Kevin Hart On Meeting Eniko Pre-Money, Prenups & Why You'll Never Catch Him Cheating
Let's be clear--Kevin Hart's soon-to-be wife, Eniko Parrish, was here for her man way before he became a brand. But that doesn't mean the multimillion-dollar comedian won't do what he has to do before the two swap "I do's."
Although Kevin is willing to go half on his Hart, that's pretty much where he draws the line. The 36-year-old father and funny guy recently stopped by The Breakfast Club to dish on his upcoming summer nuptials to his longtime girlfriend of seven years, Eniko Parrish.
After getting engaged last year, the actor confirmed their August 8th wedding date, in which Kevin's eight-year-old son and best friend, Hendrix, will be his best man.
But before he and Eniko make that formal walk down the aisle, they'll casually be signing off on a prenup! According to Kevin, he and Eniko both agree that it's the best thing to do!
"If you don't [get a prenup] you're stupid! That's not even an issue with her and I. When I say I got a good one, I got a good one. A logical, thinking woman. Do you understand how hard that is? To get a woman that can think on a logistic, reality term, not just emotional level? We have great conversations and understanding moments where she gets my platform and where I am, and where I came from, and what is at stake, and what I'm protecting."
That's what's up! Most people find the discussion of a prenuptial agreement (prenup) to be tricky since many feel that it foreshadows the fate of your marriage. However, during a time when the divorce rate is still 40-50 percent, we say you may want to consider placing your pride aside to pick up that pen and fill out that paperwork.
And for those wondering why a prenup would even be up for debate between Kevin and Eniko, it's because, like any other woman who has been with a celebrity before he was a household name, some may assume she'd feel entitled, because FYI: she is not his trophy wife, she's been down!
"I didn't meet Eniko when I was 'Kev' (famous). I met her when it was 'Oh, it's about to get crazy.' I was doing some shows in the theatre I wasn't in arenas yet or movies. She's been around. Through public eye, it looks like 'Aww man, that's your money chick. She popped around when the money came.' Nah, she been around. We've got seven years!I got a good one. I can't play any games. I call her 'My Rib' and I don't think people understand what that means. It's from the Bible. A rib is something you can't live without, you're not supposed to live without."
You go boy! Some may try and make the argument that Eniko may have been drawn to Kevin's hustle and probably predicted his forthcoming success, giving further incentive to stay outside of love. After all, he may not have been in movies yet, but there is no denying Kev was at least steady booked. But does the ability to believe your man is about to blow up mean you should back off? Not at all. The reality is, hard work will always beat talent when talent fails to work hard. And clearly Kevin Hart has both. What isn't there to find attractive about a man chasing his dreams while still managing to cash a check?
Being attracted to a man with ambition who's winning doesn't necessarily make you a gold-digger. And when you've known someone before all the money, and for so long, don't even bother finishing the last line to "that" song.
Kevin also opened up about why he feels his marriage to Eniko will work better than his first one to ex-wife and actress, Torrei Hart, and let's just say, time and experience are key:
"I can say on record, within my last marriage, I take full responsibility for the mistakes I made. I'm not sitting up here saying I don't understand why it didn't work. I'm Guilty! *raises hand* I did wrong. That's why I got out of it because I said [to Torrei] 'You should be happy. You deserve better.' At that age of 22, I wasn't ready to be married. I didn't understand what it was. I'm 36 now. I got a good woman. She's 30 about to be 31. What else am I looking for? What else is out there?You can always try to find something that's better. Bigger ass and some breasts. But that never ends. So when you do find something that stimulates you in a mental and physical and emotional level, at this age, what else do I need?"
And as far as whether or not the father of two and soon-to-be husband (again) finds it hard to be loyal while in the prime of his success- not at all! When asked about his feelings on cheating Kevin made it clear that between loving his soon-to-be wife, social media, and being a grown man with responsibilities- he has no time for that!
"Today, at today's time, it's too risky to cheat. And not to say all women are opportunists, because that's not fair and that's not true, there are some women that have given other women a bad name. With the social media and the positing of 'In the bed with, boom. Look who's house.'
