

After what felt like the longest January ever, we've finally entered the short month of February with a bang!
We open the month still under the beams of a potent and dramatic Lunar Eclipse in Leo that lights up our leadership and creativity, while reminding us of our desire to stand out in the Aquarian crowd. February is a much calmer experience after the last two months of shifting planets, but we still have a potent Solar Eclipse (think of it like a super-charged New Moon) right after Valentine's Day that will have us thinking about the hopes and wishes we want to see grow in the future.
We may receive insight about what needs to be released so that we can stand up in our Leonine leadership and light up the collective Aquarian sky with our individual gifts. Mars in upbeat, enthusiastic Sagittarius will provide us with just enough fire to keep working through our Saturn in Capricorn projects, while the planets dance from socially active Aquarius into spiritual and dreamy Pisces. Spend time with friends and get involved in like-minded organizations during the first half of the month while we're in Aquarius. After that, take Pisces season as an opportunity to unplug from the matrix to defrag your inner workings before spring.
Find your sign's horoscope by clicking through the slideshow gallery below:
Aries
March 21 to April 19
If January felt like a battering from all the work that suddenly found its way onto your plate, Aries, February will give you a moment to catch your breath. The workload is still there, but you'll be given a chance to have some fun with friends and also get so much needed solo time.
Love/Sex:
With the Eclipses lighting up your sector of Romance, Creativity, as well as the House of Wishes & Friendships, there's some fated meetings in the cards for you this month. Pay attention to whom you meet when out enjoying yourself, as new friendships can easily lead to relationships. A word of advice would be not to try to make anything be anything other than it is. Practice the art of vulnerability and openness, Aries. Everyone knows you naturally kick ass, but do they know you have a heart worth loving up on as well?
Career:
Think about infusing more imagination and creativity into your work. Working hard doesn't have to mean working uninspired. Part of being a trendsetter is being brave enough to do something never seen before. Take the first half of the month to draw Inspiration from your friends who may share your vision. You may find yourself extra fired up about your life philosophy. if you've been itching to restart a spiritual practice, this would be an excellent time to start. You can use welcomed downtime alone to reconnect with your inner voice. Come Spring, this will pay dividends, energizing your work with the bright ideas you come up with this month..
Health:
Me Time is part of your prescription for the Month, and after the Solar Eclipse on the 15th, you may want to go inside your personal bunker until your birthday next month. Consider this the dream time that happens before one breaks out of a seedling shell. Meditation, visioning, dream journaling, or even a spiritual retreat would be super helpful. Once your soul feels sufficiently recharged and settled, you'll be ready to bust onto the scene for your Solar return!
Taurus
April 20 to May 20
What you're seeing around you is just the beginning of what's to come, Taurus. If it feels like all the major areas of your life are being turned on their head, it's because they are - and so are you! Believe it or not, change can be a good thing, and February is going to gently warm you up to the idea.
Love/Sex:
Redownload those dating apps, Taurus! Jupiter has been in your 7th House of Relationships since the Fall and all he wants to do is give you more, more, more! So if you're single, this would be a great time to swipe right more than left, or even just go out more with friends. Chances are high that you'll come across a few someones worth your time. Just try not to be too reckless. Mars in Sagittarius may urge you to leap before you look in matters of intimacy and bonding. No one is cute enough to share your ATM pin number with, let's not get carried away!
Career:
You may not see the fruit yet, Taurus, but know that fresh vibrant seeds are being planted in your House of Career and Reputation. However, before anything can grow, there's some cleaning up to be done. The Eclipses are going off in this House for you, so don't be surprised if you find yourself having to let go of a position or role because it no longer fits your life. Things may get a little funky going down the road as you figure yourself out. Just remember: it's out with the old, and in with the new you. Keep breathing, this isn't even your final form!
Health:
The majority of your health concerns stem from having too much on your plate this month, Taurus. Longer hours at work + a busier social calendar means less rest and a potentially lower immune system. That just means pay closer attention to maintaining equilibrium. Be sure you plan for unscheduled downtime to balance all your hard work.
Gemini
May 21 to June 20
Perhaps you did a bit too much bonding with others while we had that crowded House in Capricorn over most of January. In response, February may have you desiring some much needed space to gain some perspective and clarity about what actually feels comfortable when sharing your world with others. If long distance travel has been on your mind, February may bless you with an opportunity to get those wheels up
Love/Sex:
Mars, the planet of Action and Drive, is going to be kicking up a fuss in your relationship sector. Sometimes, our partners and lovers can become our enemies. Watch your mouth, Gemini, especially around the 28th where you may be speaking a bit too directly, leading to hurt feelings or straight up yelling matches.
Before it gets to that point, try channeling pent up energy into any activities you can do with a partner. Mars in Sagittarius loves a bit of travel and spontaneous adventure, so consider a trip away and saying "yes" to unexpected, unplanned day trips to stay in good spirits.
