With the cost of living on a steady incline and Sallie Mae swallowing up earnings before they are even realized, it's no wonder that everybody who is somebody is on the quest for more income. Regardless of profession, millennials everywhere are diving into extra ways to make dividends. We've coined this way of life "the side hustle."
From where most of us stand, starting a side hustle is a no-brainer, yet realistically, successfully adding new responsibilities to an already busy lifestyle takes strategy and commitment. If you are looking to get off the sidelines and into the game, here are 6 tips that will position you to win.
Research
Most side hustles never take flight because we fail to do adequate research. Research teaches business owners the tools necessary to succeed. Without some understanding of how to run a business in your industry, it is difficult to maximize revenue. To get started, do a simple Google search related to the side hustle you have in mind. Learn all you can learn from blog posts, YouTube, seminars, and courses. Use this information to compile takeaways, things to consider, and action steps.
After you've done your homework, it is always a great idea to share your findings with a trusted resource who has a proven history of succeeding in the area of your side hustle. Rather than "picking their brain," ask them to validate whether or not you are on the right track. Add the feedback you receive to your repertoire of learnings.
Plan
Even side hustles need a business plan. A business plan is a written document that details the goals of the business, a plan for accomplishing the goals, a time frame for accomplishing the goals, and measurements of success. You can find templates for business plans online. The Small Business Development Center in your city is also a great resource for assistance. These offices provide services at little or no cost to you and are also a great way to prepare for financing and grants if necessary.
Ultimately, your business plan serves as the blueprint of your side hustle.
It will guide budgeting, expansion, and everything in between so it is important that you put true effort into drafting it. As your business evolves, you should consistently update this plan to reflect changes in direction or new goals.
Implement Systems and Habits
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Having a business plan means nothing unless you implement systems and habits necessary to be successful in the day-to-day operation of the business. As such, you should start by brainstorming ways you can increase productivity and decrease disorganization or inconsistency.
Let's say you are interested in being a freelance writer while still maintaining your full-time job. Implementing systems and habits might look like batching all pitches for the week each Sunday, committing one hour each evening to writing approved stories, and blocking off Saturday mornings for final edits and story submissions.
Regardless of the side hustle, systems and habits are a must for managing it all. There are few overarching themes amongst side hustlers everywhere that can serve as a starting point for your systems and habits.
Most side hustlers are weekend warriors who sacrifice lounging or connecting with friends in exchange for working. They are earlier risers or late owls who maximize hours outside of their 9-5 to grow their business. You can also find these entrepreneurs utilizing their 30-minute or 1-hour lunch break to tackle important tasks for their side hustle, such as clearing out emails, taking consultations, or attending conference calls.
Develop a Marketing Plan
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Branding is key to selling. If you want customers to do business with you, look like a top-tier business. Create a website that includes services, products, contact information, and even blog posts. Revamp your social media pages so that they relay a clear marketing message that draws customers in. Avoid posting things that take away from this marketing message and get intentional about posting regularly to at least two social media platforms. A good post will keep your services at the forefront of your customer's mind and entice them to purchase from you. Be authentic, informative, and credible in your approach. This trifecta will enhance your sales.
Network
Sometimes it isn't about what you know so much as it is about who you know. Even with the best products or services, you have to position yourself around the right people. Put yourself out there so that others know what you are offering and why it is valuable to them or the people around them.
Go to meetups and functions that give you the opportunity to connect with a crowd you can learn from. You should also use your Rolodex of friends, family, and acquaintances to assist you in areas that may require outsourcing. One example might be pitching a graphic design student to create your company website in exchange for building her portfolio, class credit, or tickets to an upcoming concert. These situations are often a win-win for both parties so don't hesitate to ask.
Maintain Solid Work Ethic
No matter the success story, the work came first. There is no amount of bright ideas or planning that can substitute for actually doing the work. At the end of the day, being successful takes commitment, consistency, and sacrifice. It won't matter that you have a bomb accountability partner or an amazing list of action plans if you allow yourself to get lazy. Dedicate yourself to going the extra mile and the results will speak for themselves. It takes a certain amount of "want to" to work your dream. Evaluate your "want to" often, being determined to show up for yourself no matter what and you will succeed.
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Some women have their whole wedding planned out, from the bridal gown and venue to the bridal party and playlist. However, KJ was not one of those people. “I didn’t foresee a wedding in my future,” she reveals. “I was just gonna be the boss chick, rich auntie. I didn’t force love in my life until recently. I never had an idea of what a dream wedding would look like, it was easier for me to elope.”
