Porsha Williams Gets Real About Embracing Her Postpartum Body: "It Is What It Is"

Let's be real. Moms are superheroes, no cape necessary. Not only do moms spend nine months cooking and creating a whole human life, but the pressure to snap back could make a woman literally… snap. Luckily, celebrities like Beyonce, Teyana Taylor, and Porsha Williams have made it a point to let women around the world know that they are not alone in their postpartum journeys and offer comfort by way of sharing their own experiences.
Real Housewives of Atlanta star Porsha Williams and her soon-to-be hubby, owner of The Original Hot Dog Factory, Dennis Mckinley recently gave birth to their first child, Pilar Jhena', via c-section, and the couple couldn't be happier. The 37-year-old mother of one recently took to the internet to let everyone know that her post-baby body won't stop her from getting her sexy on. In a recent Instagram story, she said:
"As a new mom, you can't wait to get to back to your sexy. So I am super excited for Savage X Fenty's launch. Yes! They have sent me some amazing products: Panties, bras, loungewear, lingerie, I have it all."
Don't get me wrong, living a healthy lifestyle and finding time to work out is extremely important, especially as women of color. But on the other hand, Porsha reminds us that there's no reason you should feel obligated to head straight from the delivery room to the gym. She continued:
"[It's important for] us women to feel comfortable in our own skin. Yes, I just had a baby, I'll be working out whenever I get to it. Savage X Fenty just makes me feel good in my skin, what can I say?"
Porsha also let it be known that her sexy doesn't stop in the bedroom. She and her fiance recently celebrated becoming new parents with a night on the town and joined the campaign to #MakeParenthoodSexyAgain. When a fan commented, thanking Porsha for being brave enough to put her postpartum body on display, the reality star replied:
"Chile, it is what it is we gotta enjoy life."
Well said, sis! Porsha isn't the only celebrity that's been transparent about her postpartum journey. Here's what other celebrities said about adapting to their bodies as new moms:
Chrissy Teigen
Chrissy Teigen is the queen of clapback, the wife of R&B superstar John Legend, and an iconic fashion icon, but most importantly, she's a mother to two adorable little people. Last year, Chrissy gave birth to her and John's son, Miles, and she told Twitter that this postpartum journey was much different than life after her first pregnancy. She explained:
"Basically I am 20 pounds heavier than I was before Miles. He's 10 months old, I never lost the last bit because I just love food too much. Just coming to terms with my new normal, when I had this certain number for so long!"
"The thinnest I've ever been was right after Luna. Postpartum depression. I'LL TAKE THESE POUNDS AND THIS FEELING!"
Life happens, our bodies change. Part of creating a life means a number of changes to your own, and usually, that can come in the form of a few pounds. Take it from Chrissy, change doesn't always have to be a bad thing.
"After I came out [of the hospital], I had a stomach but I thought, this is kind of cool. I have a stomach because the baby was there."
Tia Mowry-Hardrict
Tia Mowry-Hardrict did not come to play with the body shamers of the world. In the past, the 40-year-old mother of two has not been shy about sharing how the pressure to lose her post-baby weight can sometimes be overwhelming. She told Self:
"People ask, 'Oh, are you pregnant?' It's like, 'No honey, I had a child.' This is what it looks like after you have a baby. This is who I am, and I love it."
Tia also wants women to know that perfection is unrealistic. It's important to define your OWN #BodyGoals and stay true to them. She continued:
"Ladies, it's okay that our bodies are not PERFECT after our babies are born. Give yourself time. Go at your own pace. Don't allow people to put a time limit on YOUR body. You've just accomplished a miracle! #Love yourself, love your new body, embrace it. It you want to make changes than that's your desire and no one else's."
Teyana Taylor
The world was shooketh when Teyana Taylor appeared in Kanye West's "Fade" video looking like a hot piece of fresh baked apple pie only months after giving birth to baby Junie. "How'd she do it," you ask? The 28-year-old artist shared that her method was simple:
"Dancing is my workout. I just dance. I almost feel like dance is so underrated in the fitness world."