Career:
You may be given a chance to show off some of your lesser known talents this month. The Eclipses have been urging you to take a look at learning new outlooks and philosophies, so why not show off what you've gathered so far? Eventually, you may be in a position to share your acquired knowledge as an expert, so let's get some practice in now. Bring your unique imagination and insatiable curiosity to the table. Great things will follow.
Health:
Over-extending yourself to be of service to others can easily become a health issue if you're not careful, Gemini. Yes, you love people and they usually adore you as well, but too much of a good thing can quickly turn bad. It's okay to turn off your phone and set some boundaries with the people you care about. Pencil in some quiet time into your daily schedule early, it will pay off when you'll need the extra energy to pour into your work.
Cancer
June 21 to July 22
You may be seeking a vacation after the heaviness of the last month and, who knows, maybe you'll suddenly receive some extra money to take a quick break while the skies are still relatively peaceful. Dedicate this month to enthusiastically tying up loose ends that may be making your day-to-day difficult.
Love/Sex:
February could turn out to be a steamy month, if you're not too shy. Between Jupiter expanding upon your romantic possibilities and the Eclipses going off in your House of Intimacy and Bonding, you could be doing more than cuddling if you play your cards right. The trick is to be open and vulnerable, Cancer. Relationships are more than just contracted agreements, they're meant to deepen and replenish your emotional wellspring by exposing you to the good, the bad and the crazy. Go deep into the abyss, Brave Crabs!
Career:
You can probably feel the change in the air around your Career already, Cancer. After years of unexpected twists and turns, highs and lows, you're so looking forward to some stability in your work life. Get ahead of the curve by planning out some steps you'd like to take to climb up ambition staircase. You could see increased self-confidence with the Eclipse lighting up your Money and Values for the year. Take a calculated risk on some creative projects you've been tinkering with, and you may see positive results.
Health:
It's time to get up and go, Cancer. Mars is banging around your House of Heath and Daily Routine giving you a fiery dose of energy and enthusiasm to work through your to-do list. You may want to double check your progress, Mars in Sagittarius isn't known for dotting his I's or crossing his T's while he's burning through his list of things to do. In terms of activity, you may want to consider taking up a group sport with some friends to keep you feeling active.
Leo
July 23 to August 22
We're back again with more wild Eclipses to shake up your life, Leo! Exciting, right!? We open up February after a beautiful Blood Moon that will hopefully leave you feeling energized and self-confident. Dip your toe into a little bit of fun this month and see how it goes. After surviving January, Leo, you're game to show off a little.
Love/Sex:
February may promise lots of fun, Leo. Mars in Sagittarius is a real risk-taker and he's running about in your domain of Romance, Creativity and Children, demanding that you be more playful and adventurous! Spontaneity and optimism are the key to your heart this month, so try to go out and have a good time. Hit up that karaoke bar, say "yes" to blind dates or invites to hang out one-on-one with friends. If you're already in a committed relationship, this month would be an ideal time to show off your romantic side. The Solar Eclipse right after Valentine's Day will sow new seeds in your relationship sector. Perhaps, it time to remind everyone why it's such an honor to be in the company of royalty.
Career:
If you've been feeling some nagging dissatisfaction around your Career and Role in the world, Leo, that's right on schedule, but don't feel too much pressure to address it this month. Instead, fix your attention on building strong daily routines that will set you up to tackle whatever shifts may be on the way.
You may want to draw some inspiration from whatever it is you really enjoy with others this month, to give yourself clues on how you want your career and reputation to shift.
Money:
Keep your head on straight about your money this month. You may feel a bit fanciful about just how far your money can stretch, or you may be expecting money to appear that takes longer than expected. You can avoid most of this stress by just being fabulous on a budget. Show off just how much you can do with a little for now.
Virgo
August 23 to September 22
February is a fairly busy month for you, Virgo, but most of your activity will be around the home and tending to your daily needs. Remember your long-term work (thanks to Saturn in Capricorn) is about cultivating your individual creative self. Whatever you've been quietly working on will begin to feel more like second nature this month as you begin to incorporate more of your creativity into your day-to-day in clever and unusual ways. Later in the month, you may want to consider partnering with others to test drive what you've come up with so far.
Love/Sex:
February has a lovely energy for meeting people when the planets shift into Pisces. If you find yourself being courted, just say "yes." You could use a bit of fantasy (just watch out for liars and charlatans) but don't let your partners do all the work. You know how to love up on people well because you pay attention to the details most people miss. Turn romance into a fun project to see just how imaginative you can be when you put your heart and soul into it.
Career:
There could be some reshuffling in your day-to-day work activities coming up, Virgo. The Eclipses are going to be draining out any routines that could be counter-intuitive to you creating more success. Another possibility is looking at volunteering more energy to causes you enjoy, especially if related to being of service to the well-being of others. Humanitarian endeavors are especially highlighted for you this month. The world could definitely use a helpful hand from one of the hardest workers of the zodiac.
Health:
The Solar Eclipse on the 15th of the month lands inside your Health and Daily Routine sector Virgo. Consider planting new intentions about your overall health, mind, body and spirit. What are some activities or daily routines you can let go of so that new more exciting routines can take their place? Part of staying young at heart and sharp is being willing to embrace the unorthodox.
