8 Healing Crystals You Need To Feel More At Peace
At this point, we've all lost count on how many days we are in quarantine. As the days seem longer and longer, you quickly run out of things to do. You notice that you are under extreme stress and anxiety being trapped within your home with no deadline. You've cleaned your clutter, washed your car, made and tried new dishes, helped your children with every sheet of homework, and binge-watched over 400 hours of Netflix, and you realize that that isn't enough to remove this anxiousness. Half of the population is at work, and the other half are at home quarantining. At times, we subconsciously allow our minds to get flooded with information on social media that isn't useful to us.
I've personally had my bouts with insomnia, anxiety, and panic attacks, which in turn has led me to get prescribed anxiety and panic attack medication after two years of not needing any medication. After researching different ways to combat being on edge, I discovered that adding crystals to your daily routine can improve mental clarity, attract love, increase motivation, and calm you down. Check out those healing crystals below.
Aventurine
Green aventurin and heliotrope gemstones
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This crystal is considered the lucky charm when it comes to abundance and success. If you are striving to take on a leadership role or anticipate a promotion, this crystal will provide the focus and clarity you would need. Its purpose is to release old patterns, habits, and disappointments for something new to take its place. Green aventurine will help you attract money and manifest abundance, so get to that bag sis. This crystal provides emotional safety and security.
Lepidolite
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If you are having trouble with harmony and balance, then lepidolite is the crystal for you. Largely considered a stablizing crystal, the lepidolite's job is to help guide your thoughts before actions by enhancing your awareness. If you suffer from anxiety like myself, having this crystal around can alleviate that anxiety by achieving balance in the mind, body and spirit. The crystal's calm vibes are the perfect remedy for whatever day-to-day stress you might encounter.
Sodalite
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Known for its etheral energy, sodalite crystal allows you to open the window of communication and inspiration by tapping into your sense of self-expression. Sodalite acts as a vessel for enlightenment as it aids you with releasing any negative emotions or fears that are not serving you and replace it with restorative feelings of balance and harmony.
Black Tourmaline
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If you've had enough and want to rebuke that negativity in the name of Jesus, then it is strongly suggested that you get a Black Tourmaline. Its purpose is to absorb that negative energy, purify it, and transform that lower vibration to a more pleasant one. Think of this crystal like your liver. It is constantly filtering out the bad and replacing it with the good. This crystal sharpens your memory and makes you laser-focused. Whenever you're feeling unsure, sad, or dealing with bouts of depression, this crystal helps you manage those emotions.
Blue Lace Agate
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The Blue Lace Agate crystal is a healing crystal commonly affiliated with stress relief. It's an effective channel for opening up the heart chakra and helping one return to joy. Blue Lace Agate crystal helps to wash away negative emotions like fear and anxiety. This crystal relieves stress and brings to its user a sense of clarity and tranquility in its place.
Carnelian
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The Carnelian crystal awakens your self-confidence by giving you a boost of courage. As a healing crystal, it is said to act as a remedy for stressful situations by improving blood circulation. Carnelian crystals can also be used with Rose Quartz to help you connect more with your romantic side. Alone, carnelian can help balance your sexual energy.
Apophyllite
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If you need a "this too shall pass" crystal, then apophyllite is your girl. When the light hits this beautiful crystal in the sunlight, it welcomes all positive energy. It invites high vibrations that in turn remedies your negative feelings of stress, worry, fear and anxiety. This crystal reminds me of a waterfall; it will continuously recycle the light and positive energy throughout your mind, body and spirit.
Rose Quartz
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Rose Quartz is the most popular crystal of the list as everyone seems to be familiar with this crystal. As the healing crystal of universal love, Rose Quartz is known for its restorative properties in the realm of love and relationships. It opens the heart to receive love, self-love, peace and inner healing.
