13 Black-Owned Sex Boutiques That Will Turn The Heat Up In Your Bedroom
It's getting hot outside and it's the perfect time to take off all of your clothes with your boo of choice and get kinky as f*ck. Whether you're into BDSM or are just in the market for a new dildo, these Black-owned businesses have everything you need to turn up the heat in your bedroom and add some spice to your sex life.
From a new pair of rose quartz handcuffs from Plz Be Careful to the smartphone-controlled vibrator you didn't know you needed, here are 12 Black-owned sex shops and boutiques that you can shop right now:
1.Bedroom Kandi
Founded by Kandi Burruss, Bedroom Kandi is one of many brainchilds the multi-entrepreneur has spawned. Since its 2011 launch, the line of body-safe intimacy toys offers something for everyone, from her signature Kandi Kisses to her Helping Hand.
2.Plz Be Careful
We heard you like to dress up, but what about putting a little kink into it? For those of you who won't to expand your lingerie horizons, Plz Be Careful is the gender fluid clothing line of your perverted dreams. Founded by @moongoddexx69, the eco-centric brand creates custom "slutgear and armor."
3.Organic Loven
Organic Loven is a sexual wellness haven founded by erotic educator Taylor Parks. The curator of intimate products believes that in order to tap into true pleasure from your sex toy explorations, you must do so with high quality, eco-friendly, and body-safe sex toys. In addition to an array of products in their online shop, Organic Loven is also the name of the only adult subscription box to do the same.
4.Lumberjill Leisurecrafts
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Don't knock it till you try it. Richard "Dick" Carver has revamped what a personal massager looks like with his signature wooden dildos. The shop owner hand crafts wooden dildos, paddles, plugs, as well as customizable orders. Long, thick, and powerful are understatements for the functional artwork this shop provides.
5.b condoms
When for the culture becomes for the protection, that's where this black-owned condom company comes into play. B condoms are an organic, vegan, and odorless brand of condoms that touches on some of the pain points of other condoms out there on the market; including but not limited to the fact that they have the biggest condom in the USA with their 60mm Platinum XL condom.
6.Anya Lust
Anya Lust
For this shop, it's the lust for us. Anya Lust is known for selling high-quality luxury lingerie. But the brand takes it a step further by providing a small selection of sexual wellness and pleasure tools. This includes the crystal wand (pictured above), yoni eggs, a vibrating massager, and much more.
7.LyLyth Erotica
If you're looking to truly add some spice to the bedroom, look no further than LyLyth Erotica. The black-owned sex boutique is all about giving its consumers the tools needed to fulfill their deepest desires and explore their sexual boundaries. With handcrafted sex toys and a cream-colored cuffs and leather restraints, prepare to indulge a kink or two with LyLyth as your guide.
8.New York Toy Collective
New York Toy Collective was founded in 2012 by co-founders Chelsea and Parker. Their supply of high-quality intimacy products and toys not only emphasize pleasure, but also all forms of gender affirmation and expression. Due to the tech-savvy nature of the co-founders, NYTC also touts being the first and only sex toy company that harnesses 3D technology to allow for the customization of sex toys for consumers who wish to have sex toys that look like their own bodies.
9.Ardentley
Though Ardentley is a sexual wellness company and resource first, it is also a distributor of body-safe sex toys. As a believer in all things passion, its founder Tatiyanna instills confidence in others to find pleasure in themselves and for themselves through blogs and writing. Her carefully curated selection of cock rings, strokers, vibrators and suckers help too. We're just saying.
10.Hoelistic Shop
Hoelistic Shop
They honestly had me at "hoelistic." Founded by Sadea Bryant, the Hoelistic Shop wants to serve your inner hoe holistically by way of organic and body-safe products for every body, but especially black women.
11.Kolby Brianne Leather
Based in Connecticut, Kolby Brianne makes custom-sized handcrafted leather pieces through Kolby Brianne Leather. Made to order, Kolby creates her pieces with ritual and intention and does so for all body shapes and sizes. The end result are personalized items that can be worn for work and play.