Libra
September 23 to October 22
You should be starting to see some of the fruit of your labor coming forth this month, Libra, but it's mainly for your eyes only. All the extra time spent at home doing repairs and renovations has ignited a desire to dabble in other creative endeavours. Indulge in some playtime of the solo and group variety to see how it feels. The Eclipses are bringing you new like-minded friends to inspire you to get back into your finger paints or running scales or whatever brings you joy.
Love/Sex:
Your Romance and Creativity sector gets a flood of energy this month. On the Solar Eclipse, you'll be clearing out old worn-out patterns surrounding your ability to play, create, and indulge in unexpected crushes turned lovers. When you're invited out with friends say "yes," it's time to leave the house more as we head towards spring. Whatever you learn during your jam band sessions with new loves will create more deep-rooted security that you'll use to springboard off of in the future.
Career:
Taking care of home and hearth and what nourishes you has allowed you to look at your career and reputation from a new vantage point. If you've been feeling dissatisfied, know that change is coming in down the line but for now, focus on bringing some ingenuity and playful energy to your work to see if there's a way to make it more enjoyable. You can lead an effort to make the work environment more pleasant and social, maybe a Valentine's Day party or an afterwork social will do the trick.
Health:
Your health gets additional focus during the second half of the month, Libra, forcing you strike a happy balance between getting enough rest and staying active. Sometimes you tend to scatter your energy trying to do too much; this month, make an effort to move more fluidly and make time to checkout just to relax. You can save the world tomorrow after a good night's sleep.
Scorpio
October 23 to November 21
Heads up, Scorpio! You may get a taste of putting your ideas out there to be seen this month. The Eclipses have been rocking your Home and Public life, attempting to get you motivated to put yourself out there while also releasing old patterns that may be holding you back from shining fully. It's okay to put yourself first. Prioritize what you need to feel secure and how you want to appear on the world stage.
Love/Sex:
You may find yourself feeling more creative and fun-loving around the second half of the month. If you've been wanting more romance, wait til a few days after Valentine's day to make moves. Your House of Romance and Creativity will be crowded and wanting to you to flirt and play. Just make sure you don't get too carried away with your spending while you're out enjoying yourself.
Career:
We oftentimes fail to mention just how much our home/family life impacts our ability to succeed. This is not to say that anything could hold you back from success, Scorpio, but it's a good idea to assess whether or not you feel grounded and supported. If you find that your inner circle gets tighter or there's adjustments on the home front, consider it a blessing. Eclipses have a way of washing out stagnant energy and people from our lives. On the 15th, you'll be granted the opportunity to start a new story about what family means to you and how they support your ability to climb the ladder. You'll be fired up to aggressively go after money and resources that may fuel future creative projects later in the month. Trust in your magnetism to attract to you whatever you desire.
Health:
Making a few investments in your health wouldn't be a bad idea, Scorpio. Put aside some of the extra money made this month just for that purpose. Whether it be some new workout clothing or signing up for a new dance class, anything that keeps your energy moving, will have you feeling powered up.
Sagittarius
November 22 to December 21
January may have left you feeling a little weighed down with all the mantle of authority and responsibility you've started wearing. Being the Head Centaur in Charge can be daunting, but February gives you a moment to meditate on a few inventive and imaginative ways to get a comfortable handle on your life when the Solar Eclipse on the 15th goes off in your House of Communication and Creative Thinking.
Emerging bright ideas now may come to fruition over the coming year.
Mars in your sign will give you a blast of fiery enthusiasm to fire up your courage again. Keep building your strong foundation, Sagittarius, you're just getting started!
Love/Sex:
Having Mars in your House of Self may have you feeling a little bolder this month. If you're looking for a date or want to breathe some fire into your current relationships, just know that it all begins with you! This would be the time to act with optimism and cheerfulness when asserting yourself. It's their loss if they don't want to enjoy a whirlwind of a good time with you.
Career:
You could feel the urge to shake up your work this month. The Eclipses have been steadily lighting up your mind with ways to reform and radicalize the way you perceive the world and, in turn, making you question what you want to be known for. Vision it first, write about it, if you could restructure your role in the world what would it look like? Spend some time reflecting at home before making any sudden moves.
Health:
As a child of Jupiter, your biggest issue is always going to be excess. Too much of a good thing, too much of a bad thing, so long as you get to be extra you're happy. This is a relaxed enough month for you to learn some restraint. Perhaps less take-out and more cooking at home instead. Less staying up reading in bed and more going to sleep at a decent time each night. Work on the basics and you should be alright.
Capricorn
December 22 to January 19
You're the Captain now, Seagoat. This is your ship and this month will have you assessing the bones of your vessel to see if it's fit to sail. Chances are high that there will be tinkering and adjustments to make as well as some much needed downtime to cool your jets. Work hard, play hard, and rest even harder.
