From New York Fashion Week To Your Next Role: This It List Covers Every Major Move Left In 2025

With summer in full swing, it’s never too late to add a few more activities to the roster. And xoNecole has you covered with the places to be for you and your girls, this season and well into fall and winter.
Whether you’re looking to connect with like-minded creatives somewhere like CultureCon or mix and mingle with fellow Black women in tech at AfroTech, we’ve got a little something for all the It Girls.
Kwame Onwuachi’s Presents The Family Reunion (Middleburg, Virginia – August 14-17)
Designed for the It Girl who loves culinary experiences, The Family Reunion was created to celebrate diversity in the hospitality industry. This marks the fifth year for the annual event held at Salamander Middleburg, one of the properties in the luxury resort and spa chain founded by BET co-founder Sheila Johnson.
Presented by Chef Kwame Onwuachi, the multi-day event consists of panel discussions, topical cooking demonstrations, recreational activities, and daily “family” meals intended to allow attendees to interact with celebrity participants. Onwuachi also selects a Lifetime Achievement Award recipient each year to honor their contributions in the industry.
Anime NYC (New York City – August 21-24)
For the It Girls who are into anime, this is the place to be. It is known as the largest anime convention on the East Coast, bringing together approximately 100,000 fans from around the world to showcase the best of Japanese culture through exhibits, exclusive screenings, and appearances by familiar faces.
Cousinz Festival (Norfolk, Virginia – August 30)
If you’re a mixy It Girl who loves a function with good music and good vibes, the Cousinz Festival is worth adding to your list. The second annual Cousinz Festival, co-founded by Pusha T, will take place at the Norfolk Scope Grounds at the end of the month and features headliners such as Jeezy, Lil' Kim, T-Pain, DJ Clue, the Backyard Band, and more.
S.A.I. Summer Cookout by Marsai Martin (Houston, Texas – August 29-31)
Hosted by the ultimate It Girl, Marsai Martin is taking her talents back to her stomping grounds for her third installment of the S.A.I Summer Cookout. Described as “an annual get-together for the community that feels like one big family reunion,” the event first took place in Atlanta in 2023, followed by Washington, D.C., in 2024, and is now coming to Martin’s hometown of Houston.
U.S. Open (Flushing, New York – August 24- September 7)
For ladies who want to celebrate Black women in the sport of tennis, such as Coco Gauff, Sloane Stephens, Taylor Townsend, Naomi Osaka, and more, this is the place to be. The legendary Venus Williams has also been confirmed to compete in the mixed doubles competition alongside Reilly Opelka for this year’s U.S. Open.
Harlem Fashion Row (New York City – September 9)
The annual kickoff to New York Fashion Week starts with HFR’s 18th Annual Fashion Show & Style Awards, set to take place in Harlem on September 9. This year’s event will be a celebration of “unapologetic elegance and designers shaping the future of fashion,” and includes a seated dinner.
New York Fashion Week (New York, NY – September 11-16)
Calling all fashionistas! New York Fashion Week returns from September 11 to September 16, making the city the place every It Girl should be to stay up to date on the latest fashion trends, celebrity sightings, and after parties.
CultureCon NYC (New York, NY – October 4-5)
Powered by the Creative Collective NYC, this annual event is a hub for dreamers, movers, and shakers who stop at nothing to bring their visions to life. It’s the place to rub shoulders with those who truly understand what it means to put your best creative foot forward, and move about the world just awaiting the chance to showcase your next big idea.
In past years, It Girls including Scottie Beam, Gia Peppers, Issa Rae, Tracee Ellis Ross, and many more have graced the CultureCon stage to drop gems, share stories about their respective journeys, and deliver mounds of knowledge that’s worth soaking up.
AfroTech Conference (Houston, Texas – October 27-31)
Black women in tech, here’s your chance to shine. This isn’t your average tech conference, because beyond the panels and workshops are some of the hottest parties, featuring everyone from top IT professionals to cybersecurity experts. And who says an It Girl can’t be up to date on the latest gadgets, gizmos, and technological updates?
Art Basel Miami (Miami Beach, FL – December 5-7)
End the year with a bang and add to your art collection at Art Basel in Miami, Florida. Whether you’re an artist or an art enthusiast, there’s something for you with programming that spans various art styles, including realism, impressionism, expressionism, cubism, surrealism, and pop art.
WNBA Seasonal Games (Various Locations – May - September)
