
Dating in America is abysmal, among many other reasons, and it makes leaving the country seem increasingly appealing.
According to data from InterNations, around 14% of women cite "love" as the primary reason for moving abroad, compared to only 11% of men, indicating that women are significantly more likely to relocate to another country for a romantic partner; furthermore, a large proportion of women move for their partner's job or education, with 14% stating this as their main reason compared to just 2% of men.
Black women leaving the United States for love is a complex phenomenon rooted in personal, cultural, and systemic factors. Many broaden their dating pool abroad to escape the stereotypes and limited perceptions they often encounter in the U.S., finding partners who approach relationships with fewer preconceived notions about race and gender. Some discover greater emotional and cultural validation in international relationships, where their beauty, culture, and identity are more appreciated and respected.
For others, the decision to leave is influenced by a desire to escape the systemic racism and societal pressures in the U.S., seeking healthier living environments with less racial tension.
This choice also reflects a redefinition of success in relationships, allowing Black women to prioritize their happiness and challenge traditional norms. Social media and supportive Black expat communities play a significant role in inspiring and facilitating this trend, showcasing stories of Black women thriving abroad. Additionally, relocating often brings new opportunities for personal and professional growth, creating spaces to meet diverse partners who offer more balanced and supportive dynamics. For many, leaving the U.S. for love is about more than romance—it’s a declaration of agency, freedom, and self-worth.
We know of a few success stories, so keep reading to find the celebs who moved abroad for love.
1.Tina Turner
Moved to: Switzerland
Love Interest: Erwin Bach
The late legendary singer Tina Turner moved to Switzerland in the 1990s to be with German music executive Erwin Bach. The couple married in 2013 after decades together. Turner became a Swiss citizen and lived there until her passing in 2023, enjoying a peaceful life away from the public eye.
In a 1997 interview with Larry King, Turner discussed her decision to live abroad. "I have left America because my success was in another country and my boyfriend was in another country." Notably, Turner emphasized that Europe had provided more encouragement and support for her career compared to the United States.
2.Kelis
Moved to: Spain
Love Interest: Mike Mora
The R&B singer and chef Kelis relocated to a farm in Spain with her late husband, Mike Mora. The couple, who shared a passion for agriculture and sustainable living, chose to live a quieter life abroad, raising their children away from the hustle of Los Angeles.
The very private singer took to Instagram a year after her husband’s passing to share a heartfelt message. “It’s been exactly a year… that’s crazy to me. I’m a very private person generally, especially when there is family involved . But there is no denying the impact and evolution my husbands passing has had on my life . I get asked all the time how I started this journey . It’s a much longer conversation but in short what we were dealing with here pushed me so deep into understanding our bodies and how our minds and emotions are so interlocked you can not treat one with out the other .”
She closed, “Our thoughts and intentions are as powerful and key as our skin health and fitness. I want to live well and this is me sharing what I know to be true.”
3.Diana Ross
Moved to: Switzerland
Love Interest: Arne Naess Jr.
In the 1980s, Diana Ross moved to Switzerland after marrying Norwegian shipping magnate Arne Naess Jr. The couple lived together in Europe, blending their families and enjoying an international lifestyle before their eventual separation.
4.Sade
Moved to: Spain and later to the Caribbean
Love Interests: Various, including former partners in the UK and Spain
Sade, the British-Nigerian singer, has lived abroad in various locations, including Spain and the Caribbean, following her relationships. Her international lifestyle and romantic ties often influenced where she settled, choosing serene locations to enjoy a private life away from the public eye.
More than anything, the Lovers Rock singer just wanted to be. She told Fader, "I just want to be who I am in the end, that's all you are anyway. It doesn't matter what anybody says about you, you are who you are in the end. Because in the end I breathe and sleep and laugh and cry, and all the things that everybody does. And that is me."
5.Serena Williams
Moved to: France (part-time)
Love Interest: Alexis Ohanian
While Serena Williams is primarily based in the U.S., she spent significant time in France during her courtship and early marriage to Reddit co-founder Alexis Ohanian. Ohanian lived in Europe for a period, and the couple enjoyed time abroad, particularly in Paris, where they got engaged. Recently, they celebrated their seven-year anniversary.
6.Naomi Campbell
Moved to: Various locations, including France and Russia
Love Interests: Various international partners
Supermodel Naomi Campbell has had several relationships with high-profile international figures, including Russian billionaire Vladislav Doronin. Her romantic ties have seen her spending time in countries like France, Italy, and Russia, where she immersed herself in the local cultures.
7.Meghan Markle
Moved to: The United Kingdom
Love interest: Prince Harry
