4 Hit It From The Back Moves That Are Bound To Get You To Orgasm

When it comes to sex, I'm all about the classics and relying on slight variations of those moves to keep it exciting: a leg lift there, a bite to the shoulder here, a strategically placed hand on the ass there. To get a little more advanced about technique, the legs on the shoulders variation of the missionary position (see: The Anvil) gets me where I need to go. Every. Single. Time. I turn my brain off and surrender to the feeling of being filled completely. It's deep, passionate, intimate, and my orgasm is typically a good seven strokes away (especially if that low moan/throaty whisper of “Oh fuck" comes at the right moment to further beckons me to come undone). That's why a classic is a classic. It's tried, true, and undoubtedly effective. Mmmm.

When I think of the female orgasm, particularly my experience with having trouble finding my own during sex, it is that Eighth World Wonder that men and women alike are oftentimes demystified by due to its elusive nature. There is no magical how-to book to help you find it, but there are tools and techniques to guide you along the right path to the female O. If you want to learn how to hit it from the back, check out my four favorite hit it from the back positions that are proven to promote and enhance your orgasm.

Baby, bend ova.

How To Hit It From The Back

Reverse Cowgirl

What it is:

A hybrid of the classic doggystyle position and the riding position (aka Woman on Top). Your partner lies flat on his back and you position yourself on top of him, but instead of facing him directly, your back is facing him while you lean forward, using his lower half for balance as you rock back and forth.

Why it's great:

It's very easy to hit your G-spot in this position. It's also great for guys who aren't as gifted in length and helps them feel bigger inside of you. As with most on top positions, you're able to take full control of the act, its rhythm, its speed, its angle, which again is a +++ for helping you achieve orgasm.

The Wheelbarrow

What it is:

As its title playfully implies, you are acting as the wheelbarrow in this position with your partner. If you've ever had sex in a standing position, the wheelbarrow is similar, but instead of using your legs for balance, your partner lifts you up by the hips while you grip your legs at his waist. Your partner enters you either anally or vaginally and controls the rhythm of the sex session, giving you the ride of your life.

Why it's great:

The depth of him paired with the dizzying feeling of being lightheaded gives you a new kind of thrill. For those who aren't as athletically inclined, there is a seated version that is the same position, with him seated on a bed or similar surface.

The Rear Admiral

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What it is:

Yet another standing position that incorporates the depth and dominant feel of doggy style positions. The Rear Admiral position involves both partners standing, the receiving partner in front of the giving partner. They will then enter you. You then bend over and will keep in sync with your partner's rhythm by them holding your hands back towards them as they thrust into you. You can either spread your legs or have them open, depending on which you two prefer.

Why it's great:

It's a great way to relinquish to your partner full control, which in and of itself can be a hot act. Having them hold your hands back while they pound you relentlessly is a hell of a feeling. And while they have control, the depth plus the rhythm is a great way to hit the spots you need to be hit, particularly the G.

The Leap Frog

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What it is:

A direct variation of the doggystyle position. While on your hands and knees, you raise your hips, and keep your head and arms on the bed for the duration of the sex act. Arch your back ladies, point those toes.

Why it's great:

As with all of these positions mentioned, the emphasis is being placed on creating deeper penetration and therefore giving more access to your G-spot and further beckoning your ability to orgasm. Another benefit is the fact that you can still access your clit to rev things up a bit in the pleasure department.

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