There is no safe return from [cheating]. I wouldn't be a good cheater right now because I don't even feel like I can trust you to cheat [with me]. I'd be like 'What you doing? You taking a picture? Why you going in there? You about to post that?' It's to much. There is no sanity that comes with it so why risk it? What am I going to throw it all away for? It's not worth it at all!"
Love it! Kevin Hart currently has also just signed a deal with Nike for his "Move with Hart" sneakers and fitness campaign. The colorways for the kicks are inspired by his kids, Heaven and Hendrix's, favorite colors (blue and red). He is the first comedian to snag an athletic endorsement deal with the shoe line. And on top of his mega movie deals this year (Ride Along 2, Central Intelligence, Secret Life of Pets), and his comedy tour, it's safe to say can't nobody knock his hustle!
Check out Kevin's full interview with the Breakfast Club here:
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Playa del Carmen is the perfect vacation getaway for anyone who loves beautiful beaches, delicious food, and fun activities. Located on the Caribbean Sea side of Mexico, PDC is nestled right between the spring break hub Cancun and the growing hotspot Tulum. Oftentimes overlooked for some of the other popular cities, I found Playa del Carmen to have just as much in terms of vacation necessities, with a more local and authentic Mexican feel.
The Ultimate Guide to Playa del Carmen
Playa del Carmen is perfect for a solo traveler looking to spend a few days in paradise or the group chat that wants to hang on the beach all day and turn up at night. I found the area to have a little bit of everything for everyone, so here’s my guide on where to eat, stay, and play for the ultimate Playa del Carmen vacation.
Getting Around
The easiest way to get to Playa del Carmen is to fly into Cancun Airport and then make your way south. You can rent a car and drive the one hour down to PDC, take a taxi, or you can catch the ADO bus, which will cost you less than $40 roundtrip. Overall, Playa del Carmen is an easy and safe city to navigate. If you stay on or close to Quinta Avenida (5th Avenue), you’ll be within walking distance to a ton of stores, restaurants, and nightlife. Most taxi rides were between 100 and 150 pesos, which is less than $10 USD. Renting a car is also an option, but with things being very walkable and taxis being fairly inexpensive, it’s not a necessity. Another great way to get around is bikes, which you can rent to use throughout the city.
Stay
The Thompson Hotel is for the folks who know that where you stay on vacation absolutely does matter. This luxury property offers chic rooms and upscale suites, onsite restaurants, and a spa for those who are looking to pamper themselves. One of the standout features of this property is the rooftop infinity pool, which has 360-degree views of the city and is absolutely stunning. This is your type of hotel if you value immaculate views, delicious eats, prime location, and live DJs.
Grand Hyatt offers a prime beachfront location, while also being steps away from the mix on Quinta Avenida. I like that this property allows you to take in the calm beauty of the Caribbean, while also being in close proximity to the action within the city. You get both authentic Mexican food and some international fare at the resort restaurants, and this property also has an infinity pool that gives views of the ocean.
Airbnb
If you don’t have the funds to spend on a hotel stay, but still want clean and comfortable accommodations, do not overlook Airbnb. You can find super reasonably priced apartments close to the strip that will leave you in the heart of all the action. Many of these buildings feature 24-hour security, infinity pools, top-notch gyms, and rooftop bars. This is a great way to save some money, while not sacrificing the quality of the accommodations you like.
Eat
One of the best parts of being near the Caribbean Sea is having access to fresh seafood, and Ictio Fish House is the place to go for it. Located just a block off of the 5th Avenida strip, this small seafood restaurant is a quieter change compared to some of the busier and more touristy restaurants located directly on the strip. They have both indoor and outdoor seating available, but if you can snag a spot at the bar, the service is top notch and you can watch the bartender put together your craft cocktail.
Everything they serve is delicious and tastes authentic, so you really can't go wrong when ordering. But to start, the crispy jumbo shrimp and calamari are perfect for sharing. Other must-try dishes are the garlic butter catch of the day and the adobo-styled octopus.
