

6 Dope Destinations That Don't Require A Passport
Springtime means losing an hour but gaining more sunlight to see new places. Many of us don't get an official Spring Break, but that doesn't mean we can't take one.
As a full-time freelancer, I know it can be challenging to take time off because when you're not working, you aren't making money. For all the full-timers with benefits, you might have deadlines or responsibilities that make planning a trip less of a priority, but I have a solution: Booking a vacation within our fifty states and territories.
That means less jetlag and depending on where you're going, less travel time. When I was making this list, I wanted to think about places and experiences that might offer something new even for those of us that have spent a lot of time traveling or something familiar for those of us that have cities we love.
Here are five destinations (and a cruise) to think about that don't require a passport:
1.Marfa, Texas
Want to plan a good roundtrip? Visit Marfa. A town with a population of 1,772, to be exact, with the nearest airport almost three hours away in El Paso. Now this town does sound like the start of a scary movie, but the unique city has become a getaway spot for art lovers and creatives — our favorite siblings, the Knowles sister, have spent time in the off the grid town. With a population so small, you might be wondering what visitors actually do there?
Well first things first, you'll want to find a place to stay. If you aren't one to sleep outdoors surrounded my mother nature, the Hotel Saint George's 55-room hotel is a nice choice, especially if you enjoy a luxe hotel experience. But if you are up for becoming one with the great outdoors, booking a yurt at El Cosmico will be an experience to write home about, and the grounds are perfect for getting pictures to add to your Insta grid. Though the town is small, Marfa seems to have a bustling food scene. With cheap eats like Marfa Burrito, Food Shark, and Buns N' Roses and more upscale options like Stellina and Al Campo, there is something for everyone.
As far as sightseeing goes, you can take a guided tour of the Chinati, and it wouldn't be a trip if you didn't get a photo in front of the Prada Marfa installation.
2.U.S. Virgin Islands
Hurricane Irma rocked the U.S. Virgin Islands in 2017, but that hasn't dampened their spirit. Tourism is ramping up as the islands have started to welcome tourists again. With three islands to choose from (St. Croix, St. John and St. Thomas), planning the ideal getaway shouldn't be too difficult. The islands offer a chance for visitors to take in their National Wildlife Refuge at Sandy Point, climb The Baths at Virgin Gorda (one of their most visited attractions) which leads to a sandy white beach, snorkel the RMS Rhone, and enjoy the local cuisine in St. Thomas. There is no shortage of properties ready to make your stay one to remember. If you like to support small hotels, the Tingalayo is a six-bedroom private estate offering amenities like an infinity pool and one-of-a-kind views.
3.Wimberley, Texas
Okay, hear me out. Wimberly, Texas is probably not on any black girl's list of places to visit, but the Collective Hill Country sounds like the ideal getaway for someone looking to leave the big city, reset, and try something new. The glamping site is surrounded by 225 acres of ranch and organic farmland, while their accommodations mimic that of an upscale hotel with 1,500 thread-count linens, rain-style showers, and complimentary daily breakfast. If that's not enough to get you to give camping a try, they offer horseback riding, culinary classes, and wine tours.
4.Puerto Rico
It's been nearly two years since Hurricane Maria devastated the island of Puerto Rico, but that isn't stopping them from welcoming visitors with open arms through tourism and volunteerism. Nonprofits like Para La Naturaleza offer tourists the option to experience the island and give back. If you're looking for an opportunity to get a little sunshine and contribute to Puerto Rico's local economy, go ahead and book that flight. The island offers everything from museums in San Juan, scuba diving in Isla de Mona, to rum tours of the Bacardí distillery. Even with the damage of the Hurricane, Puerto Rico has a wealth of hotel options from boutique properties like Hotel El Convento to staples like Dorado Beach, a Ritz-Carlton Reserve.
5.The Grand Canyon
Visiting the Grand Canyon has been on my list. I have researched visiting the Canyon, and it seems like the best way to visit is to fly into Phoenix (a four-hour drive) or Las Vegas (about four hours and thirty minutes), and take a road trip from there. The great things about the Canyon being close to these cities are that you can plan a trip within a trip. If you're in need for a little R&R, book a spa day at The Phoenician Spa in Scottsdale. If enjoying the nightlife of Vegas is more your speed, book a hotel at The Aria and buy tickets (or a ticket if you're riding solo) to see Janet Jackson take the stage during her 15-date residency.
