Ludacris, the acclaimed rapper and actor, proudly embraces his role as the "ultimate girl dad" to his four daughters: Karma (23), Cai (10), Cadence (9), and Chance (3). In various interviews, he has shared insights into fatherhood and the unique experiences of raising daughters.
During an appearance on the Jennifer Hudson Show, Ludacris expressed his joy in embracing each daughter's individuality, stating, “I'm a girl dad, the ultimate girl dad.” He continued, “You've got to embrace their uniqueness, because each one of them is completely different.”
He also highlighted the importance of individualism and was especially proud of his eldest daughter Karma's recent graduation from Spelman College, noting that it inspires her younger sisters. “And they have to embrace how unique they are individually. I think that's extremely important in today's world,” Luda said.
Ludacris on Fatherhood: What Being a Girl Dad to Four Daughters Has Taught Him
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Jennifer and Luda then showed the audience videos of Ludacris' youngest daughter practicing her runway walk, and talked about Chance's cute "model walk." Hudson named, “She seems to have a lot of personality,” while the proud dad responded, “Too much personality. I wonder where she gets it."
In a 2023 interview withPEOPLE, Ludacris discussed the challenges of balancing his career with family life, emphasizing the importance of presence and patience. “The important lesson that I've learned from my daughters is being patient, man. I used to be the most impatient person in the world, but these girls have taught me to be more present, and more in the moment, especially at home.”
He also shared his approach to encouraging his daughters to overcome fears, stating, "I think the best part of it is teaching them certain morals and principles and standards, and trying to get them to get over certain fears because you know that's what life is all about."
The Fast X star continued, “If you want to rise to the top — like if I take them rock climbing and I can see that they're scared once they get to a certain point — I'm right up under and saying you can do it and keep going, seeing them get over the hump. And they're understanding that there's triumph on the other side of fear. I think that's the greatest part.”
Meet Ludacris’ Four Daughters
Balancing a demanding career with family life, Ludacris ensures that his daughters remain a priority. He often brings them along during extended periods away from home, inspired by colleagues like Vin Diesel, who emphasizes family time. Ludacris stated, "If I’m going to be gone too long, I just bring them to me."
His dedication to fatherhood and his daughters' development is evident in his active involvement in their lives and his efforts to instill values of individuality, courage, and self-confidence.
Here’s what we know about his four beautiful girls:
Karma Christine Bridges (23)
Karma Christine Bridges, the daughter of Ludacris and attorney Christine White, was born on August 10, 2001. She has always been close with her dad and has joined him throughout his career whenever she can. Luda is especially proud of Karma’s recent graduation from Spelman College, an achievement that sets a strong example for her younger sisters. Luda said, "Her achievements inspire her younger siblings to aim high."
This eldest daughter inspired the Netflix animated series Karma's World, which addresses topics such as self-esteem, discrimination, and body positivity. Ludacris expressed his pride in the project, stating, “I love it because I know I work so hard on it, and I’m just glad that people around the world have accepted it, and it’s starting to change people’s lives for the better.”
In an interview with Shoutout Atlanta, Karma shared, “I like to say my superpower is my ability to listen to diverse voices and tell authentic stories that need to be heard. My dream is to work as a film producer on feature-length films to showcase unique stories and bring new voices to the screen.”
Cai Bella Bridges (11)
Cai Bella was born on December 12, 2013, to Ludacris and Tamika Fuller. When she was 13 months old, Ludacris and Fuller went to court, and Ludacris was granted full custody of Cai in January 2015. Ludacris has described Cai’s personality as unique, highlighting how each of his daughters has distinct traits that make fatherhood exciting.
Cai and her younger sister Cadence, who is two years younger, have a close relationship. Cai also has a close relationship with both her dad and stepmother Eudoxie, who frequently post pictures of her on social media.
In March 2022, Eudoxie shared a series of photos on social media of her and her daughters posing together, captioning the post "My little models."
Cadence Gaëlle Bridges (9)
Cadence Gaëlle, the first child of Ludacris and Eudoxie, was born on May 27, 2015, weighing 7 lbs., 4 oz. Her middle name, Gaëlle, translates to "a father's joy."
Eudoxie posted a heartfelt message on social media for her daughter's 8th birthday in May 2023 saying, “Happy 8th birthday to the sweetest baby girl ever!! I love everything about you! What a blessing you are to us.” And in French, “I love you, and you will always be my sweetheart.”