I don't know about you, but I've twerked in my bedroom mirror for days on end and not seen those kinds of results. But according to Teyana, genetics play a huge role and even she has to conquer her own insecurities on a daily basis. She told The Cut:
"People see me and think that I have the most perfect body, but they don't realize that I have struggled just like they do. If I lift up a weight, I automatically get super strong. That's why I get intimidated and stay away from the gym — I'm already naturally so strong that if I were to work out I would look like a bodybuilder. Sometimes I can even photograph a little bit harsh. Some people will be like, 'Oh girl, stop!"'But everybody has their own personal struggles, and when I want to gain weight, it's hard."
Beyonce
*Cue the music from Coming To America* "She's your queeeeen!" That's right, even Queen Bey felt the pressure to snapback after giving birth to twins Sir and Rumi. In an interview with Vogue, Beyonce shared how she learned to embrace her post-partum body and reminded us all of the true beauty that comes with having a FUPA:
"To this day my arms, shoulders, breasts and thighs are fuller. I have a little mommy pouch, and I'm in no rush to get rid of it. I think it's real. Whenever I'm ready to get a six-pack, I will go into beast zone and work my ass off until I have it. But right now, my little FUPA and I feel like we are meant to be."
Beyonce shared that she weighed 218 pounds the day she went into labor with the twins, and after spending days in the NICU, she really just needed a break. She explained:
"I needed time to heal, to recover. During my recovery, I gave myself self-love and self-care, and I embraced being curvier. I accepted what my body wanted to be… I was patient with myself and enjoyed my fuller curves. My kids and husband did, too."
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Exclusive: Viral It Girl Kayla Nicole Is Reclaiming The Mic—And The Narrative
It’s nice to have a podcast when you’re constantly trending online. One week after setting timelines ablaze on Halloween, Kayla Nicole released an episode of her Dear Media pop culture podcast, The Pre-Game, where she took listeners behind the scenes of her viral costume.
The 34-year-old had been torn between dressing up as Beyoncé or Toni Braxton, she says in the episode. She couldn’t decide which version of Bey she’d be, though. Two days before the holiday, she locked in her choice, filming a short recreation of Braxton’s “He Wasn’t Man Enough for Me” music video that has since garnered nearly 6.5M views on TikTok.
Kayla Nicole says she wore a dress that was once worn by Braxton herself for the Halloween costume. “It’s not a secret Toni is more on the petite side. I’m obsessed with all 5’2” of her,” she tells xoNecole via email. “But I’m 5’10'' and not missing any meals, honey, so to my surprise, when I got the dress and it actually fit, I knew it was destiny.”
The episode was the perfect way for the multihyphenate to take control of her own narrative. By addressing the viral moment on her own platform, she was able to stir the conversation and keep the focus on her adoration for Braxton, an artist she says she grew up listening to and who still makes her most-played playlist every year. Elsewhere, she likely would’ve received questions about whether or not the costume was a subliminal aimed at her ex-boyfriend and his pop star fiancée. “I think that people will try to project their own narratives, right?” she said, hinting at this in the episode. “But, for me personally – I think it’s very important to say this in this moment – I’m not in the business of tearing other women down. I’m in the business of celebrating them.”
Kayla Nicole is among xoNecole’s It Girl 100 Class of 2025, powered by SheaMoisture, recognized in the Viral Voices category for her work in media and the trends she sets on our timelines, all while prioritizing her own mental and physical health. As she puts it: “Yes, I’m curating conversations on my podcast The Pre-Game, and cultivating community with my wellness brand Tribe Therepē.”
Despite being the frequent topic of conversation online, Kayla Nicole says she’s learning to take advantage of her growing social media platform without becoming consumed by it. “I refuse to let the internet consume me. It’s supposed to be a resource and tool for connection, so if it becomes anything beyond that I will log out,” she says.
On The Pre-Game, which launched earlier this year, she has positioned herself as listeners “homegirl.” “There’s definitely a delicate dance between being genuine and oversharing, and I’ve had to learn that the hard way. Now I share from a place of reflection, not reaction,” she says. “If it can help someone feel seen or less alone, I’ll talk about it within reason. But I’ve certainly learned to protect parts of my life that I cherish most. I share what serves connection but doesn’t cost me peace.