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Writer, Empath, Listener, Self Improver, and a motivational speaker to her homegirls Teisha LeShea currently resides in California who loves to add fifteen million items to her Amazon cart. She is passionate about wellness, spiritual improvement, leveling up, and setting up twice a month therapy appointments. She writes with you in mind. Her listicle and personal stories will inspire you to dig deep within yourself to be a better you. You can follow her on Instagram @teisha.leshea and & @tl_teisha.leshea
ItGirl 100 Honors Black Women Who Create Culture & Put On For Their Cities
As they say, create the change you want to see in this world, besties. That’s why xoNecole linked up with Hyundai for the inaugural ItGirl 100 List, a celebration of 100 Genzennial women who aren’t afraid to pull up their own seats to the table. Across regions and industries, these women embody the essence of discovering self-value through purpose, honey! They're fierce, they’re ultra-creative, and we know they make their cities proud.
VIEW THE FULL ITGIRL 100 LIST HERE.
Don’t forget to also check out the ItGirl Directory, featuring 50 Black-woman-owned marketing and branding agencies, photographers and videographers, publicists, and more.
THE ITGIRL MEMO
I. An ItGirl puts on for her city and masters her self-worth through purpose.
II. An ItGirl celebrates all the things that make her unique.
III. An ItGirl empowers others to become the best versions of themselves.
IV. An ItGirl leads by example, inspiring others through her actions and integrity.
V. An ItGirl paves the way for authenticity and diversity in all aspects of life.
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You've Never Seen Luke James In A Role Quite Like This
Over the years, we've watched Luke James play countless characters we'd deem sex symbols, movie stars, and even his complicated character in Lena Waithe's The Chi. For the first time in his career, the New Orleans-born actor has taken on a role where his signature good looks take a backseat as he transforms into Edmund in Them: The Scare—a mentally deranged character in the second installment of the horror anthology series that you won't be able to take your eyes off.
Trust us, Edmund will literally make you do a double take.
xoNecole sat down with Luke James to talk about his latest series and all the complexity surrounding it—from the challenges taking on this out-of-the-box role to the show's depiction of the perplexing history of the relationship between Black Americans and police. When describing the opportunity to bring Edmund's character to life, Luke was overjoyed to show the audience yet another level of his masterful acting talents.
"It was like bathing in the sun," he said. "I was like, thank you! Another opportunity for me to be great—for me to expand my territory. I'm just elated to be a part of it and to see myself in a different light, something I didn't think I could do." He continued, "There are parts of you that says, 'Go for it because this is what you do.' But then also that's why it's a challenge because you're like, 'um, I don't know if I'm as free as I need to be to be able to do this.' Little Marvin just created such a safe space for me to be able to do this, and I'm grateful for everything I've been able to do to lead to this."
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Them: The Scare, like the first season, shines a light on the plight of Black Americans in the United States. This time, the story is taking place in the 1990s, at the height of the Rodney King riots in Los Angeles. While the series presents many underlying themes, one that stands out is Black people and the complicated relationship with the police. "For the audience, I think it sets the tone for the era that we're in and the amount of chaos that's in the air in Los Angeles and around the country from this heinous incident. And I say it just sets the tone of the anxiety and anxiousness that everybody is feeling in their own households."
James has been a longtime advocate against police brutality himself. He has even featured Elijah McClain, the 23-year-old Colorado man who died after being forcibly detained by officers, as his Instagram avatar for the past five years. So, as you can imagine, this script was close to his heart. "Elijah was a soft-loving oddball. Different than anyone but loving and a musical genius. He was just open and wanted to be loved and seen."
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Luke continued, "His life was taken from him. I resonate with his spirit and his words...through all the struggle and the pain he still found it in him to say, 'I love you and I forgive you.' And that's who we are as people—to our own detriment sometimes. He's someone I don't want people to forget. I have yet to remove his face from my world because I have yet to let go of his voice, let go of that being [because] there's so many people we have lost in our history that so often get forgotten."
He concluded, "I think that's the importance of such artwork that moves us to think and talk about it. Yes, it's entertaining. We get to come together and be spooked together. But then we come together and we think, 'Damn, Edmund needed someone to talk to. Edmund needed help... a lot [of] things could have been different. Edmund could have been saved.'
Check out the full interview below.
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