KJ Smith
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And to many people’s surprise, that was their original plan – until Skyh brought up a valid concern. He was raised by his grandmother and thought she should be at the wedding, and naturally, that led to KJ wanting her grandmother to be there as well – then her mom – and later her sister – and, you’ve gotta invite the besties too, right? From there, the guest list continued to blossom. Much like the updo and pop of color bold red lip, she wore on her special day, which was initially on her Pinterest board as a soft glam look with her hair hanging on her shoulders, KJ is okay with changing her plan if it brings her and her loved ones happiness.
So let’s get into the wedding, which took place in Malibu, CA. The first thing you should know about the celebrity couple is that they’re non-traditional. They know, and they don’t care. So, in true unconventional fashion, they shared the morning of the wedding together.
“I woke up with Skyh, we walked our dog, had black coffee, and said good morning to the people who stayed at the venue with us,” she says.
Now, it was time for hair and makeup. While she was getting glammed up, she had Black-owned McBride Sisters wine and champagne (which ties into The Black Experience theme) on deck with her mom and friends, had her besties help rework her vows, retried on every outfit (sis is very Type-A), took photos, and ended the early-celebration with prayer and meditation. It seems very non-Bridezilla, I said.
“Yeah, I was the most unbothered bride ever. Everyone was just so supportive. As entertainers, we go on red carpets all the time. We actually have a production company,” she explains. “The get-ready process was like a day at work, but with people we love the most. Being entertainers, we didn’t feel stressed at all, but my excitement was so high.”
Things moved quickly, and before she knew it, it was time to line up to walk down the aisle.
“Yeah, I was the most unbothered bride ever. Everyone was just so supportive. As entertainers, we go on red carpets all the time. We actually have a production company. The get-ready process was like a day at work, but with people we love the most. Being entertainers, we didn’t feel stressed at all, but my excitement was so high.”
KJ Smith and her bridal party
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Since everything started with their grandmothers, the couple wanted to ensure they honored them and planned to keep an element of their wedding traditional. Although we’ve all seen the reception videos and photos online, you may have noticed visuals from the wedding itself are harder to find.
“We planned for it to be traditional, but we’re not like that, so we tried to create those moments. We jumped the broom and had a salt ceremony (where the bride and groom individually pour salt into a glass container, symbolizing their lives becoming one.) But honestly, still, nothing was traditional about it.”
She goes on to explain that her mom caught the holy ghost coming down the aisle, her glam team was on deck, and she became so nervous with excitement that she had an anxiety attack – something she struggled with for years, she explains tearfully. Her friends had to literally cheer her down the aisle because of how overwhelmed she felt until she eventually calmed down.
“Skyh was standing there with his hand on his heart; we have our own little language, and I could feel the support,” she shares.
It was surprising to hear all these emotional moments happened before the party we saw online. That is until she once again got into the backstory.
“As a Black woman actress, for so long, it was popular to be mysterious and secretive, but that’s not who I am or what I like. Plus, we both wanted to create an experience for everyone there. We are the people who always host family and friends,” she says. “Like for me, the first order of business was getting sandals for the women so they can dance all night long. We had oxtail, D'ussé, and a coffee and sativa lounge – which is part of Skyh and I’s lifestyle and routine. We wanted to bring them into our world.”
Skyh Black (L) and KJ Smith (R)
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She went on to discuss the dance routine she did for her husband at the reception, which has taken over the internet. Apparently, that’s another thing that didn’t go according to plan. According to KJ, she had promised a performance at their joint bachelor/ bachelorette party, but her outfit got stolen from her car. So, Skyh ended up performing for her – complete with a strip tease. Still, she never forgot her promise to dance for him.
So, she hired her friend as a choreographer, learned the routine, made friends and family watch it endless times, and attended Beyoncé’s Renaissance show a few days before for a confidence boost. It ended up being a show to remember. But that wasn’t all the night offered. Lil Mo performed, and the guests received special goody bags featuring their favorite Black-owned products like journals, hair care, and more.
“We made sure everyone was taken care of all night. That kind of stuff makes us happy. I wanted everyone there to experience the joy and love I have for myself, my partner, and for them. I wanted them to feel full and whole, and they had the time of their lives,” she says.
But naturally, the internet is going to internet, and while there were countless people praising the event and applauding the newlyweds, some thought it was too over the top. I was curious to know her thoughts on some of the criticism.
“It’s cool. We did what we wanted to do. I’ve decided to share my world with people. Just how I went on social media platforms and found inspiration, I want people to do the same,” she explains. “I don’t think it's fair to my supporters not to give that out. There’s so much I wanna share with brides, specifically Black brides. I love that people are adding it to their Pinterest boards."
