

I like my breasts — a lot. That doesn’t mean I’m not surprised that life (which is probably more like genetics) didn’t catch me off guard when it decided to give me a whopping 38H cup, though. Yeah, for whatever the reason, the women on my father’s side of the family will hurdle cups in their 30s — and clearly, I got that from them.
Although my breasts have pretty much cooperated in every way that I needed them to, now that I am not even remotely close to being in my 30s anymore, I must admit that I’ve had to be hypervigilant about keeping these babies looking as youthful and perky as an H-cup possibly can.
I’ve figured out some hacks that are helpful, so if you want to do your part to keep your own breasts high and hella happy, appearance-wise, for as long as you possibly can, read — or at least skim through — this article. It should help you to give them the all-natural lift that they need and you want.
What Are Breasts Made Up Of?
Before we get into anything else, let’s first explore what female breasts consist of because, although male and female breasts alike can provide sexual pleasure (although breasts aren’t automatically an erogenous zone for everyone; check out “So, What If 'Typical Erogenous Zones' Annoy TF Outta You?”), let’s not forget that female breasts also serve another purpose: feeding babies breast milk.
And so, when it comes to our breasts, this is why they contain: fatty tissue (also known as adipose tissue); lobes; granular tissue (which goes around the lobes); milk ducts (also known as mammary ducts); blood vessels; nipples; areolae (the darker skin that is around your nipples); lymph nodes; lymph vessels and nerves. Certain hormones within the female body also play a role in how breasts function.
For instance, when you do have a newborn, prolactin helps your body to produce milk; progesterone helps to prepare your body for milk production; estrogen helps your body to carry more milk, and oxytocin helps to release the milk. Something else about breasts to keep in mind is, if you ever happen to go to the doctor and they mention that your breasts are on the denser side, this simply means that you have more granular and less fatty tissue, which can make your mammograms a bit more challenging.
Either way, it’s important to get mammogram screenings (which is basically an x-ray of your breasts) on an annual basis if you are between the ages of 45-54 (you can read here to learn when you should go if you happen to fall into a different age bracket); however, if you are considered to be high risk for breast cancer, you should get one starting at the age of 30. Since there is a 1 in 8 chance that you will be diagnosed with breast cancer at some point in your lifetime, this is something that you shouldn’t overlook doing.
What Causes Breasts to Sag?
Okay, so now that we’ve tackled the anatomy of your breasts, let’s explore some of the things that can cause them to sag over time. For starters, let’s put to rest what most people think is the top cause of sagging breasts: breastfeeding. NOPE. Actually, when a new mother notices sagging in her breasts, it’s mostly due to the hormonal fluctuations that she experienced during her pregnancy; especially as it relates to her estrogen levels.
Since they do expand her milk ducts, once her estrogen levels drop, she may notice some sagging; however, if it does happen, it’s going to whether she chooses to breastfeed or not. So, if you are pregnant and a part of you is on the fence about breastfeeding due to the myth that it will bring your breasts to your knees, that’s all it is: a myth. And since there are literally dozens of benefits that come with breastfeeding, as a doula, I hope that will put your mind at rest, so that you will strongly consider doing it…for your sake and the sake of your little one.
Oh, and one more myth to knock out of the way while we’re here — bras. Your mother, grandma, or great-grandma might’ve said to you that if you don’t wear a bra, that could cause your breasts to droop. Yeah, that’s incorrect too. Although, if you have large breasts, bras can make your breasts feel more comfortable, unless you never wear a bra, ever, in life, they don’t really hinder sagging.
Aight, so what exactly does cause saggy breasts?
- Aging (due to the drop in elasticity and collagen)
- Smoking (because it accelerates aging)
- Menopause (due to drastic hormonal shifts)
- Genetics
- Sun damage
- Being severely overweight
- Rapid weight loss
- Really large breasts (due to how gravity affects them)
- Multiple pregnancies (especially if they are back-to-back)
- Sleeping on your side or stomach (because it can stretch your breasts’ ligaments over time)
Since it’s pretty common for a woman’s breasts to sag, at least to some extent, it’s important to know what the true causes are; that way, you can come up with a plan to combat the sagging. That said, look back over the things that I just mentioned, think about which ones apply to you, and then factor in how the following seven at-home tips can be applied to get your girls back to where you want them to be.
Natural Hacks To Lift and Support Your Breasts
7 All-Natural Ways to Treat Sagging Breasts
The technical term for a cosmetic breast lift is mastopexy. And although it certainly can lift sagging breasts, there are always risks that come with “going under the knife.” Not only that, but your nipples and areolas will have to be adjusted (which could come with a bit of nerve damage), plus, you’re going to need to cough up somewhere around $7,000. And unless you can convince your insurance company that it’s a medical procedure instead of a cosmetic one, you will probably find yourself paying for the lift out of pocket.
It’s because of all of this that I thought it would be a good idea to share some alternatives to breast lift surgery that have been proven to help prevent and even treat sagging breasts.
