
How The Founder Of MOODEAUX Turned Self-Worth And Fragrance Into Tools For Empowerment

When Brianna Arps, founder of the indie fragrance label MOODEAUX, was laid off from her role at a women's media publication in 2018, the loss impacted her confidence and state of mind. “As someone who had always wanted to be a writer and to be in beauty, I thought I had reached such a pinnacle, and then my world came crashing down,” she recalls.
Unsure of how the next chapter of her life would unfold, Brianna turned to the accessory in her beauty ritual that faithfully pulled her out of even the darkest moment: perfume. “There's a connection between our sense of smell and its ability to make us feel things, whether that's empowered, motivated, inspired, or like ‘that girl,’ she tells xoNecole. “When you put on your favorite scent, you just feel something.”
Each day, her favorite fragrances would serve as a daily reminder that while things were tough at the moment, she was still worth betting on. “I'm still worth giving myself a shot, and I'm not going to just lay down and die. I'm gonna get up and fight for a new reality.”
After recognizing the lack of visible, Black-owned fragrance brands in the industry, Brianna decided to merge her love of beauty with her marketing and editorial savvy to create a clean, luxury perfume label herself — and in October 2021, MOODEAUX was officially launched.
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Her signature scent "Worthy" has garnered a devout following for its unique and calming notes that adorn your senses in white tea, orange blossom, lavender, vanilla, amber, and rose, complete with the earthy, raw pairing of musk.
This cozy, yet inviting fragrance has been coined “a hug in a bottle” by its customers, a title that Brianna lovingly accepts. “'Worthy' is so special because all of the notes inside the fragrance have meaning,” she says. “I designed 'Worthy' to smell and feel like a big hug to yourself. It's warm and wraps your senses in a cozy blanket, but also gives off some sex appeal. It's a sexy, warm scent.”
MOODEAUX is disrupting the fragrance industry by putting the intention and meaning back into the space. With a message that encourages its customers to “Flaunt How You Feel,” Brianna shares that MOODEAUX has become the physical manifestation of walking in one’s full power, unapologetically. “It carries the sentiments of self-expression, individualism, and not being afraid to go against the status quo, regardless of what people may say or think,” she says.
In January, MOODEAUX released its highly anticipated IntenScenual™ Fine Fragrance Collection. Blending ‘intentionality’ and ‘sensuality,’ Worthy IntenScenual™ Eau de Parfum ($98 USD) is the same scent that you’re grown to know and love, only bigger, long-lasting, and pairs perfectly with the best-selling Worthy SuperCharged SkinScent™.
“Everyone deserves something different. A sophisticated signature scent that reminds us how powerful we truly are.”
xoNecole: When I think about the name of your perfume, ‘Worthy,’ it sounds like a daily affirmation when putting on your favorite fragrance. Could you share why you chose the name ‘Worthy’ for your product?
Brianna Arps: It's kind of twofold: When I lost my job, it was really tough. I was depressed for a really long time and struggled for a really long time. The notion was in reminding myself through a daily affirmation that I'm worthy of giving myself a shot, I'm worthy of picking myself back up, I'm worthy of creating the life of my dreams, regardless of what might happen out there.
"Worthy" started out personal but it’s the notion that you are worthy of clean, luxury beauty. You are worthy of all of these things that, in pockets of the beauty industry, we don't really see. We're all about helping people flaunt how they feel, and at the very least, people need to know their worth and that they are worthy of all they desire.
"'Worthy' started out personal but it’s the notion that you are worthy of clean, luxury beauty. You are worthy of all of these things that, in pockets of the beauty industry, we don't really see. We're all about helping people flaunt how they feel, and at the very least, people need to know their worth and that they are worthy of all they desire.
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xoN: You’ve been the recipient of a number of awards like the Sephora Accelerant Program and others. With funding being one of the biggest hurdles for Black founders in particular, what advice you would give to new founders who may be looking to apply for grants in the future?
BA: I started MOODEAUX and the initial stages with my savings account, I didn't have a job anymore, but I was passionate and convinced that this was something special. I really exhausted a lot of my options to get this MOODEAUX off the ground.
There is a lot of opportunity out here; it sounds so cliche, but it's so true. But with so much opportunity comes increased competition to get your name out there and be seen. The biggest piece of advice that I have is to own your story and to really understand what makes you unique. Really understand how you're going to tell not only your founder story but your brand and product story too. How you convey them to the general public and to someone who is primed to give you a big check matters.
It's not enough to talk about the product because in reality, especially in the beauty industry, everything can be reverse-engineered. So instead of leaning on the product, these people want to know who you are, what your brand is about, and how you're changing lives and building community. If you can tell that story in a compelling and unique way, you are light years ahead of others who aren't thinking that way and you have a better shot of reaping the success that you wish to see.
