

Love is beautiful and social media is a wonderful way to showcase and spread it. However, many times it's the content with a bit of controversy or drama tied to it that gets all the double taps. But as my father once told me, "It's fine to seek drama in your art and interests, but love should make you happy and feel peace." When he said that, it stuck with me. For a long time, I think I sought out excitement in my relationships and that can lead to a lot of unhappiness or unhealthy situations.
Now, I'm working to see things differently. In fact, when I think about a few of my favorite celebrity couples, I realize they're kind of lowkey. While their names ring bells professionally, their personal lives seem somewhat normal and peaceful. They're just unproblematic, in love, and successful, and I think it's OK to say, "That's goals."
Check out these Black celebrity couples that keep the intimate details of their relationship to themselves but still made our list of faves.
Sabrina Dhowre and Idris Elba
I still remember when the news dropped that actor and musician Idris Elba was married. It was like Black women around the world were a little heartbroken. But that changed when we got introduced to his wife, TV host, model, and former Miss Vancouver, Sabrina Dhowre Elba.
On an episode of The Sip, Sabrina mentioned the couple met in a jazz bar where she chatted with the Luther star in plans of connecting him with a friend. But apparently, Mr. Elba read the situation wrong because he was very much into her. So after Sabrina got her friend's approval, they continued talking and the magic happened.
Clearly, that worked out, because years later they're still going strong. And although the pair seems to value their privacy, when they do share, it puts us in our feelings and makes it super hard to be a hater. Sabrina told The Sip:
"Early on Idris told me, 'Do not read what people say, the internet is a toxic place.' I took that on, and I started living for myself and not feeling like I have to justify my relationship. It's not for other people."
"I know what we have is amazing and I cherish it," she continued. "But at the same time we're trying to get used to exploring it openly and that's one of the reasons we started our podcast, Coupledom."
Tia Mowry and Cory Hardrict
Tia Mowry is one of those celebrities we've admired for decades. Her work on timeless classics like Sister, Sister, and The Game have entertained and inspired so many, so it always feels good to support celebrities who not only share positivity through their work but through their personal lives as well. And one way she and her husband, actor Cory Hardrict, do that is through their beautiful display of love and marriage.
When reflecting on how they met, The Chi actor told Global Grind, "I was waiting at a bus stop after I shot my first film. She and her sister drove by, they saw me waiting, and asked to give me a ride. I was so embarrassed."
He continued, "But, they gave me a ride and we have been friends ever since." Today, they are both successful actors and very much in love after 13 years of marriage.
Eudoxie and Chris "Ludacris" Bridges
As an Atlanta transplant, I have to start this by saying we don't give Ludacris enough credit for a lot of things. But one area I think definitely isn't discussed enough is his happy marriage to the influencer, author, and philanthropist Eudoxie. The couple met in 2008 at "Luda Day Weekend," an annual celebrity celebration focused on service. They quickly developed a friendship. Fast-forward to six years later: they tied the knot in a baecation ceremony at a secret location.
Since that time, the rapper has gained dual citizenship in Gabon, showing a true interest in his wife's heritage.
About a year ago, the couple has shared a major hardship. Eudoxie wrote an emotional Instagram post, which read:
"I had a miscarriage and needed to have surgery. It was very easy to complain and self-pity but I refused to let the enemy win. I stayed faithful and prayed up. I spent hours focusing on the many ways the Lord has blessed me. How could I complain when God has blessed me with the opportunity to already experience motherhood? I'm sharing this with you all to remind you to live in gratitude."
She continued, " Thank you God for your favor over my life. Thank you for my beautiful family and friends who have been so supportive. Thank you for another year!" The couple has recently welcomed their second child together and is excited about the launch of Karma's World, a children's series created by Ludricis, dedicated to his oldest daughter Karma, now streaming on Netflix.
Meagan Good and DeVon Franklin
Meagan Good and DeVon Franklin were very open about their courtship and their decision to be celibate before getting married. However, more recently, they've kept their marriage details pretty close to the chest. When they do share with us, it seems pretty clear that these two are very much in love.
In their book The Wait, the couple shared that they met years ago but reconnected on the set of the 2011 film, Jumping the Broom.