Meghan Markle, an American actress, relocated to the UK after her relationship with Prince Harry became serious. The two got married in 2018, making her a member of the British royal family. In a twist, they later moved to the U.S. for a fresh start away from royal duties. Meghan is probably one of the greatest examples of following your heart.
In a 2017 interview with Vanity Fair, she said, “I can tell you that at the end of the day I think it’s really simple. We’re two people who are really happy and in love. We were very quietly dating for about six months before it became news, and I was working during that whole time, and the only thing that changed was people’s perception. Nothing about me changed. I’m still the same person that I am, and I’ve never defined myself by my relationship.”
8.Christina Milian
Moved to: France
Love Interest: Matt Pokora
Christina Milian relocated to France after meeting and falling in love with French singer Matt Pokora. The couple, who started dating in 2017, decided to make France their home base. They now have two children together and have embraced life in Europe, with Milian frequently sharing her experiences and love for French culture on social media.
In 2020, she told Page Six, “It’s a completely different relationship. It’s built on a respect for our families, for each other, and on mutual support. Nothing between us is uneasy, and that’s what I think is so special. He can truly be himself and so can I.”
9.Sabrina Elba
Moved to: The United Kingdom
Love Interest: Idris Elba
Canadian model and activist Sabrina Elba moved to the UK after marrying British actor Idris Elba. The two met in 2017 and were married in Morocco in 2019. Sabrina has since settled in London with Idris, and the couple frequently collaborates on philanthropic and business ventures, including projects aimed at supporting African communities.
According to Tatler, Sabrina shared, “I found myself an opportunity to move across the world and I thought, let me just explore more of myself before I set off on this path that I decided when I was like, six years old, you know?” During the time when Sabrina met her future husband, she made a significant life decision: she put her aspirations of pursuing a legal career on hold and relocated to London. “My life changed quite a bit!” She continued, “It’s a great example of how you can kind of set out to do something, and then, well… I got derailed by a tall, dark, and handsome actor.”
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Because We Are Still IT, Girl: It Girl 100 Returns
Last year, when our xoNecole team dropped our inaugural It Girl 100 honoree list, the world felt, ahem, a bit brighter.
It was March 2024, and we still had a Black woman as the Vice President of the United States. DEI rollbacks weren’t being tossed around like confetti. And more than 300,000 Black women were still gainfully employed in the workforce.
Though that was just nineteen months ago, things were different. Perhaps the world then felt more receptive to our light as Black women.
At the time, we launched It Girl 100 to spotlight the huge motion we were making as dope, GenZennial Black women leaving our mark on culture. The girls were on the rise, flourishing, drinking their water, minding their business, leading companies, and learning to do it all softly, in rest. We wanted to celebrate that momentum—because we love that for us.
So, we handpicked one hundred It Girls who embody that palpable It Factor moving through us as young Black women, the kind of motion lighting up the world both IRL and across the internet.
It Girl 100 became xoNecole’s most successful program, with the hashtag organically reaching more than forty million impressions on Instagram in just twenty-four hours. Yes, it caught on like wildfire because we celebrated some of the most brilliant and influential GenZennial women of color setting trends and shaping culture. But more than that, it resonated because the women we celebrated felt seen.
Many were already known in their industries for keeping this generation fly and lit, but rarely received recognition or flowers. It Girl 100 became a safe space to be uplifted, and for us as Black women to bask in what felt like an era of our brilliance, beauty, and boundless influence on full display.
And then, almost overnight, it was as if the rug was pulled from under us as Black women, as the It Girls of the world.
Our much-needed, much-deserved season of ease and soft living quickly metamorphosed into a time of self-preservation and survival. Our motion and economic progression seemed strategically slowed, our light under siege.
The air feels heavier now. The headlines colder. Our Black girl magic is being picked apart and politicized for simply existing.
With that climate shift, as we prepare to launch our second annual It Girl 100 honoree list, our team has had to dig deep on the purpose and intention behind this year’s list. Knowing the spirit of It Girl 100 is about motion, sauce, strides, and progression, how do we celebrate amid uncertainty and collective grief when the juice feels like it is being squeezed out of us?
As we wrestled with that question, we were reminded that this tension isn’t new. Black women have always had to find joy in the midst of struggle, to create light even in the darkest corners. We have carried the weight of scrutiny for generations, expected to be strong, to serve, to smile through the sting. But this moment feels different. It feels deeply personal.
We are living at the intersection of liberation and backlash. We are learning to take off our capes, to say no when we are tired, to embrace softness without apology.
And somehow, the world has found new ways to punish us for it.