The official season kicked off in May and will run until September 11, featuring matchups between the New York Liberty and Chicago Sky, the Phoenix Mercury and Dallas Wings, the Golden State Valkyries and Minnesota Lynx, and the Las Vegas Aces and Los Angeles Sparks.
WNBA playoffs are scheduled to begin three days following the season, on September 14, 2025.
South House (Various Locations – Year-Round)
Suppose you’re an It Girl who doesn’t need a particular season to catch a vibe. In that case, South House is a great year-round event with its Sunday Service event coming up on August 17, followed by stops in San Francisco, Los Angeles, Detroit, and Washington, D.C for the remainder of the month.
South House stands for Southern Houseparty and is known for giving partygoers an experience unlike anywhere else, described as a “bougie billiards hall meets house party.”
Souled Out Dates (Various Locations – Year-Round)
If you prefer to be in bed by 11 p.m., this event is for you. Souled Out Dates, which sets out to be the “biggest day party ever in life,” is a year-round event that makes stops in various cities, including Charlotte, Washington, D.C., San Francisco, Houston, and more.
Everyday People (Various Locations – Year-Round)
Everyday People goes beyond just a place to shake a tailfeather and let loose; this is made for the It Girls who want an enriching blend of music, culture, and community that spans across the globe.
With events in New York, Los Angeles, Houston, and Atlanta already taking the culture by storm, Everyday People now hosts parties in London, Amsterdam, Toronto, and more!
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Because We Are Still IT, Girl: It Girl 100 Returns
Last year, when our xoNecole team dropped our inaugural It Girl 100 honoree list, the world felt, ahem, a bit brighter.
It was March 2024, and we still had a Black woman as the Vice President of the United States. DEI rollbacks weren’t being tossed around like confetti. And more than 300,000 Black women were still gainfully employed in the workforce.
Though that was just nineteen months ago, things were different. Perhaps the world then felt more receptive to our light as Black women.
At the time, we launched It Girl 100 to spotlight the huge motion we were making as dope, GenZennial Black women leaving our mark on culture. The girls were on the rise, flourishing, drinking their water, minding their business, leading companies, and learning to do it all softly, in rest. We wanted to celebrate that momentum—because we love that for us.
So, we handpicked one hundred It Girls who embody that palpable It Factor moving through us as young Black women, the kind of motion lighting up the world both IRL and across the internet.
It Girl 100 became xoNecole’s most successful program, with the hashtag organically reaching more than forty million impressions on Instagram in just twenty-four hours. Yes, it caught on like wildfire because we celebrated some of the most brilliant and influential GenZennial women of color setting trends and shaping culture. But more than that, it resonated because the women we celebrated felt seen.
Many were already known in their industries for keeping this generation fly and lit, but rarely received recognition or flowers. It Girl 100 became a safe space to be uplifted, and for us as Black women to bask in what felt like an era of our brilliance, beauty, and boundless influence on full display.
And then, almost overnight, it was as if the rug was pulled from under us as Black women, as the It Girls of the world.
Our much-needed, much-deserved season of ease and soft living quickly metamorphosed into a time of self-preservation and survival. Our motion and economic progression seemed strategically slowed, our light under siege.
The air feels heavier now. The headlines colder. Our Black girl magic is being picked apart and politicized for simply existing.
With that climate shift, as we prepare to launch our second annual It Girl 100 honoree list, our team has had to dig deep on the purpose and intention behind this year’s list. Knowing the spirit of It Girl 100 is about motion, sauce, strides, and progression, how do we celebrate amid uncertainty and collective grief when the juice feels like it is being squeezed out of us?
As we wrestled with that question, we were reminded that this tension isn’t new. Black women have always had to find joy in the midst of struggle, to create light even in the darkest corners. We have carried the weight of scrutiny for generations, expected to be strong, to serve, to smile through the sting. But this moment feels different. It feels deeply personal.
We are living at the intersection of liberation and backlash. We are learning to take off our capes, to say no when we are tired, to embrace softness without apology.
And somehow, the world has found new ways to punish us for it.