"I refuse to let the internet consume me. It’s supposed to be a resource and tool for connection, so if it becomes anything beyond that I will log out."

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Throughout each episode, she sips a cocktail and addresses trending topics (even when they involve herself). It’s a platform the Pepperdine University alumnus has been preparing to have since she graduated with a degree in broadcast journalism, with a concentration in political science.
“I just knew I was going to end up on a local news network at the head anchor table, breaking high speed chases, and tossing it to the weather girl,” she says. Instead, she ended up working as an assistant at TMZ before covering sports as a freelance reporter. (She’s said she didn’t work for ESPN, despite previous reports saying otherwise.) The Pre-Game combines her love for pop culture and sports in a way that once felt inaccessible to her in traditional media.
She’s not just a podcaster, though. When she’s not behind the mic, taking acting classes or making her New York Fashion Week debut, Kayla Nicole is also busy elevating her wellness brand Tribe Therepē, where she shares her workouts and the workout equipment that helps her look chic while staying fit. She says the brand will add apparel to its line up in early 2026.
“Tribe Therepē has evolved into exactly what I have always envisioned. A community of women who care about being fit not just for the aesthetic, but for their mental and emotional well-being too. It’s grounded. It’s feminine. It’s strong,” she says. “And honestly, it's a reflection of where I am in my life right now. I feel so damn good - mentally, emotionally, and physically. And I am grateful to be in a space where I can pour that love and light back into the community that continues to pour into me.”
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Jon B. Talks New Album, 18-Year Marriage & Being A Girl Dad
Since 1995, Jon B. has been entertaining us with his soulful voice, belting out R&B classics like “They Don’t Know” and “Someone to Love.” Despite his immense success, Jon decided to prioritize his family and take a step back from the music scene. He got married, and together, he and his wife had daughters. While he didn’t release any new music during this period, Jon remained dedicated to his fans by touring and maintaining his connection with them.
"I'm raising two daughters," he tells xoNecole exclusively. "One is 11 now, and one is 18, and both need their dad. Besides being a father, a rock star on the weekends, and a husband of 18 years, the real thing that kept me the busiest over the last 10 years was the road, keeping the bread on the table, and staying with my fans. Nevertheless, connecting with the fans and keeping that relationship alive. Regardless of whether I was on the radio every five minutes or whatnot. I just wanted to keep that relationship alive, and the best way to do that is just go and perform."
A decade later, Jon B. dropped a new album, WAITING on YOU. The album title alone is a nod to fans who have been waiting on him to release new music. The "Are You Still Down" singer collaborated with Rick Ross, Alex Isley, Tank, and Donell Jones on the album, giving fans a little bit of everything.
"Compiling this album was a labor of love because it was me sort of picking the gems. I wrote so many songs over the last 30 years. I wanted to go back and dust some old gems off and see if I can rework these records," he says. "Some of them are kind of reworks from back in the day, from back in the late '90s. I just kind of love the beat. One of the songs on my album is a vintage cut. I'll call it a vintage cut because I did it in '98. It's a song called "Pick Me Up."
"There's a little bit of the old and a little bit of the new, but WAITING on YOU, I felt was an appropriate name for the album, being that it was 10 years and it's really about my relationship that I have with my fans. Not only is it the relationship I have with my wife and my children, it's the extended relationship I have with with you guys, the listeners."
"There's a little bit of the old and a little bit of the new, but WAITING on YOU, I felt was an appropriate name for the album, being that it was 10 years and it's really about my relationship that I have with my fans."
His wife and kids are his biggest supporters and he shared that they sometimes give their opinion on his music. When it comes to his relationship with his wife, he says communication and patience are the keys to lasting. "I don't mean to sound like Dr. Phil up in here, but 18 years, going on 19, and it's like, I'm not counting, but I guess we're doing something right because we're very happy people," he says.
"I'm making music that reflects what I feel in my heart, which is pretty cool to share with the world now as a grown ass man instead of a guy who was growing up and had an old soul and I was figuring stuff out. I'm grateful for those records, but I really feel like these records are like a guy celebrating everything that I've been blessed to experience so far."
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