When it comes to sharing the secrets behind her great skin, Halle Berry is continuing to do the Lord’s work and sittin’ pretty while doing so. As a firm believer in not gatekeeping the products that work for her, the 56-year-old Bruised star shared her favorites from last year that she thinks everyone, especially women, can benefit from in the months to come. “I wanted to share some of my FAVORITE things I think every woman should have in 2023,” she wrote in a recent Instagram post. “Hope these goodies bring you as much joy as they’ve brought me.”
We’d be remiss to come across such recommendations and not share them with the xoNecole readers, so here we are, sharing the tea the Hollywood beauty recently spilled. Scroll for Ms. Berry’s favorite things that keep her skin on glow, inside and out. As Halle says, let's "get into it."
Heal the Need Rescue & Recovery Serum
Olga Lorencin
A long-time user of Olga Lorencin skincare products, Halle has leveled up her beauty routine in 2022 by reaching for this favorite. “You’re going to need this for your face in 2023. Trust me. You put this on, you wake up, you got a new face,” Halle shares in her video. “It happens to me every morning. Believe me.”
This restoring oil-based serum delivers a deeply hydrating and reparative experience to your face thanks to ingredients like avocado oil and marula seed oil. If you want a more even skin tone and an intensely moisturized glow, look no further than this serum.
Knesko Skin Masks
KNESKO
These Reiki-charged, natural collagen masks are coveted and adored by many for a reason. "If you don't know about the KNESKO masks -- face masks, neck masks, lip masks -- get into it," she shares. "These are the best face masks I have found." Prepare to brighten, balance, and rejuvenate in 2023 and beyond.
Akkermansia Probiotics
Pendulum
Halle swears by this probiotic “for ultimate gut health.” “We all know that when your gut is healthy, your organs are healthy, your skin is healthy, your hair is healthy -- everything is healthy when your gut is healthy," she says. "Akkermansia is at a wonderful price point. You don't have to keep it in the refrigerator like some probiotics that are really powerful. This will change your life because it will change your gut."
Virtue Labs Restorative Treatment Mask
Referring to this mask as her "favorite, favorite" hair conditioner of the moment is only one of the things Virtue Labs Restorative Treatment Mask has working in its favor. The deeply hydrating mask is infused with keratin, making it the perfect solution for dry, damaged hair. The lightweight formula transforms brittle strands of all hair types with the help of ultra-nourishing ingredients.
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The origin of the word "discipline" can be traced back to the Latin word "disciplina," which means "instruction" or "teaching." Over time, however, discipline has come to be synonymous with punishment, with parents relying on shame, fear, and/or physical pain to curb undesirable behavior.
Teaching takes time, so nipping it in the bud in whatever fashion parents deem necessary (within reason) has become the norm. But is this what’s best for children? And when does it become less about curbing undesirable behavior and more about getting our licks back for offenses we feel our children should know better to do?
In my work as a parenting coach, I’ve often heard parents say, “I asked him nicely three times before spanking him. He didn’t stop doing it until I did, so clearly talking doesn’t work.”
And the parent isn’t wrong. Talking often doesn’t work the first, the third, or the even the 10th time. And the reason is directly tied to brain development.
Children cannot and do not process information the way an adult can. Auditory processing is not fully developed until a child is 14 or 15 years old. And even then, if a child has auditory processing delays or Auditory Processing Disorder (APD), they may always struggle with processing auditory commands. According to Susie S. Loraine, MA, CCC-SLP, the term auditory processing refers to how the brain perceives and interprets sound information. Several skills determine auditory processing ability—or listening success. They develop in a general four-step hierarchy, but all work together and are essential for daily listening.
Without this understanding, discipline can easily become revenge because parents will then view their child’s misdeeds as a personal slight. Instead of teaching them to do better, parents now want to show them the consequences of not doing better. This is why it's imperative for parents to discern between discipline and revenge to maintain healthy relationships with their children.
5 WAYS TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN PARENTAL GUIDANCE AND RETALIATION:
Understanding The Intent
Discipline is rooted in love and concern for the child's well-being. It focuses on teaching lessons and helping children understand the consequences of their actions. Conversely, revenge-driven actions stem from a desire to inflict pain or punishment as payback for perceived slights or disobedience. Parents should reflect on their motives before taking disciplinary actions. Ask yourself whether your intention is to help your child learn or to make them suffer for upsetting you.
Example: If a child accidentally breaks a valuable item, a disciplinary response would involve discussing the importance of being careful and working with the child to come up with a way to replace or fix what they’ve broken. On the other hand, a vengeful reaction might involve yelling, harsh punishment, or bringing up past mistakes to intensify guilt.
Maintaining Emotional Regulation
Effective discipline requires parents to remain calm and composed, even in challenging situations. It's natural to feel upset or frustrated when children misbehave, but responding with anger or resentment can escalate the situation and blur the line between discipline and revenge. Before addressing the issue, take a moment to breathe and collect your thoughts.
Example: If a child cannot follow instructions, a disciplined response would involve calmly explaining why their cooperation is necessary in working with the child to accomplish the goal. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve shouting, name-calling, or resorting to physical punishment out of anger.
Promoting Growth and Learning
Discipline should always aim to promote growth and learning. It involves guiding children toward making better choices and understanding the impact of their actions on themselves and others. Effective discipline strategies include positive reinforcement, setting clear expectations, and providing opportunities for reflection and growth.
Example: If a child repeatedly forgets to complete their chores, a disciplinary approach would involve discussing the importance of responsibility and finding solutions together, such as creating a chore chart or setting reminders with Siri or Alexa. In contrast, a revenge-driven response might involve imposing overly harsh punishments or belittling the child, which can undermine their self-esteem and hinder their ability to learn from their mistakes.
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Building Trust and Communication
Trust and open communication are essential components of a healthy parent-child relationship. Discipline should strengthen this bond by fostering trust and encouraging children to confide in their parents without fear of judgment or retaliation. When children feel safe and supported, they're more likely to accept discipline as a form of guidance rather than punishment.
Example: If a child admits to breaking a rule or making a mistake, a disciplined response would involve listening to their perspective, discussing the consequences of their actions, and working together to find a solution. Conversely, a retaliatory response might involve accusations, blame, or shutting down communication, which can erode trust and damage the parent-child relationship.
Seeking Professional Guidance
Parenting is a learning journey, and, disciplining children is a delicate balance between guiding them toward responsible behavior and nurturing their growth. By understanding the intent behind our actions, maintaining emotional regulation, promoting growth and learning, building trust and communication, and seeking professional guidance when needed, as parents we can help our children built on love, respect, and understanding.
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