
The Unraveling Of Big Tech & How Black Women In Tech Can Bounce Back From Layoffs

As industries around the world took devastating hits during the COVID-19 pandemic, the tech industry skyrocketed, growing at an accelerated speed and reaching record-breaking profits. From Google to Amazon, tech giants scaled up their workforces, some upwards of 50 percent, to meet the rising demand stemming from the pandemic.
It was the 21st-century version of the Gold Rush. Thousands of professionals from every field flocked to Silicon Valley for the promise of higher salaries, remote work, and better benefits. That era has now quickly spiraled and with it, nearly 60,000 tech jobs were eliminated in less than 30 days at the start of the new year.
For months, calls to quit your job and go into tech and narratives like “I went from making $50,000 to $120,000 a year after switching to tech” spread like wildfire. Yet, today the silence is almost deafening as the fallout from a crushing layoff wave continues day after day.
The impact of the layoffs has been especially devastating to women in tech. Women only make up 26.7% of the tech industry and that number drastically shrinks when accounting for Black women who only make up 1.7% of the tech workforce according to a 2021 report from AnitaB.org.
xoNecole spoke to four Black women in various sectors of tech on navigating the once presumed promised land, now on the heels of historic layoffs that show no signs of slowing down.
Alana's Story
From Education to Tech: Senior Social Media Manager
For Alana, her transition into tech was the final puzzle piece to living life on her terms. Her departure from education and entrepreneurship and into Silicon Valley gave her the stability she needed to reach other milestones in her life including making a cross-country move with her husband, purchasing a home, and growing her family. Like thousands of others, Alana joined the tech industry after promises of greener pastures.
Initially hesitating because she did not have a background that aligned with traditional tech roles, it was after a friend's encouragement that she explored the growing and varied needs of tech companies and secured a role that fit her strengths.
But recently, when an irregular meeting suddenly appeared on her calendar with no details and other attendees blocked out, Alana immediately felt like something was off.
Twenty minutes later, she was blocked out of every company device. Five months pregnant, and two weeks after closing on her new home, Alana’s world was turned upside down as the leadership announced company-wide layoffs.
Despite her first job in tech also being her first layoff she intends to stay in the industry after her maternity leave and says she is using the role as a springboard to new opportunities in tech.
Key Advice:
“So many people talk about a villain origin story, but it doesn’t have to be. [A layoff] can just be your origin story. Let it trigger new insight, new passions, and new interests. Let it trigger rest. In Western society, we don’t often get the opportunity to just sit down and do nothing. Let a [layoff] spark fresh energy and fresh creativity.” - Alana
Temicka's Story
From Customer Service to Software QA Engineer
Temicka was always interested in all things tech since she began coding in high school. Despite her early interest in the field, it was still years later when she returned to tech to try and land a job. Temicka participated in programs and completed training and certifications. But it was not until the pandemic that she was able to get her foot in the door and land a full-time job in tech.
Almost a year into her new role, a recruiter called to congratulate Temicka on her contract being renewed early. Five minutes later, all of her access to company programs was shut down.
It turned out her contract was instead ending effective immediately and no one had reached out to inform her. It was not until she reached out to her manager that she was told the news. She didn’t have time to reach out to anyone before her privileges were revoked and the next time she heard back from anyone in the company, it was HR asking her to return the laptop.
After being laid off, she immediately began to apply for jobs with the total number of applications submitted reaching into the hundreds. Despite the many talks with recruiters and interviews, she still has not been hired and fears the continued layoffs have drastically reduced her options.
Right now, Temicka has dusted off her old resume, returning to customer service until she can return to her first love, tech.
Key Advice:
“Network. Network. Network. Utilize all the social media platforms to make connections including LinkedIn and the Metaverse… It gets you in the door quicker.” - Temicka
Teryn's Story
From Fashion to Tech: Category Experience Analyst
For Teryn, her journey into tech started with a layoff in another industry: fashion. As retailers began to shut down operations and close their doors she used that as inspiration to pivot in her career and look for a field with more stability and flexibility and set her eyes on tech. Terri was working as an apparel product designer and after multiple courses, she transferred her design skills to websites and apps.
