
There’s a Scripture in the Bible that speaks to life expectancy. Psalm 90:10(NKJV) states, “The days of our lives are seventy years; and if by reason of strength they are eighty years, yet their boast is only labor and sorrow; for it is soon cut off, and we fly away.” It’s interesting how much, all these years later (from when the Bible was written), science basically lines up with this. While some sources say that the average life expectancy is close to 76 for men and a smidgin’ over 80 for women, others believe that it’s more like 76 years, on average, for both genders.
Either way, when you get to the age where you realize that there is a lot more time behind you than there is before you, it can make you want to be more intentional about how you live your life, so that you can enjoy as many years on this planet as possible.
Some ways to do that include getting plenty of rest; not smoking (cigarettes); having and maintaining healthy relationships; exercising; losing weight; getting married (yep); having some sort of a spiritual foundation; forgiving others (somebody really needed to hear that); managing stress (because many chronic diseases are connected to stress) and knowing your purpose and living within it (because, after all, that is what you were put here to do: fulfill purpose).
Today, we’re going to discuss another way to add years to your life: putting certain foods into your diet. Because the saying, “You are what you eat,” is more than a notion when it comes to maintaining your overall health and well-being.
1. Blueberries

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If you’re looking for a sweet, low-calorie snack, try snacking on a bowl of blueberries. They’re a pretty good source of fiber and vitamin C. As far as health benefits go, blueberries are bomb because they are rich in antioxidants; can help to improve cognitive function; are able to boost your immunity, and they can help to strengthen your gut health as well.
On the longevity tip, since blueberries contain a solid amount of vitamin K, when you eat them, you can feel confident that you are providing your system with what it needs in order for your heart to remain healthy, your cholesterol levels to remain low and your bones to stay nice and strong.
Blueberries Recipe: Blueberry Tart with Brown Butter Crust
2. Broccoli

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When it comes to broccoli, here’s something that might trip you out: Did you know that one serving of it contains a whopping 90 percent of the vitamin C that you need on a daily basis? If you add to that the fact that it has quite a bit of vitamins C and K, and protein, fiber and antioxidants — broccoli is definitely something that should be in your diet as much as possible. Some benefits include its ability to help reduce bodily inflammation and improve your digestive health as well as being able to reduce your blood sugar levels, prevent constipation and keep certain cancers at bay.
Broccoli makes the longevity list because it has a literal reputation for strengthening bones, fighting the mental decline that comes with getting older and also reducing the oxidative stress that elevates over time. Yeah, if you want to age gracefully, put more broccoli on your plate.
Broccoli Recipe: Sautéed Broccoli
3. Nuts

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Copper (bookmark that). Magnesium. Manganese. Selenium. Vitamin E. Protein. Fiber. These are just some of the nutrients that nuts are rich in. Good thing too because, all of this, along with antioxidants, can help to lower your cholesterol levels, decrease bodily inflammation, reduce the risk of heart attacks and strokes, make it easier for you to lose weight and nuts can even put you in a better mood as well.
And how can nuts help you out in the longevity department? Well, the copper in them can slow down premature graying (check out “This Is How To Naturally Treat Premature Greying” and “Check Out These 8 Supplements That Will Slow Down The Graying Process”) while nuts, overall, have been proven to decrease your chances of being diagnosed with cancer, respiratory disease and heart disease. In fact, a Harvard-based article that I read on the topic stated, “The more often people ate nuts, the lower their risk of premature death.”
Nuts Recipe: Sweet & Spicy Roasted Party Nuts
4. Grapes

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Personally, one of my favorite snacks is frozen grapes. Good thing too because grapes are great for hydration, they’re a fair source of fiber, vitamin K and antioxidants and they can do everything from help to regulate your blood sugar levels and fight against certain forms of bacteria and fungi to reduce inflammation and protect your skin and hair from UV damage.
Honestly, when it comes to foods that help to increase longevity, grapes could’ve easily topped this list because they are a natural source of melatonin (which means that they can help you to sleep well which is one of the things that you need to be healthy); they help to keep your weight down (and obesity continues to be a leading cause of death); they contain properties that assist with slowing the aging process of body cells; they help to lower cholesterol levels and your blood pressure, and they can also help to improve your memory, attention span and even moods as you get older.
Grapes Recipe: Easy Roasted Grape Crostata
5. Onions

