Tamron Hall Gives Birth To First Child At 48 & Proves That Our Biological Clocks Don't Define Us
Our biological clocks can sometimes feel like ticking time bombs, waiting to explode and devastate our chances of ever giving birth to children of our own. FOMO is real when you're getting older and have no prospects for marriage and no plan of having children. Although some women are perfectly fine with never having kids, others may feel like their ovaries are their own worst enemies. No matter where you stand on the spectrum, know that this picture of 48-year-old Tamron Hall with her newborn son is the best thing you'll see all day.
Last month, the Tamron shocked everyone when she and her husband, music executive Steven Greener, announced that she was pregnant with her first child in a baby shark-inspired reveal video on Instagram that will give you all the feels. She said:
"I've wanted to share this news for many months and now finally my doctor has said I am in a safe place, at 32 weeks, to share my joy with y'all. So, it's clear a daytime talk show isn't the only thing I've been trying to produce!"
After jamming out to an amazing delivery room playlist and giving birth to a bundle of joy, Tamron's at home with a bouncing baby boy named Moses and we couldn't be happier for her. Now, if you aren't familiar with Tamron, please stand by while I give you a crash course in Black girl magic.
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The Texas-born Temple graduate started her media career as a daytime talk show host with NBC/MSNBC in 2007. After her sister's murder in 2004, Tamron became an advocate for homeless, hunger, and domestic abuse and she later made history as the first Black woman to co-anchor The Today Show. Since the beginning of her career, she's garnered a number of awards and Emmy nominations for her hard work, and recently penned a deal with the Disney corporation to host her own syndicated talk show.
Tamron is the fearless industry giant that we all aspire to be, but behind closed doors, she was fighting her own battles. The first thing that probably comes to your mind when you hear about a geriatric pregnancy is your grandmother in a Miu Miu getting an epidural, but that's not the case. Thanks to modern technology, pregnancy for women over the age of 35 looks much different than it used to for our mothers and grandmothers. Stars like Halle Berry, Gabrielle Union, Michelle Obama, and Kenya Moore are also apart of the geriatric club and have been open about their struggles with infertility and difficult pregnancies. Although Tamron hasn't spoken specifically about having trouble conceiving, she did say that her pregnancy was a difficult process. In an Instagram post:
"There have been many tears, but today I embrace the smiles. My husband Steven and I are beyond excited! We're in constant prayer, so if you pray, add us to your list; if you meditate, send calmness our way; and if you believe in luck, we'll happily take that too."
I was a bit of a surprise to my parents, who were 39 and 40 and had a blended family of six children when I was born. They weren't necessarily "trying" for a baby, and there were some complications, including a hole in my heart that required surgery at age 5. My mother's pregnancy wasn't ideal, but even though it's scary to experience a high-risk pregnancy, it's a risk worth taking.
My mom and Tamron are proof that you can never be "too old" to become a mother. Geriatric-smariatric. It's time for us as women to relinquish the amount of control our biological clocks have on our current circumstances. Snap out of that mid-to-quarter life crisis and show your uterus who's boss.
No matter how old you are, if you still have a desire to be a mother, it's definitely worth a try; whether that be via adoption, IVF, or plain old knocking the boots. You owe it to yourself not to let your age determine your future. Tamron reminds us that there is no expiration date on being a new mom, and it's never too late to chase your dreams… Even if that dream is a beautiful baby boy.
Thanks for inspiring us all, Tamron, and congrats on your new bundle of joy!
Featured image by Tamron Hall/Instagram
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ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
VIEW THE FULL ITGIRL 100 LIST HERE.
Don’t forget to also check out the ItGirl Directory, featuring 50 Black-woman-owned marketing and branding agencies, photographers and videographers, publicists, and more.