"I started MOODEAUX and the initial stages with my savings account, I didn't have a job anymore, but I was passionate and convinced that this was something special. The biggest piece of advice that I have is to own your story and to really understand what makes you unique. Really understand how you're going to tell not only your founder story but your brand and product story too."
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xoN: What was one of the biggest challenges you experienced while building MOODEAUX and what did you learn from it?
BA: When I first started Moodeaux, it had a totally different name called Moode Beaute. In hindsight, it makes me laugh because I hate that name now, but I was gungho about it at the time. I consider myself to be a creative person and people who are creative often dive right in with visuals, colors, and fonts but get so consumed by the creative aspect, we completely neglected the legal aspect.
When I got down to the trademarking, my lawyer was like, "I am so sorry to tell you, but someone has filed for a very similar name, two weeks before us." I was devastated. We had spent thousands of dollars on marketing, branding, and content creation that will never see the light of day because we didn't have our legal house in order first. It's something that I learned from, so now every time I have an idea, I’m looking to see if it's trademarked. I'm always taking that initial lesson and keeping it at the forefront of my mind.
xoN: In many ways, your brand is a pioneer and among the “firsts” within the fragrance industry. How are you looking to use your platform and brand to leave the door open for others looking to enter the space?
BA: There's a lot of pressure to be a ‘first’ but, if I don't empower, inspire, or convince someone to take up this type of career path, then I failed. No matter how many bottles of perfume I sell or retailers I’m in, it doesn't matter if I don't show someone who never saw this as an opportunity that is possible.
We have a service component of our brand called, Black In Fragrance, where we provide, resources, education, and support to Black women in the fragrance space. We've even provided three grants last year to Black women who have fragrance labels to help kickstart their dreams. The presence of Black entrepreneurs within the fragrance industry is growing, but there's still not enough. If there's something that I’m going to do, it’s tell somebody to pick up this career. I'm going to tell them that it's possible that they can do it and I'm going to be there for them. You're not a good first if you're the last.
xoN: What do you hope your customers will experience when they pick up a bottle of perfume from MOODEAUX?
BA: I want them to feel seen, heard, and represented. Intentionality is something that’s at the core of everything we do. We want to remind you to take up space because so often. Black women shrink themselves to fit into boxes and molds that weren't even designed for us to fit into as a survival tactic, but in reality, we don't have to. There's so much value and uniqueness that we can bring to the world when we are simply ourselves; when we simply flaunt how we feel.
That's what I want people to feel when they come across us. I don't want it to feel like an ‘It Girls Only’ club or anything like that. Whatever you identify as I want you to feel as though you have the room to take up space here.
For more of Brianna, follow her on Instagram @Briannaarps.
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Aley Arion is a writer and digital storyteller from the South, currently living in sunny Los Angeles. Her site, yagirlaley.com, serves as a digital diary to document personal essays, cultural commentary, and her insights into the Black Millennial experience. Follow her at @yagirlaley on all platforms!
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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I'm Thrilled That Ryan Destiny & Keith Powers Are Back Together. 5 Things Before Reuniting With Your Ex, Tho.
Listen, as someone who grew up in an entertainment home and also as someone who got my start as a writer in the entertainment industry, I will be the first to recommend that you not get too invested in celebrities. No matter what you see in the media, you don’t really know them (unless you actually do) and that’s enough of a reason to not get super caught up in whatever it is that they’ve got going on.
However, at the same time, as with all things humanity, something that I look for when it comes to famous folks is consistency — and that is why, every once in a while, I will shout a person or a couple out, specifically. Today, it’s actors Ryan Destiny and Keith Powers. Why? Well, you caught the headline. I recently read (and then found a clip of what I read) that Ryan went on record saying that after three years of she and Keith being apart (shucks), they are back together (yay!) — and dammit, you would’ve thought that I was their blood auntie for real when she shared the news.
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Why the need for such unspeakable joy? LOL. I love — love, LOVE — Black love, so we can start there. They’ve always come across as genuine BFFs and I’m a huge advocate of that when it comes to romantic dynamics. Then there are some things that Ryan said about why they decided to become an official couple again that inspired me to do what I try to do whenever I write on anything celebrity-related: tie in a lesson for the rest of us to apply to our own daily lives.
You know, someone once said that getting back with an ex is like hopping out of the shower and putting your old underwear back on. And while that is, without question, a semi-grossly graphic cautionary tale to consider — LOL — at the same time, I don’t think that it’s a one-size-fits-all resolve.
