
Meeting Us Where We Are: The Black Women Holding Space For Healing, One Session At A Time

This World Mental Health Day, we’re paying homage to the Black women who are carving out the safe spaces that we need the most - the safe space that is therapy.
In recent years, we’ve seen an upswing in not only the conversation and normalization of therapy, but we now have Black women openly sharing online the importance of discussing our mental health and allowing for therapy to be a tool that is just as important to our wellness routines as drinking water and getting daily exercise.
Black women are acknowledging that healing is our priority and we’re taking self-care a step further with not just moments of solitude in bubble baths, but creating sustainable wellness routines that center therapy to improve the quality of our lives and to heal from the trauma that many of us have carried with us our entire lives.
With therapists and online communities for Black women like The Loveland Foundation, Therapy For Black Girls, Transparent Black Girl, Heal Sis, Black Girls Smile, Sad Girls Club, A Safe Space Mentor, and more, alongside millions of Black women worldwide, we’re healing and growing together.
As Black women and the Black community as a whole prioritize therapy, the conversation of not just therapy but the type of therapy that we need specifically for us has become more important.
In honor of World Mental Health Day, xoNecole is discussing cultural competence and how the following mental health professionals center the unique needs of Black women within their work across the country.
Amari Denise - Chicago, IL and Houston, TX
"Mental wellness is uniting and reuniting Black families. Black women’s willingness to be the curse breakers has ignited a shift in how Black people view mental health. There is no education that can replace sitting across from someone who sees you and understands you culturally. Being a Black therapist means tailoring our services to meet the needs of the culture to help heal the masses."
Price Point: "Our average per-cost session is $150. We do provide slicing scales also based on income!"
Ryanne Smith - Vancouver, WA
"As a Black woman and therapist, my biggest motivator in serving the perinatal mental health community is recognition of our inherited trauma as Black birthing people and implications of societal expectations of navigating difficult seasons without wavering, meaning I speak to my patients with the understanding that it’s actually not okay to be okay and we are allowed to be unwell, and it doesn’t make us less."
Price Point: "Because I started a nonprofit to sponsor patient care, my providers are offering below-market prices to cover administrative expenses. While private pay therapy clients often pay $110-$150 depending on the provider, most of our providers are doing pro bono, or our organization pays based on a sponsorship program."
"Black women are consistently underdiagnosed, unheard, and unseen in medical spaces. Being a Black therapist also allows me to support my clients beyond their presenting concerns but in the context of their life, including workplace, dating, and family experiences that are unique to the Black experience."
Dr. Shaakira Haywood-Stewart - New York, New York
"My identity as a Black woman shapes the way that I perceive and provide support to my clients. Specifically, it allows me to understand what they are struggling with and enables me to assess for things such as depression, anxiety, and other diagnoses that present themselves differently in Black women. Black women are consistently underdiagnosed, unheard, and unseen in medical spaces. Being a Black therapist also allows me to support my clients beyond their presenting concerns but in the context of their life, including workplace, dating, and family experiences that are unique to the Black experience."
Price Point: "My session fee is $250 per session. I do work with folks who are unable to pay the full fee. For example, I refer them to The Loveland Foundation for therapy vouchers and let folks use those in full to cover the entire session cost. Additionally, if existing clients hit extenuating circumstances, I have them tell me a fee that they are able to pay and we go from there until their circumstances change."
Ashley Dominique - Fredericksburg, VA
"I prioritize cultural competence, asking questions instead of making assumptions, and creating spaces where the individuals I work with feel safe to be their full selves."
Price Point: "Intake Assessment: $150 and Individual Psychotherapy: $125. I use Open Path Collective to offer a sliding scale option."
Janelle Thompson - Jersey City, NJ
"As a Black woman therapist and founder of a group practice, I deeply understand the complexities of identity, lived experience, and intersectionality that Black women face when seeking mental health support. Building a culturally safe practice has always been a priority for me. Our approach is rooted in recognizing the unique challenges Black women navigate—whether it's societal pressures, confronting microaggressions, or simply finding spaces where they can fully unwind and heal.
