

Interviews can either go really right or really wrong. They're difficult enough if it's for an industry you've been dominating for years, but when you're bravely taking on a career change, they can seem even more intimidating.
Yes, you've scored the interview, which is major. But now you have to sell yourself at a different level and prove even more why you should be offered the position. The questions you ask could make or break the progress you've already made during the conversation. Plus, asking the right questions will also help you determine if it's a good fit for you too.
Need a little direction? Here are a few questions to ask your potential boss when changing careers:
1.Is There Potential For Growth?
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Asking about how you can grow in the company shows that you're not only serious about taking on this new venture, but that you plan on doing it for the long-haul. It proves that you can do more than bring something like your unique background to the table. It shows that you don't think you have it all together, but rather that you're looking to learn and be challenged.
If it's an entry-level position that you want to take to get your foot in the door, their answer can also help you determine how long you'll be in that position and if the company encourages a learning environment.
2.Ask A Question That Will Connect How Your Background Can Bring Value
This one certainly requires a lot of research, but it can also impress your potential employer as you continuously prove that even though you might not have much experience, the experience and history that you do have can be beneficial for them. It displays that you're not looking for them to just hand you a position that will be an advantage for you, but that you also want to contribute to the team. Their answer can reveal a lot about how you might feel valued with the company once you're officially brought onboard.
3.What Does A Typical And Successful Day Look Like?
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While the employer might be trying to get you to prove why you're a good fit, you should also be on guard to determine if the position is a good fit for you; especially because it's something unique to your background. When you ask a possible future employer about the outline of a typical day (if it exists in that company), you can get a better idea of your expected roles and responsibilities and decide if that's even something you'll want to do.
Chances are, you're stepping out on this career change because you want to try something new or want to be challenged. Finding out what the regular responsibilities are can indicate if you'll like doing the job and the people you work with. You can also ask what their expectations are within the first 30, 60, and 90 days of your start date to gain more clarity.
4.Do You Have Any Concerns About My Career Background?
Looking at your resume, it's clear that the elephant in the room will be that you could very well have little-to-no experience. While that might not be addressed head-on, you should definitely be prepared for them to ask what brought on this change.
If they don't, (or even if they do) that's a great opportunity for you to get ahead of the curve and ask what concerns they have, if any. Their answer will show what could be holding you back from being a shoo-in. But it also gives you a chance to give a rebuttal and reassure them how and why you're the best person for the job.
5.What Do You Think Most Makes Me A Fit?
Sorry sis, this isn't a question to have the interviewer gas you up. Even though they might rant and rave about why you got the interview to begin with, it's really a chance for you to hear why they think you'll fit in.
If their reasons are factors you really don't want to focus on in your next career, that's something that should be considered. Your potential employer's answer should give you an idea of what they expect to pull out from you while you're on the job. Whether it's a fit for you or not, it's nice to have a good idea of how they perceive you, your strengths, and what they feel you can offer before you accept the position.
6.What Are The Biggest Challenges The Company (Or Department) Is Currently Facing?
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I love this question because it gives you the perfect opportunity to once again prove why you can do this job. If they choose to actually answer honestly, you can pull from your previous positions and explain how you can be the answer to those problems.
For example, if you have a background in customer service and you're looking to go into marketing and their issue is clientele, you can speak to how you've helped resolve issues and please customers by the masses on a daily. The main idea is to be prepared to discuss how you can contribute to the company, even though you might not have the traditional and cookie-cutter experience they were looking for.
7.What’s The Typical Career Direction For Someone Who Takes On This Role?
It's no secret that the position is open because someone is no longer with the company or moved to a different role. Whatever the reason, hearing your potential employer dish and brag about what others in that position have gone on to do can be encouraging for you. Their response can also show you if that's the direction you want to go. That doesn't mean that this factor should determine if you take the job, but it does at least let you know of the limitless possibilities you can take advantage of once you accept the offer.
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I’ve gotta say that, for the most part, my friends are pretty damn chill. There is one (major) exception, though — and it’s an odd one. Even after all these years and countless times of me giving them the same answer, if there is a time when they think they are my mama, it’s when they see an email come through at an odd hour of the night. Then, all of a sudden, here they come asking me when do I get sleep if I’m emailing at (say) three in the morning.
Again, the answer never changes because, if there is one thing that Shellie Reneé Warren is gonna get, it’s 6-8 (sometimes nine) hours of sleep. However, since my chronotype (check out “Ever Wonder What Personality Traits Make Someone A 'Morning Person'?”) means that I like/prefer to write in the wee hours of the morning, sometimes I will sleep for the night for five hours and take a nap in the day. And y’all, that is just fine with me because I am well aware of the fact that napping does everything from give me more energy, heighten my alertness and even make me more creative to decrease stress levels, strengthen immunity, and reduce my chances of experiencing a heart attack or stroke.
My problem is I will oftentimes go “overboard” with my daytime zzz’s. What I mean by that is, in order to get the most out of a nap, they say thatyou shouldn’t sleep for longer than 25 minutes or so; otherwise, you could wake up feeling sluggish (I don’t but…). Also, it can make resting, soundly, at night a bit of a struggle.