Love/Sex:
You've been working on how to be more intimate with people around you. If it seems a little quiet on the romance front, that's okay, consider it a timeout before the potential wildness of the Spring and Summer seasons. Work on expressing your appreciation for those people who have been with you for the long haul. Let them know how valuable they are to you. An attitude of gratitude will only pull in more love and passion for you to be grateful for.
Career:
There could be opportunities for a positive boost in your self-esteem and income this month, Capricorn. The Eclipses are lighting up your Money sectors this month and can show opportunities to create new innovative streams of income or looking at new ways to make your money go farther. And if anyone wants to gift you with some of their abundance, don't fight it. Just smile and say, "thank you."
Health:
You tend toward over-thinking as is, Capricorn, and it's usually about your to-do list of all the things you'd like to get done before you kick the bucket. This month is no different as your mind fixates on finances and creative thinking. Siphon off some of the mental tension by discussing what's on your mind with your close friends or siblings. Bouncing ideas or venting off pent up emotions will keep you balanced, so when the call to get to work comes, you'll be good to go.
Aquarius
January 20 to February 18
Happy Birthday Aquarius! And what a birthday season it's been so far! The Heavens have supercharged your sign with another cosmic blast of energy. Your world may feel unsettled as the puzzle pieces of your life get rearranged. Allow the dust to settle, Water Bearer, the change that's occurring takes time to fully make itself known. But that's okay, you're used to sudden unexpected change and reform, so don't let these celestial events stop you from celebrating your brilliantly quirky humanitarian spirit.
Love/Sex:
Meeting new potential partners isn't going to be a problem this year, Aquarius. The people coming into your world this month are fiery and passionate, wanting to get you into the spirit of lighting up a room instead of being just another face in the crowd. Watch who invites you to play loud and colorfully, they're the ones who will support the new you you're currently downloading.
Career:
With Jupiter granting you luck in your career and reputation sector until November, don't be afraid to make moves that suit your needs. You're changing, and therefore everything, including the role you play on the grand stage, is up for renovations. Be on the lookout for mentors and others who may bless you with wisdom to inform your next moves.
Health:
Believe it or not, Aquarius, your health is tied to your emotions. Your mood and feelings can really do a number on your physical health if you're not attentive to them. If you find yourself feeling burnt out, especially around the Solar Eclipse on the 15th, take a break. Such powerful surges of energy would fry anyone's wires, including yours. Double up on the self-care and invest in activities that keep you feeling taken care of. Activists need decadent spa days too.
Pisces
February 19 to March 20
Happy Solar Return Pisces! On February 18th, the Sun returns to your sign to radiate bright light on your new year of life. Solar Returns are usually a wonderful time to give yourself a fresh look or set intentions about what you would like to experience over the next 12 months. Make a wish and prepare to grace us with your special blend of otherworldly compassionate magic.
Love/Sex:
Consider putting yourself out there more and more as the month progresses. Venus enters Pisces on the 10th, granting you an extra sprinkle of beauty and grace. By the 17th and 18th, you'll be ready to step out to show off your brilliantly iridescent fish scales. If you're looking to meet people or have a good time with a significant other, try going out to an event that shows off what a boss you are.
Career:
Mars, the planet of Action and War, is going to be up in your Career and Reputation house this month, Pisces, so prepare to do battle! Hopefully, you won't have to face any Night Kings riding Ice Dragons but you may feel inspired to take up a worthy cause to rally up enthusiasm! Think of all the creative ways you can uplift through your ability to take charge and get things done. Just try not to be too pushy or fall through on your promises. It's easy to get carried away on an idealistic dream, but dreams only come true with concrete action. Here's your chance to walk your talk.
Health:
With so much percolating inside your unconscious mind due to the Eclipses, take this month to find balance with a physical routine. You absorb your environment like a sponge, Pisces, and there are times when the best way to clear your energy is to cleanse your psychic water, sweat it out. Dancing wildly in your bedroom definitely counts, as do long strolls on your lunch break. If physical movement isn't in the cards, then unleashing your thoughts onto paper or meditating daily will do. The point is to clear out your internal clutter so you can start your new year fresh with your Intuition on high and ready to guide you forward.
What did your zodiac sign say about your sign?
Your July 2025 Monthly Horoscopes Are All About Reflection & Reclaiming Your Power
July is a month of reflection, trusting the process, and gathering your resources. July marks the beginning of Retrograde Season, and there is a lot to move through and understand this month. We enter the month in Cancer Season, and emotions are running high. This month is a reminder that when we can take a moment for a pause, reflect on all we have learned, and remain open to what is ahead of us, we can experience true peace today.
On July 4, we have Venus entering Gemini and Neptune going retrograde in Aries. Venus in Gemini brings an interesting dynamic to matters of love and creates an atmosphere of fun, flexibility, and communication in partnerships. Neptune going retrograde in Aries brings a sense of empowerment regarding reflection and contemplation, and guides us to ask ourselves the important questions. This Neptune retrograde is about getting clear on who you are or who you want to be, and about clearing any confusion in that.
