
Simone Biles Says She Used To Worry About Her Hair But Isn't 'Embarrassed About It Anymore'

As a Black woman, learning to love and embrace our hair is a rite of passage, and Simone Biles is exemplifying this journey.
In a July interview with Elle, the world-class gymnast discussed the backlash she’s faced over her hairstyles, particularly noting past worries about her hair being seen as “unprofessional” in the gym.
Growing up, Biles shares that her demanding schedule as an elite gymnast didn't allow much time to learn how to do her own hair; often going to salons for convenience. “Nobody taught me [how to do my hair],” she told the publication. “I always went to the professionals.”
Thanks to the help of social media and YouTube, Biles learned the basis of haircare and styling; emphasizing the value of these platforms in elevating better self-care and beauty routines. “We’ve been able to take care of our hair better and take care of our beauty routines better, because it’s self-taught,” she says. “It’s really special that we have access to those platforms.”
As a 4-time Olympic gold medalist, gymnastics remains her top priority, still, Biles shares that a recent interest in haircare has become a fun way to express herself. “I never thought about my hair like the way other people see it,” she says.
While in Paris, Biles says that her hairstyles will be based on maintenance needs, product availability, and of course, practicality. “I don’t want my extensions falling out or this that [and] the other,” she says, since, “We don’t get to bring a makeup artist or a hairstylist.”
If you thought leaps and flips were the only talents that Biles and her Team USA teammates shared, add hair styling to the mix. Jordan Chiles, also competing in the Paris Olympic Games, is said to double as her teammates’s “unofficial” hairstylist. “She’s the [hair] braider on the team,” Biles says. “We can all go to her for braids.”
This teamwork extends to beauty preparations, with all five gymnasts sharing the responsibility of bringing different beauty items to the Games. Biles notes the importance of not overusing hair products during competitions to avoid flaking and dirt. “When we put it together, we got everything we need,” Biles says. “You don’t want to put too much product in your hair to the point where it starts flaking and gets dirty,” she explains. Proving that teamwork does, in fact, make the dream work.
When you’re winning gold medals, having new gravity-defying routines named after you, and singlehandedly redefining the sport of gymnastics simply based on your athleticism, who has time for criticism about hair? While it was once an insecurity for Biles, she says, now, she’s just not worried about it.
“I used to worry about [my hair being considered] not professional,” she says. “But I’m not embarrassed about it anymore.”
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Eva Marcille On Starring In 'Jason’s Lyric Live' & Being An Audacious Black Woman
Eva Marcille has taken her talents to the stage. The model-turned-actress is starring in her first play, Jason’s Lyric Live alongside Allen Payne, K. Michelle, Treach, and others.
The play, produced by Je’Caryous Johnson, is an adaptation of the film, which starred Allen Payne as Jason and Jada Pinkett Smith as Lyric. Allen reprised his role as Jason for the play and Eva plays Lyric.
While speaking to xoNecole, Eva shares that she’s a lot like the beloved 1994 character in many ways. “Lyric is so me. She's the odd flower. A flower nonetheless, but definitely not a peony,” she tells us.
“She's not the average flower you see presented, and so she reminds me of myself. I'm a sunflower, beautiful, but different. And what I loved about her character then, and even more so now, is that she was very sure of herself.
"Sure of what she wanted in life and okay to sacrifice her moments right now, to get what she knew she deserved later. And that is me. I'm not an instant gratification kind of a person. I am a long game. I'm not a sprinter, I'm a marathon.
America first fell in love with Eva when she graced our screens on cycle 3 of America’s Next Top Model in 2004, which she emerged as the winner. Since then, she's ventured into different avenues, from acting on various TV series like House of Payne to starring on Real Housewives of Atlanta.
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Eva praises her castmates and the play’s producer, Je’Caryous for her positive experience. “You know what? Je’Caryous fuels my audacity car daily, ‘cause I consider myself an extremely audacious woman, and I believe in what I know, even if no one else knows it, because God gave it to me. So I know what I know. That is who Je’Caryous is.”
But the mom of three isn’t the only one in the family who enjoys acting. Eva reveals her daughter Marley has also caught the acting bug.
“It is the most adorable thing you can ever see. She’s got a part in her school play. She's in her chorus, and she loves it,” she says. “I don't know if she loves it, because it's like, mommy does it, so maybe I should do it, but there is something about her.”
Overall, Eva hopes that her contribution to the role and the play as a whole serves as motivation for others to reach for the stars.
“I want them to walk out with hope. I want them to re-vision their dreams. Whatever they were. Whatever they are. To re-see them and then have that thing inside of them say, ‘You know what? I'm going to do that. Whatever dream you put on the back burner, go pick it up.
"Whatever dream you've accomplished, make a new dream, but continue to reach for the stars. Continue to reach for what is beyond what people say we can do, especially as [a] Black collective but especially as Black women. When it comes to us and who we are and what we accept and what we're worth, it's not about having seen it before. It's about knowing that I deserve it.”
This interview has been edited for length and clarity.
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Tracee Ellis Ross Is Still Living A 'Robust' Life Despite Sometimes Grieving Not Being Partnered
Tracee Ellis Ross sat down with former first lady Michelle Obama and her brother Craig Robinson for their IMO podcast to have a candid discussion about dating, marriage, and family. At 52, the beloved actress is single, but is still open to finding her person. However, she realizes that she has to navigate dating differently, describing herself as a "unicorn."
“I’m a very unique sort of unicorn of a woman, so it's gonna take a unique person,” she explained. "And in the meantime, I've really learned how to live my life and enjoy it and not sit around waiting."
Calling herself a "choiceful woman," she has had to push against culture norms and found that many of her experiences with men around her age were challenging due to the toxic masculinity they had been raised in. Many of their views about relationships conflicts with how she lives her life, so she tends to date younger.
“It's not just that I'm older. I’m also very embodied. I am a full, very whole person who knows myself, who is in charge of my life and who lives a very full, just robust life," she said.
Regardless if they're younger or older, Tracee has made it clear that she isn't settling and won't be in a relationship for the sake of having a partner. Even when loneliness creeps.
“As much as grief does surface for me around not having children and not having a partner, I still wouldn’t want the wrong partner. At all, I’m not interested in that. You have to make my life better, it can’t just be ‘I’m in a relationship just to be in a relationship,” she said.
Fans have watched pieces of Tracee's life played out on social media and TV. Just one look at her Instagram, you see that the black-ish star lives her life to fullest and it's filled with fashion, family, and all-round fabulousness.
"Even though the grief does emerge, and that comes, and I hold that, I think of what I’ve done. I think I woke up every morning trying to do my best. I didn’t wake up one morning and be like I’m gonna mess this day up. So I must be where I’m supposed to be.”
She added, “And sometimes I think of all of the things I’ve done—the courage that I’ve had to have, what I had to learn to how to navigate as a single person with no one to hide behind. It's built a really beautiful experience around me and I have incredible friends."
The Black Mirror actress has spoken about dating before and has always stated that she doesn't allow singleness stop her from living her best life.
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