The 6 Sex Toys & Pleasure Accessories Every Couple Needs

Brenda Alexander

Nov 02, 2018 19:36 PM +0000

Last year, while on a sister trip to Paris, my sister and I found ourselves gagging at what we found in the local sex shops after watching a midnight show at the Moulin Rouge.

I was amazed at the number of options available. One of the stores we went in was the size of a department store - think Macy's in Herald Square in New York but full of dildos, sleeves and all of the dominatrix-esque lingerie you've ever seen. As a souvenir, I purchased my first bullet at a whopping $6. What's the point of window shopping at a store like that? My boyfriend and I tried it one night and I was instantly hooked! It became a regular part of our sexual trysts. But not everyone is open to the idea of bringing a third party into their bedroom.

If you've been in a relationship for some time, things can get to be routine. You become so comfortable with each other that the bedroom department can get bland. Who has time to waste for that?! I'm trying to be like Rihanna - sex with me should be amazing! When it comes to intimate time with your mate, I believe in complete freedom. There should be no inhibitions. Using a toy or two to switch things up and add an extra layer of pleasure can do wonders for you and your relationship. So let your hair and walls (pun intended) down with these added trinkets:

Before you graduate to operating your own personal sex dungeon, let's start off small. An easy way to set the mood and incorporate something new into your foreplay routine is a massage. Instead of the usual greasy massage oil, burn one of these dual-purpose candles to scent the room and bring heat to your partner's body, literally and figuratively. Made from all-natural soy wax that's mixed with good-smelling shea butter and apricot kernel oil, it turns into a steamy massage oil. To spice it up, have your man oil your booty while you twerk for him. Get creative!
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Clitoral Jolt Gel

Unbound

Call me a novice but this was a new discovery for me. These gels contain different arousal ingredients like peppermint to increase blood flow to the clitoris, which helps a woman reach her climax. No need to use the whole pack though, in this case, less is more.

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Squish Vibrator

Unbound Babes

Like the song says, "We can do it anywhere."

Why limit yourselves to the bed?! Migrate to the shower with the waterproof squish vibrator. It's small in size (lemon-shaped) and a hand-held vibrator that increases in intensity and pleasure the harder you squeeze it. You can use it for a creative bathtub masturbation game, or if water isn't your thing and you prefer the bed (or the car), there's the option to place it against your partner's most sensitive area during penetrative sex to assist with getting to the big O.

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Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit

This can be part of your red light special. Great for dual stimulation, it's a g-spot pleasure from the shaft and has the added bonus of a pressure wave and touch-free clitoral stimulation. Lather this up with lube and create an even greater experience. One reviewer commented that this toy did such a good job, she needed new sheets. For all of my Amazon lovers, it's a good price at only $51. Who said Amazon was only good for toys for the kids?!

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Kinky Coupons

Etsy

Have your own adult game night with just you and your mate. With cards like "Commando Night" telling you to leave your panties in the underwear drawer and "Role Playing" where you can act out your favorite fantasy, these 24 sexy coupons will warm you up and have you yearning for more once you complete the deck. It's not just all sex though, the cards even contain other commands like "Date Night," where you can build up the anticipation at your favorite happy hour spot and you'll be all over each other before you turn the lock to open your door.

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The days of furry handcuffs meant only for bedroom domination are long gone. These stylish cuffs come with a removable strap so they can be worn as an accessory, like bracelets (or if you have a small neck like me, even a choker) to a night out on the town with your love that can quickly turn into wrist restraints for your homemade movie. The fun part about wearing them out is that only you and your partner know what they are actually for. Kinky!
Don't just stop here. Make it a complete couple's experience and go to the nearest play shop with your partner so that you can both pick out toys you'll equally enjoy. Too bashful to go into a store? Online always works!
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