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From the co-ed who loves to lounge to the athletic enthusiast who loves to rock a popped color, college brings out all sorts of personalities. Whether you’re The Sporty One or The Cozy One, we have the perfect solution to decorate your dorm in a way that suits your personal style. These products will help your dorm room double as a perfect place to relax between classes or kick your feet up after a workout.
xoNecole and Target have you covered with items that are sure to make for the perfect home away from home as you prepare to head back to campus.
For The Cozy One:
Room Essentials™ Twin/Twin Extra Long Box Stitch Puffer Comforter Ivory
Who says your comforter can’t bring you a little extra comfort? This item goes beyond just a cute statement piece to dress up your bed; it provides that extra oomph that may be needed after a long day of classes.
Room Essentials™ Scallop Tray
Designed to help you store those smaller items like keys more stylishly, this tray is also a great landing spot to store your e.l.f. Lip Mask or Lip Balm, because soft lips make for a soft life.
Room Essentials™ Scallop Upholstered Ottoman
Need extra seating for guests or simply want to be somewhere other than your bed or desk? This product offers seating and additional storage in a chic way. Pro Tip: Get a waffle knit robe for those lazy Sundays and store it right in here.
Room Essentials™ Scallop Desk with Drawer Natural
A quaint desk that can go in the corner of your room or wherever you please, this product may be the perfect solution for your study needs. Place a catchall dish or a scented candle on top, and you’ve got quite the cozy setting.
Room Essentials™ 16"x20" Wavy Frame White
The great thing about this frame is that you can place your favorite photo inside, something that reminds you of home in your new oasis on campus. It can also be used as a place to jot down your visions for the semester. Either way, this can serve as the spot where you get your extra push to keep going.
Room Essentials™ Pixel Rose Woven Cotton Toss Pillow
Having great decor that doubles as something that serves you well is a lost art, but not with this pillow. Not only will it make your bed look cozy, but it also serves as a soft place to land.
Room Essentials™ Corduroy Compressed Foam Dorm Chair Cream
Place this in the corner of your dorm and you’ll be able to check off your reading list in no time. This can also serve as a place to catch a quick nap, a breather, or a place to meditate between classes.
Room Essentials™ Trailing Prayer Artificial Plant
Having a busy schedule isn’t quite suitable for a plant mom, but you can still have the look and feel of greenery in your dorm with this dupe. Sometimes, just looking at plants can restore feelings of serenity and good vibes, which is why this artificial one is just as good as the real deal.
Room Essentials™ Quilted Wearable Blanket White/Tan Pattern
Rough day? No problem! Thanks to this wearable blanket, you can find comfort anywhere throughout the day, not just within the walls of your dorm. Yet, you still may find it the perfect thing to pair with the Room Essentials™ Corduroy Compressed Foam Dorm Chair Cream.
Room Essentials™ 4'x5'6" Solid Shag Accent Rug Ivory
Use this as the perfect room divider for you and your roomie. It’s soft, serene, and can help the two of you decipher your respective sides of the room without it being awkward or weird. There’s no better way to rid bad vibes than with a plush rug.
For The Sporty Prepster:
Room Essentials™ Gaming Chair Navy
Created with the avid gamer in mind, this chair will allow you to set up your system in your new dorm room while also helping you to be mindful of sharing a space with others.
Room Essentials™ Twin/Twin XL Corduroy Plaid Comforter Navy
Designed with The Sporty One in mind, this bedding gives off the perfect cool vibes.
Room Essentials™ Printed Plaid Ribbed Plush Throw (Navy/Gray/Ivory)
Keep the comfort without taking the comforter off your bed with this matching blanket that can be used while gaming, studying, or even after a long day of practice.
Room Essentials™ Pinstripe Plaid Toss Pillow Cobalt Blue
Comfort isn’t out the window just because you live a life on the move. This pillow serves as a great decorative piece, but can be used to equip you with a little piece of “feel good” between classes and practice.
Room Essentials™ 4'x5'6" Rugby Striped Accent Rug Gray/Blue
Use this as a room divider between you and your roommates, or place it at the edge of your bed for a comfortable place to sit on those days when your chairs don’t do it.
