

'Tis the season for fashion-forward basics and I can’t get enough. Closet staples are one of the biggest trends of 2022 and I’m challenging myself to turn a simple wardrobe into a fall uniform made up of everyday essentials that combine comfort, warmth, and style. When it comes to your wardrobe this season, it’s what you buy and how you wear it that makes these timeless pieces effortlessly chicer than the rest.
Lately, I’ve been into a much more minimal aesthetic, however, I love incorporating cool designer items that add even more character to my look. With just a handful of foundational items that are extremely versatile, I believe investing in quality, comfort, and fit can easily elevate simple wardrobe staples for years to come.
Keep scrolling to see how I wear my everyday items that are far from "basic” and key to looking and feeling stylish this fall.
Look 1: White Tee + Wide Leg Trouser + Trench Coat + Chunky Boot + Mini Shopper
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Oversized t-shirts have had me in a chokehold as of late, completely taking over as the main staple of my fall uniform. This season, I’ve been inclined to show less skin and achieve more comfort, challenging myself to create functional and stylish looks to go about my busy day. In addition to oversized tees, I love wide-leg trousers for just about any occasion.
For this look, I paired a men’s white t-shirt with these black satin-trimmed wide-leg Acne pants to add a cool approach to this relaxed look. Mixing high-priced items with high-quality basics can elevate a casual outfit instantly. For a wide range of options including this boxy fit, Uniqlo has a fantastic selection of affordable essentials.
Topping off this neutral look with a beige trench coat, chunky boots, and a mini Telfar shopper, I felt like the epitome of comfy chic.
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Look 2: Ribbed Tank + Denim Jacket + Tennis Skirt + Ankle Boots
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A ribbed tank top is another great foundational item to include in your capsule rotation. Perfect to pair underneath lightweight jackets and knits, you can layer with just about anything this fall. I love this tank from COS as it's the perfect fit and length, providing the perfect quality, comfort, and silhouette.
For this weekend look, I paired a black pleated mini skirt along with an oversized unwashed denim jacket to incorporate a couple of the season's trends. Completing this look are the infamous ankle boots by Maison Margiela that are the perfect fashion-forward designer staple.
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Look 3: Cropped Button Down + Fitted Top + Leather Jacket + Pleated Midi Skirt + Knee High Boots
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Shahirah Ahmed/xoNecole
Another one of my favorite staples to keep on steady rotation for fall is an oversized cropped button-down. Perfect for those of us that like to mix current trends with classic styles, layering this basic is a great way to effortlessly elevate a cute and casual look. I’m currently obsessed with the late 90s/early 2000s pleated midi skirt era, so I couldn't wait to style with a few of my favorite basics.
For an overall minimal approach, I went with neutral tones along with a black leather jacket, Agolde fitted top, square-toe knee-high boots, and black Gucci frames to complete this daytime look.
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Laterras R. Whitfield On What He Wants In A 'Future Wifey' & Redefining Masculinity
In this week's episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker chopped it up with Laterras R. Whitfield, host of the Dear Future Wifey podcast, for a raw and revealing conversation about personal growth, faith, and the search for love in a way that resonates.
Laterras Whitfield Believes Men Should Pursue, Not Persuade
“Let me know you exist, and I’ll do the rest”
Whitfield is a big advocate of a man’s role in going confidently for the woman he wants. “Men should pursue, not persuade, and women should present, not pursue,” he said. He’s open to meeting women on social media but isn’t a fan of bold approaches. “Don’t shoot your shot at me. … Let me know you exist, and I’ll do the rest.”
His ideal woman?
“She has to be a woman of God… I judge a woman by how her friends see her… and most importantly, how she treats my kids.”
Infidelity, Redemption, and the Power of Self-Control
“Being disciplined is the most beautiful thing you can offer”
Once unfaithful in his previous marriage, Whitfield has since transformed his perspective on masculinity. “Being disciplined is the most beautiful thing you can offer. That’s what true masculinity is to me now.” He has also committed to abstinence, choosing self-control as a defining trait of manhood.
Whitfield’s journey is one of redemption, purpose, and faith—something that speaks to women who value emotional intelligence, accountability, and the power of transformation.