On Oprah's Super Soul SundayMeagan reflected on meeting DeVon saying, "I remember thinking, wow, that's the kind of guy I wish I could marry. I thought he was out of my league because of how amazing he was."
DeVon expressed that he thought she was too much of a celebrity and out of his league as well. But thanks to their commitment to each other and their faith they ended up together a little over a year later.
Keith Powers and Ryan Destiny
Both of these actors have a loyal following of admirers so it was quite a story when these two hit the scene together. I mean when they drop a picture, it only takes a few seconds for the post to be full of comments and emojis. The actors told Teen Vogue that they met at the mag's 2015 party. As soon as Keith Powers saw Ryan Destiny, he walked over and introduced himself, sparking a beautiful friendship. Then, thanks to social media and a genuine bond, the relationship grew from there.
Powers told Teen Vogue, "I realized I was in love when I knew my life would be extremely affected negatively if Ryan wasn't in it."
"Loving someone is a very natural feeling that just happens," he added. "You can't just wake up and say, 'I love this person.' You feel it. You realize like, 'Wow, this person is a piece of me,' and regardless, you don't ever want that person out of your life."
Still, we don't see the couple in the mix too much. And the reason why may surprise you. In an interview with The Jed Foundation, Keith revealed his battles with anxiety and depression and that he can sometimes become uncomfortable with the attention that his relationship receives. He recalled a dark time, adding, "People speaking on my relationship and having opinions on it really hurt me. I'd have mornings where I'd literally dread the fact that I had to get up for the day. The anxiety of getting on social media was really getting to me."
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Kirby Carroll grew up in VA but now calls Atlanta, GA home. She has a passion for creating content and helping brands grow through storytelling and public relations. When not immersed in work, you can find her sipping a mimosa at brunch or bingeing a new TV drama on Netflix. Keep up with her on social media at @askKirbyCarroll.
'He Said, She Said': Love Stories Put To The Test At A Weekend For Love
At the A Weekend For Love retreat, we sat down with four couples to explore their love stories in a playful but revealing way with #HeSaidSheSaid. From first encounters to life-changing moments, we tested their memories to see if their versions of events aligned—because, as they say, every story has three sides: his, hers, and the truth.
Do these couples remember their love stories the same way? Press play to find out.
Episode 1: Indira & Desmond – Love Across the Miles
They say distance makes the heart grow fonder, but for Indira & Desmond, love made it stronger. Every mile apart deepened their bond, reinforcing the unshakable foundation of their relationship. From their first "I love you" to the moment they knew they had found home in each other, their journey is a beautiful testament to the endurance of true love.
Episode 2: Jay & Tia – A Love Story Straight Out of a Rom-Com
If Hollywood is looking for its next Black love story, they need to take notes from Jay & Tia. Their journey—from an awkward first date to navigating careers, parenthood, and personal growth—proves that love is not just about romance but also resilience. Their story is full of laughter, challenges, and, most importantly, a love that stands the test of time.
Episode 3: Larencia & Mykel – Through the Highs and Lows
A date night with police helicopters overhead? Now that’s a story! Larencia & Mykel have faced unexpected surprises, major life changes, and 14 years of choosing each other every single day. But after all this time, do they actually remember things the same way? Their episode is sure to bring some eye-opening revelations and a lot of laughs.
Episode 4: Soy & Osei – A Love Aligned in Purpose
From a chance meeting at the front door to 15 years of unwavering love, faith, and growth, Soy & Osei prove that when two souls are aligned in love and purpose, nothing can shake their foundation. Their journey is a powerful reminder that true love is built on mutual support, shared values, and a deep connection that only strengthens with time.
Each of these couples has a unique and inspiring story to tell, but do their memories match up? Watch #HeSaidSheSaid to find out!
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Definitely a quote that I find myself saying, at least twice a week, is one by the philosopher Aristotle: “The excess of a virtue is a vice.” And boy, when it comes to yeast, that statement couldn’t be more true. I say that because yeast isn’t the devil to our systems. The reality is, so long as it’s kept under control, yeast is a fungus that is beneficial in the sense that it helps to fight off certain intestinal diseases and it even plays a bit of a role in the detoxification process of our bodies.