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Something that you may or may not know is onions, garlic, shallots and leeks are all related. Onions, in particular, contain a fair amount of fiber, protein and antioxidants. If you’re looking to regulate your blood sugar; keep your bones nice and strong; improve your gut health; strengthen your respiratory health and/or digestive system, or if you want to reduce some of your body fat, add more onions into your diet.
Since onions have the ability to release hydrogen sulfide into your system and that is a gas that fights off free radicals that are prone to damage your body cells, that’s why onions made this list of foods that are directly tied to increasing your longevity.
Onions Recipe: French Onion Soup (Soupe à l'Oignon Gratinée)
6. Salmon

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If there is something that I am going to eat, at least once a week (no exaggeration), it’s some baked salmon. I’ve always enjoyed it and I’m pretty sure that I always will. Nutrition-wise, you’d be amazed by how much of a superfood/multivitamin salmon is. I say that because it’s got an unbelievable amount of protein in it, along with being high in B vitamins, selenium, potassium and fatty acids. Some of its health benefits include it containing the compound astaxanthin (which is good for your heart); it reducing depression-related symptoms; it helping to manage your weight; it preventing inflammation, and it keeping your vision clear. Another bonus with salmon is, if you’re looking to tone your body, it helps to build muscle mass.
Some health professionals say that you can live a longer life by eating salmon because it’s also full of vitamin D — a nutrient that helps to strengthen your heart, give you more energy and build up your body’s cells (for the record, women who eat smaller fish like sardines and anchovies can lower their chances of experiencing a health-related premature death by as much as 32 percent too).
Salmon Recipe: Salmon Tacos
7. Olive Oil

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Do you like to cook with olive oil? If so, that’s awesome! I say that because olive oil is one of the best oils to prepare foods with. The antioxidants in it not only help to fight off bacteria and fungi and improve gut health, olive oil also is a top-tier oil for helping you to live a long life. It contains healthy fats that help to reduce your cholesterol levels. It has properties that will help to lower your blood pressure and keep your heart in good health. It has been proven to support the prevention of strokes, Alzheimer's disease and rheumatoid arthritis. And there is even a study which states that the consistent consumption of olive oil can impressively lower your chances of dying from disease. Pretty impressive, right?
Olive Oil Recipe: Bread Dipping Oil Recipe
8. Green Tea

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A website that I sometimes use to back up what I am sharing is Verywell Health. And when it comes to green tea, you might want to check out “What Happens to Your Body When You Drink Green Tea Every Day” (to read it in its entirety). For now, I’ll just share that green tea contains antioxidants that will strengthen your immunity along with properties that help to reduce oxidative stress, decrease the chances of being diagnosed with certain cancers and they can help to keep your oral health in optimal condition as well. Some other cool things about green tea are it helps your body to burn fat and it can improve our cognitive function too.
Green tea also has plant-based compounds in them called flavonoids. That’s awesome because they are potently filled with anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties that are proven to protect your body’s cells as you get older.
Green Tea Recipe: Soothing Green Tea Latte
9. Whole Grains

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If you’ve ever wondered why whole grains are called that, they are grains that contain every part of the grain seed: the bran, germ and endosperm. Because of this, whole grains have far more nutrients in them than refined grains do. Some foods that fall into the whole grain category include wheat, corn, oat, rye, quinoa, barley and brown rice. Some of the benefits that come with consuming whole grains include the fact that they are high in fiber, B vitamins and protein and they can help to lower your risk of heart disease, strokes and type 2 diabetes, they can decrease chronic inflammation, they are able to improve your digestive system and they can help to prevent certain types of cancers.
You will probably get a few extra years added to your life if you consume whole grains as well. In fact, one study actually revealed that by incorporating more whole grains into your diet, you can decrease your risk of health-related death by somewhere around five percent — and hey, every little bit counts.
Whole Grains Recipe: Mock Risotto
10. Dark Chocolate