In lifestyle, women like Kayla Nicole and Ayesha Curry have been ridiculed for daring to choose themselves. Tracee Ellis Ross was labeled bitter for speaking her truth about love. Meghan Markle, still, cannot breathe without critique.
In politics, Kamala Harris, Letitia James, and Jasmine Crockett are dragged through the mud for standing tall in rooms not built for them.
In sports, Angel Reese, Coco Gauff, and Taylor Townsend have been reminded that even excellence will not shield you from racism or judgment.

In business, visionaries like Diarrha N’Diaye-Mbaye and Melissa Butler are fighting to keep their dreams alive in an economy that too often forgets us first.
Even our icons, Beyoncé, Serena, and SZA, have faced criticism simply for evolving beyond the boxes society tried to keep them in.
From everyday women to cultural phenoms, the pattern is the same. Our light is being tested.

And yet, somehow, through it all, we are still showing up as that girl, and that deserves to be celebrated.
Because while the world debates our worth, we keep raising our value. And that proof is all around us.
This year alone, Naomi Osaka returned from motherhood and mental health challenges to reach the semifinals of the US Open. A’ja Wilson claimed another MVP, reminding us that beauty and dominance can coexist. Brandy and Monica are snatching our edges on tour. Kahlana Barfield Brown sold out her new line in the face of a retailer that had been canceled. And Melissa Butler’s company, The Lip Bar, is projecting a forty percent surge in sales.

We are no longer defining strength by how much pain we can endure. We are defining it by the unbreakable light we continue to radiate.
We are the women walking our daily steps and also continuing to run solid businesses. We are growing in love, taking solo trips, laughing until it hurts, raising babies and ideas, drinking our green juice, and praying our peace back into existence.
We are rediscovering the joy of rest and realizing that softness is not weakness, it is strategy.
And through it all, we continue to lift one another. Emma Grede is creating seats at the table. Valeisha Butterfield has started a fund for jobless Black women. Arian Simone is leading in media with fearless conviction. We are pouring into each other in ways the world rarely sees but always feels.

So yes, we are in the midst of societal warfare. Yes, we are being tested. Yes, we are facing economic strain, political targeting, and public scrutiny. But even war cannot dim a light that is divinely ours.
And we are still shining.
And we are still softening.
And we are still creating.
And we are still It.

That is the quiet magic of Black womanhood, our ability to hold both truth and triumph in the same breath, to say yes, and to life’s contradictions.
It is no coincidence that this year, as SheaMoisture embraces the message “Yes, And,” they stand beside us as partners in celebrating this class of It Girls. Because that phrase, those two simple words, capture the very essence of this moment.
Yes, we are tired. And we are still rising.
Yes, we are questioned. And we are the answer.
Yes, we are bruised. And we are still beautiful.

This year’s It Girl 100 is more than a list. It is a love letter to every Black woman who dares to live out loud in a world that would rather she whisper. This year’s class is living proof of “Yes, And,” women who are finding ways to thrive and to heal, to build and to rest, to lead and to love, all at once.
It is proof that our joy is not naive, our success not accidental. It is the reminder that our light has never needed permission.
So without further ado, we celebrate the It Girl 100 Class of 2025–2026.
We celebrate the millions of us who keep doing it with grace, grit, and glory.
Because despite it all, we still shine.
Because we are still her.
Because we are still IT, girl.
Meet all 100 women shaping culture in the It Girl 100 Class of 2025. View the complete list of honorees here.
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The It Girl 100 Class Of 2025: Meet The Sports & Wellness Game-Changers You Need To Know
One thing about this category of It Girls? She plays the long game, and she's doing it while winning at every level.
Whether she's dominating on the court, commanding the balance beam, or moving with grit and grace across the track, her reach extends far beyond medals and accolades. For her, discipline is divine, recovery is as sacred as the hustle, and wellness is the secret weapon fueling her undeniable rise to GOAT status.
This year's It Girl 100 is a mosaic of brilliance, spotlighting athletes, cultural disruptors, beauty visionaries, and boundary-pushing journalists who embody the spirit of "Yes, And." This digital celebration honors the women who embrace every facet of themselves, proving you can chase the bag and still honor your desire to live life softly.
The women repping for the Sports & Wellness category remind us that greatness is as much about self-mastery as it is about competition. The real flex? Wholeness, on and off the court.
Here's the roll call for xoNecole's It Girl 100 Class of 2025: Sports & Wellness.

