From Downtown to Santa Monica, Los Angeles is known for its laid-back nature, oftentimes overlooked as one of the most fashion-forward cities in the world. Because of the effortless approach to everyday streetwear, the city is often underestimated when it comes to the early adaptation of trends wearing outerwear, knits, and accessories that have proven to be breakout hits of the season. It's always a good idea to look at what some of LA’s most fashionable people are wearing, as they often set the tone for sporting pieces before they become mainstream must-haves. LA’s fresh take on ready-to-wear is in a genre of its own, defining the iconic West Coast aesthetic.
Since 2021, fashionistas have been stepping out in a variety of wardrobe staples that are both fresh and modern but with a vintage feel. With clear sunny skies and 365 days of close-to-perfect weather, practicality and comfort encourage creative yet casual combinations when it comes to winter fashion.
Some of the leading trends include statement pieces that stray from typical fall classics but remain grounded in practicality. Oversized moto jackets and lengthy maxi skirts are all familiar fall fashions but the updated silhouettes feel excitingly new and current. Winter accessories like oversized fur hats make a statement yet, a cozy alternative to the subtle baseball caps that trended this summer.
There are so many options to wear this season, and as always I’m inspired by the most fashionable women in my city. For inspiration on how to broaden your wardrobe this season, check out the most underrated items taking over LA.
1.The Utilitarian Maxi
With mini skirts dominating every list of what to wear this fall, maxi skirts are quickly becoming an edgier alternative for fashion girls in LA. The long length creates a modestly modern silhouette perfect for a stylish transition from spring to fall and throughout winter. With a variety of designs and fabrics, there’s a maxi skirt that fits almost any occasion. Wear it with sneakers for a daytime look or pair a heeled sandal for a sexy night out.
2.The Abstract Print
Gaining traction over the last year, abstract prints inspired by high fashion designers such as Jean Paul Gaultier are still a favorite among local fashionistas. Hypnotizing geometric patterns have replaced classic animal prints as the go-to for cool girls in LA. Designed with maximalists in mind, this style is a fun addition to a semi-casual look paired with oversized cargo pants and square-toed high-heeled boots.
3.The Oversized Colorful Cardigan
During this time of year, clear skies are common in sunny southern California with subtle drops in temperatures for a slight taste of fall. An oversized cardigan is the perfect layering piece to make a cozy statement in the not-so-cold weather. Typically when worn, the comfy knit is kept cool and casual layered over a tank top paired with a skirt, trousers, or sweatpants for a stylish on-the-go look.
4.The Classic Motorcycle Jacket
I’m in my early 2000s era this fall revisiting my love for vintage leather motorcycle jackets as the coat trend begins to take over LA’s fashion-forward crowd. The heavy-duty leather and metal hardware embody a bad-to-the-bone persona for the fashionistas that live for the wild side. Pair with trousers or a full leather-on-leather ensemble with matching pants for an edgier approach to the season's most daring outerwear trend.
5.The Furry Statement Hat
Winter accessories, especially hats, are an essential addition to a fall/winter stylish look, even in a city that gets mildly chilly. Over the years, bucket hats have been created in an array of designs from crocheted knits to coated leather, getting bolder as the weather gets colder. This season, faux fur fabrics in a range of deep pigments and eye-catching oversized shapes are turning heads as the final piece to finish off a fashion-forward look this season.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
Watch the full episode below:
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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"I Was A Bad Husband": Devale Ellis On Love, Growth, & Showing Up Differently
Long before Devale Ellis became known for his radical honesty online or as an actor starring in projects like Zatima, the Brooklyn native was a young husband figuring out what it meant to lead. Now, as a father of four and husband to his wife Khadeen for 14 years (15 years on July 4), the author of We Over Me is opening up about the real-life lessons that have helped shape him into the man he is today.
In a recent episode of xoNecole's xoMAN podcast, Devale sat down for an unfiltered conversation with host Kiara Walker about marriage, masculinity, and how fatherhood ultimately saved him from himself. The former NFL player held nothing back as he spoke candidly about the work he did to unlearn outdated ideals about what it means to be a man, and how learning to be emotionally present was a catalyst for change in his 22-year relationship with his wife.
"I was a bad husband because I wasn't present emotionally."
"I know this may come off as misogynistic," Devale shared in the episode, "but I feel like it's the responsibility as a man to pay for everything." It was a belief that was shaped by his father who taught him that to provide for a woman, especially one you're creating a family with, is a non-negotiable as a man.
Devale recalled the words of his father: "What if she gets sick? What if she deals with postpartum depression? What if the child has issues and someone needs to be there? My father was like that’s your responsibility. Don’t put that on nobody else…"
"My pops don't believe in the 50/50 bullshit. My pops ain't with that," he continued. "So I took that on. Of course, now times have changed, but that’s just my way of looking at it. So since that’s my way of looking at it, I make sure every morning my wife wakes up, she don’t gotta worry about the lights coming on, you know, who’s paying the rent. But also, I make sure that I’m present."
Still, it wasn't always like that for the Dead-Ass podcast co-host. Devale admitted that at one point he identified as a "bad husband" because presence wasn't always as important to him as providing, given the "old-fashioned way" masculinity was modeled to him.
"I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally, you know what I’m saying. I wasn’t present spiritually. I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources because I was too focused on that one linear thing, ‘I gotta provide.’ And I learned that after about five years of marriage and after we had our second child that I had to be more."
“Being a man is about being consistent.”
Change doesn't happen overnight but Devale's revelation marked a turning point in his marriage and relationship with Khadeen overall. From the moment, he began to shift from the man he was used to being and evolve into who he aspired to become as a husband and a father. In doing so, the transformation became a catalyst for deeper connection and service.
He explained, "In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me..."
His outlook on what it means to be a man and masculinity as a whole also leveled up. "Being a man is about being consistent." No longer did he define masculinity as primarily providing financially for his wife and family, but it also meant providing an emotional presence, a spiritual presence, and most importantly, an understanding that leadership wasn't about control, it was about care and consideration.
Speaking of care and consideration, Devale would eventually make another choice that many men shy away from...
Choosing a vasectomy out of love for his wife
After having four sons, Devale and Khadeen once thought about having a fifth child in hopes for a daughter. But everything changed for the couple when Khadeen experienced postpartum preeclampsia. The health scare solidified their decision to be done with family planning, and although hormonal birth control was on the table, Devale didn't want to put that responsibility on Khadeen who began experiencing iron deficiency from heavy bleeding and blood clots.
"I was like, 'Bro, so I almost lost you twice, you've had three natural births, two at the house, okay, this is my time now to take over as a man and say, 'I'll get a vasectomy.' Because I don't want you to have to deal with birth control so let me be the one on birth control."
Despite the stigma and concerns of having a vasectomy, which he goes into detail about on the xoMAN podcast, the move proved to be yet another example of Devale's preferred method of leadership, one where he strives to choose empathy over ego.
"Fatherhood made me a better person."
Similarly to the way he beams when talking about Khadeen, there's a gentleness that undercuts the more serious aspects of his personality when he speaks about his sons: Jackson, Kairo, Kaz, and Dakota. In the episode, the former athlete shared, "Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do life all over."
In regards to being a father, he shared that "fatherhood made me a better person," which is the heart of the title of his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself. As he raises four Black sons into Black Kings, Devale shared that he is mindful of the legacy he seeks to leave behind. "A part of Black masculinity to me is showing kids that they matter. That they deserve to be loved."
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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