In lifestyle, women like Kayla Nicole and Ayesha Curry have been ridiculed for daring to choose themselves. Tracee Ellis Ross was labeled bitter for speaking her truth about love. Meghan Markle, still, cannot breathe without critique.
In politics, Kamala Harris, Letitia James, and Jasmine Crockett are dragged through the mud for standing tall in rooms not built for them.
In sports, Angel Reese, Coco Gauff, and Taylor Townsend have been reminded that even excellence will not shield you from racism or judgment.

In business, visionaries like Diarrha N’Diaye-Mbaye and Melissa Butler are fighting to keep their dreams alive in an economy that too often forgets us first.
Even our icons, Beyoncé, Serena, and SZA, have faced criticism simply for evolving beyond the boxes society tried to keep them in.
From everyday women to cultural phenoms, the pattern is the same. Our light is being tested.

And yet, somehow, through it all, we are still showing up as that girl, and that deserves to be celebrated.
Because while the world debates our worth, we keep raising our value. And that proof is all around us.
This year alone, Naomi Osaka returned from motherhood and mental health challenges to reach the semifinals of the US Open. A’ja Wilson claimed another MVP, reminding us that beauty and dominance can coexist. Brandy and Monica are snatching our edges on tour. Kahlana Barfield Brown sold out her new line in the face of a retailer that had been canceled. And Melissa Butler’s company, The Lip Bar, is projecting a forty percent surge in sales.

We are no longer defining strength by how much pain we can endure. We are defining it by the unbreakable light we continue to radiate.
We are the women walking our daily steps and also continuing to run solid businesses. We are growing in love, taking solo trips, laughing until it hurts, raising babies and ideas, drinking our green juice, and praying our peace back into existence.
We are rediscovering the joy of rest and realizing that softness is not weakness, it is strategy.
And through it all, we continue to lift one another. Emma Grede is creating seats at the table. Valeisha Butterfield has started a fund for jobless Black women. Arian Simone is leading in media with fearless conviction. We are pouring into each other in ways the world rarely sees but always feels.

So yes, we are in the midst of societal warfare. Yes, we are being tested. Yes, we are facing economic strain, political targeting, and public scrutiny. But even war cannot dim a light that is divinely ours.
And we are still shining.
And we are still softening.
And we are still creating.
And we are still It.

That is the quiet magic of Black womanhood, our ability to hold both truth and triumph in the same breath, to say yes, and to life’s contradictions.
It is no coincidence that this year, as SheaMoisture embraces the message “Yes, And,” they stand beside us as partners in celebrating this class of It Girls. Because that phrase, those two simple words, capture the very essence of this moment.
Yes, we are tired. And we are still rising.
Yes, we are questioned. And we are the answer.
Yes, we are bruised. And we are still beautiful.