If you and an ex are dancing around the idea of giving it a go one mo’ time again, I just want you to strongly consider five things first. Just so you can be sure that there are some new-in-real-time benefits that come with getting that old thing back.
Do They Complement Where Your Life Is…Now?
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Okay, so when it comes to all of the video posts throughout this, I am sharing each one by strategic design because I am actually going to use certain things about Ryan and Keith’s life to illustrate my points. First up: Did you notice all that Ryan has already accomplished in just 30 years of life? And y’all, she has gotten back with Keith in the midst of all that is currently on her plate. This means that not only is she making time for the relationship (what we value, we MAKE time for), it would appear that she doesn’t feel like he or the relationship would be a hindrance to all of her plans, her goals — her purpose.
Currently, I (yes, personally) know someone who is a celebrity in her own right. She is trying to make something work out with an ex — only there are red flags galore. One of them is the fact that, although he says that he is in support of her career, he makes unrealistic demands on her time, and he stresses her out when it comes to where he thinks that he should currently fall on her list of priorities right now and he likes to pull semi-passive aggressive stunts in order to get her attention. Thing is, back when they were dating years ago, she was in a different season, so there wasn’t as much going on as she has now.
And sadly, as much as she doesn’t want to accept it, although they may still love each other — or they’re addicted to the feelings of nostalgia which can seem like love sometimes — they don’t really complement each other’s lives or lifestyles. There are things that he wants that she cannot provide (yes, literally) and there are things that she needs that he doesn’t seem very good at adapting to. And so, for them to try and make things work in this season, it would be a literal disaster. So much writing is already on the wall to prove it.
Five years ago, when I wrote, “If He's Right For You, He Will COMPLEMENT Your Life” for the platform, a part of the reason was because complement is a word that I bring up a lot when dealing with dating couples who are thinking about taking things to another level.
To complement is to help to complete in the sense of adding to your life, bringing balance to your world, and enriching you. If you can’t say this, with your entire self, about you and your ex — both directions, I might add — it’s not time to get back together. Whether that’s now or ever…in the wise words of DeBarge, time will reveal.
Does the Universe Seem to Be a Fan of the Idea?
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The Alchemistis one of my favorite books. No question. My brother introduced me to it many years ago. Anyway, the author is Paulo Coelho and one of the quotes from the book is also a fave of mine: “When you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to achieve it." Okay, did you peep what Gabrielle said on a damn press junket about Keith and Ryan — A PRESS JUNKET?
Y’all, not everyone is going to have the kind of love story where everyone in their life is on board with them being together. I counsel folks like this and they have still had a strong relationship in spite of it. Oh, but when others admire the connection? When they see your dynamic as a standard? When those you care about can get with what you are doing and rally behind it? That is something that is beyond precious and is definitely a huge green flag. So, definitely keep this point in mind.
Moving on, if you’ve been consistently reading my content long enough, you know that me and my first love, chile — me and my first love…CHILE. LOL. Just over Super Bowl weekend, a guy he grew up with was still being a hype man for us. In fact, in a prior convo, he said something that really stayed with me: “It wasn’t until I got with my fiancée that I understood how a man could love a woman like [insert my first love’s name here] loves you.”
Listen, I wrote an entire article about why there is no need to chase anything in this life (check out “Chase Nothing, Sis: Why The Things You Want In Life Don’t Require A Chase”). Sometimes, just like with the perfect chocolate chip recipe, you’ve got to accept that you can’t do time’s job. Cookies need to sit in the oven and sometimes “the universe” needs to do its thing and fit other puzzle pieces together — ones that you don’t have access to.
However, another great indicator that you and your ex might need to consider taking another shot at love is if it seems like things are coming (back) together, without you having to do so much work — or is it toiling? — to make it happen.
Are You Both on Damn Near the Exact Same Page?
*Side note: I just adore this exchange between Keith and his dad*
My mother has always called me her “signs and wonders” child and so, it is totally on-brand for me to look at this and wonder if a part of the reason why Keith was so drawn to acting is because it was a “puzzle piece” in connecting him to Ryan — because y’all, if this does indeed work out in a jump the broom sort of way, it’s a reminder that one of the biggest decisions you will EVER make in life is who you are going to do life, for the rest of your life, with.
That said, though, the reason why this clip is relevant to this particular point is because, well, you heard what Keith’s dad said that Keith said, right? “If your heart is in it, you are going to give your all.” AND — AND YES, I AM YELLING THIS — IF YOU ARE ABOUT TO EXTEND THE TIME, EFFORT AND ENERGY TO SPIN THE BLOCK AND GET BACK WITH AN EX…BOTH OF YOU BETTER BE PREPARED TO GIVE YOUR ALL.