"At Simply Redefining Wellness & Counseling, I’ve cultivated a team that is not only intentional about bringing their whole selves into their work but also deeply attuned to the needs and boundaries of our clients. We offer more than just professional expertise; we bring personal insight, [and] empathy, and create a space where our clients feel genuinely seen, heard, and understood. Our services are designed to empower Black women in their journey toward healing and strength through individual therapy, couples counseling, family therapy, and support groups."
Price Point: "Our session rates range from $120 to $200 without insurance, with reduced rates of $35 to $100 available through our graduate student interns and provisionally licensed clinicians. To ensure therapy is accessible, each fully licensed clinician takes on at least two pro bono clients annually. For clients with insurance, copays vary from $0 to $75, depending on the plan.
"We are dedicated to making mental health support both accessible and transformative, helping Black women move toward a place of healing, resilience, and empowerment. By creating safe spaces where Black women can unpack, release, and heal, we foster a community that encourages and celebrates their emotional wellness."
Justine Ashlee - Montclair, NJ
"Being a Black woman has made me more intentional about the therapeutic approaches I use. I tried to study the origins a little bit more and make sure that I'm not using a method of therapy or an approach that has an undertone of oppression because research will show you that not every form of therapy is healthy for Black women. I also make sure that the room in itself feels relaxing, like we play music [and] I have snacks.
"Normally therapists are taught to be a bit of a blank slate and keep everything neutral, but I do kind of play with that a little bit because I want the environment to have more of a communal feel, especially as a Black woman who understands that especially when it comes to therapy, you need to be handled with a special kind of care."
Price Point: "My current rate per session is $150."
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Dubbed one of the "21 Black Women Wellness Influencers You Should Follow" by Black + Well, Yasmine Jameelah continues to leave her digital footprint across platforms ranging from Forever 21 Plus, Vaseline, and R29 Unbothered discussing all things healing and body positivity. As a journalist, her writing can be found on sites such as Blavity, Blacklove.com, and xoNecole. Jameelah is also known for her work shattering unconventional stigmas surrounding wellness through her various mediums, including her company Transparent Black Girl. Find Yasmine @YasmineJameelah across all platforms.
Eva Marcille On Starring In 'Jason’s Lyric Live' & Being An Audacious Black Woman
Eva Marcille has taken her talents to the stage. The model-turned-actress is starring in her first play, Jason’s Lyric Live alongside Allen Payne, K. Michelle, Treach, and others.
The play, produced by Je’Caryous Johnson, is an adaptation of the film, which starred Allen Payne as Jason and Jada Pinkett Smith as Lyric. Allen reprised his role as Jason for the play and Eva plays Lyric.
While speaking to xoNecole, Eva shares that she’s a lot like the beloved 1994 character in many ways. “Lyric is so me. She's the odd flower. A flower nonetheless, but definitely not a peony,” she tells us.
“She's not the average flower you see presented, and so she reminds me of myself. I'm a sunflower, beautiful, but different. And what I loved about her character then, and even more so now, is that she was very sure of herself.
"Sure of what she wanted in life and okay to sacrifice her moments right now, to get what she knew she deserved later. And that is me. I'm not an instant gratification kind of a person. I am a long game. I'm not a sprinter, I'm a marathon.
America first fell in love with Eva when she graced our screens on cycle 3 of America’s Next Top Model in 2004, which she emerged as the winner. Since then, she's ventured into different avenues, from acting on various TV series like House of Payne to starring on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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Eva praises her castmates and the play’s producer, Je’Caryous for her positive experience. “You know what? Je’Caryous fuels my audacity car daily, ‘cause I consider myself an extremely audacious woman, and I believe in what I know, even if no one else knows it, because God gave it to me. So I know what I know. That is who Je’Caryous is.”
But the mom of three isn’t the only one in the family who enjoys acting. Eva reveals her daughter Marley has also caught the acting bug.
“It is the most adorable thing you can ever see. She’s got a part in her school play. She's in her chorus, and she loves it,” she says. “I don't know if she loves it, because it's like, mommy does it, so maybe I should do it, but there is something about her.”