So, what are you saying, Shellie? We should get quickies in? Yeah. And it’s funny that the word “quickie” would come up because just like a sex quickie can do wonders for you (and it can — check out “12 Super Solid Reasons To Have A Quickie Every Single Day”), it’s a full-circle moment when I say that something that can improve the quality of your sex life is to have a power nap (a nap that lasts between 10-30 minutes).
Wanna know how the two things correlate? Honestly, it’s no secret that sleep and sex work together to optimize both (check out “6 Fascinating Ways Sex And Sleep Definitely Go Hand In Hand”). Today, though, we’re going to tap into how a nap, specifically, can have you partaking in some of the best sex that you’ve experienced in a minute. I’ll explain.
Naps Reduce Stress
If you’re feeling super stressed out right now, you are not alone. There is plenty of data out here that says that most of us are stressed for at least a couple of reasons at a time — and that can impact your sexual health on a few levels. For one thing, it can bring about feelings of depression and/or anxiety. Stress can also throw your hormone levels off (including your cycle) which can weaken your libido. Stress can make you want to put distance between you and your partner (yes, literally).
Stress can also make it challenging to get aroused or to have an orgasm. And just what can help to decrease stress? Taking a nap. Since sleep has a way of helping you to “get off of the clock” and relax a bit, that can lower your stress levels and “reset” your body so that you are calmer — and that, in turn, can do wonders for your sex drive and ultimately your sex life.
Naps Improve Your Mood
There is one person in my life, and fairly 80 percent of the time, she’s in a super good mood. Oh, but let that girl go without sleep, and…who is this woman? LOL. There’s research behind why this happens. When a person is sleep-deprived, it messes with their brain chemicals, and that can amplify emotions like anger, restlessness and sadness. In fact, one study revealed that people who had their sleep disrupted throughout the night, they ended up having their positive outlook on life reduced by about 30 percent.
And geeze, who wants to have sex when they’re not feeling very good? Anyway, since serotonin is a neurotransmitter that helps to regulate your moods, your sleep patterns, and your libido and sleep is what helps to keep it in balance — by taking a nap, not only can it help you to feel better, it can also increase your desire for sex (it can also build up your endurance which is also…sexually beneficial).
Naps Increase Your Focus and Concentration
Something that some of my clients bring up is how, when it comes to having sex, sometimes the flesh is willing while the spirit is weak because, although the desire for intimacy is there, so much is going on that they aren’t able to get still enough to focus on experiencing copulation with their partner. This also tracks because, when you don’t have enough rest, your brain finds itself not working in harmony and that can make it hard to do everything from approaching life with a sense of flexibility to making necessary decisions.
Certain data also reveal that a lack of rest can cause you to have a really poor attention span and not process things in context (the more you know). So, if you really want to get some yet it’s hard for you to focus long enough to make it happen, ask your bae to lie down with you and take a nap. Between the sleep and the snuggling (check out “Fall's Coming: 8 Wonderful Health Benefits Of Cuddling”) — you may wake up with your mind and body totally on the same page. #wink
Naps Can Make You Feel Better About Your Body
Even if, overall, you feel really good about your body, I think that we all have moments when we feel less attractive than others — and who wants to have sex when they don’t really feel…very sexy? Well, something else that sleep, in general, can do is increase your confidence in your body.
For one thing, if you want to lose a few pounds, sleep can actually make that happen by helping your body metabolize the glucose (sugar) that’s in it so that you can better manage your appetite. Other studies go on to share that since sleep deprivation can impact one’s mental health and emotional stability in a negative way, of course, getting enough rest would increase body positivity.
Shoot, science even goes so far as to say that insomnia can cause people to have an elevated level of dissatisfaction when it comes to their body image. Don’t take their word for it, though. Look in the mirror before a nap. Then look in a mirror after waking up from me. Do you feel better? I’d be surprised if you don’t.
Makes Your Brain Bigger…Which Could Make Your Orgasms Better
I saved the best for last by design. Now if you’re wondering how in the world a nap can improve (and possibly increase) your orgasms — oh, there is a method to the madness…trust. For starters, the saying that your biggest sex organ is your brain? That isn’t a myth. Long story less long, the brain is what houses your central nervous system and that is what controls how men and women sexually function (yes, literally).
And since the brain also releases feel-good chemicals like dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin during sex and brain activity significantly increases in women during sexual activity (especially right before she orgasms) — well, would it trip you out to know that when you take a nap, your brain actually expands? A bigger brain (that’s healthy) can potentially intensify your sexual experiences (and your climaxes) — and who doesn’t want that to go down?
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Like I said earlier, I never have to be convinced to get a nap in. However, if your sex life has been a bit stagnant lately, you’ve been feeling a little sluggish and you’re not sure what to do — I’m hoping that a nap can get you right.
There’s enough science to prove that it can. All you need to do is give it a shot.
Now where’s your pillow and sleep mask, chile?
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