

Your Guide To Practicing Intuitive Eating
When did we lose the joy of eating our favorite meals? With so many diets, food trends, and programs out there, it can put unwanted restrictions on our eating habits that cause more harm than good. And when we take a deeper look at diet culture, there’s a running theme of “denying” ourselves the foods that we enjoy in order to achieve a fixed body goal or physique. However, one framework of eating is encouraging foodies to listen to their body’s hunger cues as opposed to suppressing them.
The term "intuitive eating" was coined by two registered dietitians, Evelyn Tribole, RD, and Elyse Resch, RDN, in the 1990s, who developed and published the concept in the book Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Program That Works. In this food guide, they introduced the principles of intuitive eating as an alternative approach to traditional diets and restrictive eating patterns.
Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch recognized that many individuals were trapped in a cycle of dieting, which often led to disordered eating behaviors and a negative relationship with food and their bodies. In order to correct this cycle, they both created a more compassionate and sustainable approach to nutrition and self-care.
At its core, intuitive eating emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with internal hunger and fullness cues, which in itself challenges the traditional dieting mindset and fosters a positive body and self-image.
When we trust our bodies' innate ability to regulate food intake, we heal our relationship with food and trust our inner voice when it reached a point of satisfaction. Where traditional diet culture tells us to be at the mercy of our food, intuitive eating put the power back in our hands — and body — to say “when” at the right moment.
Those who have adopted this form of eating have found that they’ve been able to listen to their bodies on a deeper level to eat when they’re hungry and stop when they’re comfortably full. When you eat mindfully, you allow yourself to be present during each meal, savor each bite, and respect your cravings. Although this does take time and practice, you’ll find that over time, you’re giving yourself permission to eat foods you enjoy without the guilt.
While you can approach intuitive eating on your own through mindfulness and naturally listening to your body, Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch created an outline of 10 principles to guide individuals toward a healthier and more intuitive approach to eating and self-care so you don’t have to go on the journey alone.
- Reject the diet mentality: Let go of the dieting mindset and the belief in "good" and "bad" foods and embrace a more balanced and flexible approach to eating.
- Honor your hunger: Listen to your body's hunger signals and respond to them by providing nourishment when you feel hungry and give yourself permission to enjoy the foods that delight you.
- Make peace with food: Give yourself permission to eat all types of foods without guilt or judgment. Avoid restricting yourself from certain foods, as this can lead to unhealthy relationships with those foods.
- Challenge the food police: Challenge and reject the negative thoughts and the inner critic that may arise around food choices. Reframe your thinking about food in a more positive and compassionate way.
- Discover the satisfaction factor: Enjoy your food and savor each bite. Pay attention to the tastes and textures, and find pleasure in eating.
- Feel your fullness: Tune in to your body's fullness cues and stop eating when you feel comfortably satisfied, rather than overeating or restricting.
- Cope with your emotions without using food: Find alternative ways to deal with emotions and stress that don't involve using food as a coping mechanism.
- Respect your body: Accept and appreciate your body for its unique shape, size, and abilities. Let go of unrealistic body ideals and focus on self-care and overall well-being.
- Exercise: Engage in physical activity that feels enjoyable and energizing rather than punishing yourself with exercise to compensate for eating.
- Honor your health with gentle nutrition: Make food choices that support your overall well-being while also being mindful that no single meal or snack determines your health. Aim for balance and variety in your food choices.
Intuitive eating is about establishing a positive relationship with food and your body, as opposed to following a strict, linear diet plan. Trusting your body's signals, preferences, and needs is a journey of self-discovery but when you embrace it with patience and self-compassion you’ll, in turn, ditch the idea of labeling foods as "good" or "bad" and enjoying the balance, nourishment, and that food can offer.
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Aley Arion is a writer and digital storyteller from the South, currently living in sunny Los Angeles. Her site, yagirlaley.com, serves as a digital diary to document personal essays, cultural commentary, and her insights into the Black Millennial experience. Follow her at @yagirlaley on all platforms!
Smile, Sis! These Five Improvements Can Upgrade Your Oral Hygiene Instantly
This article is in partnership with Sensodyne.
Our teeth are connected to so many things - our nutrition, our confidence, and our overall mood. We often take for granted how important healthy teeth are, until issues like tooth sensitivity or gum recession come to remind us. Like most things related to our bodies, prevention is the best medicine. Here are five things you can do immediately to improve your oral hygiene, prevent tooth sensitivity, and avoid dental issues down the road.
1) Go Easy On the Rough Brushing: Brushing your teeth is and always will be priority number one in the oral hygiene department. No surprises there! However, there is such a thing as applying too much pressure when brushing…and that can lead to problems over time. Use a toothbrush with soft bristles and brush in smooth, circular motions. It may seem counterintuitive, but a gentle approach to brushing is the most effective way to clean those pearly whites without wearing away enamel and exposing sensitive areas of the teeth.