The problem comes in when there is too much yeast in us — when that happens, we end up with what is known as a yeast infection and usually, whenever people think of this, a vaginal yeast infection is what comes to mind.
I recently read that over 138 million women deal with, not just yeast infections, but recurring ones. And that got me to thinking about the fact that, again, although vaginal yeast infections may be the most popular, there are several others that everyone should know about as well. Because just like an overgrowth of yeast in your genital region can wreak havoc, it can do the same thing…elsewhere.
Today, let me do you a solid by sharing nine other places where yeast overgrowth can become a potential issue, along with what to do if that ever transpires. Because if you’ve ever had a vaginal yeast infection before, you already know what an “ounce of prevention” can do for/about it. Goodness.
1. Scalp
Let’s start with the top of your head, your scalp — because, like it or not, there is plenty of fungus that is up on there. Candida is one and the other is Malassezia; it’s considered to be the culprit of dandruff. So, how do you know when it’s dandruff (check out “Stop Scratching: The Differences Between Dandruff And Dry Scalp”) vs. a yeast infection? Great question. Remember how yeast infections like to thrive in moist areas? Okay, so some symptoms of a scalp yeast infection (whose technical name is tinea capitis) would include soft and moist white areas, green or yellow patches, possible bumps that resemble pimples, and, of course, itching and irritation.
Now, although it’s usually Candida that leads to a scalp yeast infection, the reality is that Malassezia can be the issue too. That’s why, in order to get the proper treatment for a scalp yeast infection, your doctor would need to check to see if Candida or Malassezia is the cause of your drama so, no, please don’t just slap some Monistat on your scalp and call it a day. Once an official diagnosis has been given, usually what will happen is you will be either prescribed an oral medication like Diflucan or an antifungal shampoo for Candida (or a selenium or zinc shampoo for Malassezia). If the inflammation is really off of the charts, a corticosteroid shampoo may also be an option.
2. Mouth
Another name for oral yeast infection is thrush and although it’s most common in toddlers and children, you can also be susceptible to if it you take antibiotics or steroids, if you’re on birth control, if you are going through cancer treatments, if you wear dentures, if your immune system is compromised or if you’re 65 or over. Symptoms of thrush include a “cotton-like” feeling in your mouth, redness and soreness in and around the corners of your mouth, cracking around the corners of your mouth, and a loss of taste.
For oral thrush, you will typically be prescribed an antifungal medication like miconazole, clotrimazole, or nystatin to apply to your mouth for a couple of weeks. For immediate relief, you might want to try rinsing your mouth out with salt water, eating plain yogurt (consuming some that has a lot of sugar in it is pretty counterproductive since yeast thrives off of yogurt), and rinsing your mouth out with a mixture of distilled water and clove oil.
3. Armpits
If you’ve got a red itchy rash in one or both of your armpits, there’s a good chance that you’ve got a yeast infection happening up in there. Since, again, yeast likes to thrive in moist environments, if you happen to sweat a lot in your armpits or you have folds of skin in that area (more on that in a bit), that can lead to discomfort that includes scaling skin, bumps that may resemble pimples and even a bit of swelling — not to mention a ton of itching (which could be worse at night when you are still).
Over-the-counter antifungal creams can help to get you back on the road to healing. Also, make sure to keep your armpits clean and dry. That said, you may want to invest in a natural drying powder that can help to prevent a yeast infection from recurring in your pits in the future along with a deodorant that contains antifungal ingredients like tea tree oil. It’s important to also take note that being overweight and having diabetes can make you more vulnerable to armpit yeast infections, so make sure to be super intentional about caring for your health.
4. Breasts
Although my fungus sensitivity has given me more vaginal yeast infections than I would ever want in one lifetime (it’s been under 10 but still…I loathe those things), BY FAR, the worst that I’ve experienced was one that was underneath one of my breasts. Listen, make sure that, especially in the summer season, you lift those bad boys up and look underneath instead of just washing under them and going on about your day.
I know of what I speak because one time, after getting tired of scratching so much underneath my right breast, I flopped it back towards my shoulder (I’m a 38H, so…) and I saw a semi-large dark purple circle that was moist, prickly and hella irritated. Yep, I had a yeast infection underneath my breast because moisture kept getting trapped in between my breast and the lower part of my rib cage.