Room Essentials™ Rocking Floor Lounge Chair Striped
If the gaming chair isn’t your thing, this can be placed in the corner to help you dive into leisure reading or assignments.
Room Essentials™ 16"x20" Wavy Frame Black
Create the perfect collage of memories with the team on this frame, or make it a sign-in sheet to collect memories from all of your guests. It could even be a place for them to leave notes of inspiration to guide you through the semester and season.
Room Essentials™ Metal Rolling Locker Cabinet Blue
Perfect for additional storage without taking up too much space. This piece can be used to store your Hero Cosmetics Mighty Patch® Pimple Patches, nail clippers, or even a water bottle or shaker cup.
Room Essentials™ 2pk Magnetic Lidded Boxes Blue
There’s no such thing as too much storage in a dorm room, where extra space is always necessary. These lidded boxes can be used to store additional clothing items or for everyday items like Versed™ Dew Point Moisturizing Gel-Cream, e.l.f. Wow Brow Gel or Clear Brow & Lash Mascara, or Native Deodorant.
Room Essentials™ Channeled Barrel Back Office Chair Green
Who says you can’t have comfort and style while knocking out assignments throughout the semester? Moreover, the color of this uniquely designed chair brings a sense of peace by just looking at it, adding to the much-needed comfort to make your dorm the perfect oasis.
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Anyway, I personally think that the less shallow folks out here may contemplate calling things “quits” or they at least distance themselves a bit from their partner (and what I’m referring to is serious relationships) due to all of the stress and strain that oftentimes comes with the holidays whether it be financial, familial, due to their tight schedules or something else.
Listen, I would hate for you and your man to miss the fun and happiness of experiencing this time of year, all because you are so overwhelmed or irritated that you can’t really enjoy it. That’s why I have a few practical tips for how to avoid allowing the typical holiday season stress from INFECTING your relationship.
Manage Your Expectations
GiphyUnmanaged expectations. If there is a main reason why the holiday season tends to be so stress-filled for so many people, I’d bet good money that this is the cause. And when you’re in a long-term relationship, expectations can manifest themselves in all sorts of cryptic and/or unexpected ways. You might have relatives who assume that you are going to be with them for Thanksgiving or Christmas when you have other plans in mind. You might be thinking that you are going to spend one amount for presents while your man is thinking something totally different. When it comes to scheduling, your signals may be crossed.
And you know what? To all of these scenarios, this is where clear and consistent communication come in. Don’t assume anything. Don’t dictate anything either. From now until New Year’s, mutually decide to check in once a week, just to make sure that you are both on the same page as it relates to the holidays and what you both are thinking will come along with it. The less blindsided you both feel, the less stressed out you will be. Trust me on this.
Set (and Keep) a Budget
GiphyOkay, so I read that last year, 36 percent of Americans incurred some type of holiday-related debt. Hmph. Last year, there was still some sense of normalcy in this country, chile, so I can only imagine what finances are gonna look like over the next several weeks. That said, since I don’t know a lot of people who don’t find being broke stressful, make sure that you and your bae set a budget and then stick to it this year — no ifs, ands or buts.
Because really, y’all — it doesn’t make sense to deplete savings and/or max out credit cards for a few days of giggles only to be damn near losing your mind because you don’t know how to make ends meet come Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day.
And by the way, this tip doesn’t just speak to things like food and gifts; I also mean travel. If it doesn’t make a ton of sense (or cents) to be all over the place this year — DON’T BE.
Keep Matthew 5:37 at the Forefront
GiphyIf off the top of your head, you don’t know what Matthew 5:37 says, no worries, here ya go: “But let your ‘Yes’ be ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’ For whatever is more than these is from the evil one.” That verse right there? Oh, it’s a boundaries lifesaver! I say that because do you see “maybe” or “I’ll think about it” in there? Nope. LOL. It says that you should tell people “yes” or “no” and leave it at that — and that complements Anne Lamott’s quote, “’No’ is a complete sentence” impeccably well. Yeah, you’ve got to remember that anything beyond a yes or no to a request is privileged information; you don’t owe anyone details or an explanation.
