By the time spring and summer gets here, we're just like, "Take all my money!"
We're so happy to welcome it with open arms that we give it our hard-earned money for the best experiences, from concerts to snagging that perfect sundress and sandals to match. While some experiences and things just can't be bought, there are money hacks you can specifically take advantage of during the warmer months; so when fall comes around, your bank account can say it had just as much as you did this season.
Grocery Bag That Ice Cream
Trust me, I know the experience of standing in line in the beautiful summer sun waiting for ice cream from a local shop can be way different than buying a gallon from the frozen section of the grocery store. But if you think about it, they're pretty much the same price. Why pay $5 for one when you can pay the same and enjoy it multiple times? Throw in some cones and have an ice cream party, which can be an amazing experience in itself. You'll find that buying it in bulk can definitely save versus going to the ice cream store regularly.
Let’s Take… A Long Walk
GiphyObviously, the best part of spring and summer is the weather and memories we make while enjoying it. Considering the weather is gorgeous, why not take advantage of it? If you're running somewhere that's within walking distance, why start up your car and waste gas instead of literally running (or walking) to your destination. You'll burn some calories while saving a little bit of money that can add up to a lot by the time fall comes back around. If walking isn't an option, you can always grab a bike.
Meal Prep For Day Trips
Summer is pretty much equivalent to road trips. But when you're taking them, you don't necessarily have to eat at fast food restaurants along the way. A money-saving option is to pack a lunch and place it in a cooler until you're ready to dig in and indulge. This could also be true for workdays if you're really into meal prepping.
Let That AC Go Bro
GiphyFor most of us, our electric/energy bills go way down during the hotter months, thanks to not needing to skyrocket the heat. But you can save even more money if you turn off the AC altogether. If the weather is completely sweltering, which it most likely will be, turn on your ceiling fans for a refreshing breeze or purchase a floor fan for the low. You can also cool down your apartment by cooking most of your meals on the grill outside instead of in the oven and on top of the stove. If you seriously can't see yourself turning off your AC for the entire summer (because that would be a major move), maybe just do it for the hours you're out of the house during the day, or during cool summer nights. Whatever you choose, cleaning out your filter regularly can also make a big difference. (It's also helpful to close your curtains so you're AC doesn't have to put out as much energy to cool down your place.)
Get The Hookup
Whether you're going to a state fair or an amusement park, there are typically discount days everyone, including you and your clique, can take advantage of. One of the best practices is to search on the venue or park's website to see when they offer certain member discounts. From being affiliated with different organizations and companies to being a student, you should hardly ever have to full price for events and experiences during the summer. It also doesn't hurt to look at the competition to see who's offering the lowest price for you.
Hit The Thrift Shop
Honestly, this can clearly work any time of year. But if you're looking for something for a special event or a trip to the beach, second-hand consignment stores will save you tons of money. And if you don't frequent them often, you could be surprised at what you find. Women have found everything from prom dresses to luxury, name-brand heels (some with the tags still on!) at thrift stores. And most people would never know the difference once you're rocking the outfit. Save your coins sis.
E-Commerce Apps Can Be A Must
Sites like Groupon and Living Social can be your bank account's best friend during the summer. From discounts at hair salons and hotels to spas and some of the biggest concerts coming to your area, they'll show you a majority of the price-chopping discounts for activities you're already looking at paying full price for. They also have lower prices for getaways and can offer you discounts for events and experiences at your travel destination.
Carpool Is King
Whether you're going to work or a concert, carpooling with friends can save you and them lots of money in the summer. Because we know that's when the price of gas typically likes to show out. If you don't know how to jump into the carpooling bandwagon, there are apps and sites like eRideShare. And it's not unusual for carpoolers to save up to $1000 a year (that's more than $80 a month).
Live Unplugged
…At least for appliances you're not using at the time. You can save a pretty good chunk of change by unplugging your phone charger, appliances in your kitchen, and even major items like your television when you're not using them. If you have a power strip for some of your big items, just unplug it before you leave the house, and rev it back up when you get home.
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Exclusive: Melanie Fiona On Making High-Vibrational Music & Saying Yes To Partnership
Melanie Fiona is back! After taking a little more than a decade-long hiatus, she has officially made her return to music and blessed us with two singles, “Say Yes” and “I Choose You.” While both singles are very different from each other, they both reflect who she is today and the type of music she wants to make. In our conversation, the mom of two expressed what she learned during her time away.
“It's interesting, even when I said it is like coming back, I don't ever feel like I really left because I was always still performing. I've still been public. It's not like I went into being this recluse person or version of myself, but the thing that I really learned in this process is that I think things take time,” Melanie says in a xoNecole exclusive.
“I think often we're so caught up in it, being on the timing of demand or popularity, or, like, striking while the iron is hot and the thing that I've learned is that everything is on God's time. That's it. Every time I thought I would have been ready, or, like, things were taking too long, I had to reship some things, personally, professionally, in my life. I also gave myself permission to make a living, not just make a living, but make a life for myself.”
Making a life for herself included getting married to Grammy-nominated songwriter Jared Cotter, starting a family, and embracing new landscapes, such as podcasting as a co-host of The Mama’s Den podcast. She also began doing more spiritual work and self-care practices like meditation, sound healing, Reiki, acupuncture, and boundary setting, which allowed her to get in touch with her inner voice.
“I wasn't putting out music, and I wasn't experiencing a number one record, but I was being a number one mom,” she says.
