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Diana Sirokai

Who's That Girl:

@DianaSirokai

Plus Size Model/Body Positive Activist

Where You've Seen Her:

Curvy Kate, Nunude, PrettyLittleThing, Fashion Nova, SimplyBe

Her Thoughts On The Industry:

[It's not just now], I was also criticized when I was a lot thinner than I am right now. At school, they used to call me the fat b**ch, which I used to find very offensive as they had no reason to bully me. It was at the beginning of my modeling career and I guess they didn't like the fact that I was modeling. They used to show me pictures of myself and tell me I should just give up, I'm too fat, and I'll never be a model. The bullying has never stopped, but my insecurities are gone, and now whenever I see or hear hateful comments about me, I just don't pay attention. I don't allow myself to get bullied again. I struggled enough and there's no way I am going back to that miserable state of mind again. People always ask me how I overcame the bullying and I honestly just gave up. I gave up trying to fit in and be perfect. I gave up on listening to what people had to say and now I just do me, and enjoy every bit of it.

"I gave up on listening to what people had to say and now I just do me, and enjoy every bit of it."

It really inspired me to show them something different. I am now very proud of the Curvy, Plus community that we have built. When I started modeling, 5 years ago, it was not trending at all. The whole industry has changed a lot in a positive way. I am very proud of that. In my opinion, there isn't such thing as an average woman. I think we all look super different. Even all the plus models out there look so different. Women are all sizes and shapes and have different bodies. The fact that the fashion industry thinks that there's only one body type they can use to model is ridiculous. Luckily, it's changing now at least. Hopefully, in a few years, we won't even have these issues we have today.

"In my opinion, there isn't such thing as an average woman. I think we all look super different."

Being a beautiful curvy women means I am a beautiful woman. I am curvy and I am proud of it. If I was thin, I would be proud to be a beautiful thin woman. Self-love is all about finding inner peace within yourself. Then that way, nothing else will matter.

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