July 2025 Astrology Overview
Uranus Enters Gemini
Uranus makes an important transit this month and enters Gemini on July 7 after being in Taurus since 2018. Uranus in Gemini is a wildcard, and anything can happen during this time. With Uranus being the planet of change, upheaval, and breakthrough, and Gemini being the sign of communication, there is a new opening appearing in life, especially regarding creative and business matters.
A few days later, we have a Full Moon in Capricorn, grounding all the energy we have experienced the past month. This Full Moon is about creating space for more security, understanding, and purpose to enter your life, and to own your power in creating your dreams.
Saturn Goes Retrograde, Then Mercury
Saturn goes Retrograde on July 13 until November 27, and Saturn Retrograde brings a push towards growth, but also examines what has been restricting you from doing so. With Saturn currently in Aries, you may be feeling more challenged in standing up for yourself and your beliefs and owning your growth. It’s about reminding yourself how far you have come and knowing that things can get better for you at any moment.
A few days later, we have Mercury going retrograde in Leo, and this Mercury Retrograde is also feeling more personal. It’s about examining how you express yourself and live in your confidence, and overcoming miscommunication with others by showing up exactly as you are authentically.
Leo Season Begins, Chiron Goes Retrograde & Venus Enters Cancer
Leo Season officially begins on July 22, bringing more sunshine after the emotional waters of Cancer Season. Even though we are in Retrograde Season now, with the Sun in Leo, we find the power to overcome even the most trying times. On July 24, we have a New Moon in Leo, making this a powerful New Moon to set intentions for your inner power, creativity, hobbies, self-expression, and where you want to shine in life. Chiron goes retrograde on July 30, and Venus enters Cancer on the same day, and we leave July, entering a new door in love.
One that is more healing and passionate than before. Overall, July is a month of closure and one that is creating the new ground for more purpose, excitement, and love to grow. Keep reading for your Sun, Moon, and rising sign below to see what July has in store for you.
Jump to Your Sign
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Aries (March 21 - April 19)
A lot of things are brought to your attention this month, Aries. Neptune entered your sign this year for some time to come, and this month Neptune goes retrograde in Aries until the end of October. For you, this means you need some more time to process, understand yourself and your emotional world better, and you are clearing the fog. You are entering Retrograde Season with a deep inner clarity, but also an understanding that your healing doesn’t need to be rushed.
Mid-month, Saturn goes retrograde in Aries until September 1, and it’s important not to be hard on yourself right now. You have a strong urge to transform your life this month, but things may not be happening as quickly with the retrogrades in your sign. On July 30, Chiron also goes retrograde in Aries until 2026, and you end the month in introspection, with the need to take care of your health more. This month is a reminder that you can make plans, but divine timing will always have a say.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
July is a month of closure for you, Taurus. You begin the month with Uranus going retrograde in your 2nd house of income, and it’s a good time to prepare for a rainy day. Uranus is going to be shifting the dynamics in your life when it comes to your financial investments, earnings, and sense of stability, and it’s time to open your mind to what is possible for you and your abundance in life. You are learning to be fearless when it comes to owning your authenticity, and knowing that who you are is unique and worthy of love.
On July 10, we have a Full Moon happening in your 9th house, creating an opportunity for travel plans to follow through, or you just feeling more adventurous in general. Mid-month is about letting go of old belief systems that don’t resonate with your heart, and clearing the way for the new to be built in your life. You end the month with Chiron retrograde in your 12th house of endings, and you are learning through what is transforming in your life.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
You are a powerhouse this month, Gemini. This is a month of achievement, success, and growing more deeply into your power. We begin the month with Venus entering your sign from July 4 until July 30, and love is taking you to new heights. This is a good month for making relationship developments, and for being received well. You are growing in your inner confidence and self-love, and this is creating more harmony in your partnerships as well.
One of the most important astrological transits of the year happens for you this month, and that is Uranus entering your sign on July 7, where it will remain until 2033. With Uranus now being in your sign, you are entering a journey of freedom, rebellion, self-expression, breakthrough, and immense change. You are dancing to the beat of your own drum and will be surprising others by how much life changes for you over the next eight or so years. We end the month with Mercury going retrograde in your 3rd house of communication, remember to think things through as you close out the month.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
July is a month of communication, creativity, and self-expression, Cancer. Cancer Season is here for you, and you are moving through the month claiming your power, speaking from the heart, and balancing your needs with others’ needs in your life. The Full Moon of the month on July 10 is your opportunity to let go of anything that has been weighing you down in your close partnerships, and to create room for more stable, committed, and fulfilling love to enter.
On July 24, we have the New Moon of the month, which will be happening in your 2nd house of income, abundance, and self-worth. You are evaluating how you want to show up and ask for what you need, and are preparing for a financial breakthrough. This is a good New Moon to set your intentions for your financial world and to see new ways to create a stronger foundation for yourself here. We end the month with Venus entering your sign from July 30 until August 25, and love feels a little more intense, passionate, and purposeful now.
Your guidance for the month overall is to know that you are the magnet for the things you want in your life, and that you have the power to rise above and claim them.