In an industry where thousands were seeing their jobs eliminated with little to no notice, she carved out a role that combined her love of fashion with her newly acquired skills. But, she says the pandemic calls to get into tech painted a false reality of the behind-the-scenes work that goes into securing a tech role including networking, referrals, revamping your resume, and the constant interviews.
Just 90 days in her new position, Teryn says she still keeps her resume updated to always be prepared for the unexpected.
Key Advice:
“Always keep an eye on the overall [performance] of your company. I always look in Google News to see if there are organizational announcements. That's always a tell-tale sign for me; if there is restructuring, executives leaving and hiring freezes. Those are things that I look for." - Teryn
Jessica's Story
From Insurance Recruiting to Tech: Senior Sourcing Specialist
Jessica was part of one of the tech superpowers, Meta. She’d recently joined the industry in hopes of career stability and a better work-life balance. That stability was short-lived when just after nine months she was laid off in the first wave of tech layoffs at the end of 2022.
The layoff combined with standard reduced hiring in Q4 put Jessica on a waiting list for jobs in what has fast become an oversaturated market. The name, Meta, on her resume helped get her in the door for interviews and talks with recruiters but nearly months later she still found herself on a never-ending merry-go-round of futile interviews.
The process of finding a new role was essentially a job within itself. Jessica completed a total of 276 applications over the course of three months. Those applications led to countless rejections, six “ghosted” scheduled prescreens, 33 rounds of prescreens and interviews across 15 companies, two take-home projects, one presentation, and seven positions put on hold due to the economy.
The journey was an eye-opener on the etiquette gaps between recruiters and applicants. As a mother, she frequently rearranged her schedule to accommodate interviews, but would often be met with no-shows from hiring managers and recruiters.
After 77 days on the job hunt, she now has a start date for a new role and encourages others impacted by the layoffs to stay the course.
Key Advice:
"Being laid off, there’s nothing to be ashamed of. People want to help you secure your next role and they can’t know what you’re looking for, or that you are having a hard time unless you talk about it. Be open and honest about your experience and network.”- Jessica
Unexpectedly losing a job in a layoff can bring your life to a screeching halt. But, it’s not an indication of who you are or your quality of work. So, after you dust yourself off and give yourself time to grieve the loss, remember bills must still be paid.
When you’re ready to rejoin the job market, remember the following tips from Shannon Morales, founder and CEO of Tribaja, a talent marketplace and community to support underrepresented communities in tech, on the steps to take after a layoff and how to keep your skills current and in demand.
5 Tips To Revamp Your Career After a Layoff in Tech
- There is opportunity outside of Big Tech. Civil tech is seeing an uptick as well as healthcare, fintech, and banking.
- Reposition your career and focus on industries that are doing well in today’s market.
- Look at skills that are in high demand right now and continue to learn; take additional courses and learn new skills.
- Stay ahead of the trend and don’t always be reactive to what’s happening in the job market.
- Become your own boss. Not all companies can afford a full-time employee, but there are many who could use your skills on a project basis. Freelance and contract your skills out for an hourly rate to multiple companies at a time.
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'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Not Using Probiotics In Your Skincare Routine? Here Are 7 Reasons Why You Should.
Last year, I wrote an article for the site entitled, “Viral Sensation Christiana Sabino Is Using 'Pure Black Love' To Build Her Brand.” There are dozens of reasons why I’m a fan of Christiana and her brand and, as I was recently watching an Instagram post of hers, I was reminded of one of them: that woman’s skin. HAVE. MERCY. I’m going to feature it underneath this intro simply because it is definitely a salute to what having a skincare routine — and consistently practicing self-care — can do for a sistah. It’s also a PSA that if you yourself don’t have a daytime and nighttime skin regimen, hopefully, she will inspire you to cultivate one.