"I wanted everyone there to experience the joy and love I have for myself, my partner, and for them. I wanted them to feel full and whole, and they had the time of their lives."
KJ Smith
Photo by Stanley Babb/ Stanlo Photography
“I’m happy with it because we did what we wanted to do. They can do what they wanna do. Don’t be cruel, though, because you will get blocked,” she said, laughing.
The more I spoke with her, the more her sense of freedom shined through. People are always going to have their opinions, but at the end of the day, it’s you who has to live your life, and it seems like the couple realizes that and embraces that power. She also stressed the importance of not living for others and the lessons life has taught her.
“I’ve been to countless weddings, and I’ve been in countless weddings. I’m a generally older bride. So when women in my demographic get married, and you and your husband are busy working people like us, you deserve to have the one you want to have,” she shares.
“This is what we wanted to do. Our loved ones love and support us. We did so much to honor them, but we also wanted to start our own tradition, legacy, and creation. I'm not going to be pulled back into ideas of the past when I’m trying to create a future with my partner. “
If you’d like to see more of the couple, you probably won’t have to wait long. Although no content is planned yet, she admits to being an oversharer. “Me being open and transparent about my experiences lets people know it’s okay to have flaws; it makes you human, and for many years, I didn’t believe that was okay. I had pressure to be perfect, and I’d crumble every time,” she explains to xoNecole.
Now, she owns her flaws and uses them as a superpower to connect with her community and feel and express her love.
“Some people give us [Skyh and KJ] a hard time because they say we just seem too perfect. I’m like, why is that a bad thing? I love the people I love. From my man to my mama, to my friends - unabashedly. We move through time and space how we want to move. If we did it another way, we’d let ourselves and our union down.”
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Over the weekend, while headling Beautycon, the 42-year-old singer revealed to PEOPLE that her biggest beauty splurge comes in the form of LED light therapy. She told the outlet, "There's this light by Shani Darden, the LED light, and it's not cheap. But I literally sleep under it every night."
LED stands for Light Emitting Diode, and in light therapy, these little diodes emit different wavelengths of light to benefit your skin. LED light therapy has seen an uptick in popularity for its benefits, which range from acne reduction and skin rejuvenation to pain relief and a more even skin tone.
She continued, “It's like a 20 to 30-minute time limit. When I'm under there, it [has] red lights, blue lights, and other colors of light. But those are the ones that I use the most, and they are so awesome because of the simple fact that they are like killing germs and [helping with] anti-aging, which is amazing."
Kelly didn't lie when she said her go-to beauty device was a "splurge." Retailing at a whopping $1,900, the Shani Darden best-selling LED Light Therapy Mask "is clinically proven to reduce acne, pigmentation, and wrinkles." Per the website, the re-engineered "diode LEDs deliver the highest dose of red, blue and near infrared light therapy in cutting-edge wavelength combinations for smoothing, clearing and brightening benefits."
Kelly is someone who gets badder with age, and over the years, the wife and mom have been vocal about her dedication to self-care through the use of beauty products. In a 2022 interview with PEOPLE, she shared her inner beauty philosophy, "Give yourself as many compliments as you possibly can. You start with one, you can have two. You have two, you can have four."
Keep scrolling for some of Kelly Rowland's other beauty faves, including a couple of additional Shani Darden finds:
Pat McGrath Labs Sublime Perfection Foundation
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"For me [with foundation] it was either not enough coverage or too much coverage … Pat [McGrath] found the perfect blend of them both," Kelly told PEOPLE. "This is actually my color, and it blends in beautifully with the skin – the texture of it is just like silk. I brush it on, or, sometimes I use the little sponge and push it into the skin. It's my favorite. She just nailed it, she really nailed it."
Shani Darden Skin Care Facial Sculpting Wand
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Regarding this product, Kelly revealed to The Cut, "I go up my cheekbones, across my skin and my temples with her wand — it’s incredible."
Shani Darden Skin Care Retinol Reform
"I've been with [esthetician] Shani [Darden] for almost 10 years. I was having the toughest time with my skin after I had Titan [seven years ago]. Before she sold this, she put it in a little tube for me and told me when and how to use it–she likes to educate, which I really appreciate–and my skin changed in a matter of two weeks." - via PEOPLE
Augustinus Bader the Rich Cream
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“Sometimes I use the Rich Cream, and sometimes I just use the Cream," she explained to The Cut about her product preferences.
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