
I Started Going To A Steam Room Twice A Week & Here's How It Changed The Game For Me

I've become quite obsessed with steam rooms and their health benefits. When I moved into my new apartment building, I discovered that one of the building amenities was a steam room. My first memories of steam rooms were as a kid, leaving the gym and hotels with my family on vacations and seeing women come out of rooms filled with fog, dressed in what I thought was sweat but was actually water.
They'd be wrapped in towels and even naked at times, breathing with their hair wrapped in towels, and they didn't seem disturbed by anyone coming in or out; they were free with their bodies and focused on wellness. At the time, the idea of sitting in a room that would become so filled with steam that I couldn't see my own hands terrified me.
As an adult, I appreciated the experience and realized that I needed to take advantage of having access to this privilege from the comfort of my home. A few months later, allergy season began, and I found myself struggling to breathe. my mother said to me, "You need to go to the steam room as much as possible from now on." That day began my love affair with the steam room and my gratitude for its many benefits.
What Is a Steam Room?
A steam room is a heated, steam-filled room typically located in gyms and high-end spas. The steam is created with a water-filled generator releasing steam into an enclosed area, creating moisture in the air. The difference between a steam room and a sauna is their moisture levels; a steam room creates wet, steamy heat, while a sauna creates dry heat.
Benefits of a Steam Room
Steam rooms can improve blood circulation, reduce asthma and upper respiratory symptoms by clearing the airflow and reducing inflammation, support workout recovery, skin health, circulation, and much more.
So, how do you see the benefits of going to a steam room? Go consistently. After developing a routine of visiting the steam room at least twice a week, I began to notice the improvements in my skin as well as my breathing. As an allergic asthmatic, my cough during allergy season can often be dry, and aside from medication and steroids, I didn't find much relief, and I knew that the dry cough I was experiencing needed to be addressed.
The steam room allowed for the swelling of my airways to subside, and it allowed me to take deep breaths in an environment with warm air, which allowed me to breathe easily and naturally address my asthma symptoms. I also noticed a serious change in my skin.
Years ago, I bought a small steamer to address the acne associated with acne from COVID-19-mandated masks, so I had a feeling that the steam room would work wonders on my skin, and it did just that. Within days, my pores opened up, and the pimples that caused pain were gone, not with magic but with consistency.
If You’re Headed to the Steam Room, Consider These Things:
- Know your limits; it's recommended that you don't stay in a steam room longer than 10 minutes. It's not meant to be a long experience, and you don't need to stay for a long period of time in order to see results.
- Leave anything that you don't want to get wet, including your phone, in your locker. I know that we live in a generation where gym workouts are filmed, but not this one. Preserve the life of your phone and leave the camera outside.
- Try to create a schedule. If you're looking to visit the steam room on a regular basis, create a schedule and stick to it in order to see the benefits.
- Keep it light with your meals before visiting the steam room. It's advised to avoid big meals before a steam room or sauna visit for at least a couple of hours before you go.
- Stay hydrated. Drink water before going to the steam room and, if you must, during the steam room as well as afterward to replenish the body.
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On her debut album,CTRL,SZA crooned about her desire to be a “Normal Girl.” Now, nearly eight years since its release, her Not Beauty line represents her commitment to existing outside of traditional beauty norms.
The singer whose real name is Solána Imani Rowe first teased the idea of a lip gloss line during Super Bowl LIX in February, noting that the release would be happening “very shortly.” Not Beauty debuted simultaneously with the Grand National Tour, which she co-headlines with Kendrick Lamar, in Minneapolis on April 19.
Each Not Beauty pop-up would offer fans the opportunity to purchase the glosses, learn more about the brand, and have the opportunity to meet the superstar in the flesh regardless of their ticket status.
During the Los Angeles tour stop, which spanned three dates on May 21, May 23, with the finale on May 24, xoNecole had the opportunity to test out the glosses included in this soft launch, as SZA revealed in a statement that "this is just the start of other lip products, including plans to launch stains, liners, and creams all inspired by SZA's “infamous layered lip combinations.”
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So, what is included in the first Not Beauty launch?
The current Not Beauty products available are lip glosses that come in three shades: In the Flesh, Strawberry Jelly, and Quartz.
During my visit to the first LA Not Beauty pop-up activation, I not only had the chance to purchase all three glosses but also took a peek inside the blow-up log tent. Inside, fans got to experience SZA’s love for nature and her fascination with bugs, which are prominently featured in her performances for this tour. At one point, she even had human preying mantis prancing across the stage y'all.
There were blow-up photos of the beauty that is SZA for fans (myself included) to take photos, but in wooden-like tree trunks were a deeper dive into some of the ingredients featured in her products and their benefits.
For example, the glosses feature Hi-Shine Lip Jelly and Shea Butter as key ingredients and some of the listed benefits included are:
- Shea Butter - “A powerhouse ingredient, offering both functional and nourishing benefits.”
- Hi-Shine Lip Jelly (featured in the In the Flesh shade) - “Formula glides on with perfect adhesion to the lips without stickiness).
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What are in the products?
Featured in an orange package, with images of a bug and flower on the side, the back of the box reads: “It’s NOT BEAUTY, it just works. Developed by Solána “SZA” Rowe.
As someone who never leaves home without a good lip gloss, I loved how compact the wood panel packaging is. Perfect to slip into my purse, or in the case of the show at SoFi Stadium, into my pocket when I’m not carrying a bag.
Because I’m a sucker for a good black and brown lip liner and clear gloss combo, I decided to wear the Quartz flavor on night one of the Grand National Tour LA stop, and it did not disappoint. I’ll admit, it’s light weight feel made me nervous because it felt like there was nothing on my lips. However, when I checked my lips in my compact mirror several times throughout the night, I was shocked to find that my gloss was still intact. I only reapplied once out of the habit of looking cute and applying my gloss, but not necessity.
Here are some of the ingredients featured, but not limited to, in the Quartz flavor.
- Polyisoubutene
- Butyrospermum Parkii (Shea)Butter
- Ricinus Communis (Castor) Seed Oil
- Mentha Piperita (Peppermint) Oil
- Tocopherol
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Lip prep
I’m a simple girl who loves to stay true to her roots. So ahead of the show, I stopped by a local Inglewood Beauty Supply store and grabbed a Black and Brown shade lip pencil for just under $2 a piece.
Shading the outline of my lips with the black pencil first, I used the brown to lightly fill the inside of my lips before applying my Quartz Not Beauty shade gloss.
How to apply
There’s truly no right or wrong way to apply lip gloss (in my opinion), with this being a brush applicator sort of product, I simply untwisted the top and swiped the gloss around my top and bottom lip generously.
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Results
Again, my Not Beauty Quartz product stayed on my lips from the start of the show, which began with a fire DJ set from LA’s very own, Mustard, to the conclusion when Kendrick and SZA reunited on stage to send us home to their duet, “luther,” featured on the rapper's GNX album.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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