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
Joy is what this month is about for you, Leo. You are entering a fulfilling time in your life, where everything comes together for you better than you have ever imagined it to. Mercury goes retrograde in your sign this month from July 18 - August 11, but it’s not stopping you from enjoying your life and living out your truth. You are moving through this Retrograde fearlessly and learning more about yourself in the process.
Leo Season officially begins on July 18, and it’s your time to shine your light, Leo. With the Sun in Leo, you feel like your authentic self is being recognized and loved, and you are healing from a space of feeling like you have to do it all alone. A few days later, we have a Leo New Moon on July 24, and this is the time to set your intentions for your future and for how you want to show up in the world moving forward. July is your month of fulfillment through growth, compassion, and community, and for feeling like you have everything you need.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
July is all about perspective, Virgo. You are getting inspired this month, creating new plans for your life, and owning an adventurous side to yourself. With the Sun in your 11th house of aspirations for most of the month, July is a great time to manifest your dreams and to feel more powerful in creating your reality. Some Virgos could be traveling this month and seeing previous plans through, and you are gaining clarity on a lot of aspects of your life by doing things in a new way right now.
Your ruling planet, Mercury, goes retrograde this month and will be retrograding through an area of your life that has to do with healing, closure, spirituality, and your dream world. Pay attention to the messages you are receiving during this time, because they are guiding you towards your healing and personal empowerment. The New Moon on July 24 will also be highlighting your need to close one chapter of your life and begin another, and you are closing out the month with a new perspective in your heart and soul.
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
This is a month of fulfillment for you, Libra. A lot of things are falling into place for you in July, and you are owning your freedom and independence right now. Uranus enters your 9th house of travel at the beginning of the month, and you are entering a new journey in your life where you do things in your own way and when you break free of the status quo. You are growing so much mentally this year, and July is when the work you have done internally is being reflected externally.
On July 10, we have a Full Moon in your 4th house of home, family, stability, and emotional harmony, and you are finding your balance. This is a Full Moon of forgiveness, and one where you are recognizing the power in self-care and taking care of your inner world. Before the month ends, we have a New Moon in Leo, and you are seeing a breakthrough happen within your friendships, community, and support system. You have some exciting opportunities coming your way this month, and you are living life in your own way and on your own terms.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
July is about protecting your energy, Scorpio. You have been setting your intentions and creating the life you dream of, and it’s important to create boundaries from those who don’t understand your vision or support you right now. With Uranus moving out of your 7th house of love and entering your 8th house of transformation, after changing things up in your relationships for the past eight years, you are ready to break free from old pain, experiences, or uneasiness in love.
Mercury goes retrograde this month on July 18, and will be retrograde in your house of career. This is the time to take a step back, go over your goals, and give life time to catch up to your dreams. The New Moon on July 24 will be activating this same area of your life, and you are getting glimpses of what is possible for you and your sense of success as you end the month. Overall, your main message this month is to not give up on who you are and what you are building towards, and to know that you are on the right path.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
This is a powerful month of growth for you, Sagittarius. You have the Midas Touch, and you are creating abundance in your life. With Venus and Uranus moving into your 7th house of love, partnership, harmony, and wealth, there are a lot of new opportunities coming your way right now. You are someone who is out-of-the-box and does things their own way, and this energy is serving you well right now and making you a magnet for new opportunities to enter your life.
Mid-month, we have a Full Moon in your 2nd house of abundance and self-worth, and you are feeling more appreciation and value in your life. Previous financial intentions and plans are coming to fruition for you now, and you are ready to let go of the self-doubt of it all. At the end of the month, we have a New Moon in fellow fire sign Leo, and this New Moon is asking you to take more creative risks and to trust that you are on the right path, even if it looks different than others. If it feels right for you, it probably is, Sag.
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
Everything comes to fruition for you this month, Capricorn. July is your month of achievement, closure, and claiming your power, and you are doing so confidently. The Sun is in your house of love and partnership for most of the month, and July creates a space of happiness and commitment within your close relationships. On July 10, we have a Full Moon in Capricorn, and life comes full circle for you. Everything you have been building in your life over the past year is being reflected to you now, and you are feeling a lot of gratitude for where life is today.
Mid-month, your ruling planet Saturn, goes retrograde, and this is shifting the energy in the home. Whatever dynamics that have felt a little shaky for you in the home or with family are being addressed now, and you are learning the importance of healing your inner world and doing the work internally. With a New Moon in your 8th house of transformation to end the month, you are getting a little more vulnerable in July, and it’s surprising others, but even yourself. This is your month of closing one door in your life in peace, and seeing a new one bloom in the process.
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
July is about taking things slow and thinking things through, Aquarius. Relationship dynamics in your life could be causing some challenges or confusion, and it’s best to choose your battles wisely right now. With the Sun in your house of health and daily rituals for most of the month, it’s important to take care of your well-being before you try to fix anything else. On July 10, we have a Full Moon in your 12th house of healing, closure, and spirituality, and this is a good time to reflect on everything you want to let go of in your life right now and what you no longer want to carry forward with you into your new beginnings.