6.Take An Ocean To Ocean Cruise
Don't want to do any planning? Book a cruise. Okay, yes there is a little planning involved, like deciding your port city, where to cruise, and how long you'd like your vacation — but the cruise line does the rest. If you want to visit warm-hot spots beyond the traditional cruise routes, Princess Cruises offers an "Ocean to Ocean" cruise that departs from Los Angeles and sails to Colombia, Costa Rica, Mexico, and Nicaragua while finishing up in Fort Lauderdale. This cruise isn't for quick trips as it a fifteen-day voyage, but if you're looking for something shorter, the Regal Princess will take you on a seven day trip to the Bahamas, Jamaica, the Cayman Islands, and Mexico.
I hope this got you all thinking about your next trip!
I hope this got you all thinking about your next trip!
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Bianca Lambert is a proud Atlanta native soaking up the Los Angeles sun. She is the founder of Mae B: a stationery company for women of color and a digital content creator on a mission to elevate the voices of women of color everywhere.
Exclusive: Gabrielle Union On Radical Transparency, Being Diagnosed With Perimenopause And Embracing What’s Next
Whenever Gabrielle Union graces the movie screen, she immediately commands attention. From her unforgettable scenes in films like Bring It On and Two Can Play That Game to her most recent film, in which she stars and produces Netflix’s The Perfect Find, there’s no denying that she is that girl.
Off-screen, she uses that power for good by sharing her trials and tribulations with other women in hopes of helping those who may be going through the same things or preventing them from experiencing them altogether. Recently, the Flawless by Gabrielle Union founder partnered with Clearblue to speak at the launch of their Menopause Stage Indicator, where she also shared her experience with being perimenopausal.
In a xoNecoleexclusive, the iconic actress opens up about embracing this season of her life, new projects, and overall being a “bad motherfucker.” Gabrielle reveals that she was 37 years old when she was diagnosed with perimenopause and is still going through it at 51 years old. Mayo Clinic says perimenopause “refers to the time during which your body makes the natural transition to menopause, marking the end of the reproductive years.”
“I haven't crossed over the next phase just yet, but I think part of it is when you hear any form of menopause, you automatically think of your mother or grandmother. It feels like an old-person thing, but for me, I was 37 and like not understanding what that really meant for me. And I don't think we focus so much on the word menopause without understanding that perimenopause is just the time before menopause,” she tells us.
Gabrielle Union
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"But you can experience a lot of the same things during that period that people talk about, that they experienced during menopause. So you could get a hot flash, you could get the weight gain, the hair loss, depression, anxiety, like all of it, mental health challenges, all of that can come, you know, at any stage of the menopausal journey and like for me, I've been in perimenopause like 13, 14 years. When you know, most doctors are like, ‘Oh, but it's usually about ten years, and I'm like, ‘Uhh, I’m still going (laughs).’”
Conversations about perimenopause, fibroids, and all the things that are associated with women’s bodies have often been considered taboo and thus not discussed publicly. However, times are changing, and thanks to the Gabrielle’s and the Tia Mowry’s, more women are having an authentic discourse about women’s health. These open discussions lead to the creation of more safe spaces and support for one another.
“I want to be in community with folks. I don't ever want to feel like I'm on an island about anything. So, if I can help create community where we are lacking, I want to be a part of that,” she says. “So, it's like there's no harm in talking about it. You know what I mean? Like, I was a bad motherfucker before perimenopause. I’m a bad motherfucker now, and I'll be a bad motherfucker after menopause. Know what I’m saying? None of that has to change. How I’m a bad motherfucker, I welcome that part of the change. I'm just getting better and stronger and more intelligent, more wise, more patient, more compassionate, more empathetic. All of that is very, very welcomed, and none of it should be scary.”