Overall, Eva hopes that her contribution to the role and the play as a whole serves as motivation for others to reach for the stars.
“I want them to walk out with hope. I want them to re-vision their dreams. Whatever they were. Whatever they are. To re-see them and then have that thing inside of them say, ‘You know what? I'm going to do that. Whatever dream you put on the back burner, go pick it up.
"Whatever dream you've accomplished, make a new dream, but continue to reach for the stars. Continue to reach for what is beyond what people say we can do, especially as [a] Black collective but especially as Black women. When it comes to us and who we are and what we accept and what we're worth, it's not about having seen it before. It's about knowing that I deserve it.”
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
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Raven-Symoné & Her Wife Miranda Get Real About Intimacy & Why They Sleep In Separate Bedrooms
Raven-Symoné and her wife Miranda Pearman-Maday are proof that doing marriage your way is the only way.
In a recent solo episode of their podcast Tea Time w/ Raven & Miranda, the couple revealed that they've started to share separate bedrooms, and no, it's not because they're having problems. In fact, the decision has actually brought them closer. "Let's normalize it," Miranda said of sleeping in separate bedrooms, calling it a move that improved their relationship and their marriage for the better.
"We really function in better in separate spaces, especially when it comes to sleep," she explained on the podcast. "And I was like, 'We should have separate bedrooms.' And then we can decorate our bedrooms as we want, number one, which is great because you had a different vibe, so we both wanted to have different style of bedrooms. Now we get to have that. And we aren't fucking up each other's sleep schedules. Primarily, you're not fucking mine up, which is getting up at 2 a.m., 4 a.m. Raven, babes, you love to sleep in the reverse orientation."
She wasn't exaggerating either. Raven admitted that she has always had an issue with sleeping in normal orientation, dating back to her childhood. "When I was younger, I've always had a problem with staying in one orientation when I slept. My mom said that she would not like to sleep with me. And I would kick people when I sleep with them. And so I remember when we got engaged. We slept in my old house and you told me that when you woke up, my ass was in your face because I had turned my body around."
"One night, you literally flipped. I thought you were awake because it was so, it was so violent. Like you were sleeping on your side away from me. You flip yourself up and over, you like kinda sit up, and you had no clue where you were because you put your entire ass on my face. Both cheeks were suffocating me. Boom, it was impact," Miranda recalls. "And I was like, this is, this is going to be a challenge."
Suffice it to say, the incident became an issue. One that they needed to find a solution for. "So now," Raven said, "we've decided I'm sleeping in a separate room from you." The compromise? Whenever they need each other, "We text," Miranda added.
Despite where your mind might go when you hear "separate bedrooms" in someone's relationship, the pair assured that the move has helped their intimacy more than it's hindered it. "I will say it has upped my [feels] for you," Raven told Miranda. "There's a little bit of, I believe, in absence makes the heart grow fonder. We work together, we live together, we eat together, we cook together, we drive together. It's like, I'm going to have a little time to myself, and I think that it's actually helping."
Even with the perks of better sleep and better intimacy that have come with their decision to separate their marital bed, Miranda admitted that if someone had suggested to her separate bedrooms a year ago, she would've panicked.
Together since 2015 and married since 2020, Miranda revealed that the would-be solution initially had her questioning, "Does this mean divorce?" But she chalked that up to programming. "I was very much from a space where I was taking my information from heterosexual [relationships], [and feeling like] this is the best way," she said.
Raven also took the conversation deeper, pointing out how many people conflate sex with love, especially when it comes to intimacy. "I also think if you are basing your entire relationship on sex, then you're not really understanding what intimacy is. You're not understanding what deep love is because you can have a deep, loving, intimate relationship with someone and not have sex. Sex is like a cherry on top. You know what I mean? That's like a oooh, it's built up so much I got to release."
She continued, "I don't think sex defines a relationship. I think sex is lustful. And I think that a deep marriage and a deep intimate relationship is where I can literally be just looking at you, and I can be like... And you know what that means."
"And I know what that means," Miranda echoed.
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