Poetry has always been an art form that transcends boundaries, enhances understanding, and expands the ability to wonder. It's a magnificent medium only mastered by those who know the nuances of language, expression, and flow. And today, poets have continued to carry the torch passed to them by our favs like Maya Angelou, Audre Lorde, Ntozake Shange, Sonia Sanchez, and Rita Dove.
As we near the close of April, commemorated as National Poetry Month, let's check out a few Black women who are taking poetry to the next level, continuing to serve empowerment, imagination, and revelation:
Lisa Allen-Agostini
Hailing from Trinidad and Tobago, she's written poetry that gets behind the veil of grief, love, adventure and loss with Swallowing the Sky. She's also the author of fiction works The Bread The Devil Knead and Home, Home and the editor of Trinidad Noir, a short-story collection of mystery, sex, and crime—each making their way onto favorite lists for book lovers.
Jasmine Mans
Mans is an acclaimed performance poet and author whose debut collection of poetry, Chalk Outlines of Snow Angels, put her on the map in 2012. Her latest book, Black Girl, Call Home,is a New York Times best-seller that explores themes of Black girlhood, rape culture, homophobia, and teen love.
Amanda Gorman
She made all of us proud when she became the first-ever National Youth Poet Laureate in 2017 and when she performed her work, "The Hill We Climb," at President Joe Biden's inauguration. The Harvard grad is also the author of Change Sings: A Children’s Anthem, and a collection of poetry, Call Us What We Carry. Her work focuses on themes of discrimination, feminism, Black identity, and climate change.
Jamila Woods
Woods is a poet, singer, and songwriter who wrote The Truth About Dolls, a collection of poetry that was inspired by a quote from Toni Morrison's Sula. More of her work appears in collections including The Breakbeat Poets: New American Poetry in the Age of Hip-Hop, Courage: Daring Poems for Gutsy Girls, and The UnCommon Core: Contemporary Poems for Learning & Living.
Aja Monet
Monet held her own as the youngest winner of Nuyorican Poets Café’s Grand Slam, and later published two collections,The Black Unicorn Sings and Inner-City Cyborgs and Ciphers. The poet and activist, whose work often focuses on fighting against oppression, violence against women, and discrimination, has also co-edited the spoken-word collectionChorus: A Literary Mixtape with award-winning poet Saul Williams.
Tanya Shirley
She Who Sleeps With Bones, her debut collection of poetry, was a Jamaican bestseller, and many of her works touch on raw snapshots of life and love with a Caribbean twist. Her work has been published in journals including Small Axe, The Caribbean Writer, New Caribbean Poetry: An Anthology (ed. Kei Miller) and So Much Things to Say: 100 Calabash Poets.
Camonghne Felix
This poet is an accomplished journalist and communications strategist who became the first Black woman (and youngest) speechwriter for former New York Gov. Andrew Cuomo in 2015. Build Yourself A Boat, her debut poetry collection, was longlisted for the 2019 National Book Award and explores the political and social issues for Black women, related to poverty, freedom, inequality, and socioeconomic class.
Dawn Lundy Martin
Martin is the author of four poetry books including, Good Stock Strange Blood, winner of the 2019 Kingsley Tufts Award for Poetry, and Life in a Box is a Pretty Life, which won the Lambda Literary Award for Lesbian Poetry. She’s also the director of the Center for African American Poetry and Poetics at the University of Pittsburgh and the Toi Derricotte endowed chair of African American poetry. Her groundbreaking work centers on redefining the constructs of identity, race, and gender.
This month, be sure to add these women's works to your literary collections and enjoy the adventure and power of poetry that overcomes traditional constraints and gives voice to the depictions of all of our lives.
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Exclusive: Dreka Gates Talks Farm Life, Self-Mastery, And Her Wellness Brand
Dreka Gates is making a name in wellness through authenticity and innovativeness. Although we were introduced to her as a music manager for her husband, Kevin Gates, she has now carved out her own lane outside of music as a wellness entrepreneur. But according to Dreka, this is nothing new.