Rapper and Basketball Player Flau'Jae
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Flau'Jae
Her Handle: @flaujae
Her Title: College Basketball Player
Who's That It Girl: Flau'jae Johnson moves between the court and the booth with rare ease, rewriting the rules on what it means to be multifaceted and unapologetically herself.

Professional Basketball Player A'ja Wilson
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A'ja Wilson
Her Handle: @aja22wilson
Her Title: Professional Basketball Player
Who's That It Girl: A’ja Wilson dominates the court with grace, grit, and unmatched power. We celebrate her as a generational athlete and leader who proves that confidence and compassion are a winning combination.

Professional Tennis Player Coco Gauff
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Coco Gauff
Her Handle: @cocogauff
Her Title: Professional Tennis Player
Who's That It Girl: We honor Coco Gauff for dominating across court and culture. At just 21, she’s collected two Grand Slam titles (US Open 2023, French Open 2025), risen to World No. 2, and launched her own management company — all while using her platform for purpose.

NYT Bestselling Author and Motivational Speaker Tunde Oyeneyin
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Tunde Oyeneyin
Her Handle: @tune2tunde
Her Title: NYT Bestselling Author and Motivational Speaker
Who's That It Girl: Tunde Oyeneyin moves minds as powerfully as she moves bodies. We love her for turning motivation into a mission, inspiring millions to find their strength on and off the bike.

Professional Tennis Player and Entrepreneur
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Naomi Osaka
Her Handle: @naomiosaka
Her Title: Professional Tennis Player and Entrepreneur
Who's That It Girl: We celebrate Naomi Osaka as more than a champion, she's a trailblazer who became the first Japanese player to win a Grand Slam and the first Asian woman to hit world No. 1. Her return to the court after motherhood and advocacy for mental health remind us she plays for legacy, heart, and purpose.

Sports Journalist and Broadcaster Taylor Rooks
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Taylor Rooks
Her Handle: @taylorrooks
Her Title: Sports Journalist and Broadcaster
Who's That It Girl: Taylor Rooks is redefining sports journalism with empathy and elegance. We honor her for creating conversations that humanize athletes and elevate storytelling beyond the game.

Track and Field Athlete Anna Cockrell
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Anna Cockrell
Her Handle: @annacockrell
Her Title: Track and Field Athlete
Who's That It Girl: Anna Cockrell runs not just with speed but with purpose. We honor her for her resilience on the track and her advocacy off it, proof that strength of heart matters just as much as strength of stride.

Professional Basketball Player and Comedian Sydney Colson
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Sydney Colson
Her Handle: @sydjcolson
Her Title: Professional Basketball Player and Comedian
Who's That It Girl: Sydney Colson is the WNBA’s comedic powerhouse and heart of the team. We celebrate her for blending humor, honesty, and hustle, showing that laughter is also leadership.

Professional Basketball Player Angel Reese
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Angel Reese
Her Handle: @angelreese5
Her Title: Professional Basketball Player
Who's That It Girl: Angel Reese is unapologetically fierce and proudly feminine. We love her for redefining what leadership looks like in sports and for reminding girls everywhere that confidence is their birthright.

Professional Basketball Player and Model Kysre Gondrezick
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Kysre Gondrezick
Her Handle: @kysrerae
Her Title: Professional Basketball Player and Model
Who's That It Girl: Kysre Gondrezick is a professional basketball player and model, selected 4th overall in the 2021 WNBA Draft. She has played for the Indiana Fever and Chicago Sky

Track and Field Athlete Gabby Thomas
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Gabby Thomas
Her Handle: @gabbythomas
Her Title: Track and Field Athlete
Who's That It Girl: Gabby Thomas races with heart and intellect in perfect sync. We’re inspired by her brilliance both on the track and in public health, proving that excellence has no limits.

Olympic Gymnast Jordan Chiles
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Jordan Chiles
Her Handle: @jordanchiles
Her Title: Olympic Gymnast
Who's That It Girl: Jordan Chiles brings artistry and strength to every performance. We love her for her unwavering spirit and for representing the future of gymnastics with courage and joy.

Professional Tennis Player Taylor Townsend
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Taylor Townsend
Her Handle: @tay_taytownsend
Her Title: Professional Tennis Player
Who's That It Girl: We celebrate Taylor Townsend for her dual mastery of motherhood and Grand Slam tennis. A former Women’s Tennis Association (WTA) doubles world No. 1 who claimed Wimbledon (2024) and the Australian Open (2025), she also returned to the tour as a mom, proving perseverance, power, and purpose can coexist.
Tap into the full It Girl 100 Class of 2025 and meet all the women changing game this year and beyond. See the full list here.
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