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After a year of speculation, Kamie Crawford is finally sharing her side about what went down with former Catfish co-host, Nev Schulman.

Last October, the former beauty queen surprised fans when she announced her decision to leave Catfish: The TV Show after six seasons. Many viewers credited her for the resurgence of the series, living for her quotable moments, her nuanced takes, and her ability to advocate for and empathize with victims. She added a freshness to the show that was definitely needed after such a long run on MTV.


"After six years of living my absolute dream working on Catfish – one of the most iconic shows in television history, it is with a heavy heart and much consideration that I have decided to move on to my next adventure," Kamie said in her statement at the time.

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However, amid her departure announcement, some fans clocked the fact that Nev never publicly acknowledged Kamie's decision to leave the show. No appreciation for her time and contributions, no congratulations on her current successes, and no best of luck on what was to come in her future. In her statement, she seemed to focus more on gratitude and the love and support from viewers than on her co-host, Nev, as well.

Given how close they appeared to be on the show, it raised some eyebrows, sparking questions of whether or not there was bad blood between them. Still, the model and host kept it cute and never added any fuel to the fire whenever fans of the show asked if something happened behind the scenes that they weren't privy to.

The speculation would reignite following the recent news of the cancellation of Catfish after 9 seasons. Late last month, Nev posted a TikTok alongside former co-host Max Joseph (who was apparently in talks to return to the show and be Kamie's replacement, but alas, no.). In the video, Nev and Max talked about the show's cancellation, but the focus was thanking those a part of the show for their accomplishments as well as their contributions, fans and production included.

Screengrab via Nev Schulman/TikTok

Someone noticeably absent from the conversation, though, was Kamie, despite her six-season run as the series' new permanent co-host alongside Nev.

The omission felt intentional and stirred up renewed speculation about Kamie Crawford and Nev Schulman, and if their professional split was as amicable as once believed. Comments and TikToks were made in response, prompting Nev to do a bit of damage control by adding a comment to his TikTok acknowledging Kamie. He commented, "and a HUGE THANKS to Kamie of course!!!"

Perhaps too little, too late, because now, Kamie has taken to her platform, the Relationshit with Kamie Crawford podcast, to provide some context behind what's being speculated about. There, she opened up -- tastefully, of course -- about the situation and shared her timeline of how things unfolded and where she stands with Nev now.

Here's what we learned.

Why Kamie Crawford Left 'Catfish'

Whether it was the people she met along the way, or the doors that opened up because of her stint on the series, Kamie expressed a lot of gratitude for what her time on Catfish allotted.

After joining Catfish as a guest in September 2018, Kamie explained she became a permanent co-host in July 2019 and went on to film 100 or so episodes. In May 2022, she landed an overall deal with Paramount and MTV Entertainment Studios. This led to hosting opportunities with series like Sex on the Beach and Are U the One? while continuing her work with Catfish and her podcast, Relationshit with Kamie Crawford, which launched in 2021.

Kamie left the show in October 2024 but clarified that she hadn't filmed any new episodes as of March 2024. "It was a very difficult decision," she said in the September 26 episode.

She went on to acknowledge that while some listeners of a previous episode she recorded felt she was holding back about her reasons for leaving, that was intentional. "Not everything is everyone's business," she added. "And that is how I have kept it for over a year... on purpose."

"I have been minding my Black ass business."

Via Kamie Crawford/Instagram

She's Setting Boundaries Around What She Chooses to Share

After filming 100 episodes and acting as a co-host on Catfish for six seasons, Kamie discussed that her decision around keeping some things private about the show was a matter of boundaries. Though she felt she cultivated a safe space on her podcast to be revelatory and transparent because her listeners are her "besties," she is also aware of the need to have boundaries and not give access of everything about her life to everyone.

Kamie Crawford Calls Out Nev Schulman's TikTok Omission

However, Kamie called out Nev's TikTok video with Max Joseph about the cancellation, saying while it was "all well and good" that they took the time to count their blessings, it was also "very noticeable" that she was "purposefully left out of the thank yous." "If I had to bet my last dollar, I would bet that it was on purpose," she added.

Kamie then took note of people's reactions to seeing the video, their comments of disappointment and their video responses expressing their speculation around why she wouldn't be included in the video. She felt commentators had the right to say what they feel and appreciated the outrage, but in her mind, she didn't expect to be included.

"That is my experience," Kamie explained, alluding to her time working with her former co-host. "Is it unfortunate, does it hurt my feelings? I think I've gone through over a year's worth of healing and therapy and praying and crying and everything in between that at this point acceptance is the place that I'm at... I'm at the acceptance part and I'm good."

Still, she gave fans and supporters their thanks for showing love and always coming through for her. "So I appreciate the love and support and the flowers -- virtual flowers, of course -- that everyone has been leaving me. It is truly like a testament to the community that I've been able to build and the people who watch me and support me and I can't thank you enough."

"I am choosing my peace."

Via Kamie Crawford/Instagram

She's Done Explaining Herself

"For the past year and some change, I have been minding my Black ass business. I have been silent, not silenced. Because, by the way, no NDA is involved here," Kamie revealed in the episode. "I'm choosing what it is I want to say and what I don't want to say. I'm intentional with my words and the things I want to do."

Kamie went on to add, "I should be thanked for being quiet when I don't have to be. I'm choosing my peace. I am choosing to share what I want to share."

"The Kamie erasure is insane," she said, but like she later assured listeners, she doesn't have to take away from anyone else's light to validate her own so she still gave the show's influence and impact their credit.

Kamie Crawford Is Choosing Herself

"I'm choosing myself. In leaving the show, I was choosing myself, and I'm going to keep doing that."

Kamie's self-advocacy continues to be unmatched. In choosing herself, our good sis has walked away from opportunities that no longer serve her, aligned with ones that expand her, and attracted more love and abundance in the process. Now, newly engaged and renovating her home, Kamie has fully entered her peace era, moving with purpose, integrity, and professionalism.

While she had time today to speak up for herself, Kamie is still proving that choosing yourself is the level-up that hits every single time.

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