Digging deep into your horoscope can reveal more than a glance at your day. Reading my birth chart uncovered how my sun sign, Cancer, and moon sign, Capricorn, affect every single part of my being on this planet. While it was eye-opening, astrology helped me uncover my patterns, values and decision-making.
Who would have guessed that the alignment of the stars even contribute to how you build your wardrobe? All signs – air, water, fire and earth – influence your choices, like why you choose a pinstripe suit over a bright-colored suit, for example. It's time to use your zodiac as a fashion resource. Keep reading to find your sign and the matching fall accessory we believe will inspire creativity.
An Aries & A Bold Jacket
Aries are fearless creatures so it makes sense that their fall accessory is a bold jacket. Angela's lime green snakeskin trench is exactly what the doctor prescribed this season. The pop of pink on the shoes keeps it funky and fresh.
The Taurus & The Lace-up Boots
One thing about a Taurus, they gon' overdress. So this season, overdress some lace-up booties high enough to have a conversation with Jesus. You can shop all types of styles, colors and fabrics to match whatever vibe you're giving.
The Gemini & The Sunglasses
Just because the weather is temperamental, that doesn't mean the sun won't be shining. And you, my Gemini friend, will need some stunner shades to block the sun rays. Let loose and buy a few pair to match all of your many aesthetics.
The Cancer & The Layered Necklaces
A Cancer's motto: Why rock one necklace when you can rock all of them? This sign lives for polished looks so add some sass to your outfit with a necklace combo. The key is mastering the lengths of each necklace; you want to allow each chain to have its own moment.
The Leo & The Leather Handbag
It's giving style goddess. And judging by the Fall 2020 runways, leather is the texture we should all be rocking. Your options are endless – woven, multi-colored, big or small. Take a note from Adee and make it the contrasting piece of your look.
The Virgo & The Jumpsuit
If you know a Virgo, you know they are loyal, down-to-earth humans who make everything look effortless. What's more effortless than a jumpsuit? They are one-hitter-quitters offering an utilitarian aesthetic ideal for cooler days. Pull the cool kids card by wearing the arms around your waist with a retro graphic tee.
The Libra & The Moto Jacket
Libras love to look good and that's exactly what you'll do when you cop this moto jacket. It isn't irony that Libra season falls on cuffing season every year because Libras are all about romance. So when you are flaunting your moto jacket, pair it with a flirty staple like a midi dress.
The Scorpio & The Micro Bag
It's time for Scorpios to apply their badass energy to every aspect of life. Most importantly, the style aspect. You can easily do that with a micro bag because it takes a real risk-taker to slay one of the boldest fashion trends ever.
The Sagittarius & The Headband
They should probably add the Sagittarius sign next to the definition of "born extra". Because you have no problem trying new things, you are going to look amazing in all the new embellished headbands. Protective style, wig or au naturale, this might be the answer to the unnerving question, "What do I do with my hair?"
The Capricorns & The Snakeskin
For Capricorns, it's about structure. We are challenging you to step outside your comfort zone and combine your structure with snakeskin in all of its forms. That looks like a monochromatic suit and snakeskin booties like our sis is modeling for us.
The Aquarius & The Clear Tote
Words to describe Aquariuses include whimsy, eccentric and witty. It's time to add one more progressive accessory to the arsenal. Clear handbags are perfectly playful by showing what's in the bag.
The Pisces & The Scarf
Pisces are known to view their fashion choices as art. That's why a mixed pattern scarf is going to be clutch for the water sign this season. You can opt to rock it around your neck or take it back to your roots by donning a daring turban. Gold tribal earrings will absolutely complete the look no matter your choice.
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Joce Blake is a womanist who loves fashion, Beyonce and Hot Cheetos. The sophistiratchet enthusiast is based in Brooklyn, NY but has southern belle roots as she was born and raised in Memphis, TN. Keep up with her on Instagram @joce_blake and on Twitter @SaraJessicaBee.
Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
Watch the full episode below:
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
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6 Tabletop Sex Positions That'll Unlock You & Bae's Most Primal Desires
Something I will never tire of is finding new ways to bring new layers to intimacy. A wall you use as momentum, a bathroom sink to help you keep your balance as he worships you on his knees, a shower that is usually for cleansing but evolves into a sacred ritual of shared intimacy.
