

Finding ways to make your job search smart and more efficient is always a win. And whether you apply to two jobs a week or 20, your approach and strategy should be one that’s going to give you a leg up.
One method that has gotten a resurgence of chatter on social recently is the Boolean search for job seekers. This gets a little technical, but it’s not complicated, as it’s simply a way for you to streamline the results you get when you’re looking for specific job opportunities online. Let’s get into the details of how this might be beneficial to you in your job search:
What Is Boolean Search?
Its roots are in an algebraic method, credited to 19th-century math whiz George Boole, that incorporates symbolic logic. The search version combines words and phrases (also called Boolean operators), using “and,” “or,” and “not” (known as Boolean operators) to streamline a particular online search. It’s been used in research for decades since libraries and other parties began offering digital catalogs and databases.
Recruiters and sales professionals have used this method to pinpoint specific skills and talents for outreach and job interviews. For sales, it’s a tool to find keywords that are applicable for finding specific sales leads and clients, and for recruiters, it helps them narrow down the candidates to contact for a specific position.
Job seekers have been using it as well, but in reverse, researching through job boards, LinkedIn, and other platforms for specific positions at specific companies in specific cities with specific duties.
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Benefits Of The Boolean Search Method For Job Seekers
Well, first, it saves time since you’ll be narrowing your search from super-vague and general to focused and strategic. You can find fits that match, more or less, what you’re looking for in a job or company.
Second, when you think in terms of Boolean search, it can inform you on what keywords to use on your resume, LinkedIn profile, or professional website in order to attract the attention you actually want when searching for a job or at least so that you’ll be included among other candidates. This definitely beats being excluded simply because the words don’t exist or getting constant junk mail about invites to interview for jobs that are totally outside of what you really want.
How To Use The Boolean Search For Job Seekers
There are several savvy ways people use Boolean search to find more targeted job leads and postings. TikTok user Stem_Babe, for example, has offered tips on how best to use the method, urging job seekers in the tech industry to type in job skills versus titles. Another TikTok user, 6FigureChickConsulting, specifies that jobseekers should leverage the Boolean job search approach on LinkedIn to find leads for specific jobs shared via posts from their networks.
When you search, add in the words “and,” or “or" between job titles, skills, cities, or credentials. You can also add quotation marks around specific phrases when you want to be even more specific with a term. For example, you might search “marketing director and tech startup” if you wanted that role in a specific area of the tech industry. You might type “research editor or copy editor” if you want job listings narrowed down to those specific roles. Add quotation marks around industry-specific jargon, programming knowledge, or specialized skills.
You can play around with it, trying different phrases and word groupings to see what keyword combinations work for what you’re looking for. You can also use SEO tools and resources to find out what phrases you might want to target for your industry and the type of job you’re interested in. You’ll know you’re on to something when the number of search results gets smaller and smaller, and you’re finding more of the types of jobs you want to apply for than those you do not.
Give the Boolean search method a try the next time you’re looking for job opportunities, and add it to your strategy if it’s ideal and proves to save you time and stress.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
Watch the full episode below:
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
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6 Tabletop Sex Positions That'll Unlock You & Bae's Most Primal Desires
Something I will never tire of is finding new ways to bring new layers to intimacy. A wall you use as momentum, a bathroom sink to help you keep your balance as he worships you on his knees, a shower that is usually for cleansing but evolves into a sacred ritual of shared intimacy.
My favorite kind of sex is the kind of sex that prioritizes pleasure and connection. So, technically and thankfully, I can say most of my sex life has been quite pleasurable throughout the years. But the memorable encounters for sure take the cake. One such encounter actually took place on a kitchen counter, and with it unleashed inhibitions in ways I never anticipated while unlocking levels to top-tier sex. And that, that involved a kitchen counter.
