

When it comes to earning a living, we all know that there's a wage gap for Black women. And while we can acknowledge disappointing realities, we can also consider our hopes and still work toward making a dream of financial freedom a reality. There is a specific price tag on certain lifestyles, and even if a soft life is what you're into, it'll cost you.
Many of us simply want to earn enough to pay our bills, make sure our families are thriving, and retire peacefully. With the way this economy has been going, the price of simple survival keeps going up and up. According to a 2023 Pew Research Center report, 40 percent of Black adults in the U.S. say "an annual income of $100,000 or more is enough to lead the kind of life they want." So how do you level up from a five-figure salary to six figures?
First, let's address mindset: If you want to earn more, you have to think from a space of abundance, patience, and strategy, not one of fear, scarcity, and inaction. Take it from entrepreneur Chris Bible, who, when sharing her experience with a six-figure mindset shift, told xoNecole, "Most importantly, I had to embrace that I was worthy and capable of reaching a certain level of success and that it could be done all on my own." This is a powerful first step: Affirming and making a commitment to recognizing you are worthy and capable of reaching a financial goal.
Now let's get to a few ways to get to six figures:
1. Invest in higher education or additional training.
Research has shown that those who have earned bachelor's degrees or higher earn more than those who do not, and the top six-figure jobs require advanced degrees. That's not to say you can't earn six figures without going to college, but it's definitely one sure-fire six-figure path for many.
If you already have a bachelor's degree, consider going for a master's or higher. Find out what advanced skills or credentials are required to get a higher-paying job within your field.
Sometimes, you can get certifications or specialized training to do jobs that aren't necessarily what you went to college for but can enhance what you already offer as a professional, so be sure to look into those, especially if you work in the medical, tech, financial services, or psychological industries.
2. Apply for a new job and negotiate higher pay at the start.
Job hopping doesn't have the stigma attached to it that it used to, and for some, it's the best way to earn more. One good example of this is Chinneah El-Amin, founder of Flynanced. She worked in tech and banking, according to CNBC, and, in her 20s, went from being a senior project analyst (with an offer for $68,000 that she negotiated up to $72,000) to technical project manager (with an offer of $186,000 and she negotiated a signing bonus of $29,000).
True, El-Amin worked in industries that could pay that type of money, but again, if your desire is to earn six figures, the industry you're in (and whether you might want to transition for finance's sake) is something to consider.
Either way, negotiate no matter what, especially if you're a mid- or senior-level professional who has the experience, talent, training, and acumen to lean on.
Just because a company claims a salary is "the best" or "industry standard" doesn't mean you shouldn't negotiate. The worst you could get is a "no," or even better: You find that the company isn't one you want to invest years of your life working for at all, since they don't put dollars behind the most valuable asset in the world: Human capital.
3. Start a lucrative side hustle.
This one is a given. Side hustles are always promoted in stories like this, but you just can't get away from facts. Some side hustles can add more than $4000 to your monthly income if done just part-time, especially if you're savvy with tech, social media, or digital marketing. Other lucrative side hustles include offering services or products via e-commerce, personal fitness and/or wellness, mobile notary, and travel agents.
4. Sell your expertise and talents via speaking, digital products, or consulting.
This is yet another way to earn six figures and even transition out of a 9-to-5. If you have a gift for communications, public relations, marketing, or teaching, you can create workbooks, audiobooks, art, tutorials, and courses for download. (This couple started making six figures after selling patterns for doll clothes, for example.) If you're not great with actually creating and marketing the concept, take it to a freelance professional to bring it to life and market it for you. Take a few courses, research the best platforms (and their fees), and invest in a reputable tutorial on how to create and market digital products on social.
Another great way to add to your current salary is to get paid for speaking engagements or consulting gigs at schools, organizational retreats, churches, or conferences. Get a speaking or consulting mentor, join a networking organization, pursue more training to prepare you for success, and tap into your personal and professional communities to find out where you can serve through speaking.