In an xoNecole exclusive, the mom of two opened up about many things, including starting her wellness journey at 13 years old. However, a near-death experience during a procedure at 20 made her start taking her health more seriously.
“There's so many different levels, and now, I'm in a space of just integrating all of this good stuff that I've learned just about just being human, you know?” Dreka tells us. “So it's also fun because it's like a journey of self-discovery and self-mastery. That's what I call it. So it's never-ending.”
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If you follow Dreka, then you’re familiar with her holistic lifestyle, as she’s no stranger to promoting wellness, self-care, and holistic living. She even lives part-time on a Mississippi farm, not far from her grandmother and great-grandmother’s farm, where she spent some summers as a child.
While her grandmother and great-grandmother have passed on, Dreka reflects on that time in her life and how having a farm as an adult is her getting back to her roots. “So the farm was purchased back in 2017, and it was like, ah, that'll just be a place where we go when we're not touring or whatever,” she said.
“But COVID hit, and I was there, and I was on the land, and I just started remembering back to going to my grandmother's during the summertime and freaking picking peas and going and eating mulberries off the freaking tree in the bushes.
“And she literally had cotton plants. I know some people feel weird about picking cotton and stuff. She had cotton plants and I would go and pick cotton out of her garden. And she had chickens, and I literally just broke down in tears one day when I was on the farm just doing all the things, and I'm like, ‘Oh my gosh. I'm literally getting back to my roots.”
"I literally just broke down in tears one day when I was on the farm just doing all the things, and I'm like, ‘Oh my gosh. I'm literally getting back to my roots."
You can catch glimpses of Dreka’s farm life on Instagram, which shows her picking fruit and vegetables and loving on her animals like her camel Eessa. Her passion for growing and cultivating led her to try and grow all of her ingredients for her wellness brand, Dreka Wellness. However, she quickly realized that she might be biting off more than she could chew. But that didn’t stop her from fulfilling her vision.
Watch below as Dreka talks more about her business, her wellness tips, breaking toxic cycles, becoming a doula, and more.
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From 9-To-5 To Self-Made: How To Transition Into Self-Employment Without Going Broke
Taking a leap from working for a company to self-employment is not easy, but if you're thinking about doing it, you'll be among many other ambitious women. According to Forbes, self-employment rates went up among us post-pandemic. Women represent at least 40 percent of all self-employed professionals, an increase from 34 percent in 2016.
According to other research, among women-owned businesses, 90 percent have no employees. Ninety-six percent of Black-owned businesses, overall, have no employees. Self-employment has also been deemed an “essential part of the economic stability of mothers,” with women launching their own sole proprietorships and side hustles (or freelancing their skills to brands and companies) in order to have time and earnings flexibility.
Women left their jobs in droves during the Great Resignation, and although some have returned to work, many, like myself, are still riding self-employment until the wheels fall off. Leaving a stable job with benefits to go off on your own, you might be thinking, "Well, how will I pay my bills? I've got a lifestyle to uphold."
Here's what has helped me and many others in planning to make an exit from a 9-to-5 to pursue dreams of working for ourselves:
1. Tighten up that spending and map out an adjusted budget for your future self-employment life.
This is almost like budgeting backward. Think about what you'd like your life to look like once you've gone off on your own, and figure out a ballpark figure of how much that lifestyle will cost. Be sure to note the non-negotiables first (like childcare, housing, food, education, social life, church, and other expenses already part of your budget that you refuse to compromise on).
Get clear on why you're pursuing self-employment in the first place (i.e., to travel full-time, downsize in order to live simpler, focus on mental health, prioritize stay-at-home parenting, or retire early) and what lifestyle aspects might change because of your choice.
This will help inform the budget you put together that will prompt actions to lead to your tomorrow, not those that are sustaining you today.
Do you need to fast from Amazon purchases for six months to a year in order to save up? Do you need to purchase more insurance policies? Do you need to set aside funds to invest in a website or get more training in order to step fully into self-employment? Do you need to move to a smaller home, get a roommate, or decline more than a few happy hours in order to have enough money to feel confident in leaving your job?
2. Set a number and a deadline for when you'll resign so that you can follow a deliberate savings plan to reach a specific goal.