Saturn, one of your ruling planets, goes Retrograde in your house of communication this month, and over the next few months, you are going to be learning about the power of your words. Make sure you are only speaking of things you want to bring forth into existence, and be careful with jumping to assumptions right now. Before the month ends, Mercury goes Retrograde in your 7th house of love, and your heart is seeking forgiveness. Know that you can find clarity during this time by being honest with yourself and your heart.
Pisces (February 19 - March 20)
There is a lot to process this month, and your mind is healing, Pisces. July is your month of overcoming past challenges and letting go of habits and routines that don’t serve you in the long run. Neptune, one of your ruling planets, goes Retrograde this month, and will be bringing your attention to your values and income world during this time. This transit is allowing you to gain clarity on your financial reality, establish greater self-worth and confidence, and get inspired by what is possible for you and your sense of abundance in life.
On July 18, Mercury goes retrograde in your 6th house of health, and you are ready to let go of the daily rituals or working routines that have been limiting your personal growth in some way. It’s time to examine what your body, mind, and soul are asking for right now, and to have the power to let go of what doesn’t resonate with your overall well-being. Before the month ends, Chiron goes retrograde in your 2nd house as well, joining Neptune, and there is a lot of healing to be done this month.
You are being asked to see yourself as a powerful, worthy, and loved being you are, and to know that you deserve to feel good about your life and to feel secure in what you are building for yourself and your future.
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Women Are (Still) Spelling 'Coconut' With Their Hips. And Guys Are Losing Their Damn Minds.
While prepping for a podcast interview a while back, because I received the questions beforehand, I did a bit of research into one of the inquiries: what are men’s current favorite sex positions? I doubt any of you are shocked by the fact that what continued to pop up (like here, here, and here) was doggy style and the cowgirl position (i.e., when a woman is on top).
When it comes to ridin’, specifically, that got me to thinking about something that was all over the internet a few years ago: women who were advising that you spell “coconut” with your hips, during sex, in order for you and your partner to receive maximum pleasure and satisfaction.
When I asked a few women I know if they ever tried that before, I was surprised to discover that not only had they, but many didn’t treat it as some random social media fad — they actually still do it to this day. Partly, because it’s fun to them and partly because their partner(s) seem to go crazy for it.
Listen, any time something sexual works like a charm, I’m going to shout it out — (late) trend or not. And so, if you’ve never heard of the whole coconut thing, you tried it and forgot all about it, or you just want to try something new/different/else tonight — here’s a reminder, in article form, that coconut-ting is still alive and well, y’all. And the men are all about it!
But First, The Grapefruit Technique
Video Credit: Myem/YouTube (Funny part starts at 2:40)
If this woman is not familiar to you on sight, you ain’t a real one. LOL. Although I know that a lot of people think that the concept of grapefruiting came from the movie Girls Trip (you can see the clip from the film here) that absolutely is not the case. Auntie Angel (whose real name is reportedly Denise Walker) is the creator of the Grapefruit Technique and although I thought that this video came out way earlier, apparently it made its way onto the YouTube streets sometime back in 2014.
If for some reason, you’re not familiar with grapefruiting on any level, I will tell you right now that I had to download this video because it is absolutely NSFW — so you should probably watch it on your lunch break (on your phone with the volume as low as possible) or at home…because chile, the sound effects? Whew, the sound effects. LOL. However, when I sat down to pen this piece, I thought it was hilarious that this video is what immediately came to mind because it seems like, when it comes to “blow his mind sex hacks,” fruit is constantly on the menu.
When it comes to oral sex, it’s grapefruit.
When it comes to ride ‘em cowgirl, it’s a coconut.
What Is the “Coconut” Sex Trend?
@windy_moraba #duet with @mysteri0us.gir1 spell coconut with your waist 😂😂😂
Okay, so what in the world does a coconut have to do with intercourse? Well, for starters, if you and your partner are looking for an all-natural lubricant, coconut oil works well. HOWEVER, do keep in mind that the disclaimer on this is you shouldn’t use it if condoms are in the mix because they can actually cause rubbers to be less effective (silicone lube is a solid bet for condoms, by the way).
There is another way that coconuts are kinda-sorta incorporated when it comes to making sex more pleasurable — and it actually became pretty popular right after COVID lockdown (2021): spelling C-O-C-O-N-U-T with your hips while you’re on top of your partner.
It’s wild how I forgot all about this until a client of mine was telling me how much her husband liked her on top while it wasn’t her favorite thing to do because it felt awkward to her. When I said, “Have you ever heard of spelling ‘coconut’ with your hips before?” — at first, she looked at me like I was crazy and then she busted out laughing: “Girl, no” was her reply.
Hmph. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it because, as wild as it might sound on the surface, the word isn’t the point so much as the movements that come with spelling it out are.
When you’re moving your pelvis around to make a “c,” “o” or U-turn, not only does it intensify the level of sensation that both you and your partner feel during intercourse, it can also increase the level of blood circulation to both of your genitalia which can make your orgasms more satisfying too.