5. Bonus: Invest, invest, invest.
Technically, this isn't really tied to your salary, but investing can help you add to your overall bottom line and prep for financial freedom in the future. I can't say this enough: At a minimum, be sure you're tapped into your company's 401K and that you know whether they're matching your investment or not. Let it grow, and avoid withdrawing from it if you can. If you're not into the idea of investing with your company's retirement options (or your company doesn't offer any), consider your options for an IRA (individual retirement account).
Above that, start investing via an online platform or open a brokerage account. (Here are a few good beginner-friendly options). Be inspired by women like Tiffany James, who turned a $10,000 stock market investment into a million-dollar portfolio. True, investing in stocks can be risky, but there are opportunities to add to your wealth if this is something you're willing to be patient and diligent about.
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From '106 & Park' To Prime Time, Rocsi Diaz Is Still That Girl
Rocsi Diaz is no stranger to the camera. From her iconic run on 106 & Park to interviewing Hollywood heavyweights on Entertainment Tonight, she’s been at the center of culture for years. Now, she’s back in the hosting chair alongside none other than Deion “Coach Prime” Sanders for We Got Time Today, a fresh talk show exclusive to Tubi.
The show is exactly what you’d expect when you put a media pro and a sports legend together—a mix of real talk, unfiltered moments, and guest interviews that feel like family kickbacks. As the duo wraps up their first season, Rocsi sat down with xoNecole to talk about teaming up with Deion, the wildest moments on set, and why streaming platforms like Tubi are shaking up the talk show world.
Scoring the Gig & Clicking Instantly with Deion
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Deion Sanders had been dreaming of hosting a talk show, and when Tubi came calling, it was only right he made it happen. But before he found the perfect co-host, he held auditions with different women for the spot.
Lucky for us, Rocsi threw her hat in the ring, and the connection was instant. “You just can’t buy chemistry like we have,” she tells us. “We are legit like big brother, little sister—fighting, cracking jokes, telling each other off. When you watch the show, it’s like watching family.”
Mixing News, Culture & Sports—Minus the Snooze
With We Got Time Today, Rocsi and Deion cover everything from the latest headlines to celebrity tea and, of course, sports. But instead of stiff, rehearsed segments, the show keeps it loose and unpredictable.
“We’re not breaking the mold—it’s not rocket science,” Rocsi jokes. “We just bring our own flair, our authenticity, and our personalities to it. Deion has firsthand experience in sports, so when we talk about athletes, he brings a different perspective.”
And the best part? Unlike traditional talk shows that rush through quick interviews, We Got Time Today actually takes its time. “A lot of shows might give you one or two segments with a guest,” Rocsi says. “With us, we actually sit down and have real-life conversations.”
Her Top Guests (So Far!)
From music icons to relationship experts, the show has already had some unforgettable guests—but a few stand out for Rocsi.
“Ice Cube was our first guest, and he’s just legendary,” she says. “Kirk Franklin had us cracking up when he broke into a full choir freestyle for our Christmas special. And anytime we get Dr. Bryant on to put Deion in the hot seat? That’s my favorite!”
And of course, there’s Nick Cannon. “Nick was amazing,” she adds. “You already know he’s going to bring the energy and say something wild.”
Tag-Team Hosting with Deion: The Inside Scoop
While Deion Sanders is best known for his football greatness, Rocsi says he’s also one of the funniest people she’s ever worked with.
“He’s goofy—like, really goofy,” she laughs. “A lot of people didn’t know that side of him, but now they do. He can crack a joke, and if you’re too sensitive, good luck, because he will go in. But the best part? I throw it right back at him! Sometimes we just look at each other like, ‘Okay, that was a good one.’”
But beyond the laughs, she admires his insane work ethic. “Watching him juggle everything he does is just super admirable,” she says.
How "We Got Time Today" Brings That "106 & Park" Energy
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For those wondering if We Got Time Today feels like 106 & Park 2.0, Rocsi says it’s a whole different vibe.
“The only comparison I’d make is that it’s a destination for the culture,” she explains. “It’s a platform where our people can come, feel safe, and have real conversations. But other than that, this is Deion’s world—we’re just having fun in it.”