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If you want to have a certain quality of life once self-employed, figure out that dream number and then work toward achieving that (or at least build habits that will get you to that number once you're self-employed for good.)
And set a deadline for leaving in order to plan savings accordingly. For example, if I were working a 9-to-5 and needed $20,000 in order to feel secure enough to quit my job (with the consideration that I might possibly be without steady income for the first six months and need to cover basic bills during that time), I'd need to save up little over $3,300 a month for six months in order to do that.
You can break down the cost in months, weeks, or years, depending on your deadline, timeline to resign, and financial obligations you'll still need to cover once you quit your job.
3. Talk with a financial adviser, bank rep, or accountant to help you crunch some numbers.
If you find the thought of leaving a job and going the self-employed route stressful when it comes to financially planning the shift, get some help. Many credit unions and banks offer resources and professionals who can let you know what shifts you might need to make financially or give you a real sense of how you're already spending money so that you can adjust your budget to save and plan financially for your new future.
Be sure if you go with an accountant that they're certified and that they have experience working with entrepreneurs or self-employed professionals. They might also be able to suggest ballpark figures for changes in taxes and interest rates that might need to be considered (or at least lead you into thinking about those things so you can take your questions to a tax expert).
Get the help you need so that you can arm yourself with information to fight fear and really take the action you need to set yourself up financially to transition into self-employment.
4. Use spreadsheets and other tech tools to help you track your plan and allow you to easily see the progress you're making in saving up and prepping for self-employment.
Sometimes spreadsheets can seem a bit complicated and annoying to use, but if you're good at creating and using them, please do. If you're not, there are templates you can use for budgeting that are perfect for setting up your "Quit My Job And Go Self-Employed" budget. You'll want to think about how much you can reasonably save, plus other ways to cut costs that won't drastically impact your quality of life, work output, or mental health.
If your bank has an app that tracks your spending and allows for organizing the information to track it, use that feature. You can also use budgeting apps to track your spending, offer reminders, or alert you of limits you've set so you can reach certain goals.
5. Start landing contracts and clients while you're employed.
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It might not be ideal to fast-track your quit date if you don't have savings or some other form of financial help, but if the pressure will motivate you, by all means, put things into high gear. I had very little savings when I left a job to go self-employed, and thank God it worked out, but I've learned through the years that the transition would have been a lot easier had I saved a bit more before resigning. I literally could have stayed an extra nine months to a year, gotten more clients and experience, and been a bit less stressed in my self-employment transition.
Even if your plan is two years from now, within those two years, you should be building up a framework that allows you to make more money today. Network, build that website, start offering your skills on a freelance basis as a side hustle, and funnel that money into savings for your future when you're fully self-employed. Talk to someone about investing some of those savings so that they can grow.
As long as what you're doing on the side is in alignment with any employment contracts and policies and does not jeopardize your standing at your day job, you can start squirreling money you're earning today doing what you will one day leave your job to do full time.
When I left my job years ago, I got my first client through a referral from someone I knew in my industry. My next one was also a referral---someone I'd worked with while being employed full-time at a company. By the time my little savings had run out, I'd already landed contracted work that guaranteed a certain amount of money, covering my bills through a certain period of time.
From there, I planned accordingly in order to increase my earnings, adding in clauses and other amendments in contracts to protect myself financially.
Transitioning into self-employment doesn't look the same financially for everyone, and some of us have to make real sacrifices in order to build up to the future life we want. For me, that included radically cutting out a few things I loved, leaving an apartment and going fully digital nomad, and maybe even taking on a few odd jobs in order to add to my savings in order to quit.
For you, it might look like cashing out that 401K (I did that, too, but beware of the penalties, as this should really be a last resort option.) For others, it might be using that "new car fund" to fund your life while you're working to land new clients from a beach paradise somewhere or living the exact same quality of life you had at your 9-to-5 because you were great with your savings, have help in the form of a spouse, or come into a cash settlement or inheritance.
However it looks for you, be smart with what you have, think positively and strategically about how you can realistically finance your transition, and utilize an exit plan that makes the transition much easier.
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