At the end of the day, spelling “coconut” is simply reminding you that there are more options to riding than simply sitting there while your partner pumps for all he’s worth or you humping up and down like you’re on a pogo stick.
Spelling “coconut” is an easy hack to bring some variety into cowgirling. However…
Honestly, the “Fruit” Isn’t the Point. THIS IS.
From grapefruiting and spelling “coconut” to reading articles that I’ve penned for the platform like “How To Improve The Taste Of Sperm” — fruit and sex are always going to be a winning combination, one way or another. However, the main point of this article isn’t about making sure that you are a master speller so much as providing you with tips that will make the cowgirl position something that you are confident about and you find a ton of fulfillment in doing.
You can make both of these things happen by incorporating the following things:
Stretch beforehand. A charley horse during sex is the worst thing ever — and chile, don’t let it be right before you’re about to climax. SMDH. Yeah, if you want to feel more comfortable when you’re on top, make sure that you stretch beforehand and that you are well-hydrated. That will reduce the chances of experiencing a totally-out-of-nowhere muscle spasm — whether you decide to “spell” during sex or…not.
Bring pillows into the mix. Sometimes riding is a challenge because your partner feels farther away from your body than you would like. Putting a pillow underneath him can help to elevate his pelvis, so that you don’t feel like you’re stretching and straining. Speaking of pillows, a longer one can really come in handy because it can give your knees some additional support as well.
Also, ask him to put his knees up. Speaking of making the “grind” easier for you, ask your partner to put his knees up. That way, your back can recline on his legs as you’re moving your hips around. You’d be amazed how much this one hack can do for you. Straight up.
Add lube. When you get a chance, check out “The Wetter, The Better: 10 Creative Ways To Use Lubricant” and you will automatically see why bringing lubrication into a cowgirl session is an absolute must. It reduces friction. It makes your movements glide with ease. And it’s just more fun. Promise you that.
Lean in. If your partner happens to be on the larger side of life, one way that you can control his depth is by leaning forward into him. That way, your hips can better control how much or little he is inside of you, so that you can get into a position that gives you the sensation that you are looking for.
Get him to multitask. Again, whether you are spelling “coconut” or not and whether you are riding cowgirl or reverse cowgirl — something that is awesome about being on top is it frees your partner’s hands to do, umm, other things. And since it is so much easier to have an orgasm while your clitoris is being stimulated, get your partner to put some of the lube that we discussed earlier on his fingertips, so that he can gently rub on your clitoris while you are riding him. It doesn’t get much better than that!
Don’t wanna spell? Hula Hoop then. What if you try the whole coconut thing and it’s not a favorite for you (or him)? No problem — when’s the last time that you hula hooped? Pretend that you have one of those around your hips and move around that way. I’d be shocked if you ended up feeling “meh” about that option.
5 Guys Tell Me What They Love When Their Partner Is on Top
A part of the reason why I am “team cowgirl” is because it provides a lot of benefits to the woman: she has more control, it tends to be more comfortable for her, it’s a great position for a quickie and the orgasms tend to be that much more — wonderful. However, as I was thinking about spelling coconut, in general, I couldn’t help but wonder what guys thought about it and the cowgirl position overall.
If you’re curious, here’s what five of ‘em said.
1. Braxford. Engaged. 35. “Y’all be spelling up there? Who knew? My favorite thing about when my fiancée is on top is what I think every man likes: the view. It’s a chance to see her entire body and experience it at the same time. Not even doggy style accomplishes that. Damn, where’s my lady at?”
2. Denez. Single. 42. “Do you know how many ‘spots’ you have access to when y’all are on top? Breasts are in my mouth. Hickeys are on her neck. Prop my head up on a pillow and her tummy is getting licked. When a woman is riding you, it’s sensory overload! It’s crazy how each one looks amazing in that position too.”
3. Omar. In a Serious Relationship. 29. “[He said her name yet I’m not going to share it] isn’t a very vocal lover. Her body and technique are insane, so even though I love dirty talk, I’ve learned to compromise — except when she’s on top. She’s not saying much but those moans? And yeah, we tried the coconut thing. ‘Cs’ and ‘Os,’ hell yeah. ‘Ns’ and “Ts’? Nah.”
4. Nolen. Single. 45. “45 isn’t old but it’s old enough for your back to show out on you when you least expect it. My experience has been that women don’t want a lot of thrusting when they are on top, so it’s like having some of the best sex without having to do much at all. Well, aside from trying not to bust too quickly. I take that back: riding is easy on the body; it’s work on the brain.”
5. Ivan. Married. 37. “I like the spelling sh-t because it switches things up. We make a game out of it by her picking a word and spelling out while I try and guess what it is. We also try to see how many words that we can get to before one of us cums. 12 words is pushing it unless it’s like ‘dog’ or ‘cat’ or something. I’ve guessed ‘coconut’ a few times and I get what the excitement is all about. Spelling bee sex: try it.”
Yep. I concur.
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