, and fab Fashion Week experiences, as well as other content catering to all the women who aspire to embrace luxury fashion on their own terms, she's amassed a combined online following of more than 900,000.
"I was so committed to my career and just knew deep down that I would make it to the C-suite level. However, when I started my content creation journey, it became difficult to give both Target and my own brand 100%," she told Ebony. "There came a point where I had to choose one because I couldn’t equally excel at both. It’s always interesting and exciting when your passion takes a natural progression and starts to take on a mind of its own."
Ava DuVernay: From Journalism and PR to Filmmaker
Before becoming the award-winning first Black woman to direct a $100 million film, she was a broadcast journalism intern, junior publicist, and PR agency founder. She made a shift to filmmaking at 32. "I kept my publicity job while making my first three films. I knew that as a Black woman in this industry, I wouldn’t have people knocking down my door to give me money for my projects, so I was happy to make them on the side while working my day job," she told Elle in 2018. She didn't officially get behind the camera to create until 2010's I Will Follow, and has gone on to be a powerhouse behind films including Selma, A Wrinkle In Time, When They See Us, and Queen Sugar.
“I was sober about the industry that I was getting into and what my place was in it. There was really no place," she told CBS News in a 2022 interview. "For me, it allowed me to be risky. People say brave, but it wasn’t brave. It was kind of like, you know what, they’re probably going to kick me out of movies anyway, so why don’t I just go for it and say what I want to say?”
Michelle Obama: From Law to Former U.S. First Lady to Best-Selling Author
Known as the "Forever First Lady" by many, Michelle Obama has staked her claim as a pioneer and the powerhouse better half of our first Black president. But before her husband would win the P.O.T.U.S. seat, she practiced intellectual property law and ended up looking, according to reports, for a way to dig deeper into community involvement. In 1991, she took a job as assistant to the then-mayor of Chicago, Richard Daley, and then held several prominent public service positions in the city. She also worked in education, advocating for the leadership and advancement of young adults, before going full-time into political campaigning during Barack Obama's first successful run for president. She's since remained involved in advocating for communities (via speaking engagements, partnerships, and philanthropic work), hosted "The Michelle Obama Podcast," wrote best-selling books, and co-founded Higher Ground Productions, which is behind Netflix hits including "Becoming," "Rustin," "Working: What We Do All Day," and "Fatherhood."
“For me, becoming isn't about arriving somewhere or achieving a certain aim. I see it instead as forward motion, a means of evolving, a way to reach continuously toward a better self. The journey doesn't end,” she wrote in Becoming.
La La Anthony: From MTV VJ to Actress
If you're familiar with the heyday of MTV VJs, then you know Alani "La La" Anthony was among the forerunners in media, hosting hit radio and T.V. shows since the '90s and into the early 2000s. Later, she'd shift focus, appearing in now-cult classics like Two Can Play That Game and You Got Game.
Since then, she's enjoyed major success in Hollywood, starring in Power, the Think Like A Man franchise, The Chi, BMF, and many more T.V. and film hits. “To this day, with my acting career, you’ll still have people who are like, ‘Oh, that’s La La from MTV,' " she said in a 2020 Essence interview. "And it’s like, well, that was a huge part of my life, but I’ve evolved since then. I’ve moved on since then. I’ve worked really hard, but sometimes I feel like because I was known for something else, I have to prove myself in these new spaces even more than the next person.”
Courtney Adeleye: From RN to Obali Founder
Adeleye was a registered nurse who saw a gap in the haircare market and decided to fill it. She launched The Mane Choice in 2013, a brand that would later land in Target, CVS, Walmart, and other stores, earning the company millions. MAV Brands acquired the company in 2019, and Adeleye entered into her next super-successful career transition as CEO and founder of Obali, a direct-selling umbrella company offering wellness, haircare, fashion, and feminine care products.
"We can all agree that no matter what your age, there's experience there that's going to give you the jump on entrepreneurship or innovation. And I have to continue doing that, to continue innovating, she told xoNecole.