The Talk Show Shake-Up: Why This Show Hits Different
Unlike traditional networks, We Got Time Today lives exclusively on Tubi, proving that streaming platforms are changing how we watch talk shows.
“Tubi is giving more people opportunities and making content more accessible,” Rocsi says. “Deion is a huge Tubi fan—he literally loves Black cinema—so it just made sense for him. And honestly? He’s got me watching it too!”
Real Ones Only: Women Holding Each Other Down
Rocsi credits her best friend, Chantelle, for always keeping her grounded. “She kept pouring into me, reminding me of who I am,” she shares. Even Deion Sanders makes sure to give her flowers, often calling her “the hostess with the most.”
In the industry, she’s built lasting bonds with women like Julissa Bermundez, Angie Martinez, and Angela Yee. “Julissa and I still kick it—her house is basically Sephora, so I just shop there,” she jokes. She also cherishes her friendships with Melyssa Ford and Robin Roberts, who have offered unwavering support. “Robin has always been there for me,” Rocsi says, reflecting on the wisdom she’s gained from the legendary journalist.
With the show’s first season wrapping up, Rocsi is grateful for the experience and excited for what’s next. “We’re having a good time, and the audience can feel that,” she says.
And if you haven’t tuned in yet? Well, Rocsi and Deion got time—so you might as well make some too.
Catch We Got Time Today now streaming on Tubi!
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'Dandy Land' Just Dropped & It’s a Celebration Of Black Style, Swagger, And Statement-Making
The first Monday in May is always a moment, but this year? It’s giving Blackity Black Black Black in the most intentional and celebratory way. On May 5, the MET Gala will unveil its latest exhibition titled Superfine: Tailoring Black Style, which is a tribute to Black dandyism and identity. The exhibition honors the power of clothing within the Black diaspora, spotlighting how style has long served as a tool for Black resistance, reinvention, and radical self-expression.
Centering designers of color and curated by scholar Monica L. Miller, the exhibition draws from her 2009 book Slaves to Fashion: Black Dandyism and the Styling of Black Diasporic Identity and the enduring legacy of Black fashion and self-styling. As she explains, the Black dandy “reimagines the self in a different context” and challenges “who and what counts as human, even.”
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This year marks the Costume Institute’s first menswear-focused show in over 20 years and the first to exclusively highlight designers of color. The co-chairs for the 2025 Gala include Pharrell Williams, A$AP Rocky, Colman Domingo, and Lewis Hamilton, alongside honorary co-chair LeBron James.
To further build anticipation for the Gala, GQ and Voguecollaborated on a stunning fashion portfolio called Dandy Land, styled by image architect Law Roach and shot by Tyler Mitchell. The spread features over 30 Black trailblazers who embody the elegance and edge of Black dandyism.
In the words of Janelle Monáe:
“I consider myself a free-ass motherfucker. And when I’m in my suit, that is exactly how I feel… I feel like I am showing you a new way to think about clothing and to think about values and to think about what you stand for.”
Ayo Edebiri added:
“I’m half Nigerian. There’s nothing more dandy than an African man dressed to the nines, really showing out, going to a party or a wedding.”
Actress Danielle Deadwyler shared:
“Black dandyism is essentially a bucking of systems, a bucking of oppression, and saying we are inherently beautiful.”
And in the words of Dapper Dan, the Godfather of Harlem:
“The way I came into dandyism is through this process of transformation. I’m from the poorest neighborhood in Harlem, right by the banks of the Harlem River. Everybody in my little enclave was all poor. We had rats and roaches. Goodwill was our Macy’s. Whenever I was lucky and fortunate enough to have something to wear, I went to 125th Street. Nobody went there who wasn’t dressed. At 125th Street, nobody knew I had rats, nobody knew I had roaches, and that for me was the birth of dandyism because I saw the power of transformation that could take place with your clothes.”
To see the full Dandy Land editorial and explore the stories behind each image, check out the full spread on GQand get ready for the MET stairs to turn into a Black fashion masterclass next month.
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