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I’m a huge fan of dark chocolate! So much so, that I once penned, “12 Ways Dark Chocolate Can Benefit Your Body From Head To Toe” for the platform. If you’re skimming through this article and you want the Reader’s Digest version of what I said, some of the health benefits of dark chocolate (which is chocolate that made up of no less than 60 percent cocoa/cacao; cacao is the raw form of cocoa) includes that it increases blow circulation throughout the body (which is why it’s also considered to be an aphrodisiac); protects your skin from potential UV damage; it’s filled with iron (which is great when it comes to nurturing your red blood cells); it’s a wonderful source of fiber (which can help to keep toxins out of your system), and it can lower your risk of being diagnosed with heart disease.
The sweet thing about dark chocolate when it comes to your longevity? The antioxidants in it will help to reduce oxidative stress. Also, the flavanols in them are great at fighting off the free radicals that can lead to premature aging too. Consuming about an ounce a day should do the trick.
Dark Chocolate Recipe: Chocolate-Covered Pomegranate Seeds
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Time is precious — and, as you can see, food can help you to make the most of your time.
Here’s to selecting the ones that will help you to live your best life — for as long as possible.
Amen? Selah.
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Because We Are Still IT, Girl: It Girl 100 Returns
Last year, when our xoNecole team dropped our inaugural It Girl 100 honoree list, the world felt, ahem, a bit brighter.
It was March 2024, and we still had a Black woman as the Vice President of the United States. DEI rollbacks weren’t being tossed around like confetti. And more than 300,000 Black women were still gainfully employed in the workforce.
Though that was just nineteen months ago, things were different. Perhaps the world then felt more receptive to our light as Black women.
At the time, we launched It Girl 100 to spotlight the huge motion we were making as dope, GenZennial Black women leaving our mark on culture. The girls were on the rise, flourishing, drinking their water, minding their business, leading companies, and learning to do it all softly, in rest. We wanted to celebrate that momentum—because we love that for us.
So, we handpicked one hundred It Girls who embody that palpable It Factor moving through us as young Black women, the kind of motion lighting up the world both IRL and across the internet.
It Girl 100 became xoNecole’s most successful program, with the hashtag organically reaching more than forty million impressions on Instagram in just twenty-four hours. Yes, it caught on like wildfire because we celebrated some of the most brilliant and influential GenZennial women of color setting trends and shaping culture. But more than that, it resonated because the women we celebrated felt seen.
Many were already known in their industries for keeping this generation fly and lit, but rarely received recognition or flowers. It Girl 100 became a safe space to be uplifted, and for us as Black women to bask in what felt like an era of our brilliance, beauty, and boundless influence on full display.
And then, almost overnight, it was as if the rug was pulled from under us as Black women, as the It Girls of the world.
Our much-needed, much-deserved season of ease and soft living quickly metamorphosed into a time of self-preservation and survival. Our motion and economic progression seemed strategically slowed, our light under siege.
The air feels heavier now. The headlines colder. Our Black girl magic is being picked apart and politicized for simply existing.
With that climate shift, as we prepare to launch our second annual It Girl 100 honoree list, our team has had to dig deep on the purpose and intention behind this year’s list. Knowing the spirit of It Girl 100 is about motion, sauce, strides, and progression, how do we celebrate amid uncertainty and collective grief when the juice feels like it is being squeezed out of us?
As we wrestled with that question, we were reminded that this tension isn’t new. Black women have always had to find joy in the midst of struggle, to create light even in the darkest corners. We have carried the weight of scrutiny for generations, expected to be strong, to serve, to smile through the sting. But this moment feels different. It feels deeply personal.
We are living at the intersection of liberation and backlash. We are learning to take off our capes, to say no when we are tired, to embrace softness without apology.
And somehow, the world has found new ways to punish us for it.

In lifestyle, women like Kayla Nicole and Ayesha Curry have been ridiculed for daring to choose themselves. Tracee Ellis Ross was labeled bitter for speaking her truth about love. Meghan Markle, still, cannot breathe without critique.
In politics, Kamala Harris, Letitia James, and Jasmine Crockett are dragged through the mud for standing tall in rooms not built for them.
In sports, Angel Reese, Coco Gauff, and Taylor Townsend have been reminded that even excellence will not shield you from racism or judgment.

In business, visionaries like Diarrha N’Diaye-Mbaye and Melissa Butler are fighting to keep their dreams alive in an economy that too often forgets us first.
Even our icons, Beyoncé, Serena, and SZA, have faced criticism simply for evolving beyond the boxes society tried to keep them in.
From everyday women to cultural phenoms, the pattern is the same. Our light is being tested.

And yet, somehow, through it all, we are still showing up as that girl, and that deserves to be celebrated.
Because while the world debates our worth, we keep raising our value. And that proof is all around us.
This year alone, Naomi Osaka returned from motherhood and mental health challenges to reach the semifinals of the US Open. A’ja Wilson claimed another MVP, reminding us that beauty and dominance can coexist. Brandy and Monica are snatching our edges on tour. Kahlana Barfield Brown sold out her new line in the face of a retailer that had been canceled. And Melissa Butler’s company, The Lip Bar, is projecting a forty percent surge in sales.