Anyway, I have watched enough of Christiana’s content to know that she and her husband Arismarlyn Sabino eat pretty healthy. She works out a lot too. That’s why, I would be super surprised if taking probiotics isn’t a part of her diet (because I’ve definitely seen her use fermented foods in her recipes like in this videohere). It’s a wise thing to do because probiotics do so much for the body — both inside and out.
Either way, whether she does or not, as I was thinking about what is required to have healthy, youthful, and vibrant skin like hers, I wanted to make sure to give probiotics a special mention because, although you may already know that they can help to strengthen your immune system, reduce your stress levels, manage your weight, decrease allergy-related symptoms and help to prevent heart disease, they can also do wonders when it comes to giving you the flawless skin that you desire too.
What Are Probiotics and Why Does Your Skin Adore Them So?
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Although probiotics is a word that comes up quite a bit in cyberspace, in order to explain how your skin is able to flourish with them, I want to make sure we’re all on the same page about what they are: probiotics are live microorganisms (in the form of bacteria and yeast) that help to keep your gut in good condition which ultimately helps to improve every part of you. Because your body naturally has both good and bad bacteria in it, probiotics help to keep the bad bacteria from overtaking your system, so that the good bacteria can help to keep you in optimal condition.
Although I already shared some of probiotics’ health benefits in the intro, some additional ones include their ability to reduce inflammation; help you to (better) manage your appetite; help to prevent and speed up the recovery of vaginal infections and urinary tract infections (UTIs); decrease the chances of cavities and gum disease; support you having a healthy digestive tract; lower stress and anxiety levels; help to keep your blood pressure where it should be — and yes, probiotics can also support you in having beautiful skin.
When it comes to your skin, specifically, why are probiotics so good for it? Well, the reality is that not only is 80 percent of your immunity in your gut (check out “80% Of Your Immunity Is In Your Gut. Take Care Of It Like This.”), it’s also true that when your gut is not working at its best, it can show through your skin in a myriad of different ways — ways that I will address in just a moment.
That’s why it’s a good idea to eat foods that are full of probiotics (including fermented ones like pickles, yogurt, and cheese), and that you consider taking a probiotic supplement (although you might want to speak with your doctor first because there are different strains of probiotics to choose from) and, that you use skincare products that are also rich in probiotics. As far as that last tip goes, probiotic skincare is simply about putting forth the intentional effort to apply products to your face, neck, and other parts of your body that have probiotics — yes, live bacteria — in them.
When it comes to this, the strains that you should specifically look for (you know, on the labels of the products) include:
- Lactococcus
- Bifida
- Streptococcus thermophilus
- Saccharomyces
- Lactobacillus
- Leuconostoc
The reason why you should take note of these is they are reportedly the most effective at doing the following things for your skin…
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1.Probiotics Can Reduce Dry Skin
If it seems like, no matter what you do, your skin is always dry, you should consider taking a probiotic. What research reveals is, that by doing so, not only can probiotics help to decrease transcutaneous water loss (TEWL) that’s in your system, but they can also reduce the amount of water that your skin loses throughout the day by strengthening your skin’s barrier (more on that later).
As far as which probiotics you should apply to your skin in order to keep dryness at bay, look for the strain that is called Vitreoscilla; it will help to strengthen your skin’s barrier and reduce dryness as a direct result.
2. Probiotics Can Soothe Eczema and Psoriasis
If eczema or psoriasis flare-ups are what’s driving you up the wall, probiotics can help with that. The science behind this is, that when you have these types of health-related issues, it can lead to inflammation as well as a different type of bacteria in your gut (in comparison to those who don’t have eczema or psoriasis). By taking a probiotic, it can reduce the inflammation and alter the bacteria that you have which can, in turn, reduce the symptoms.
