

There's no place like home, especially when you make it your own. And with the current state of the world, our habitat is helping us save humanity. I have purchased far too many decor pieces for my sanctuary now that it's my everything. Not that we need an excuse to throw some items in the bag but it definitely helps us cope with worldly woes when we can take shelter in a dope abode.
Just like you need classic staples in your wardrobe, you need timeless staples in your home. To offer an assist, we have gathered some ultra-modern items, from an elegant mirror to a vibrant bench that provide the best flair. Here are ten home decor staples you must have in order to elevate your crib.
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Woman Figural Wall Canvas White - Opalhouse
Target
Be it a standalone piece or a part of a gallery wall, this work of art will look fantastic in any room of your home.
Hub Modern and Contemporary Accent Mirror
Wayfair
Mirrors serve as a focal point and make rooms look larger instantly. Try adding this beauty to one of your smaller rooms to add more natural light as well. It would be a perfect fit for an entryway or a hallway.
Nebraska Velvet 71'' Square Arm Sofa
Wayfair
This couch is giving me major Insecure vibes. I definitely pictured Issa and Lawrence getting it in when I saw it. It's the color for me – it just evokes happiness. Offering luxurious comfort, this couch will be the gem in your living room.
Square-based Glass Vase
H&M
Flower vases are the epitome of a functional vessel constantly elevating your space. There isn't a room that won't be forever changed by a beautiful bouquet of flowers sitting pretty in this vase. Sit this piece next to a stack of magazines and you instantly have a Pinterest-inspired layout.
DENY DESIGNS Amy Sia Animal Spot Bench
Nordstrom
Now this is a bench I would love to approach! Black, white and gold are such classic colors and they offer a clean aesthetic to your home. You can opt to add this bench to your dining room table to dress it all the way up.
Stop & Smell The Rose Coir Doormat Brown - Sun Squad™
Target
Did someone say rosé? Personalize the message that your guests see when they enter your home. You are sure to get a bottle of wine the next time they visit.
Small Marble Candlestick
H&M
Candles are essential for all homes, so why not stylize your space with a chic holder? The warmth of a candle combined with the modern twist of a holder makes for calmative furnishing.
Solveig 4x6 Picture Frame
Crate & Barrel
If you're adding new picture frames to your cart, don't forget this Crate & Barrel exclusive. This is what a grown and sexy picture frame looks like. The multicolored resin resembles exotic hardwood and just makes me want to snuggle up on the couch.
CROSLEY RADIO 'Pay Phone' Wall Phone
Nordstrom
When you add retro staples throughout your abode, you add a unique touch that resonates like no other. The nostalgia of circling the dial round and round to make a phone call reminds us of simpler times. This vintage piece also keeps your coins in a bank if you decide to drop a few on a call.
Renee Bar Cart
Crate and Barrel
Meet your new bar cart full of sparkling glass and marble dedicated to being a glamorous focal point. Because of its versatility, you can add spirits, books, flowers and so much more to take advantage of this fixture.
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Adrian Marcel On Purpose, Sacrifice, And The 'Signs Of Life'
In this week's episode of xoMAN, host Kiara Walker talked with R&B artist Adrian Marcel, who opened up, full of heart and authenticity, about his personal evolution. He discussed his days transitioning from a young Bay Area singer on the come-up to becoming a grounded husband and father of four.
With honesty and introspection, Marcel reflected on how life, love, and loss have shaped the man he is today.
On ‘Life’s Subtle Signals’
Much of the conversation centered around purpose, sacrifice, and listening to life’s subtle signals. “I think that you really have to pay attention to the signs of life,” Marcel said. “Because as much as we need to make money, we are not necessarily on this Earth for that sole purpose, you know what I mean?” While he acknowledged his ambitions, adding, “that is not me saying at all I’m not trying to ball out,” he emphasized that fulfillment goes deeper.
“We are here to be happy. We are here [to] fulfill a purpose that we are put on here for.”
On Passion vs. Survival
Adrian spoke candidly about the tension between passion and survival, describing how hardship can sometimes point us away from misaligned paths. “If you find it’s constantly hurting you… that’s telling you something. That’s telling you that you’re going outside of your purpose.”
Marcel’s path hasn’t been without detours. A promising athlete in his youth, he recalled, “Early on in my career, I was still doing sports… I was good… I had a scholarship.” An injury changed everything. “My femur broke. Hence why I always say, you know, I’m gonna keep you hip like a femur.” After the injury, he pivoted to explore other careers, including teaching and corporate jobs.
“It just did not get me—even with any success that happened in anything—those times, back then, I was so unhappy. And you know, to a different degree. Like not just like, ‘I really want to be a singer so that’s why I’m unhappy.’ Nah, it was like, it was not fulfilling me in any form or fashion.”
On Connection Between Pursuing Music & Fatherhood
He recalled performing old-school songs at age 12 to impress girls, then his father challenged him: “You can lie to these girls all you want, but you're really just lying to yourself. You ain't growing.” That push led him to the piano—and eventually, to his truth. “Music is my love,” Marcel affirmed. “I wouldn’t be a happy husband if I was here trying to do anything else just to appease her [his wife].”
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Roscoe Dash joined xoMan host Kiara Walker to share the journey of his personal and spiritual evolution—from the party anthems that made him famous to a deeper life rooted in faith, family, and purpose. This episode offers an honest look at how the artist has grown beyond early fame, addressing fatherhood, masculinity, creativity, and healing.
Dash opened up about the internal transformation that has guided him away from chasing the spotlight and toward seeking peace. “Faith and fear can’t occupy the same space,” he said, underscoring his shift toward a more spiritually grounded life. Throughout the interview, he emphasized the importance of self-reflection:
“The most important conversations to me, honestly, outside of the ones you have with God, is the ones you have with yourself in the mirror.”
Dash is focused on the man he’s become. “I’m not the accolades I’ve achieved—I’m the person who achieved them,” he added, pointing to a broader understanding of identity and worth. A large part of that growth has come through fatherhood, especially raising daughters, which he said has deepened his understanding of love. “Love is unconditional and love loves to love no matter what,” he shared.
He also spoke candidly about the pressures of fame and its impact on creativity. “Chasing fame can kill your creativity as a musician,” he warns. Instead, his advice to other artists is simple but clear: “Keep your focus on your art form, whatever that may be, and stay passionate.”
The conversation also touches on gender dynamics and emotional safety in relationships. “Safe men make soft women. If she feels safe, she’ll melt like butter,” he said, challenging traditional notions of masculinity. Roscoe also offers wisdom on discernment and spiritual testing: “Sometimes the devil will give you what looks better than your blessing.”
Ultimately, Dash has learned to embrace peace over chaos. “All I can do is control what I can control. And that's how I respond to things and what I'm giving out,” he said. It’s a thoughtful, soulful side of Roscoe Dash that many may not expect—but one that leaves a lasting impression.
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