To be honest, I was never the biggest fan of using drugstore foundations.
One, I never found my shade. Because I'm very intentional about where I spend my money and who I support, if a brand didn't carry my shade, I assumed I'm not the customer they had in mind and I'll keep it moving. Two, shopping for makeup is enough work in itself. Although I save a lot of money shopping at the drugstore, I didn't want the hassle of finding the closest shades to my complexion and then have to mix it every time I want to use it.
I'm glad to say the beauty industry is making progress and my last drugstore visit was different from all the others. I'm also happy to see more black-owned beauty brands in the drugstore. They understand the struggle and they're consistently looking for change beyond financial motives. So, if you're thinking about picking up a few drugstore foundations, here are my thoughts based on my four selections.
BLK OPL True Color Pore Perfecting Liquid Foundation
BLK OPL's True Color Pore Perfecting Liquid Foundation is a medium coverage foundation that minimizes the appearance of your pores with a matte finish.
Shade:
520 Hazelnut
Price:
$10.93+
My Thoughts:
This foundation is a perfect match for my skin complexion! Although this is just a light to medium coverage foundation, the pore perfecting element makes it seem like your face has more coverage. I also have combination/normal skin, but this foundation is perfect for all skin types. It gives the right amount of hydration for those with dry skin and its oil-free ingredients caters to those with oily skin. Lastly, the application is pretty easy — just pump and blend.
Yay or Nay:
Yay!
Revlon PhotoReady Insta-Filter Foundation
The Revlon PhotoReady Insta-Filter foundation is a medium buildable foundation with a built-in beauty blender so you can easily apply your makeup with everything you need in one product.
Shade:
450 Mocha
Price:
$13.97+
My Thoughts:
This was the most expensive from my foundation haul and the one I liked the least. Revlon's Insta-Filter foundation only came in three dark shades: caramel, cappuccino, and mocha — the range is not enough. The sponge was not as soft as I hoped, in fact, my face felt irritated from all the blending. I also thought the foundation was a bit ashy on my skin and had a few creases around my eyes.
Yay or Nay:
Nay.
L’Oreal Paris True Match Super-Blendable Foundation Makeup
L'Oreal's True Match foundation is a light to medium coverage foundation with SPF (select shades) that gives you a natural finish.
Shade:
Deep golden (warm)
Price:
$8.86+
My Thoughts:
This foundation is supposed to match your skin's undertone and I think it did a pretty good job with that. My skin looked more vibrant and polished. The only thing I didn't like about this foundation is the wide opening. So you have to be really careful when applying it to your Beautyblender or foundation brush.
Yay or Nay:
Yay!
Black Radiance Color Perfect Liquid Makeup
The Black Radiance Color Perfect liquid makeup is a full coverage foundation with a satin finish to enhance your natural skin tone.
Shade:
Brownie
Price:
$3.87+
My Thoughts:
This is pretty good foundation, especially for the price point! I never spent less than $5 on a foundation. It is a buildable full coverage foundation with a satin finish. When I used it on my dark spots, it didn't cover it completely, but you'd have to be pretty close to see it. I know if I used a color corrector, it will be completely hidden. I love that the foundation doesn't feel heavy or look caked up on my face. Lastly, the application is pretty easy — it comes with a spatula so that I can easily apply the product to my face!
Yay or Nay:
Yay! Girl, it works and it's less than $5!
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The origin of the word "discipline" can be traced back to the Latin word "disciplina," which means "instruction" or "teaching." Over time, however, discipline has come to be synonymous with punishment, with parents relying on shame, fear, and/or physical pain to curb undesirable behavior.
Teaching takes time, so nipping it in the bud in whatever fashion parents deem necessary (within reason) has become the norm. But is this what’s best for children? And when does it become less about curbing undesirable behavior and more about getting our licks back for offenses we feel our children should know better to do?
In my work as a parenting coach, I’ve often heard parents say, “I asked him nicely three times before spanking him. He didn’t stop doing it until I did, so clearly talking doesn’t work.”
And the parent isn’t wrong. Talking often doesn’t work the first, the third, or the even the 10th time. And the reason is directly tied to brain development.
Children cannot and do not process information the way an adult can. Auditory processing is not fully developed until a child is 14 or 15 years old. And even then, if a child has auditory processing delays or Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), they may always struggle with processing auditory commands. According to Susie S. Loraine, MA, CCC-SLP, the term auditory processing refers to how the brain perceives and interprets sound information. Several skills determine auditory processing ability—or listening success. They develop in a general four-step hierarchy, but all work together and are essential for daily listening.
Without this understanding, discipline can easily become revenge because parents will then view their child’s misdeeds as a personal slight. Instead of teaching them to do better, parents now want to show them the consequences of not doing better. This is why it's imperative for parents to discern between discipline and revenge to maintain healthy relationships with their children.
5 WAYS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN PARENTAL GUIDANCE AND RETALIATION:
Understanding The Intent
Discipline is rooted in love and concern for the child's well-being. It focuses on teaching lessons and helping children understand the consequences of their actions. Conversely, revenge-driven actions stem from a desire to inflict pain or punishment as payback for perceived slights or disobedience. Parents should reflect on their motives before taking disciplinary actions. Ask yourself whether your intention is to help your child learn or to make them suffer for upsetting you.
Example: If a child accidentally breaks a valuable item, a disciplinary response would involve discussing the importance of being careful and working with the child to come up with a way to replace or fix what they’ve broken. On the other hand, a vengeful reaction might involve yelling, harsh punishment, or bringing up past mistakes to intensify guilt.
Maintaining Emotional Regulation
Effective discipline requires parents to remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. It's natural to feel upset or frustrated when children misbehave, but responding with anger or resentment can escalate the situation and blur the line between discipline and revenge. Before addressing the issue, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts.
Example: If a child cannot follow instructions, a disciplined response would involve calmly explaining why their cooperation is necessary in working with the child to accomplish the goal. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve shouting, name-calling, or resorting to physical punishment out of anger.
Promoting Growth and Learning
Discipline should always aim to promote growth and learning. It involves guiding children toward making better choices and understanding the impact of their actions on themselves and others. Effective discipline strategies include positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, and providing opportunities for reflection and growth.
Example: If a child repeatedly forgets to complete their chores, a disciplinary approach would involve discussing the importance of responsibility and finding solutions together, such as creating a chore chart or setting reminders with Siri or Alexa. In contrast, a revenge-driven response might involve imposing overly harsh punishments or belittling the child, which can undermine their self-esteem and hinder their ability to learn from their mistakes.
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Building Trust and Communication
Trust and open communication are essential components of a healthy parent-child relationship. Discipline should strengthen this bond by fostering trust and encouraging children to confide in their parents without fear of judgment or retaliation. When children feel safe and supported, they're more likely to accept discipline as a form of guidance rather than punishment.
Example: If a child admits to breaking a rule or making a mistake, a disciplined response would involve listening to their perspective, discussing the consequences of their actions, and working together to find a solution. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve accusations, blame, or shutting down communication, which can erode trust and damage the parent-child relationship.
Seeking Professional Guidance
Parenting is a learning journey, and, disciplining children is a delicate balance between guiding them toward responsible behavior and nurturing their growth. By understanding the intent behind our actions, maintaining emotional regulation, promoting growth and learning, building trust and communication, and seeking professional guidance when needed, as parents we can help our children built on love, respect, and understanding.
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