
This 90s-Inspired Makeup & Style Challenge Is Taking Over The Internet

TikTok is proof that the internet was basically made for Black creatives and the latest makeup challenge that has taken the internet by storm is the best thing you'll see all day.
In a trend created by makeup artist, Queen Hollywood, mavens from all over the country channeled their inner Queen Bee for the #CrushOnYouChallenge and honey, they slayed.
Rocking nostalgia-worthy looks inspired by Lil' Kim's verse on the 1996 classic, these queens served us multi-colored looks for days and now we want to do it, too.
While some users gave us big '96 Kim energy with fur coats and wigs, some TikTokers put their own spin on the challenge by implementing ASL and colorful du rags and head wraps.
For some of our favorite looks, scroll below!
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Taylor "Pretty" Honore is a spiritually centered and equally provocative rapper from Baton Rouge, Louisiana with a love for people and storytelling. You can probably find me planting herbs in your local community garden, blasting "Back That Thang Up" from my mini speaker. Let's get to know each other: @prettyhonore.
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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5 Satisfying Hip Opening Stretches Your Body Wants You To Do More Often
Before you dive into these delicious hip openers, I want to help you understand why focusing on your hips is vital for your overall mental and physical health. In relation to physical health, hip openers can release pressure in your lower back, improve your spine function, increase circulation, and reduce your overall stress and anxiety.
Likewise, science, such as quantum physics and the study of metaphysics, has proven that humans store stress and trauma in their hips. Individuals who suffer from anxiety or depression often find hip openers, such as the ones below, help reduce their symptoms substantially. Additionally, therapists and counselors who work with trauma survivors often prescribe these postures in tandem with talk therapy and treatment.
The one caveat I must warn you of with hip openers is that if you’ve been avoiding trauma or have unresolved pain from the past it may reemerge as you work through some of these postures. That is completely normal and also a healthy part of releasing stress in your body, but if you’re not expecting it, it can come as a shock in the moment. Before you try these postures out, go into them with an open mind and give yourself grace. Make sure you focus on your breath as you navigate each one. I’d suggest a four-count inhale and a four-count exhale.
Also, if it’s helpful attach yourself to a mantra (a word or phrase) you can focus on while you’re in them. One mantra that has served me best in hip openers is, “I am open to letting go of anything that no longer serves me.” Feel free to grab a yoga mat, blanket, or towel to dive into the following postures.
Note: Hold each stretch for 30-60 seconds.
Half Pigeon
Half Pigeon Down
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Half Pigeon Up
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How To: Bring your front leg as close to a 90-degree angle as you can and extend your back leg long behind you. You can stay lifted up or fold over your front leg. (Note: if you feel any knee pain, bring your front heel closer to your back hip.) Repeat with your other leg forward.
Runner's Large
Runner's Lunge
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How To: Bring your front foot forward and wide, partially off of the mat, then bring both hands to the inside of your front leg. Extend your back leg long. You have the option to come down to your forearms here as well. Repeat with your other leg forward.
Kneeling Crescent Lunge
Kneeling Crescent Lunge
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How To: Bring your front foot forward, bend your knee 90 degrees, and ensure your front knee is in line with your hip. Extend your back leg long and reach both hands over your head. Push into your front heel and press down through your back hip. Repeat with your other leg forward.
Prone Frog
Prone Frog
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Prone Frog
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How To: Start in a tabletop position, bring your knees wider than hips distance apart, align your ankles with your knees, and flex your toes toward your knees. Push your pelvis down toward the mat and relax forward into a fold.
Malasana
Malasana
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How To: Begin in a standing position and place your feet just outside of your hips distance, pivot your toes outward, bend your knees, and keep your chest lifted. Bring your elbows in between your thighs and hands together at your heart.
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Originally published on January 18, 2023