This year’s It Girl 100 is more than a list. It is a love letter to every Black woman who dares to live out loud in a world that would rather she whisper. This year’s class is living proof of “Yes, And,” women who are finding ways to thrive and to heal, to build and to rest, to lead and to love, all at once.
It is proof that our joy is not naive, our success not accidental. It is the reminder that our light has never needed permission.
So without further ado, we celebrate the It Girl 100 Class of 2025–2026.
We celebrate the millions of us who keep doing it with grace, grit, and glory.
Because despite it all, we still shine.
Because we are still her.
Because we are still IT, girl.
Meet all 100 women shaping culture in the It Girl 100 Class of 2025. View the complete list of honorees here.
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Exclusive: Viral It Girl Kayla Nicole Is Reclaiming The Mic—And The Narrative
It’s nice to have a podcast when you’re constantly trending online. One week after setting timelines ablaze on Halloween, Kayla Nicole released an episode of her Dear Media pop culture podcast, The Pre-Game, where she took listeners behind the scenes of her viral costume.
The 34-year-old had been torn between dressing up as Beyoncé or Toni Braxton, she says in the episode. She couldn’t decide which version of Bey she’d be, though. Two days before the holiday, she locked in her choice, filming a short recreation of Braxton’s “He Wasn’t Man Enough for Me” music video that has since garnered nearly 6.5M views on TikTok.
Kayla Nicole says she wore a dress that was once worn by Braxton herself for the Halloween costume. “It’s not a secret Toni is more on the petite side. I’m obsessed with all 5’2” of her,” she tells xoNecole via email. “But I’m 5’10'' and not missing any meals, honey, so to my surprise, when I got the dress and it actually fit, I knew it was destiny.”
The episode was the perfect way for the multihyphenate to take control of her own narrative. By addressing the viral moment on her own platform, she was able to stir the conversation and keep the focus on her adoration for Braxton, an artist she says she grew up listening to and who still makes her most-played playlist every year. Elsewhere, she likely would’ve received questions about whether or not the costume was a subliminal aimed at her ex-boyfriend and his pop star fiancée. “I think that people will try to project their own narratives, right?” she said, hinting at this in the episode. “But, for me personally – I think it’s very important to say this in this moment – I’m not in the business of tearing other women down. I’m in the business of celebrating them.”
Kayla Nicole is among xoNecole’s It Girl 100 Class of 2025, powered by SheaMoisture, recognized in the Viral Voices category for her work in media and the trends she sets on our timelines, all while prioritizing her own mental and physical health. As she puts it: “Yes, I’m curating conversations on my podcast The Pre-Game, and cultivating community with my wellness brand Tribe Therepē.”
Despite being the frequent topic of conversation online, Kayla Nicole says she’s learning to take advantage of her growing social media platform without becoming consumed by it. “I refuse to let the internet consume me. It’s supposed to be a resource and tool for connection, so if it becomes anything beyond that I will log out,” she says.
On The Pre-Game, which launched earlier this year, she has positioned herself as listeners “homegirl.” “There’s definitely a delicate dance between being genuine and oversharing, and I’ve had to learn that the hard way. Now I share from a place of reflection, not reaction,” she says. “If it can help someone feel seen or less alone, I’ll talk about it within reason. But I’ve certainly learned to protect parts of my life that I cherish most. I share what serves connection but doesn’t cost me peace.
"I refuse to let the internet consume me. It’s supposed to be a resource and tool for connection, so if it becomes anything beyond that I will log out."

Credit: Malcolm Roberson
Throughout each episode, she sips a cocktail and addresses trending topics (even when they involve herself). It’s a platform the Pepperdine University alumnus has been preparing to have since she graduated with a degree in broadcast journalism, with a concentration in political science.
“I just knew I was going to end up on a local news network at the head anchor table, breaking high speed chases, and tossing it to the weather girl,” she says. Instead, she ended up working as an assistant at TMZ before covering sports as a freelance reporter. (She’s said she didn’t work for ESPN, despite previous reports saying otherwise.) The Pre-Game combines her love for pop culture and sports in a way that once felt inaccessible to her in traditional media.
She’s not just a podcaster, though. When she’s not behind the mic, taking acting classes or making her New York Fashion Week debut, Kayla Nicole is also busy elevating her wellness brand Tribe Therepē, where she shares her workouts and the workout equipment that helps her look chic while staying fit. She says the brand will add apparel to its line up in early 2026.
“Tribe Therepē has evolved into exactly what I have always envisioned. A community of women who care about being fit not just for the aesthetic, but for their mental and emotional well-being too. It’s grounded. It’s feminine. It’s strong,” she says. “And honestly, it's a reflection of where I am in my life right now. I feel so damn good - mentally, emotionally, and physically. And I am grateful to be in a space where I can pour that love and light back into the community that continues to pour into me.”
Tap into the full It Girl 100 Class of 2025 and meet all the women changing game this year and beyond. See the full list here.
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