Why Kitchen Counter Sex Just Hits Different
What is it about having your hips pressed into the edge of a kitchen counter that lets out something so primal in you? The cool-to-the-touch feel of the countertop against exposed skin as you rise to meet him again and again. The urgency in every movement. The playfulness of repurposing an everyday space for something far more erotic. If you’re looking to bring that energy into your own sex life, keep reading for positions and tips to explore.
1. The Bounce House
They don’t call it Bounce House for nothing. In this position, the penetrating partner lies flat on their back on a sturdy table or counter while the receiving partner straddles them, knees bent and facing away. With their hands gripping the edge of the surface for support, the receiving partner slides or bounces at their own pace, owning the rhythm, the motion, and the view.
According to sex therapist Michael Aaron, Ph.D., who spoke with Women’s Health, the receiving partner placing their legs between their partner’s creates a tighter sensation, while staying fully astride allows for more bounce and range of motion. Either way, this one puts the receiver in full control, and you know we love a good woman on top position. Pleasure and power? Say less.
2. The Bicycle
Well, you know what they say about riding a bike. In the case of this table top position, it's the receiving partner who is the rider...but not in the way you think. While lying back on a sturdy surface or a table, the receiver will bring their knees toward their chest, bending them as if in a cycling motion. The penetrating partner stands at the edge of the surface, grabbing the receiver's ankles, and guides themselves inside, slowly so as to savor the moment. This angle puts everything on display for the penetrating partner while allowing for deep, connected thrusting for the receiver.
To take things up a notch , the receiving partner can touch themselves or flex their thighs to control the depth or the rhythm. Because, who says only one person gets to have control?
3. Counter Offer
How could we be at the table and not use it to eat? Enter: Counter Offer. In this oral-focused sex position, the receiving partner perches on the edge of a counter or table, lying back or sitting upright with legs parted or bent for comfort. The penetrating partner kneels or stands between their thighs, depending on the setup and the kind of attention they’re ready to give. No doubt, this one’s all about access and intention.
With the vulva front and center, the height makes it easier to maintain eye contact, use hands freely for things like breast play or incorporating toys, and take their time with every moan-inducing taste. And that’s on five, six, seven, ATE.
4. Standing Doggy
Standing Doggy is what happens when a classic like doggy style gets an upgrade. Instead of being on all fours on a bed, the receiving partner bends over a hard surface like a table or counter, keeping their hips aligned at its edge. The penetrating partner stands behind and enters from the back, using the angle to go deeper and create a strong, steady rhythm. This one offers maximum control and visual appeal, especially if the penetrating partner reaches around for a little extra clitoral stimulation throughout thrusting.
This angle can get intense quickly, so bonus points if the receiving partner engages their pelvic floor muscles or shifts their weight to adjust how the pressure hits, especially if your goal is to hit that G-spot sweet spot.
5. Top Shelf
Men's Healthcalls this one "Yourself on the Shelf," but we like to call it "Top Shelf" because it's giving full view, full grip, and climax potential that's hard to top. The receiving partner sits on the edge of a sturdy table or counter while the penetrating partner stands in front of them and slowly slides in, thrusting while keeping them in position. From there, legs can wrap around their waist, arms can encircle their back, and the closeness at peak ecstasy? Chef's kiss.
If you have the core strength, add lifting to the menu for the final strokes leading to orgasm. Otherwise, allow the surface to the heavy lifting and enjoy the pleasure.
6. The Thumper
What better way to remind yourself that you're both the snack and the entrée than with a little tableside service courtesy of The Thumper? This position has the receiving partner kneeling on a sturdy table or counter (keyword: sturdy), hands gripping the edge or braced in front for support. The penetrating partner can then either kneel behind them (if there's room for two), or stay anchored on the ground with both feet planted on the floor (similar to the previously mentioned Standing Doggy). It all depends on the mood.
Kneeling on the table offers just the right amount of leverage for deep, steady strokes. The receiving partner can play with tightness by either keeping their knees closer together for a snug grip, or open their knees wider to invite more access, depth, and stretch. The Thumper is versatile that way, and the most important thing? The receiver gets to be the main course. Yum.
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