Ludacris strives to empower his daughters, including Cadence, by instilling confidence in them. In June 2022, he expressed to PEOPLE his mission to help them understand their intelligence, beauty, and purpose in the world, emphasizing that these attributes may differ for each of them. He wants them to recognize their strong lineage and heritage as women.
Chance Oyali Bridges (3)
As the youngest of the family, Chance brings joy and energy to Ludacris’s life. On July 28, 2021, Ludacris and Eudoxie welcomed their second daughter, Chance Oyali Bridges, sharing the news on Instagram with photos of the happy family. He has shared his delight in watching her develop her own personality and learning from her older sisters. “The best part of being a girl dad is seeing them grow into their individuality,” Ludacris told PEOPLE.
Ludacris was filming a movie in Albuquerque, New Mexico when Eudoxie called to tell him he needed to get back to Atlanta right away because her contractions had started and the doctor advised him to be there for the birth.
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Reset Your Relationship: How To Start 2025 Strong With Your Partner
As the calendar turns and a new year unfolds, many of us are laser-focused on our career goals, fitness resolutions, and vision boards that outline the journey to our best selves. But amidst all the planning and self-improvement, have you made room for another important part of your life? Your relationship.
It's easy for couples to fall into a routine, going through the motions and letting their connection sit on autopilot. While comfort is natural in a long-term relationship, it’s important to remember: that what you don’t nurture, eventually fades. So, why not make 2025 the year you reset your relationship? Here’s how to start the year with a renewed bond, reigniting the spark that brought you together.
Step 1: Schedule Your Reset Meeting
The first step to hitting the reset button is a State of the Union meeting with your partner. This is your chance to take a pulse on the relationship, discuss what's working, and identify areas that need attention. It’s all about creating space to reflect, without distractions.
Grab a pen and paper (or open a shared note on your phone) and come prepared to share your top 2-3 desires for your relationship.
What do you both want to feel more of in 2025? Maybe it’s feeling more appreciated, or perhaps you want to reignite the passion you had when you first started dating. Whatever it is, get clear about it, and make sure both of you are on the same page.
This isn’t just about listing your own wants, it’s also about discussing ways to nurture each other’s needs. Relationship goals should be focused on fostering deeper intimacy, trust, and mutual respect. Use this time to check in, not only with each other but with your individual feelings and expectations. Set the foundation for a fulfilling year ahead.
Step 2: Set A Date (Or Multiple!)
Having the meeting is only the first step. Now, it’s time to take action. One of the simplest ways to breathe new life into a relationship is by reintroducing consistent, intentional time spent together. For many couples, life gets busy, and date nights fall by the wayside. But dating doesn’t stop when you say "I do"—in fact, it’s even more essential.
During your reset meeting, lock in a regular date night that works for both of your schedules. This could be a weekly dinner date or an every-other-week adventure—whatever keeps things fresh. The goal is consistency. It’s easy to push date nights aside when life gets hectic, but if you set a specific date each week or month, you’re making your relationship a priority.
If you’re unsure what to do for your date nights, don’t worry! The key is creating new experiences together. This is what sparks excitement and brings you closer as a couple. Whether it’s cooking a new recipe together, trying a dance class, or exploring a nearby town, it’s about creating shared memories that build your connection.
Step 3: Find an Accountability Partner
Just like you might have a personal trainer to help you crush your fitness goals, an accountability partner for your relationship can do wonders for keeping both of you on track. Consider hiring a marriage coach or therapist—someone who can meet you where you are and guide you in strengthening your relationship.
When selecting a professional, it’s important to choose someone who truly wants the best for your marriage and can provide actionable advice.
Don’t be afraid to set high standards for your relationship, and seek guidance on how to keep it thriving for the long haul. In your reset meeting, discuss your commitment to growth, and be honest about areas where you may need support.
Marriage isn’t a set-it-and-forget-it endeavor—it’s an ongoing process. Regular check-ins with a professional can help keep your relationship in tip-top shape and “divorce-proof” by addressing issues before they become insurmountable.
Step 4: Try Something New Together
Stale routines can easily make a relationship feel monotonous. Spice things up by trying something new! Couples that explore new activities and create new memories together have stronger, more fulfilling bonds.
My husband and I host one of the top luxury marriage retreats, A Weekend For Love, designed to help couples experience new things together. From couples' workshops to outdoor adventures, the retreat provides a platform to rediscover each other and reconnect on a deeper level.