2) Use A Desensitizing Toothpaste: As everyone knows, mouth pain can be highly uncomfortable; but tooth sensitivity is a whole different beast. Hot weather favorites like ice cream and popsicles have the ability to trigger tooth sensitivity, which might make you want to stay away from icy foods altogether. But as always, prevention is the best medicine here. Switching to a toothpaste like Sensodyne’s Sensitivity & Gum toothpaste specifically designed for sensitive teeth will help build a protective layer over sensitive areas of the tooth. Over time, those sharp sensations that occur with extremely cold foods will subside, and you’ll be back to treating yourself to your icy faves like this one!
3) Floss, Rinse, Brush. (And In That Order!): Have you ever heard the saying, “It’s not what you do, but how you do it”? Well, the same thing applies to taking care of your teeth. Even if you are flossing and brushing religiously, you could be missing out on some of the benefits simply because you aren’t doing so in the right order. Flossing is best to do before brushing because it removes food particles and plaque from places your toothbrush can’t reach. After a proper flossing sesh, it is important to rinse out your mouth with water after. Finally, you can whip out your toothbrush and get to brushing. Though many of us commonly rinse with water after brushing to remove excess toothpaste, it may not be the best thing for our teeth. That’s because fluoride, the active ingredient in toothpaste that protects your enamel, works best when it gets to sit on the teeth and continue working its magic. Rinsing with water after brushing doesn’t let the toothpaste go to work like it really can. Changing up your order may take some getting used to, but over time, you’ll see the difference.
4) Stay Hydrated: Upping your water supply is a no-fail way to level up your health overall, and your teeth are no exception to this rule. Drinking water not only helps maintain a healthy pH balance in your mouth, but it also washes away residue and acids that can cause enamel erosion. It also helps you steer clear of dry mouth, which is a gateway to bad breath. And who needs that?
5) Show Your Gums Some Love: When it comes to improving your smile, you may be laser-focused on getting your teeth whiter, straighter, and overall healthier. Rightfully so, as these are all attributes of a megawatt smile; but you certainly don’t want to leave gum health out of the equation. If you neglect your gums, you’ll start to notice the effects of plaque buildup, which can irritate the gums and cause gingivitis, the earliest stage of gum disease. Seeing blood while brushing and flossing is a tell-tale sign that your gums are suffering. You may also experience gum recession — a condition where the gum tissue surrounding your teeth pulls back, exposing more of your tooth. Brushing at least twice a day with a gum-protecting toothpaste like Sensodyne Sensitivity and Gum, coupled with regular dentist visits, will keep your gums shining as bright as those pearly whites.
'I Want To Be The Color In My Home': Jackie Aina Gives Tour Of Her Posh Neutral Tone Pad
Jackie Aina is the embodiment of Black girl luxury, and her crib is no exception. Located in a ritzy area in Los Angeles, CA, Jackie’s home is equipped with all the things every fancy girl needs: an upscale kitchen, elevator, and fabulous pool. Luckily for us, the YouTuber opened up her home with the ultimate house tour. In a video on Tayo Aina’s (no relation) YouTube channel, Jackie goes from room to room, showing us her interior design style while also dishing on her life and career.
Jackie began making beauty content on YouTube in 2009, and from there, she’s grown her empire through collaborations with makeup brands like Too Faced. Now, she is the co-founder of the candle company FORVR Mood. The former Army reservist is known for her colorful personality, but her home is the opposite, which is on purpose. “Personally, because I have such a big, bold, colorful personality, I like to dress big and bold, I want to be the color in my home,” she said. “I don’t want my home to be the color. I want you to see me.”
She continued, “I want the house to be calming, and I want the house to blend in. I don’t want it to attract too much attention.” Her home may not be screaming look at me, but it’s definitely giving quiet luxury. Check it out below:
Breakfast Nook
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Jackie revealed that she and her fiancé, Denis Asamoah, eat their meals at their breakfast nook daily.
Kitchen
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“When my fiancé and I bought this house, I really wanted a double island kitchen, and the irony is like I don’t cook at all,” she said. Jackie explained that because she’s Black, African, and a woman, she’s expected to cook, and she doesn’t like doing what’s expected. “Why can’t I be good at other things? Like that doesn’t make me a woman if I don’t cook in the [kitchen].
Family Room
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The star of the family room is the big, L-shaped white couch, and according to the YouTube star, her couch is so comfy you can melt into it.
Office
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Jackie’s office houses the trophies and plagues that she received from YouTube and Shopify.
Backyard
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The entrepreneur’s backyard has the same feel as the inside of the house. It has a gigantic pool and comfortable seating. “I’m very big on enjoy it while you have it,” she said.
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