Let's Talk About Sext: 30 Sexts You Can Send To Bae Right Now
It's no secret that sexting can spice up your life. And with COVID-19 putting romances to the test, now is the time to pull out your cell phone and up your sext game. Being forced to stay inside for weeks at a time, with seemingly no end in sight can be a challenge for any couple, especially if you're like me and have quality time at the top of your love languages list. I mean, I get withdrawals when my husband just goes out of town for the weekend!
So, whether you're involuntarily in a long-distance relationship thanks to the coronavirus, or your relationship already had pressure because of the miles between you, there's a way to make this work out for the best. It's nothing that a sext convo can't fix.
30 Sexting Examples & Hot Sext Ideas To Send Guys
Flirty Sexts: For those who are new to sexting and/or looking for a way to break the ice.
- Let's try something new…
- What would you do if I was there right now?
- How bad do you want me?
- You up?
- I can't stop thinking about kissing you
- My bed is so cold without you next to me
- I'm trying on new lingerie, wanna see it?
- Can you guess what I'm wearing?
- No one makes me feel as good as you
- Do you need a full-body massage?
Dirty Sexts: For the ones that don’t mind meeting in the middle
- In case you're wondering, I'm currently naked
- I'm so horny right now
- Tell me your fantasy…
- FYI I just got out of the shower, but that's not the only reason I'm wet
- You have no idea how much you turn me on
- I can't stop thinking about the last time we…
- What's your favorite position? (or What position do you want to try?)
- I'm craving your body
- On or off? I'm talking about my panties...
- What's the dirtiest thing you want to do to me?
Naughty Sexts: For the shameless sexters ready to risk it all
- I can't wait until you're inside me again (or, I need you inside me)
- Dominate me. I want you to give it to me rough
- I want your lips on my other lips
- You're making me wet just thinking about you
- I'm about to explode
- Next time I see your face, I'm sitting on it
- I wish you could walk through the door, pick me up, and take me against the wall
- I miss your tongue all over my body
- Do you remember how my p***y tastes? I like tasting myself on you
- Make me c*m in 10 words or less
These are all starter sexts, but you should get creative and add your own flair to it. Let it empower you and keep the spark alive in your relationship, no matter the distance.
What are some sexts you love sending your significant other? Comment and let us know!
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ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
VIEW THE FULL ITGIRL 100 LIST HERE.
Don’t forget to also check out the ItGirl Directory, featuring 50 Black-woman-owned marketing and branding agencies, photographers and videographers, publicists, and more.
THE ITGIRL MEMO
I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
II. An ItGirl celebrates all the things that make her unique.
III. An ItGirl empowers others to become the best versions of themselves.
IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
V. An ItGirl paves the way for authenticity and diversity in all aspects of life.
VI. An ItGirl uses the power of her voice to advocate for positive change in the world.
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You've Never Seen Luke James In A Role Quite Like This
Over the years, we've watched Luke James play countless characters we'd deem sex symbols, movie stars, and even his complicated character in Lena Waithe's The Chi. For the first time in his career, the New Orleans-born actor has taken on a role where his signature good looks take a backseat as he transforms into Edmund in Them: The Scare—a mentally deranged character in the second installment of the horror anthology series that you won't be able to take your eyes off.
Trust us, Edmund will literally make you do a double take.
xoNecole sat down with Luke James to talk about his latest series and all the complexity surrounding it—from the challenges taking on this out-of-the-box role to the show's depiction of the perplexing history of the relationship between Black Americans and police. When describing the opportunity to bring Edmund's character to life, Luke was overjoyed to show the audience yet another level of his masterful acting talents.
"It was like bathing in the sun," he said. "I was like, thank you! Another opportunity for me to be great—for me to expand my territory. I'm just elated to be a part of it and to see myself in a different light, something I didn't think I could do." He continued, "There are parts of you that says, 'Go for it because this is what you do.' But then also that's why it's a challenge because you're like, 'um, I don't know if I'm as free as I need to be to be able to do this.' Little Marvin just created such a safe space for me to be able to do this, and I'm grateful for everything I've been able to do to lead to this."
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Them: The Scare, like the first season, shines a light on the plight of Black Americans in the United States. This time, the story is taking place in the 1990s, at the height of the Rodney King riots in Los Angeles. While the series presents many underlying themes, one that stands out is Black people and the complicated relationship with the police. "For the audience, I think it sets the tone for the era that we're in and the amount of chaos that's in the air in Los Angeles and around the country from this heinous incident. And I say it just sets the tone of the anxiety and anxiousness that everybody is feeling in their own households."
James has been a longtime advocate against police brutality himself. He has even featured Elijah McClain, the 23-year-old Colorado man who died after being forcibly detained by officers, as his Instagram avatar for the past five years. So, as you can imagine, this script was close to his heart. "Elijah was a soft-loving oddball. Different than anyone but loving and a musical genius. He was just open and wanted to be loved and seen."
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Luke continued, "His life was taken from him. I resonate with his spirit and his words...through all the struggle and the pain he still found it in him to say, 'I love you and I forgive you.' And that's who we are as people—to our own detriment sometimes. He's someone I don't want people to forget. I have yet to remove his face from my world because I have yet to let go of his voice, let go of that being [because] there's so many people we have lost in our history that so often get forgotten."
He concluded, "I think that's the importance of such artwork that moves us to think and talk about it. Yes, it's entertaining. We get to come together and be spooked together. But then we come together and we think, 'Damn, Edmund needed someone to talk to. Edmund needed help... a lot [of] things could have been different. Edmund could have been saved.'
Check out the full interview below.
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