1. Do certain exercises. Although your breasts are made up of tissue, what’s underneath them is pectoral muscles — and the more developed your muscles are, the fuller and more youthful your breasts will appear to be. That’s why it’s always a smart move to do some breast-firming exercises, at least a few days a week. You can check out several of them here.
2. Wear the right size bra outside. Don’t wear one inside. When you do wear a bra, make sure it’s the right size; you’re not going to get proper support from one any other way. Speaking of support, when you exercise, make sure that you wear a sports bra because it will help to keep your breasts from flailing all over the place. That said, don’t feel the need or pressure to have a bra on when you’re home, though. Giving your breasts a break can help to increase blood circulation to them and take some of the pressure off that the continual wear of a bra can cause — the kind which can, interestingly enough, eventually lead to weakened breast tissue.
3. Consume collagen. Remember how I mentioned that a lack of collagen can lead to saggy breasts? If you know that your sagging breasts are tied to aging, consuming foods that have a lot of collagen in them can help in that department. Some of those include bone broth, berries, broccoli, the skin that’s on chicken, fish, citrus fruit, and bell peppers.
4. Adjust your posture. With reportedly 80 percent of Americans experiencing poor posture on some level and with bad posture being associated with things like digestive issues, muscle and joint discomfort, breathing problems, wear and tear on your spine, and even incontinence, of course, it’s a good idea to maintain good posture. It can even help to prevent sagging breasts since poor posture prevents the weight of your body from being evenly distributed. The more you know.
5. Massage your breasts with Vitamin C extract. Just like it’s a good idea to eat collagen in order to prevent sagging breasts, upping your intake of vitamins B and C is smart because they both help to build up breast tissue. Speaking of vitamin C, you may also want to apply some vitamin C extract to your breasts. The extract helps to produce collagen from the outside in; plus, it can help the skin on your breasts to appear a bit firmer too.
6. Cop yourself a body pillow. If you’re someone who prefers to sleep on your side, consider investing in a body pillow. It can help to keep your breasts from “going through it” all night long as you’re moving about throughout the night.
7. Check your hormone levels. There’s no way that you are going to know if your breasts are sagging due to hormonal issues without getting that confirmed from your doctor via a hormone level test. Once you hit around 35-40, for a myriad of reasons, it can’t hurt to take one anyway. If the sagging is hormone-related, your physician can put you on some hormone therapy that should help to resolve the issue.
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Are sagging breasts semi-inevitable? Eh, probably. Take it from me, though, aging can be even more of a beautiful thing when you take preventative measures about matters. And if you take good care of your breasts, they can still look pretty damn good. Yes, I would know.
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Adrian Marcel On Purpose, Sacrifice, And The 'Signs Of Life'
In this week's episode of xoMAN, host Kiara Walker talked with R&B artist Adrian Marcel, who opened up, full of heart and authenticity, about his personal evolution. He discussed his days transitioning from a young Bay Area singer on the come-up to becoming a grounded husband and father of four.
With honesty and introspection, Marcel reflected on how life, love, and loss have shaped the man he is today.
On ‘Life’s Subtle Signals’
Much of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here [to] fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.”
On Passion vs. Survival
Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
On Connection Between Pursuing Music & Fatherhood
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you're really just lying to yourself. You ain't growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her [his wife].”
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Roscoe Dash joined xoMan host Kiara Walker to share the journey of his personal and spiritual evolution—from the party anthems that made him famous to a deeper life rooted in faith, family, and purpose. This episode offers an honest look at how the artist has grown beyond early fame, addressing fatherhood, masculinity, creativity, and healing.
Dash opened up about the internal transformation that has guided him away from chasing the spotlight and toward seeking peace. “Faith and fear can’t occupy the same space,” he said, underscoring his shift toward a more spiritually grounded life. Throughout the interview, he emphasized the importance of self-reflection:
“The most important conversations to me, honestly, outside of the ones you have with God, is the ones you have with yourself in the mirror.”
Dash is focused on the man he’s become. “I’m not the accolades I’ve achieved—I’m the person who achieved them,” he added, pointing to a broader understanding of identity and worth. A large part of that growth has come through fatherhood, especially raising daughters, which he said has deepened his understanding of love. “Love is unconditional and love loves to love no matter what,” he shared.
He also spoke candidly about the pressures of fame and its impact on creativity. “Chasing fame can kill your creativity as a musician,” he warns. Instead, his advice to other artists is simple but clear: “Keep your focus on your art form, whatever that may be, and stay passionate.”
The conversation also touches on gender dynamics and emotional safety in relationships. “Safe men make soft women. If she feels safe, she’ll melt like butter,” he said, challenging traditional notions of masculinity. Roscoe also offers wisdom on discernment and spiritual testing: “Sometimes the devil will give you what looks better than your blessing.”
Ultimately, Dash has learned to embrace peace over chaos. “All I can do is control what I can control. And that's how I respond to things and what I'm giving out,” he said. It’s a thoughtful, soulful side of Roscoe Dash that many may not expect—but one that leaves a lasting impression.
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