“I was experiencing things that were allowing me to heal and get in touch with myself so that I could make new music from a space of joy and freedom, and excitement again because I definitely feel like I did lose some excitement because of just politics and industry and what it can do to your mental health and even your physical health. So giving myself the space to really just say, ‘Hey, it's okay. Everything's right on time.’”
The joy and excitement are felt in one of two new singles, “I Choose You,” which is more of a lovers rock vibe, a tribute to Melanie’s Caribbean roots. While the Grammy award-winner is known for ballads like “It Kills Me” and “Fool For You,” she is becoming more intentional about the music she makes, calling it high-vibrational music. She says her music is a “reflection of my life,” as it captures every facet, from hanging out with friends to riding around in her car.
“Say Yes” has the classic R&B vibe Melanie is known for. However, both songs are inspired by her relationship. Melanie and Jared got married in December 2020, and the Toronto-bred artist dished on their relationship. Fun fact: he is featured in the “Say Yes” music video.
“When we first started dating, I had come into that relationship post a lot of self-work. I had gotten out of a long-term relationship, I had a year and a half to date and be by myself and do a lot of work on myself alone. And when we met, I remember feeling like this has to be my person because I feel it,” she says.
“And so when we went into that relationship, and we started dating, I was very clear. I was like, I know what I want. I'm very clear on what I need, and I'm not going to withhold my truth about myself in this process because of pride or fear of rejection. I know you love me, but I'm coming with my heart in my hand to let you know that if we're gonna get there, we have to put fear aside and say yes. So that was kind of like my open letter to him, which is why the video is us having a conversation.”
Melanie also shares that saying yes to her partner has empowered her in many ways, including motherhood and showing up for herself. Her new EP, also titled Say Yes, will be available at the top of 2025.
Check out the full interview below.
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Entertaining Like Ayesha Curry: Expert Advice For Holidays Done Right
Be prepared to wow the crowd.
It’s officially the holiday season, which means parties and gatherings galore. Between Friendsgiving, Christmas, and New Year's Eve celebrations, many of us are preparing to host loved ones in our homes one or two times between now and the end of the year. No matter the occasion or season, hosting for family and friends is a labor of love. But we can also agree that entertaining can be overwhelming, especially for first-time hosts.
As a seasoned host and entertainer, Ayesha Curry knows something about creating a memorable event for loved ones. Whether preparing for an intimate dinner with your immediate family or hosting a larger crowd, your guests will think you are a pro this holiday season with her tips on everything from welcoming guests to setting a beautiful table.
Q: What is your top tip for hosting?
Ayesha Curry:Part of being a great host is spending time with your guests, which means you can’t be stuck in the kitchen. Prep is key! I usually serve wine with the meal, but a cocktail or mocktail is a great way to greet guests. I prep the garnish the night before and batch the drink just before guests arrive. When the party begins, I pull everything out of the fridge and am ready to serve.
Writer Note: If you would like to offer non-alcoholic beverages for your sober or sober-curious guests, I love Saint Viviana Cab. It maintains full-body cabernet and flavor; no one will ever guess it’s alcohol-free. You can easily create a signature mocktail using Bittermilk’s Smoked Honey Whiskey Sour mix.
Q: Do you suggest any prep for serving or cooking?
AC:I lay out all my serving dishes and utensils the night before with little post-it notes saying what goes where. That way, I’m not digging around for anything. For more elaborate menus, I lay out quarter sheet pans and label them with tape according to the dish. I prep and measure everything for each recipe and then load each sheet pan with everything needed to make the dish. I wrap each tray in saran or foil, stack them, and place them in the fridge. Pull out the sheet pan you need when cooking, and everything is ready. It’s something I learned at the restaurant that saves so much time.
Q: What’s one item that should always be on a dinner party menu?
AC: Bread or roll with butter is excellent for holding guests over if the kitchen is delayed.
Q: What’s one non-menu item you should always have on hand?
AC: For a non-menu item, wine!
Q: How do you decide on a theme or menu for a gathering?
AC: It all starts with the occasion and the guest list. If it’s a group that doesn’t know each other very well, I may get more elaborate with the theme to help break the ice. For a group of friends or family who don’t get to see each other very often, I usually keep it simple so the evening can be all about catching up. A great playlist, good wine, and a family-style menu are all you need.
Q: Should attendees be expected to bring a gift?
AC: If I’m hosting, I’m not expecting gifts. The gift is taking time to come over and enjoy a meal with me! But bringing something to enjoy at the gathering, like a bottle of wine, is always appreciated.
Q: What are three affordable gifts that guests can give a host?
AC:A bag of excellent coffee is a beautiful gift for a host. Sweet July’s House Blend Coffee is sourced from all-female co-ops, so it’s a gift I love to give to the women in my life. Whether it’s being served after dinner or just for the host to enjoy on their own, you can’t go wrong with a bag of high-end coffee.
Fresh flowers are great if you have a host who likes total control over the food and beverage menu. Go for something neutral in color that can work with any décor.
The Sweet July Olive Oil and Balsamic Vinegar set is my go-to host gift. Bottled in Napa, it’s a gift any foodie will appreciate - and use!
Q: What are some creative tablescape or decor ideas that you love?
AC: I like to keep my dinnerware neutral and classic (like this ceramic collection in nutmeg) and infuse color and texture through linens. For centerpieces, I want to use what I have in my yard. If it’s summer, it might be flowers or greenery, but interesting branches can also look architectural in tall, clear vases next to tapered candles in the colder months. There’s no need to spend a ton of money on flowers.
With Ayesha’s tips, you can create a holiday gathering that your family and friends will cherish forever.
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