Besides, if you are really honest with yourself, when someone asks you something and you give a “Umm, let me think about it” kind of reply, more times than not, you already know what your answer is going to be — so why not let you both off of the hook? Give your response. Commit to that. And let everyone (including yourself) get on with their lives and schedules.
I promise you that when it comes to those holiday parties, you are pissing more folks off by not RSVP’ing or doing so and not showing up than just saying, “Thank you but not this year” off the rip.
Remember That Your Personal Space Is Privilege Not a Right
GiphyA friend of mine recently bought a new house and invited me over to come see it. He’s a single man with no children, so as I was taking in all of the space that he had, especially as I walked through his finished basement, I joked about relatives coming to live with him. “Hell no” and “absolutely not” were pretty much his immediate responses as he went on to say that some folks even had the nerve to be offended when he told them that he had no intentions on taking DNA in.
Ain’t it wild how people think that your stuff is their right? And yes, that brings me to my next point. Your home is your sanctuary space. If you want to host folks this year — cool. If not, ALSO COOL. Please don’t let folks (family included) guilt you into how they want you to act or even into what they would do if the shoe was on the other foot. You are not them — and as one of my favorite quotes states, “If two people were exactly alike, one of them would be unnecessary.” (A man by the name Larry Dixon said that.)
Hell, my friends? They know that I am good for sending them random things that they need or even want all throughout the year. Coming over to hang out at my pace, though. Uh-uh. Chalk it up to being a card-carrying member of the ambivert club yet I like keeping my living space personal — and I sleep like a baby, each and every night, for feeling that way.
Always remember that your space, your time, your resources, your energy and shoot, yourself period (including your relationship), are all things that are your own. You get to choose how, when and why you want to share them. The holiday season is certainly no exception.
Cultivate Some “You Two Only” Traditions
GiphyIt’s not uncommon for some couples to hit me up after the holiday season to “detox.” Sometimes it’s due to the financial drama (and sometimes trauma) that they experienced. Sometimes it’s because they allowed their relatives (especially in-laws) to get more into their personal business than they should’ve. More than anything, though, it tends to be because they didn’t get enough quality time together and so ended up feeling “disconnected.”
Please don’t let that happen. Listen, I’m not even a holidays kind of woman and yet, I will absolutely sit myself down with some hot chocolate and chocolate chip cookies to enjoy a Hallmark holiday film or two. Aside from the fact that most of them are lighthearted and sweet, I also like that they usually focus on couples loving on each other amidst all of the holiday beauty and ambiance — which is something that all couples should set aside some time to do.
Maybe it’s a vacation. Maybe it’s a staycation. Or maybe it’s my personal favorite, A SEXCATION. Whether it’s for a few days, the weekend or even overnight — don’t you let the holidays go by without setting aside time for you and your man to celebrate one another. Don’t you dare (check out “Are You Ready To Have Some Very Merry 'Christmas Sex'?”).
GET. SOME. REST.
GiphyI once read that 8 out of 10 people get stressed out over the holidays and 3 out of 10 lose sleep during to it — and when you’re stress-filled and sleep-deprived, that can absolutely lead to hypersensitivity, making mountains out of molehills and even not being in the mood for sex.
Your relationship can’t afford to go through any of this, so definitely make sure to prioritize rest. I don’t care how unrealistic it might seem during this time, sleep should never be seen as a luxury; it will always and forever be a great necessity.
That said, try to get no less than six hours of shut-eye in (check out “6 Fascinating Ways Sex And Sleep Definitely Go Hand In Hand”) and even ask your bae to take a nap with you sometimes (check out “Wanna Have Some Next-Level Sex? Take A Nap, Sis.”). Not only will sleep help to restore your mind, body and spirit but, when it’s with your partner, it’s an act of intimacy that can make you both feel super connected, even in the midst of what might feel like chaos.
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Holiday season stress is real. Still, never give it the permission or power to throw your relationship off. Put you and your man first and let the holidays be what they are gonna be, chile.
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