Because truly, why in the world would you return to something that you’ve already experienced and half-step it? That’s completely insane.
And honestly, I think that’s what’s up with me and my ex: we really just need to get married or leave each other alone and I think he knows what I deserve (yes, am qualified for) on the marriage tip. Am I waiting on him in the meantime? Nope. Not at all. Is the door completely shut, though? Due to my own convictions about the covenant of marriage, honestly, only if he gets married would that be the case (and it would be shut forever, even if he got a divorce).
However, we’re not on the same page right now because we’re not doing what Keith is talking about: giving our all. Either direction. We’re living our lives. You can love someone and still live your own life (someone needed to hear that).
And perhaps — I don’t know but perhaps — that is why Keith and Ryan broke up in the first place: because, indeed, it is an act of love to release someone when you know that you either can’t give them what they want or you don’t want the same things that they do.
Anyway, again, if you’re considering getting back with your ex, casually dating seems a bit ridiculous. Didn’t y’all already do that? It’s time to discuss if you both want the same things, at the same time now. If yes, awesome. If not, well — officially getting back together could prove to do more harm than good. Maybe it’s time to not write another chapter and just find another book (if you know what I mean).
Okay, so I went to see the movie The Fire Inside which is the true story of female boxer Claressa Shields. I salute Ryan because she was really, really good in it. Aight but what does this clip from her press run have to do with today’s topic? For starters, if you’ve followed Ryan’s career for a while, you know that she is very thoughtful and intentional about the roles that she plays. And, although, in many ways, she and Keith are pretty private about their relationship, when they do speak on it, it seems as if the same point applies.
They seem to want to be friends, they seem to want to be each other’s support system, and they seem to want to see each other win. They choose to have that kind of dynamic. Can you and your ex say the same thing? Not one or the other — both of you. Not back in the day…right now?
Next up: She said she believes that she possibly spoke The Fire Inside role into existence. Even Scripture says that death and life are in the power of the tongue (Proverbs 18:21) — and you know what? Find me one clip where Ryan was wearing Keith out after they broke up or where Keith was telling all of her business when things ended. Even in the break-up, there was integrity.
Uh-huh. Let’s not act like there aren’t several other celebrity couples who seemed to go on press tours just to dog out their ex — and somehow, they ended up back together. Still, doesn’t it seem like you could trust someone so much more if you ended things “clean”? Aren’t you far more open to considering reuniting with an individual who “covered your character” even when the two of you were apart?
My point? Before getting back together with your ex, how did you break up, how did both of you handle the ending of the relationship and, along with feeling like you love each other, can you honestly say that you both respect (and respected) each other too — in words and in deed?
Speaking things into existence? Sometimes, the way we handle things of our past shows that we can be trusted for them to re-enter into our present. Words to live by.
Are You Not “Forcing It” to Happen?
So, according to YouTube, this clip was six years ago — and the way that Keith’s face lit up when he spoke of Ryan then — Google him; he has the same energy when being in her presence now. And as we wrap this up, although I kind of touched on this when speaking of my own ex, it’s worth really honing in on: if you’re trying to force you and your ex to get back together, you probably shouldn’t be.
Ain’t it a trip how Keith said that first they met, then they casually chatted on social media, then they would spontaneously hang out, and then things transitioned into something more? No pressure. No Old Testament scroll of demands and expectations. No drama. Just vibes. LOL. Awesome.
I can’t tell you how many times someone has told me that they were thinking about getting back with an ex and — it all just seemed so stressful. She was telling me all of what he would need to do to prove himself. He would tell me all of the reservations that he still kind of had. Both of them would keep bringing stuff from the past up. This? This is what it looks like when you’re trying to force a past relationship to happen again.
What Ryan and Keith seem to speak on is, that although they weren’t “official” for a while, they were still friends — and just like how they smoothly moved into a relationship in the beginning, it would appear that they smoothly moved into getting back together as well. Y’all, if you are going to get back with your ex, it shouldn’t wear you out to do it. Breaking up was hard enough. Getting back together shouldn’t be. Feel me?
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Although I do think that a lot should be seriously considered when getting back with an old flame, I’m definitely not totally against it. Like I said, Ryan and Keith are back together, and I think that is a beautiful thing.
When it comes to your own life, though, just make sure that if you are going to bring your past into your present that it shows many signs of blessing and not cursing your future. These five signs, hopefully, will help to bring clarity to that. Because if you’re going to be with your ex again — it needs to be a good thing…the right thing. Not just something to do…again.
I’m pretty sure that Ryan and Keith would agree.
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