We are no longer defining strength by how much pain we can endure. We are defining it by the unbreakable light we continue to radiate.
We are the women walking our daily steps and also continuing to run solid businesses. We are growing in love, taking solo trips, laughing until it hurts, raising babies and ideas, drinking our green juice, and praying our peace back into existence.
We are rediscovering the joy of rest and realizing that softness is not weakness, it is strategy.
And through it all, we continue to lift one another. Emma Grede is creating seats at the table. Valeisha Butterfield has started a fund for jobless Black women. Arian Simone is leading in media with fearless conviction. We are pouring into each other in ways the world rarely sees but always feels.

So yes, we are in the midst of societal warfare. Yes, we are being tested. Yes, we are facing economic strain, political targeting, and public scrutiny. But even war cannot dim a light that is divinely ours.
And we are still shining.
And we are still softening.
And we are still creating.
And we are still It.

That is the quiet magic of Black womanhood, our ability to hold both truth and triumph in the same breath, to say yes, and to life’s contradictions.
It is no coincidence that this year, as SheaMoisture embraces the message “Yes, And,” they stand beside us as partners in celebrating this class of It Girls. Because that phrase, those two simple words, capture the very essence of this moment.
Yes, we are tired. And we are still rising.
Yes, we are questioned. And we are the answer.
Yes, we are bruised. And we are still beautiful.