12.Seduction By Lace
Seduction By Lace
A one-stop shop for your seduction needs, Seduction By Lace aims to give everyone the keys to the sexual pleasure kingdom. The owner Lace offers a collection of lingerie, toys like nipple suckers for self-pleasure in her Pleasure Collection, and a bevy of toys that speaks to your inner freak in the intentionally curated Bondage Collection.
13.Feelmore Adult
Unlike a lot of the black-owned sex brands on this list, Feelmore has an online store but also has the distinction of having a physical store as well. The Oakland based sex store founded by Nenna Joiner has an extensive inventory for any sex flavor you might have a taste for. From fisting oil and lubricant and anal training kits to restraints and dual stimulating vibrators, Feelmore is truly where it's at. Plus, their sex toy Uber Eats delivery option is icing on the proverbial cake.
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How This New Bond Repair Line Transformed One Mother's Postpartum Shedding Into The Ultimate Curl Comeback
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Over a year into her postpartum journey, Crystal explained she also had dry, brittle hair, noting that keeping it hydrated before pregnancy had already been “a task.” The 4C natural recalled going from thick hair during pregnancy to a thin hairline due to postpartum shedding as “devastating.” When it came to strengthening and revitalizing her hair, the new SheaMoisture Bond Repair Collection was just the thing she needed to elevate her damaged coils to revive and thrive status and get them poppin' again.
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Shaunie Henderson On Being A Nontraditional Pastor Wife
Shaunie Henderson, the creator and executive producer of Basketball Wives, redefines traditional expectations as a pastor's spouse and first lady of The Lighthouse Church.
The star's journey began with a whirlwind romance with Pastor Keion Henderson in 2020, which led to their marriage years later. Since then, Shaunie has embraced many typical first lady roles, including supporting her husband, engaging in ministry responsibilities, providing spiritual leadership, and conducting community outreach.
Yet, the 49-year-old's background sets her apart from other first ladies. Shaunie brings a unique perspective as a public figure, which stems from her previous marriage to NBA star Shaquille O'Neal and her experience in reality television.
In an interview with xoNecole, while promoting her memoir Undefeated, the Basketball Wives creator discussed what being a first lady means to her and how she has lived her life non-traditionally.
When asked if she had always been nontraditional, Shaunie revealed that throughout her life, she has made it her mission to better herself by learning from experiences and breaking harmful cycles.
Shaunie Henderson and Pastor Keion Henderson
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“I think that's just who I am. I can’t say I intentionally go against the grain. In the book, I talk about things from my childhood, like my dad being late all the time. I was totally opposite with my kids when they were in school. I was always there early. My mother is not affectionate, and she doesn't verbally say, ‘I love you,’ but she does things to let you know. That's the way she shows her love,” she said when describing her relationship with her parents.
“But because I missed that 'I love you' and hugging and kissing, I do that with my kids. I try to always give what I needed myself. There were basketball wives who weren’t very nice to me, so I went out of my way to make sure that once I was a wife that I didn't treat anybody else like that. No one was going to feel like that on my watch.”
Toward the end of the conversation, when discussing her first lady responsibilities and the pressures of upholding that image, the mother of five explained she isn't too hard on herself to fit the mold, given her significantly different background from most first ladies and her relatively new role.
“As far as being first lady, now, I'm not knocking how any first ladies decide to operate but I just knew that the idea of what that usually is was not me. And, to be honest, rightfully so. I'm probably the only first lady that created a reality show that has been on television since 2010. My life is not remotely close to that of most first ladies. We've experienced completely different things. Most of them have been pastor’s wives for a long time, this is all new for me. I come with an entirely different journey; that wouldn’t lend itself to being a traditional first lady,” she stated.
Shaunie's nontraditional approach appears to work in her favor, as she has been welcomed with open arms just as she is.
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