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6 Oral Sex Positions That'll Elevate You Even When You're On Your Knees

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To this day, I cannot for the life of me spot the lie when Biggie said "if the head right" he's there err night. I mean I don't personally know his truth, but I know my own and I know that head is the ultimate fornication foreplay. And if your head game is not in fact on point, then what business do we have?

Conversely, we have nothing to talk about if my eyes roll at the thought of delivering even the lowest quality of oral sex. To clarify, there are men I have a desire to simply f*ck but I don't have an equitable desire to go down on them. At this point, if my panties don't drip at the thought of allllllll the new ways I can show you what this mouth can do – I don't want it and that's just where I'm at with it.

When you get you a man who you love to get off, providing a blow by blow won't feel like a chore but it'll feel like you've reached a duality point in your pleasure. Still, that doesn't mean you can't up the ante and gain direct pleasure in the moment – switch it up, add a toy or two that will focus on you. You'll see, of the 6 positions there are a good amount "come up and f*ck me" positions that won't just do it for him.

So the next time you're going about to give him head, add one of these to your repertoire and make it nasty for everyone.

1.Mexican Halloween Position

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Lie on your back and place your feet flat onto the floor. Your partner will sit on your stomach and lie back on your legs, their legs should extend across your face like a bridge while their feet will be planted onto the surface. You can wrap your arms around their waist and show them the time of their lives. Here you can eat everything the grocery store has to offer -- booty, balls, everything -- if you choose.

2.Southern Headrest Position

If you like to suck on the balls, this move will be your bestie -- giving you angles for days. Here's how it needs to go down: Have your partner lie on their side, for comfort they may want to rest their head on their arm. Keeping their bottom leg placed on the bed, they'll slightly bend and raise the other leg, giving you a window to pop your head into. This position provides another way to suck his d*ck from the back as an old friend often and eloquently describes (although I suppose we're past eloquent) but it also gives you the option of showing his g-spot some love.

3.Mirage Position

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For this position, lay on your back and place your feet flat on a surface of your choice. On their knees, your partner will straddle your mouth and you will be able to pull them in closer to you as you please. But, this position also provides your partner with easy access to your clitoris and if they've got the length, maybe even g-spot. Give him your favorite vibrator and be prepared to go off!

4.Jack Hammer Position

Sit on your floor and pull your feet into your butt, place your hands behind you to steady yourself, arch your back and tilt your head back. Your partner will stand behind directly over and behind you, straddling his legs for stability. Here you can begin to squat up and down once you've got a grip on your partner's penis. Lift off and be great.

5.Batman Position

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There's some general confusion with the naming of this position. I'm thinking it's more-so related to the anatomical positioning of a real-life bat and not Batman himself, as I'm certain from what I have seen in The Dark Knight Trilogy that Batman would never actually pose so awkwardly but I digress, because after reading this, who knows what Batman might do.

To fly high with this move, lie on your back and place your feet flat on the bed. Face-to-face, your partner will straddle your legs placing each knee at the perimeter of your body and hit a cat pose (you know cats, cobras, yoga?). Once the foundation is there, you will lean in and grab your partner's hips. This provides your partner with the ability to dose out more or less d*ck.

6.The Prop Engine Position

This one is simple and delivers double trouble in the best way possible. Have your partner sit on the couch with his legs spread apart. Sitting in front of him on the floor and face-to-face, you can take your vibrator (the Hitachi seems ideal here) and position it to erect between the base of the couch and your vulva, thrusting your pelvis as your thrust your mouth onto your partner.

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