And just what kind of probiotic-based skincare products can help with this? Strains likeBifidobacterium lactis and Lactobacillus acidophilus currently show the most promise.
3. Probiotics Can Speed Up the Healing Process of Breakouts
I’m telling you, if you want to look and feel better, you’ve got to pay more attention to your gut health. Take breakouts, for example. Did you know science says that the condition of your gut and acne actually on hand in hand? The gist is that when the gut’s microbe is not where it should be, that can trigger inflammation which oftentimes results in pimples forming.
This is just one more reason to add a probiotic to your diet and to apply probiotic skincare strains of Lactobacillus acidophilus or Bifidobacterium bifidum to your skin; they help to reduce breakouts.
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4. Probiotics Can Balance Your Skin’s pH
If you’ve ever wondered what pH stands for, it’s “potential hydrogen;” it basically speaks to how acidic or alkaline something is. When it comes to your skin, this matters because if it’s too acidic or alkaline (which basically means basic), that can result in dry skin, itchiness, inflammation, sensitivity, and other skin-related issues. That said, if your skin is healthy, it will have a pH of somewhere around 5.5 which is slightly acidic. And how can you know what your skin’s pH is?
The best way to test this is by booking an appointment with a dermatologist. However, if you notice some of the symptoms that I just mentioned, take a probiotic and see if your skin improves within a few weeks. Oh, and when it comes to sensitive skin, especially, skincare that has Streptococcus thermophilus in it should be able to help you out by elevating the ceramide levels that are in your skin.
5. Probiotics Can Improve Your Skin’s Barrier
The outermost layer of your skin is your skin’s barrier — and it goes through a lot. In fact, a Healthline article that I read on it stated, “This fantastically thin brick wall is literally keeping you alive. Without it, various harmful environmental toxins and pathogens could penetrate your skin and cause adverse effects inside your body.” Therefore, if there is anything that you should want to go almost overboard about in maintaining, your skin’s barrier would be it.
And since it is the “front line of defense” for your skin, in a lot of ways, that means your skin’s barrier is vulnerable to things like rough skin, itchy skin, fungal infections and inflammation. It’s a good thing that probiotics can help with strengthening your skin’s barrier so that there is less of a chance that these things will happen. A list of some of the best probiotics for your skin’s barrier can be found here. The types of bacteria strains (probiotics) to look for in skincare as it relates to your skin’s barrier are Bifidobacterium, Lactobacillus, and Vitreoscilla.
6. Probiotics Can Reduce UV Damage
It can’t be said enough that everyone needs to be proactive when it comes to keeping their skin from experiencing UV damage (which is damage that the sun causes). Believe it or not, probiotics can help in this department as well because they can help to reduce oxidative stress, and inflammation and they also help to protect your skin’s barrier while you are outdoors. As far as your skincare plan, your best bet here would be to look for sunscreens that have probiotics in them. COOLA is one brand that many people are fond of.
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7. Probiotics Can Slow Down the Signs of Aging
One more. Although aging is a natural part of life (that should be embraced, by the way), when you factor in things like the years of what the sun can do; the loss of elastin and collagen over time; the shifts in pH balance; the fluctuations of your hormones; the damage that comes from oxidative stress; the decrease in melanocytes (pigment cells); the less natural oil that your skin produces; the natural fat layers that begin to thin out more and more — if nothing else will convince you to be hypervigilant in taking care of your skin, all of this stuff should.
And yes, probiotics can even assist with slowing down the signs of aging in your skin because, thanks to what is known as the skin-gut axis, the more good bacteria that are in your gut, the less inflammation your skin will experience, the more elasticity it will have and the less oxidative stress that it will go through.
So, definitely take a probiotic for this and look for skincare products that contain the strain known as Bacillus coagulans. It’s directly connected to helping your skin to age at a slower rate, so that your skin is looking fabulous, from the inside out, for many years to come.
All this from probiotics? Yep.
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