This year’s It Girl 100 is more than a list. It is a love letter to every Black woman who dares to live out loud in a world that would rather she whisper. This year’s class is living proof of “Yes, And,” women who are finding ways to thrive and to heal, to build and to rest, to lead and to love, all at once.
It is proof that our joy is not naive, our success not accidental. It is the reminder that our light has never needed permission.
So without further ado, we celebrate the It Girl 100 Class of 2025–2026.
We celebrate the millions of us who keep doing it with grace, grit, and glory.
Because despite it all, we still shine.
Because we are still her.
Because we are still IT, girl.
Meet all 100 women shaping culture in the It Girl 100 Class of 2025. View the complete list of honorees here.
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One thing that will never go out of style is the pride Black women take in showcasing and adorning our crowns. From sculpting braids to sleek bobs and curls for days, the girls are always playing with texture, color, and undeniable creativity—switching up our hairstyles like we do our moods. This season, hair is less about what's trending and more about expression. We're experimenting, evolving, and embodying every version of ourselves.
In partnership with SheaMoisture, this year's It Girl 100 celebrates the beauty of "Yes, And," an ode to the women who wear every side of themselves with confidence. These innovators remind us power and softness, heritage and reinvention, can beautifully co-exist. It's a call to own every layer of who we are. Because being an It Girl isn’t about choosing one version of yourself. It’s about saying yes to all of them.
Below, the women featured in xoNecole's It Girl 100 Class of 2025 are doing that—and then some—eloquently showing us how to say "Yes, And," to hair looks that always serve.
Luxe Layers x Serena Page
From braids and twists to platinum wigs, Love Island season six winner Serena Page continues to prove she can do it all, and do it all flawlessly. No matter the style, her hair game is undefeated. The softly layered middle-part with just the right amount of bounce is a classic Black girl hairstyle that gives inches without sacrificing body. It's a style that gives soft glam with a finish so seamless it could pass as a silk press—the kind of just-left-the-salon ease we all crave.
The Remix Cut x Ruesworld
When it comes to a short cut with attitude, Ruthann Palacios does not come to play. Known on social media by the moniker @ruesworldd, the content creator keeps her foot on our necks with the way she remixes her short cuts time and time again. Her recent sculpted, asymmetrical style is less of the "pixie" we're used to and more of a power move as she channels the bold innovation of '90s icons like Missy Elliott. This time, with extra length through her crown and right side, a sharp shorn left etched with box designs, and added length in the back, the hairstyle is equal parts edgy and architectural while being a look that's completely her own.
"I just told my stylist I wanted something cool and let them have full creative control with it," Ruthann told us of the hairstyle. "It channels my It Girl energy because I’m not afraid to take risks and show up boldly as myself, no matter the look." As a resident It Girl, it's clearly Rue's world—we're just living in it.
Fulani Flow x Kayla Nicole
Founder and podcast host Kayla Nicole's face card never declines, and neither do her statement hairstyles. One such look was her Fulani braids, a style that looked like it was made to be her signature. Originating from the Fulani people of West Africa, this traditional style features cornrows braided down the center of the head, with smaller plaits framing the face and beads or accessories woven throughout. Kayla's take on the tradition complete with center cornrows once again proved what we all know to be true: when it comes to heritage and repping for the culture, an It Girl never has to choose.
Top Tier Knot x Yana C.
Known to her followers online as @goldynaps, Yana C. is the queen of turning hair into her favorite art form. One of her latest looks feels like a love letter to '90s Black hair creativity. With Fulani-inspired cornrows braided flat and finished into bantu knots that line the center of her head like a crown, paired with a sleek straight sew-in flowing in the back, the style is equal parts nostalgic and next-level. And, of course, her signature ash blonde locks takes it all up a notch.
"This style was inspired by the ’90s—my favorite era for artistry in Black hair!” Yana shared with xoNecole. “My hair has always been such a notable part of who I am, and I love to express myself through it and make it an extension of my personal style. This style channels my It Girl energy because it’s a reminder that Black hair isn’t just hair—it’s art."
The look, which racked up major views on TikTok, is giving everything it needs to give. Because for Yana, self-expression will always make her the main character.
Sculpted Braids x Shema Love
Let Black girls be whimsical.
For content creator and creative visionary Shema Love, this hairstyle encapsulates that mood perfectly. The intricate, symmetrical design captures both the power and the playfulness defining this season's resident Black girl hair renaissance for It Girls everywhere. "I loved the whimsy of this hairstyle. I want to see Black women be allowed to experiment more with whimsy with our hair," Shema shares with xoNecole. "I love the symmetry of it and a look that shines from every angle. And of course, no style ever feels complete to me without my baby hairs laid."
Boho Boss Braids x Toni Bravo
Toni Bravo may be the "CEO of Blush," but she is also a resident slayer of hair looks. Whether she's rocking a custom install or a silk press, the content creator is making a hair moment just as often as she's putting us on to the latest beauty finds. But when she debuted her boho box braids earlier this year, she reminded us that every new hair alert hits just a little different.
Loose, free-flowing curls woven through intricate box braids add movement and softness to the tried-and-true style, creating a look that’s equal parts effortless and elevated. "I wanted something a little messy but just as intentional, and it was perfect. It channels the part of me that loves to have fun and switch it up while trying something new," Toni tells us about her look. "An It Girl knows that the best things are right outside of your comfort zone."
The low-maintenance meets high-impact style is one that channels Toni's booked, busy, and bossy era to a T.
Black Girl Bob x Maya Allen
Whether asymmetrical, curly, or blunt, there's something irrefutably It Girl about rocking a bob. With quiet confidence, it's a cut that commands attention. Beauty editor and expert Maya Allen has worn different iterations of the bob throughout the years, but this one—styled with a deep side part and cut just below her jawline—frames her face and enviable bone structure to perfection. In an interview with Cosmopolitan, Maya dubbed her signature bob "a power cut." "It’s like a power suit for my hair," she added. "It makes me feel fierce and effortlessly chic without ever having to try too hard."
Fro The Culture x Zaynah
The afro will forever be a cultural statement. It's a style that represents the most natural state of our hair, a crown that often defies gravity whenever we choose to wear it. Content creator Zaynah understands the fro's power as a symbol of Black beauty and can be seen wearing her type 4 hair unapologetically in much of her viral social media content. Whether achieved through twist-outs, braid outs, wash n' gos, or perfectly picked, Zaynah's take on the afro hairstyle is full, stretched, and beautifully shaped. With it, she embodies not just It Girl energy with pride and confidence, but the freedom to take up space.
Pony Up x Kirah Ominique
As far as we're concerned, nobody does a ponytail quite like Kirah Ominique. The It Girl's It Girl has made the sleek, added-hair ponytail as signature of hers when she's not sporting braids or a slick-back bun. With her baby hairs laid, and every strand of her hair smoothed and locked into place, the hairstyle is a clean, sculpted serve that's as chic as it is fierce. The content creator and beauty influencer's ponytails are the perfect blend of playfulness and precision, a put-together staple in every It Girl's hairstyle arsenal.
In Her Copper Era x Keke Palmer
If "blondes have more fun," then the ladies deciding to rock copper are rewriting the rules. In recent years, copper has had a bit of a resurgence as a warmer, richer take on going lighter, and nobody's been owning that energy lately quite like Keke Palmer. This year, the host and actress debuted her now-signature hue in its boldest form yet: a tousled face-framing pixie that gives the timeless allure we've come to associate with '90s icons like Nia Long and Halle Berry.
As Byrdie put it best, "We've seen the shade at every length and in every style, but this one is truly something special."
Meet all 100 women shaping culture in the It Girl 100 Class of 2025. View the complete list here.
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