The Being Mary Jane star hasn’t been shy about her stance on therapy. If you don’t know, here’s a hint: she’s all for it, and she encourages others to try it as well. She likens therapy to dating by suggesting that you keep looking for the right therapist to match your needs. Two other essential keys to her growth are radical transparency and radical acceptance (though she admits she is still working on the latter).
"I was a bad motherfucker before perimenopause. I’m a bad motherfucker now, and I'll be a bad motherfucker after menopause. Know what I’m saying? None of that has to change. How I’m a bad motherfucker, I welcome that part of the change."
Gabrielle Union and Kaavia Union-Wade
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“I hope that a.) you recognize that you're not alone. Seek out help and know that it's okay to be honest about what the hell is happening in your life. That's the only way that you know you can get help, and that's also the only other way that people know that you are in need if there's something going on,” she says, “because we have all these big, very wild, high expectations of people, but if they don't know what they're actually dealing with, they're always going to be failing, and you will always be disappointed. So how about just tell the truth, be transparent, and let people know where you are. So they can be of service, they can be compassionate.”
Gabrielle’s transparency is what makes her so relatable, and has so many people root for her. Whether through her TV and film projects, her memoirs, or her social media, the actress has a knack for making you feel like she’s your homegirl. Scrolling through her Instagram, you see the special moments with her family, exciting new business ventures, and jaw-dropping fashion moments. Throughout her life and career, we’ve seen her evolve in a multitude of ways. From producing films to starting a haircare line to marriage and motherhood, her journey is a story of courage and triumph. And right now, in this season, she’s asking, “What’s next?”
“This is a season of discovery and change. In a billion ways,” says the NAACP Image Award winner. “The notion of like, ‘Oh, so and so changed. They got brand new.’ I want you to be brand new. I want me to be brand new. I want us to be always constantly growing, evolving. Having more clarity, moving with different purpose, like, and all of that is for me very, very welcomed."
"I want you to be brand new. I want me to be brand new. I want us to be always constantly growing, evolving. Having more clarity, moving with different purpose, like, and all of that is for me very, very welcomed."
She continues, “So I'm just trying to figure out what's next. You know what I mean? I'm jumping into what's next. I'm excited going into what's next and new. I'm just sort of embracing all of what life has to offer.”
Look out for Gabrielle in the upcoming indie film Riff Raff, which is a crime comedy starring her and Jennifer Coolidge, and she will also produce The Idea of You, which stars Anne Hathaway.
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Victoria Monét Opens Up About Feeling ‘Validated’ Months After VMAs Turned Her Down To Perform
Victoria Monét has had an incredible year. Thanks to the success of the widely popular “On My Mama” that went viral, the singer/ songwriter’s Jaguar II album debuted in the top 10 of Billboard’s Top R&B Albums chart. She also went on to headline her own sold-out tour. So, when the MTV VMAs happened in September, everyone was surprised to learn that Victoria’s team was told that it was “too early” for the “Smoke” artist to perform at the award show. However, a couple of months later, the mom of one received seven Grammy nominations, including “Best R&B Album” and “Record Of The Year.”
Victoria is currently in London and stopped by The Dotty Show on Apple Music and shared how she feels “validated” after being dismissed by the VMAs.
“It really does feel nice and validating because, in my head, the reason why I wanted to be a performer at the VMAs or award ceremonies like that is because I felt like I am at the place where I should. I would work really hard to put on the best show that I could, and I was excited to do so,” she said.
“And I guess the best way to describe it for me is like when you're like on a sports team, and the coach is like, ‘No, you gotta sit this one out.’ When they finally put you in, and then you score all these points, and it feels like that feeling. You're like, yes, I knew it wasn't tripping, but I knew I worked hard for this, and so it's been super validating to just have these accolades come after a moment like that, and I know the fans feel vindicated for me.
While her fans called the VMAs out on their decision, the “Moment” singer kept it cute and is still open to performing at the iconic award show. “I feel no ill towards them because it's just maybe that's just truly how they felt at the time, but I hope their mind has changed,” she admitted.
Aside from recognition from the Grammys, she has also received praise from legendary artists such as Janet Jackson, Kelly Rowland, and Usher.
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