These Orgasmic Positions Are Ideal For The Woman With A High Sex Drive
I'd like to think that orgasms are a lot like a freshly opened bag of Lays potato chips: you can't have just one. With a stay-at-home order and nothing but time, space and opportunity, it's safe to say that now is the perfect time to finally explore the Kama Sutra with bae and we have a list of sex positions that are sure to keep you occupied.
If you're the kind of woman who can go more rounds than a Muhammad Ali in his prime, here are 5 sex positions that will throw you into full throttle.
The Caboose Sex Position
For lazy lovers such as myself, the Caboose is a position that allows you get your back blown out without… actually blowing your back out.
Have your partner sit on the bed or floor with on leg extended and one leg bent. Once's your partner is in position, sit on their lap and put your thang down, flip it, and reverse it to keep the fun going even longer. This simple but effective position is perfect for clitoral stimulation and nipple play.
Ballet Dancer Sex Position
Make sure to get a good stretch in before executing this position, which is sure to keep you cumming all night (or day. Or both.)
To execute, stand face to face with your partner as you find your balance to lift one leg and wrap one leg around their waist. While this position doesn't offer much flexibility, it offers the opportunity for optimum face-to-face time and spanking if you and your bae are into that (but then again, who isn't?)
Princess and the Peen Sex Position
When Lil' Jon told you to put a hump in your back and lift your rump, he was preparing you for the moment you discovered the Princess and The Peen, a position that will keep you coming back for more every time.
Get into this position by straddling cylindrical body pillow, a couch cushion, or whatever's clever, allowing your partner to enter you from behind and give you the ride of a lifetime.
Thigh Tide Sex Position
You've used this time to train for Hot Girl Summer 2020 and now it's time to put those Meg The Stallion knees to use, sis.
Think reverse cowgirl, but make it orgasmic. Have your partner lay with his legs spread slightly apart with one leg lifted and one leg bent, then angle yourself to where their thigh is between your legs. Allow them to enter you from behind and bounce that ass like you've never bounced it before using their thigh for clitoral stimulation. Throw an anal vibrator in the mix for twice the fun.
The Good Ex Sex Position
X marks the spot—the g-spot, that is, and this position will help your man find yours with no navigation.
Lay flat on the bed, head-to-toe with your partner. Then, cross your partner's right leg over your left and their left leg over your right. When you find yourselves in the form of an "X", have them sit up and enter you at an angle.
Try toe sucking for maximum pleasure.
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Why We'll Probably Never Hear Lupita Nyong'o Share Her Relationship With The World
Lupita Nyong'o is sharing a transparent look into her life after a recent breakup.
In a cover story for NET-A-PORTER, the A Quiet Place: Day One star shed light on the significant heartbreak she experienced following the end of her relationship with ex-boyfriend and TV host, Selema Masekela.
As a public figure, Nyong'o, 39, sought to divulge the news of the breakup in hopes of presenting a more authentic perspective on the pain that follows a separation.
"I was living in a lot of pain and heartbreak," she told the publication. "I looked at the environment of my social media and thought I don’t want to be a part of this illusion that everything is always coming up roses. Surely there is a lesson for me to learn in this, and I just want to be real about it."
The Black Panther star went on to explain that her choice to be transparent with her fans about her breakup came from the certainty she felt after ending the relationship. “In my mind, when I shared my relationship status with the world, it was because I felt sure about it,” she said.
While she didn’t know how the news would land with her fans, she found relief in knowing she wasn’t alone in her experience.
“I knew how it could be interpreted; I knew it would have a life of its own,” she reflects. “But then I started to see the comments and people were being so loving and supportive. The ones that moved me the most were other people sharing their pain and their heartbreak.”
Nyong'o and Masekela went Instagram official in December 2022, publicly announcing their relationship in a couple's video. In October 2023, Nyong'o took to her personal Instagram account to share the news of her breakup in her caption, writing, "At this moment, it is necessary for me to share a personal truth and publicly dissociate myself from someone I can no longer trust.”
She continued the vulnerable note, "I find myself in a season of heartbreak because of a love suddenly and devastatingly extinguished by deception. I am tempted to run into the shadows and hide, only to return to the light when I have regained my strength enough for me to say, 'Whatever, my life is better this way.' But I am reminded that the magnitude of the pain I am feeling is equal to the measure of my capacity for love."
These days, Nyong'o tells NET-A-PORTER that she is prioritizing profound self-discovery that extends beyond her career. She notes having a deliberate and unhurried approach to understanding herself.
She also alludes to keeping her relationships private moving forward after noting it was "very, very sage" of her not to talk about her private life professionally in the days before her last relationship. "I'm going back to those days by the way," Nyong'o shares of her reinstated boundaries around her personal life.
Earlier this month, Nyong'o made headlines alongside her new boyfriend actor Joshua Jackson. Nyong'o and Jackson went through public splits from their respective SOs in October 2023, with the latter splitting from his long-time partner Jodie Turner-Smith following her divorce filing from the Dawson's Creek alum.
The pair have been spotted together as early as December 2023, but nothing screamed "couple" quite as loudly as their recent getaway to Mexico for Nyong'o's 41st birthday featuring passionate displays of affection.
"Our purpose in life is to love. And so you have to get back in it," she tells the outlet, seemingly alluding to her budding new romance.
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