So many of us are inundated with information on our social media feeds that it’s essential to be conscious of who and what we choose to follow. If you’re like me, then your Instagram feed is filled with food and restaurant recommendations, love and relationships (because, manifestation), vacation spots, and the occasional guilty-pleasure reality TV show clips. But as I’m starting to get the hang of TikTok, I’ve been navigating the popular social media site to find more wellness content.
As I get older, I find myself being drawn to health and wellness activities such as yoga, meditation, eating and drinking more green, breathwork, and much more. And while I have begun these practices in my personal life, I am looking to incorporate such content on my FYP. During my quest, I found a number of wellness influencers that cover the full spectrum of wellness. From nutrition to setting boundaries, check out these ten accounts.
Anabelle Lefevre
@brownyogigirl prioritize movement. #yoga #yogagirl #blackgirlyoga #movementmeditation #movementtherapy ♬ Blue Spirits - DWLLRS
@Brownyogigirl
Yoga teacher.
Shantel Taylor
@nutritionbyshantel One of my favorite curry recipes! Coconut Chicken Tikka Masala ~440 calories/portion 🥘 Full recipe on IG! (Link in bio) #weightloss #weightlosstips #healthyrecipes ♬ Don't Play With It - Lola Brooke
@Nutritionbyshantel
Nutritionist.
Kira West
@bykwest Workout tips for travelers, these hold me down EVERY TIME! #travellife #travelworkouts #travelworkouttips #travelworkoutgoals ♬ original sound - bykwest
@Bykwest
Wellness and travel.
Sheriden Chanel
@sheridenchanel My toxic trait is that overthinking sometimes has me in a chokehold but I get better at release every day #dailyhabits #healingera #selfcareinspo #selfcaretiktok #lifeinmexico #trusttheprocess ♬ wash - EX7STENCE™
@Sheridenchanel
Love and relationships editor for xoNecole and wellness enthusiast.
Ri Turner
@riturnerrr a very chaotic blueberry smoothie recipe. 💜#wellnesstok #plantbasedrecipes #plantbasedtiktok #blackvegansoftiktok #blackgirlwellness #morningroutine #selfcare #vegan ♬ Chamber Of Reflection - Mac DeMarco
@Riturnerrr
Wellness influencer.
Jessamyn Stanley
@mynameisjessamyn Dancer’s Pose tried it today #yoga #fatyoga #yogaforbeginners ♬ original sound - Jessamyn Stanley
@Mynameisjessamyn
Yoga instructor.
Nedra Glover Tawwab
@nedratawwab No is a complete sentence for SOME people. #nedranuggets #nedratawwab #setboundariesfindpeace #relationships #mentalhealth #selfcare #therapy ♬ original sound - Nedra Glover Tawwab, LCSW
@Nedratawwab
Author and relationships and boundaries expert.
Asiyah M.
@asiyahmwellness The Wellth in Bloom Retreat for Black Women is happening February 17-21, 2023. Deets in bio ➡️ #healwellsis #blackwomanhood #blackwomenshealth #blackwellness #healingretreats #womensretreat #selfcareforblackwomen #blacknurses #blackmotherhood #intentionalselfcare #wellnessroutines ♬ Storytelling - Adriel
@Asiyahmwellness
Feminine wellness coach.
Tabitha Brown
@iamtabithabrown Afternoon avocado toast with bbq jackfruit for the win!!! What’s one of your favorite toppings for avocado toast?? #vegan #tabithabrown #avocadotoast #bbq #jackfruit ♬ original sound - Tabitha Brown
@Iamtabithabrown
Vegan and self-love influencer.
Morgan
@whatmojoloves Some of my current Wellness reads! Would love to hear what you guys are reading/have read and loved 🤍 #wellnesstips #healthyliving #selfhelpbooks #mindfulnes ♬ original sound - MoJo
@Whatmojoloves
Wellness and fitness.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
Watch the full episode below:
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
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Calling All Lovers: October London, Tamar Braxton & Ro James Deliver A Soulful Serenade
If there was ever a night to pull out your best leather jacket, call up an old flame, and lean into your soft, sultry era, The October Nights: Calling All Lovers tour was it.
Presented by Black Promoters Collective, the show brought an evening of lush vocals, smooth grooves, and unapologetic grown-folks business to Atlanta—with Ro James, Tamar Braxton, and the man of the hour, October London, leading the charge. The energy? Sensual. The vibe? Intoxicating (literally and figuratively—more on that in a minute).
Ro James kicked off the night with his signature raspy vocals and a cool confidence that immediately set the tone. While “Permission” was the undeniable crowd favorite (with couples slow-dancing in their seats and people swaying with their phones in the air), he also dug deeper into his catalog, delivering seductive mid-tempos and moody ballads that reminded us he’s not a one-hit wonder—he’s a whole vibe.
Next up, Tamar Braxton took the stage with diva energy and vocal acrobatics that had the crowd on their feet. Her set was a perfect mix of emotion and edge—songs like “My Man,” “All the Way Home,” and “Love & War” hit every heartstring, but she didn’t stop there.
Tamar tapped into her earlier work, showing her full vocal range and reminding everyone that she’s one of the most powerful voices of her generation. Between tracks, she got personal with the audience, sharing laughs and stories like we were all cousins at the family reunion.
Oh—and in case you missed it: “Braxtons are coming back.” 👀 Consider that a soft launch if we’ve ever heard one.
Then came the velvet king himself: October London.
From the moment he stepped on stage, it felt like time slowed down. Backed by a silky live band and powerhouse background vocalists The Shindellas — Kaso, Stacy, and Tam, October’s set was pure R&B indulgence.
He opened with songs like “She Keeps Calling” and “Make Me Wanna,” blending retro soul with modern sensuality. Every note was intentional, every lyric soaked in emotion.
“Touch On Me” and “3rd Shift” had the crowd in a trance, while “Lovers Interlude” and “You Look Better” brought things to a tender, candlelit close.
And because this is October London we’re talking about—of course, he came with the charm. “If I come down there and sing with you,” he teased one woman in the front row, “you gon’ get pregnant.” The entire room screamed.
He also took a moment to introduce his newest venture—a signature whiskey that he’s currently promoting on tour. Smooth music, smooth vocals, smooth whiskey? A trifecta for the grown and sexy.
To top off the night, there was even a surprise pop-up from Tyrese, sending the crowd into full nostalgic overload.
By the end of the night, it was clear: this wasn’t just a concert—it was a love letter to R&B. The October Nights: Calling All Lovers tour captured the essence of grown-up intimacy, storytelling, and soul. No gimmicks. Just real voices, real feelings, and really good music.
If October London is the future of modern soul, we’re all in.
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