The element of surprise can reignite your connection. It’s exciting, fresh, and shows your partner that you’re committed to growing together. This doesn’t have to be a huge commitment—it could be as simple as trying a new hobby or planning an impromptu weekend getaway.
Your Relationship Should Be A Priority
As you start the year with personal goals in mind, don’t forget the importance of nurturing your relationship. It’s easy to get caught up in work, fitness, and family obligations, but your bond with your partner deserves to be at the top of your list. Resetting your relationship offers an opportunity to reignite that spark and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place.
In 2025, make a commitment to prioritize your partnership, to nurture it daily, and to invest in its growth. Take time to celebrate each other’s victories, support one another’s dreams, and build a foundation of love and respect. When you start the year with a clear focus on your relationship, you’re setting it up for success.
So, before you start mapping out your new workout plan or work goals, do yourself a favor: put your relationship at the top of that list. Your love story deserves a fresh start, too.
Happy New Year, and here’s to a love-filled 2025!
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Although many years have passed since the whirlwind that was 2020, I finally feel like I am settling into a state of rest, joy, and relaxation after two and a half years of feeling burnt out, overwhelmed, and overworked. During that time, I wrote the proposal for my book, Owning Our Struggles. It has been a wonderful journey writing, reflecting, and reveling in what it means to own our struggles, pain, and tragedy in order to make room for joy, love, and liberation.
As I was writing, I found myself immersed in the concept of Black joy and cultural healing. I am a first-generation American who identifies as Black-Hispanic and Afro-Latina. My parents are from Colon, Panama, and San Andres, Colombia. As a child, my parents did not understand mental health concepts or disorders like anxiety and depression, but they were strong advocates for healing and ensuring that joy remained at the center of our lives despite the challenges or hardships we faced.
The lessons they taught me came back to me as I wrote Owning Our Strugglesand reflected on the world of hurt, pain, chaos, and tragedy that surrounds me and the feelings of powerlessness that often arise. Being Black in America can be tough, but it also feels beautiful when I see how Black culture continuously moves the needle in society and our role in advancing our communities and liberating ourselves from oppression.
The celebration of Black joy and the process of cultural healing are critical components of the Black community's resilience and survival. Black joy is a radical act, especially given Black people's historical and ongoing oppression and marginalization. It is a way of resisting the negative stereotypes and narratives that have been perpetuated about Black people for centuries. By celebrating Black joy, we claim our humanity and our right to exist fully and joyfully.
Here are six ways to celebrate Black joy and engage in cultural healing:
1.Connect with your roots:
Learn about your cultural heritage and traditions. This can involve exploring your family history, learning about the history of your ancestors, and the cultural traditions that have been passed down through generations. By reconnecting with your roots, you can better understand where you come from and how your cultural identity shapes who you are today.
2.Celebrate cultural events and holidays:
Participate in cultural events and holidays that hold significance for you and your community. Whether it's attending a Juneteenth celebration, a Kwanzaa gathering, or a Black History Month event, these celebrations can provide an opportunity for cultural healing and a sense of community.
3.Engage in creative expression:
Engage in creative activities that allow you to express your emotions and experiences. This can include writing, visual art, music, dance, or spoken word. Creative expression can be a powerful tool for processing emotions, healing from trauma, and celebrating joy.
4.Support Black-owned businesses:
Supporting Black-owned businesses is a way to celebrate Black joy and support economic empowerment within the Black community. Whether buying from a Black-owned restaurant, boutique, or service provider, we can continue supporting our people and communities through financial investments.
5.Build community:
Building community with other Black individuals and allies can be a powerful way to celebrate Black joy and engage in cultural healing. This can involve joining a social group, attending community events, or volunteering with a local organization that supports the Black community.
6.Practice self-care:
Practicing self-care is critical to cultural healing and celebrating Black joy. This can involve taking the time to rest, engaging in activities that bring you joy, prioritizing your mental and physical health, or seeking out support from a therapist or mental health professional.
By embracing Black joy and cultural healing, we resist and disrupt systems of oppression and claim our humanity and right to exist joyfully and fully. Let us continue to give ourselves the life we know we deserve and reclaim the power of community. Order my book, Owning Our Struggles, to gain more tools and exercises on Black joy and liberation.
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Originally published on July 26, 2023