My favorite kind of sex is the kind of sex that prioritizes pleasure and connection. So, technically and thankfully, I can say most of my sex life has been quite pleasurable throughout the years. But the memorable encounters for sure take the cake. One such encounter actually took place on a kitchen counter, and with it unleashed inhibitions in ways I never anticipated while unlocking levels to top-tier sex. And that, that involved a kitchen counter.
Why Kitchen Counter Sex Just Hits Different
What is it about having your hips pressed into the edge of a kitchen counter that lets out something so primal in you? The cool-to-the-touch feel of the countertop against exposed skin as you rise to meet him again and again. The urgency in every movement. The playfulness of repurposing an everyday space for something far more erotic. If you’re looking to bring that energy into your own sex life, keep reading for positions and tips to explore.
1. The Bounce House
They don’t call it Bounce House for nothing. In this position, the penetrating partner lies flat on their back on a sturdy table or counter while the receiving partner straddles them, knees bent and facing away. With their hands gripping the edge of the surface for support, the receiving partner slides or bounces at their own pace, owning the rhythm, the motion, and the view.
According to sex therapist Michael Aaron, Ph.D., who spoke with Women’s Health, the receiving partner placing their legs between their partner’s creates a tighter sensation, while staying fully astride allows for more bounce and range of motion. Either way, this one puts the receiver in full control, and you know we love a good woman on top position. Pleasure and power? Say less.
2. The Bicycle
Well, you know what they say about riding a bike. In the case of this table top position, it's the receiving partner who is the rider...but not in the way you think. While lying back on a sturdy surface or a table, the receiver will bring their knees toward their chest, bending them as if in a cycling motion. The penetrating partner stands at the edge of the surface, grabbing the receiver's ankles, and guides themselves inside, slowly so as to savor the moment. This angle puts everything on display for the penetrating partner while allowing for deep, connected thrusting for the receiver.
To take things up a notch , the receiving partner can touch themselves or flex their thighs to control the depth or the rhythm. Because, who says only one person gets to have control?
3. Counter Offer
How could we be at the table and not use it to eat? Enter: Counter Offer. In this oral-focused sex position, the receiving partner perches on the edge of a counter or table, lying back or sitting upright with legs parted or bent for comfort. The penetrating partner kneels or stands between their thighs, depending on the setup and the kind of attention they’re ready to give. No doubt, this one’s all about access and intention.
With the vulva front and center, the height makes it easier to maintain eye contact, use hands freely for things like breast play or incorporating toys, and take their time with every moan-inducing taste. And that’s on five, six, seven, ATE.
4. Standing Doggy
Standing Doggy is what happens when a classic like doggy style gets an upgrade. Instead of being on all fours on a bed, the receiving partner bends over a hard surface like a table or counter, keeping their hips aligned at its edge. The penetrating partner stands behind and enters from the back, using the angle to go deeper and create a strong, steady rhythm. This one offers maximum control and visual appeal, especially if the penetrating partner reaches around for a little extra clitoral stimulation throughout thrusting.
This angle can get intense quickly, so bonus points if the receiving partner engages their pelvic floor muscles or shifts their weight to adjust how the pressure hits, especially if your goal is to hit that G-spot sweet spot.
5. Top Shelf
Men's Healthcalls this one "Yourself on the Shelf," but we like to call it "Top Shelf" because it's giving full view, full grip, and climax potential that's hard to top. The receiving partner sits on the edge of a sturdy table or counter while the penetrating partner stands in front of them and slowly slides in, thrusting while keeping them in position. From there, legs can wrap around their waist, arms can encircle their back, and the closeness at peak ecstasy? Chef's kiss.
If you have the core strength, add lifting to the menu for the final strokes leading to orgasm. Otherwise, allow the surface to the heavy lifting and enjoy the pleasure.
6. The Thumper
What better way to remind yourself that you're both the snack and the entrée than with a little tableside service courtesy of The Thumper? This position has the receiving partner kneeling on a sturdy table or counter (keyword: sturdy), hands gripping the edge or braced in front for support. The penetrating partner can then either kneel behind them (if there's room for two), or stay anchored on the ground with both feet planted on the floor (similar to the previously mentioned Standing Doggy). It all depends on the mood.
Kneeling on the table offers just the right amount of leverage for deep, steady strokes. The receiving partner can play with tightness by either keeping their knees closer together for a snug grip, or open their knees wider to invite more access, depth, and stretch. The Thumper is versatile that way, and the most important thing? The receiver gets to be the main course. Yum.
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