Rewriting the Narrative Around Black Masculinity
What masculinity, legacy, and healing mean to Whitfield today
“My dad taught me what not to be [as a man] and my mom taught me what she needed [in a man],” Whitfield said. While his father wasn’t abusive, he wasn’t emotionally or affectionately present. “Since I didn’t see it, I never got it either… I would look at my dad and say, ‘I want to be a better father.’ ”
Adoption had always been on his spirit, influenced by TV shows like Different Strokes and Punky Brewster. This mindset led him to take in his nephew as his son after a powerful dream confirmed what he already felt in his heart.
Want more real talk from xoMAN? Catch the full audio episodes every Tuesday on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, and don’t miss the full video drops every Wednesday on YouTube. Hit follow, subscribe, and stay tapped in.
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Roxanne Shanté On Receiving Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award & Hosting Rock The Bells Festival
Roxanne Shanté continues to show us that her influence in hip-hop is undeniable. The hip-hop pioneer made history this year as the first solo female rapper to receive a Grammy Lifetime Achievement Award and now she’s returning as the dean of ceremonies for the Rock The Bells Festival. Roxanne chats with xoNecole about her career and latest honor.
“When I first received the news that I was getting that lifetime achievement award, hearing the class that I was accepted into was incredible for me, because it wasn't just myself, but it was Prince, Frankie Beverly, Frankie Valli, Taj Mahal and The Clash," Roxanne tells us. “And when you think about those artists, all you can think about are the hits and the great songs that they made and albums upon albums, and then you include Roxanne Shanté.
Tammy Hurt, Roxanne Shanté and Harvey Mason Jr.
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“People ask me all the time, what do you think the purpose of you receiving the lifetime achievement award? Not, I didn't deserve it, but it's for all the times that I didn't say yes to things that other people may have said yes to. So it really is an award and a benefit of being able to say, I just stayed me, and when you stay you, the universe gives that to you. So because mine didn’t come from sales of albums, because I didn’t sell millions and millions of albums, and I didn't make millions and millions of records like everyone else. What I did do is I affected many lives, and I was there to push a lot of artists. So it’s for the things that I did behind the scenes.”
Now, Roxanne is gearing up for Rock The Bells Festival, which takes place this Saturday, June 28. The show is packed with groundbreaking artists like Busta Rhymes, Redman, Remy Ma and many more. But that’s not all. This year, the festival is switching it up a bit by featuring R&B acts like Lil Mo and celebrating Uptown Records, who were known for their R&B artists like Al B. Sure, Donell Jones, and Monifah.
“People ask me all the time, what do you think the purpose of you receiving the lifetime achievement award? Not, I didn't deserve it, but it's for all the times that I didn't say yes to things that other people may have said yes to. So it really is an award and a benefit of being able to say, I just stayed me, and when you stay you, the universe gives that to you."
Thai Randolph, strategic advisor and board member for Rock The Bells Festival shares why Roxanne is the perfect person to host the event. “Roxanne Shanté isn’t just hosting—she embodies hip-hop itself. A true pioneer, she laid the blueprint for generations of artists both musically and entrepreneurially,” Thai says.
“Whether you’re listening to her iconic track ‘Roxanne's Revenge’ or catching her captivating energy on Rock The Bells Radio, her authenticity, charisma, and genuine love for the culture always shine through. As a longtime fan, I can't think of anyone better suited to energize the crowd and set the tone for an unforgettable event."
For a lot of people, the rapper’s Netflix biopic Roxanne Roxanne was their first time hearing her life story. The film, which shows a 14-year-old Roxanne navigating life as an inner city kid and creating one of the biggest diss records with “Roxanne’s Revenge,” quickly became a hit with viewers. The radio host says it’s an “honor” that so many people resonate with her story as she wanted it to serve as a cautionary tale for fathers and daughters.
As far as making another film about her life, Roxanne isn’t opposed. “We've been thinking about it, talking to the Rock The Bells family, because we're now branching off and now going into doing podcasts and things like that. We were kind of talking like, you know what? Maybe I need to have a story time,” she says.
“I come with a story time with photos, and that's like one of the greatest things because it's one thing when people tell you a story, but it's another thing when somebody can bring photos and receive other people along with it. So we were thinking about having a real Roxanne story time. We're still thinking about that, but in the meantime, having a radio show that now has about seven million listeners per day, it's also a blessing. So I sit back and I enjoy that.”
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