Correct Them EVERY Time: Thandiwe Newton Is Taking Back Her Name #Respectfully
Thandi Newton has been on our screens for quite some time, most notably being her breakout performance in the cult classic, Beloved. Since, she has balanced her career with other movies, cementing her as a household name.
But believe it or not, that household name has been wrong this whole damn time.
Imagine your employer dismissing a part of your identity for over 30 years *eye roll*
Well, that's what's exactly happened to her, except her employer is Hollywood. And because of it, Thandiwe Newton is reclaiming her name on the cover of the May issue of British Vogue, where she reveals that the long-credited spelling of her name as "Thandie" is incorrect.
The misspelling goes back to her first onscreen credit when the "W" in her name was "carelessly missed out."
30 years later, and Thandie is reclaiming her professional name as Thandiwe Newton.
"That's my name. It's always been my name. I'm taking back what's mine."
And rightfully so, with Newton now insisting on the "W" being included in her name, which, ironically, means "beloved" in Shona, the language in Zimbabwe, where her mom is a princess.
"I find that acting takes more and more away from me because I'm more connected to myself than I've ever been, whereas before I was delighted to get an excuse to go off to another personality. I couldn't wait to get away from myself, truly, I had such low self-esteem. Acting was where I felt whole."
But now, sis is accepting no less than just being herself.
"The thing I'm most grateful for in our business right now is being in the company of others who truly see me. And to not be complicit in the objectification of Black people as 'others,' which is what happens when you're the only one."
Oop.
"Wherever I position myself now, I don't want to be part of the problem, I want to be part of the solution. I'm not for hire anymore. I'm not going to speak your story or say your words if I don't feel they could've come from me."
Gather them, Thandiwe!
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Nia Long Reveals How She Financially Prepared Her Children For The Future
Nia Long has left a mark on the entertainment industry as a renowned actor and producer.
With over 70 projects to her name, the 53-year-old has starred in timeless classics such as Boyz n the Hood, Friday, Love Jones, The Best Man, and the Big Momma's House franchise. Despite her success in Hollywood, Long considers her most significant role to be a devoted mother to her two sons, Massai Dorsey II, 23, and 12-year-old Kez Udoka.
Like any dedicated parent, Long has provided for her children and taken significant steps to secure their future. The star has gone beyond typical parental duties by financially investing in her sons' long-term well-being and success. During the Money and Mindfulness: A Conversation with Nia Long panel at the American Black Film Festival, Long shared the strategies she used that helped one of her sons graduate college debt-free.
The actress' oldest son, Massai Dorsey II, recently graduated from NYU.
During the discussion, Long revealed that before she became a mother, she had started putting money away for her children in an account.
“One of the things is [that] I started saving for my children before I became a mother,” she stated. “I took $3,000, and I just put [it] in this account. I was like, ‘I’m never touching that.’ And it allowed me to get my son through NYU without any student loans.”
Although the Missing star didn't disclose specific details about the type of account she used, Long expressed gratitude for achieving her primary goal of ensuring her children want for nothing.
“I’m so proud. It makes me cry because we did it. Yes, we did it. And it was a plan. And if you put that plan into action and you just don’t waver from your ultimate goal, God will show you the way to get there. I can’t even explain it any other way. You just have to trust the process,” she said.
Toward the end of the conversation, Long explained that while she has financially supported her children through school, she's careful not to overdo it, emphasizing that she wants her children to understand the value of hard work.
“So in four years, anybody in here looking for a young lawyer [or] attorney, he’s going to be a good one,” she quipped while mentioning Dorsey’s future goals. “He needs a job to pay me back. If he’s anything like me, he has a spirit of abundance… a little bit too much because he’s still in my pocket. I just called him on my way here. I got a bill for his electric bill. I said, ‘Massai, really?’ And see, this is the thing, you can’t spoil them too much because part of what made me do what I’ve done is the hustle. You’ve got to draw the line where you don’t tamper with the hustle because in that hustle is that little bit of gangster that makes us make a difference.”
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