

International singer Tyla recently gave a memorable show during her Lollapalooza debut. She set the stage ablaze, performing her hits like "Water" and "Art," and looked good doing it. The Grammy award-winner rocked knotless goddess braids with a nude makeup look. Her makeup artist, Matthew Fishman, revealed that he used a few drugstore beauty brands to achieve a flawless look.
“I used the i-ENVY crystal glow lashes in style radiant because they have a flare-out wispy finish, which creates a cat-eye effect. Tyla loves a glossy hydrated lip, with a subtle pink tint, so we used the Ruby Kisses lip oil in shade soft pink to give her that perfect pout," he said.
"We always keep Tyla’s skin really fresh, so I used the Kiss New York Professional Blush Pearl Wand in shade bold begonia for that perfect pop of color. To keep Tyla’s skin looking lit from within, I used the Kiss New York Professional Highlight Pearl Wand in shade lovely-lily.”
Crystal Glow ‘Radiant’ Lash
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These faux mink lashes are lightweight, easy to use, and come in five different sizes.
Ruby Kisses Lip Oil Booster in Soft Pink
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The lip oil not only gives your lips a nice shine but also moisturizes them, thanks to hyaluronic acid and natural oils like sweet almond oil and jojoba oil.
Kiss New York Professional Pearl Blush Wand in BOLD-BEGONIA
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The Pearl Blush Wand comes with a sponge applicator that is perfect for on-the-go.
Kiss New York Professional Pearl Highlight Wand in Lovely-Lily
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Choose between two shades, love-lily and merry marigold, for the glow you want.
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Laterras R. Whitfield On What He Wants In A 'Future Wifey' & Redefining Masculinity
In this week's episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker chopped it up with Laterras R. Whitfield, host of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, for a raw and revealing conversation about personal growth, faith, and the search for love in a way that resonates.
Laterras Whitfield Believes Men Should Pursue, Not Persuade
“Let me know you exist, and I’ll do the rest”
Whitfield is a big advocate of a man’s role in going confidently for the woman he wants. “Men should pursue, not persuade, and women should present, not pursue,” he said. He’s open to meeting women on social media but isn’t a fan of bold approaches. “Don’t shoot your shot at me. … Let me know you exist, and I’ll do the rest.”
His ideal woman?
“She has to be a woman of God… I judge a woman by how her friends see her… and most importantly, how she treats my kids.”
Infidelity, Redemption, and the Power of Self-Control
“Being disciplined is the most beautiful thing you can offer”
Once unfaithful in his previous marriage, Whitfield has since transformed his perspective on masculinity. “Being disciplined is the most beautiful thing you can offer. That’s what true masculinity is to me now.” He has also committed to abstinence, choosing self-control as a defining trait of manhood.
Whitfield’s journey is one of redemption, purpose, and faith—something that speaks to women who value emotional intelligence, accountability, and the power of transformation.
Rewriting the Narrative Around Black Masculinity
What masculinity, legacy, and healing mean to Whitfield today
“My dad taught me what not to be [as a man] and my mom taught me what she needed [in a man],” Whitfield said. While his father wasn’t abusive, he wasn’t emotionally or affectionately present. “Since I didn’t see it, I never got it either… I would look at my dad and say, ‘I want to be a better father.’ ”
Adoption had always been on his spirit, influenced by TV shows like Different Strokes and Punky Brewster. This mindset led him to take in his nephew as his son after a powerful dream confirmed what he already felt in his heart.
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'Sistas' Star Skyh Black On The Power Of Hypnotherapy & Emotional Vulnerability For Men
In this insightful episode of the xoMANpodcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Sistas star Skyh Black, as he opened up about his journey of emotional growth, resilience, and self-discovery. The episode touches on emotional availability, self-worth, masculinity, and the importance of therapy in overcoming personal struggles.
Skyh Black on Emotional Availability & Love
On Emotional Availability & Vulnerability
“My wife and I wouldn't be where we are today if both of us weren't emotionally available,” he shared about his wife and Sistas co-star KJ Smith, highlighting the value of vulnerability and emotional openness in a relationship. His approach to masculinity stands in contrast to the traditional, stoic ideals. Skyh is not afraid to embrace softness as part of his emotional expression.
On Overcoming Self-Doubt & Worthiness Issues
Skyh reflected on the self-doubt and worthiness issues that he struggled with, especially early in his career. He opens up about his time in Los Angeles, living what he calls the “LA struggle story”—in a one-bedroom with three roommates—and being homeless three times over the span of 16 years. “I always had this self-sabotaging thought process,” Skyh said. “For me, I feel therapy is essential, period. I have a regular therapist and I go to a hypnotherapist.”
How Therapy Helped Him Heal From Self-Doubt
On Hypnotherapy & Empowering Self-Acceptance
Skyh’s journey is a testament to the power of tapping into self-development despite life’s struggles and being open to growth. “I had to submit to the fact that God was doing good in my life, and that I'm worthy of it. I had a worthiness issue and I did not realize that. So, that’s what the hypnotherapy did. It brought me back to the core. What is wrong so that I can fix it?”
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