Tiffany Aliche: From Preschool Teacher to The Budgetnista
Aliche was a preschool teacher when the financial fallout after a layoff prompted her to use her own journey to financial freedom to empower others. Her financial literacy platform, via books, events, speaking engagements, and her podcast, Brown Ambition, has helped millions of women get out of debt, meet their savings goals, become homeowners, and shift their thinking about wealth building. She's also advocated for financial literacy education in schools, successfully working with New Jersey legislators to pass a law requiring coursework for middle school children to learn the fundamentals of managing finances.
"I lost everything — my job, my income, my home. And it was so traumatic for me that I said, “I’m never, ever, ever going back there," Aliche said in an interview with The Cut. "Now I own my job, so I don’t worry about that."
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Adrian Marcel On Purpose, Sacrifice, And The 'Signs Of Life'
In this week's episode of xoMAN, host Kiara Walker talked with R&B artist Adrian Marcel, who opened up, full of heart and authenticity, about his personal evolution. He discussed his days transitioning from a young Bay Area singer on the come-up to becoming a grounded husband and father of four.
With honesty and introspection, Marcel reflected on how life, love, and loss have shaped the man he is today.
On ‘Life’s Subtle Signals’
Much of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here [to] fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.”
On Passion vs. Survival
Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
On Connection Between Pursuing Music & Fatherhood
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you're really just lying to yourself. You ain't growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her [his wife].”
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I Tried It: 3 Low-Maintenance Wigs That Will Elevate Your Look This Season
There's nothing like the feeling you get when your hair is done. It can instantly boost your confidence and put you in a great mood. I've never been a stranger to hair trends and I often experiment with the latest braided styles and colors.
But there are moments when I just don't feel like doing my hair. I'm natural and a lot of times I will braid or twist my hair up and cover it with a scarf or turban. However, when I crave a different look without the hassle of styling, I reach for a wig.
I've always had a love-hate relationship with wigs. Sometimes, I struggle to get them to lay flat and don't get me started with the bonding glue process. So when it comes to wearing wigs, I like to keep it nice and breezy around this b--- (word to Katt Williams), especially in the summertime.
That's why I jumped at the chance to try these three versatile wigs from Luvme Hair. Each one offers a unique look and is surprisingly low maintenance, which aligns perfectly with my philosophy that wearing wigs should make life easier. Let’s dive into the three styles below.
Headband Wig
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This was the first wig I tried on, and I instantly fell in love with it. So much so that it took me weeks to even consider trying the other two. I’m partial to colored hair, especially blonds, browns, and reds, so I was skeptical about the jet black hair. However, I think the color, combined with the curl pattern, worked surprisingly well for me.
One of the things I really liked about this wig was that I didn’t have to braid my hair down first. I could simply throw it over a low ponytail, which is the epitome of a low-maintenance style. The headband has combs inside and velcro on the ends, ensuring a secure fit.
Half Wig
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I had never worn a half wig before, so I faced some challenges. I cornrowed the bottom half of my hair where the wig would sit, but I believe this made it more difficult to use the combs. It might just be me though. I straightened the top part of my hair to blend it with the wig, which looked cute for about five minutes.
Firstly, I have a brown/blonde color mix on the ends of my hair, and the half wig is black. So, I had to hide some of the color (I didn’t have time to dye the wig). Secondly, straightening my hair myself is always a hassle because it never lasts long. Add to that the summer humidity, and you get a hot mess. Despite all this, I managed to get some cute pictures before things got out of control, and that’s all that matters, right?
Would I consider this a low-maintenance hair style? Yes and no. I think it’s unrealistic for me during the summer, especially since I enjoy summer activities. However, when the weather cools down, I’ll definitely rock it, dyed, of course.
Bob
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Now, this is the wig I was nervous about. I never had a bob and I didn't think I would like it. But once I put bobiana on, my mind instantly changed. I finally understood why the gworls rave about the bob so much. It was giving boss. It was giving grown woman. It was giving the bob means business. Iykyk. It was the ultimate statement.
I will say when I first put it on, one side of my wig just would not lay flat. It took some trial and error, but I finally managed to get it to look good. With the bob, I highly recommend braiding your hair down first as small as you can so it can lay as flat as possible. I really liked the ash blonde color, which is perfect for summer. The length also makes it a great low-maintenance style for the season, so you don't have to worry about the hair making your neck sweaty.
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