THE ITGIRL MEMO
I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
II. An ItGirl celebrates all the things that make her unique.
III. An ItGirl empowers others to become the best versions of themselves.
IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
V. An ItGirl paves the way for authenticity and diversity in all aspects of life.
VI. An ItGirl uses the power of her voice to advocate for positive change in the world.
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Another season of Love Is Blind has come to a close, and almost two months later we’re still unpacking the drama that is Clay and AD. The finale, reunion, and post-interviews with Clay and AD after season six of Love Is Blind left millions of people wondering - why couldn’t AD see the signs? Clay told her he had a fear of marriage, his parents experienced infidelity, and he seemed to have many doubts about saying, "I do."
After changing his mind at the altar and hearing AD question why she feels like she’s never enough, I was finished watching. I didn’t need to hear anything else because, at that moment, I realized this wasn’t about Clay; this was about AD feeling inadequate before she ever met Clay.
If I’m honest, I don’t watch much dating television. TikTok keeps me updated with the clips that I need to see in order to be kept in the loop, but it’s difficult for me to watch an entire season of dating TV because seeing Black women settle for less and questioning their beauty is a trigger for me. In many ways, there were points in my life where I was AD, settling and ignoring red flags because I wanted to be loved.
Now, on the other side, it doesn’t feel good to see Black women lower their standards on national television. There have been many hot takes on this couple and who was in the wrong. Did Clay play in AD’s face or did she not listen to the truth of what he told her from day one? Was his reason for joining the show to promote his business and not to find the one?
We’ll never know the truth, but what we can do is learn tactics to better our self-worth. Founder and CEO of The Self Love Organization Denise Francis shared her expertise with xoNecole on what tangible steps to take to improve feelings of worthiness. “Self-love blooms in a garden where self-worth is planted, nourished, and whole. However, when your self-worth is challenged, displaced, or broken, it could be difficult to rebuild," Denise explains.
How To Rebuild Self-Worth
During her self-love coaching sessions, Denise likes to walk her clients through the cornerstones of rebuilding self-worth: grace and self-compassion. To her, self-worth is never lost, it's only displaced, so practicing self-compassion and giving yourself grace is a must. "We tend to place our self-worth in entities and people of ourselves such as relationship status, physical appearance, material possessions, social media followings, what others think of us, and more. Self-worth is not something to be measured by anyone or anything outside of ourselves because we all innately hold value and worth.
"Self-worth is not something to be measured by anyone or anything outside of ourselves because we all innately hold value and worth."
"When we place our value into people or things, we tend to feel that we are not enough, worth it, special, or important when relationship status, job titles, friendships, and physical appearances are lost or changed. We then tend to feel lost within ourselves because we’ve placed our value outside of ourselves. Using grace and compassion, you can rebuild your self-worth by returning home to who you are at your core," she concludes.
How To Return Home To Yourself
Denise advises taking a step back and using self-reflection through journaling by answering the following journaling prompts:
First, ask yourself, "What do you tend to attach your self-worth to and why?"
Is it your relationships, your job title, your finances, your appearance, etc.? Why do you think you place so much emphasis on external status? How does it make you feel when you are defining yourself through these entities and/or people outside of yourself?
Then, ask yourself, "Without these things, who am I?"
Once you have your answers, show yourself kindness, remove the shame, and, as Denise says, "Redefine yourself by detaching your value from the things and people you have no control over and no longer serve you. Challenge yourself to define yourself outside of titles and societal values."
"By returning home to your core, you find value in who you are as a person. You begin to find value in the way you love instead of your relationship status, your compassion instead of your popularity, your drive instead of your income/job title, and your heart instead of your physical appearance," she adds.
"By returning home to your core, you find value in who you are as a person."
"Be intentional with healing your self-worth by leaning into the people and things that nourish your core values. Surround yourself with the people who love and cherish you, they will always remind you just how valuable you truly are."
It all goes back to self-compassion and grace. As Denise explains, leading with those two things as you heal and rebuild your self-worth allows you to reduce negative self-talk that might come up for you. "This weakens thoughts like, 'I am not enough... why am I never enough?'" she shares, "And 'I don't deserve this while strengthening thoughts like 'I deserve better,' 'I am enough,' and 'I am worth it.'"
Denise continues, "Once you return home and remember the irreplaceable person you are, you can rebuild your self-worth by placing it back where it belongs. It belongs to you."
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