El Fogon
Ask anyone for a recommendation for the best tacos in Playa del Carmen, and I promise you they will point you to El Fogon. You know a spot is good when it’s filled with just as many locals as tourists, and there’s a line outside at 1 p.m. This no-frills spot serves up authentic Mexican favorites like el pastor tacos, chicken quesadillas, guacamole, and margaritas. Every dish comes with the fixings and is not only super filling but extremely affordable. You can easily get a full meal and a drink for less than $20 USD. They have more than one location, so you can taste some of their delicious tacos no matter what part of PDC you stay in.
L&L by Lara&Luca
Before you hit the beach for day drinking, you need a hearty breakfast from L&L to start your day. This cute cafe is the smaller “sister” restaurant to Lara&Luca, another popular breakfast and lunch cafe in Playa. I liked that L&L is less busy and more laid back than the other location. They serve up typical breakfast and lunch items such as eggs, coffee, sandwiches, and French toast.
My favorite item was the ham and cheese croissant, which could be enjoyed on their outdoor seating or taken to enjoy on the go. They also have yummy pastries, but these sell out quickly, so be sure to go early.
El Pirata
If you’re a fried fish lover like me and appreciate sea-to-table service, El Pirata is the place to go. This restaurant is tucked away towards the end of the main 5th Avenida strip, so you might miss it if you aren’t looking for it. The restaurant serves up a plethora of tasty dishes like fresh ceviche, garlic shrimp, and shrimp empanadas, and has a full beverage menu for your libation needs. However, the fried fish is truly the star of the show.
When you order, they bring to your table a few of the fresh fish that were caught that day and allow you to choose which lucky one you want them to fry for you. And let me tell you, picking your own fried fish just hits different! It was one of my favorite meals in Playa del Carmen.
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Food Tour
There are so many delicious places to eat in Playa del Carmen so taking a local food tour is the best way to try a little bit of everything. I love taking food tours when I travel because not only is it a great way to try a range of different local dishes, but the tour guides usually give you a history lesson during the tour where you learn more about the history of certain dishes and the country as a whole. In Playa Del Carmen, I took a local food tour with GetYourGuide, where we stopped at several different locations for tacos, fresh fruit juice, tamales, and more.
I value it when there’s a local leading the tour because it’s a way to support the locals and also learn things that only people native to the location would know. While we walked, the guide shared a lot of insight about Mexico and Playa del Carmen, while giving recommendations for places to eat during our trip.
Cenotes
Cenotes are natural sinkholes or underground caverns that have pools of water in which you can explore, dive, and swim in. You will find cenotes all around Mexico, but there are several in the Playa del Carmen region. Cenotes vary in size and also the depth of water, so even if you don’t know how to swim, you can find a cenote to explore at your own comfort level. Two beautiful cenotes you can explore near PDC are Cenote Azul and Cenote Dos Ojos.
Cenote Azul is perfect for snorkeling because of the crystal clear waters that allow you to see the colorful fish and plant life underneath. Cenote Dos Ojos is perfect for explorers due to the mesmerizing underground caverns and rock formations throughout. You can take a trip to the cenotes on your own or book a tour that may take you to several different cenotes.
Beaches
Playa Del Carmen has some of the most beautiful beaches in the Caribbean, so beach hopping is a must while vacationing in the area. Whether you want a chill, relaxing beach day or you are thinking of jet skiing on the blue waters, there is a beach for you. There are several beaches along the coast of Playa del Carmen, some that are within walking distance of most hotels, and others that you may need to travel to get to but are totally worth it.
Playa Mamitas is one of the most popular beaches in PDC due to its location near the heart of the city, and also because of the crystal clear waters and white sand. Playa Mamitas is also a great spot for entertainment and the occasional beach party for the folks wanting to turn up. Playacar Beach is another great option that is located in the upscale Playacar neighborhood, south of downtown Playa del Carmen.
It is known for its pristine beauty and laid-back atmosphere, making it a popular destination for travelers seeking relaxation and seclusion. Other beaches to consider are Punta Esmeralda and Xpu-ha Beach, so you’ll have an option for every day of your trip, depending on your mood.
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