Although you can use an antifungal cream like Monistat under there to speed up the healing process, depending on how severe the infection is, your doctor may prescribe something like Diflucan too. On the prevention tip, you should probably wear bras that are made out of cotton most of the time, put bra pads underneath your breasts to absorb excess moisture, and moisturize your breasts with coconut oil; it contains antifungal properties so that your breasts can be soft and smooth and yeast-free…naturally.
5. Belly Button
Chile, if this won’t make you want to clean your belly button tonight, I don’t know what will. Did you know that, reportedly, there are over 67 different types of bacteria that are stored up in that thing at any given time? That’s why it’s a good idea, at least a few times a week, to put some mild soap on a damp Q-Tip and gently cleanse it. Make sure that you dry it thoroughly too; otherwise, you could have a yeast infection in your belly button — one that is extremely itchy, could burn, and will probably look a lot like a rash. SMDH.
As far as the cause, although not cleaning your belly button properly and/or often leads the pack, skin conditions like intertrigo and psoriasis, wearing super tight clothing, pregnancy, obesity, and going through a round of antibiotics can all play a direct role. And as far as treatment, an antifungal cream as well as exposing your belly button to as much air as possible so that it can fully heal should help.
6. Butt
Here’s the thing: If you’ve got a yeast infection around your vaginal area and you keep scratching, you can easily spread it to your anus — and lawd, that’s probably the only thing worse than one that’s in your vagina (or around your labia)! Now,for the record, there are other ways that you can get an anal yeast infection including having too much bad bacteria in your intestines, wearing clothes that are too tight or engaging in unprotectedanal sex with someone who already has an infection. And, just to put it on record, not properly wiping or cleaning that area can trigger one as well.
When it comes to healing from an anal yeast infection, it’s similar to how you would treat a vaginal one. Applying an antifungal cream should help and, if it is severe, your doctor may give you an antifungal prescription. As far as the irritation of your skin goes, if you’d prefer to go the natural route, applying some coconut oil or ozonated olive oil can help with the itching. Just remember thatboth of these options are not latex condom-friendly (because they can melt them) and so, until you (and your partner if they apply) are healed from your yeast infection,rubbers definitely need to be used (honestly,they need to be used regardless but…that’s another message for another time).
7. Skin Folds
If you’ve never heard of intertrigo before, it’s what happens when folds of skin start to rub together and cause irritation and then a rash; this can especially be the case if the folds are moist and anywhere there is moisture (on the skin), it is a potential breeding ground for a yeast infection. In this case, this means that it’s somewhat common to have intertrigo and a yeast infection simultaneously. Have mercy. SMDH.
As far as treatment for this type of infection goes, you definitely need to make sure that you thoroughly dry your skin after bathing and that you wear breathable fabrics (like cotton) as much as possible. Some other helpful tips include applying wet tea bags to the rash (the tannins can help to speed up the healing process) and applying an antifungal cream or ointment should you have a yeast infection in the same spot. It’s also a good idea to take note that using an antibacterial soap in those particular spots can help to decrease your chances of experiencing intertrigo, moving forward, too.
8. Feet (Tinea Vericolor)
The technical name for Athlete’s foot is tinea pedis; it’s a type of (contagious) fungus infection. Another foot fungus infection that you should know about is tinea versicolor (I’ve actually had that one before). And why am I bringing both of these up now? It’s because, technically, they both are considered to be “yeast infections of the feet” (you can confirm that here and here); that’s because both things tend to thrive in moist environments and that can end up leaving your feet feeling really itching, irritated and can sometimes with a burning sensation — just like other types of yeast infections.
When it comes to treating Athlete’s foot, depending on its severity, you may need to take an oral medication like fluconazole or itraconazole to get rid of the yeast from the inside out. It’s also a good idea to apply an antifungal foot cream like Lotrimin or Tinactin and you should definitely throw out the socks that you had on while you were dealing with the infection and get ones that are made of a more sweat/moisture-wicking fabric.
As far as home remedies go, applying a blend of tea tree oil and neem oil to your feet can help since they contain powerful antifungal properties. Rubbing alcohol and hydrogen peroxide helps to kill fungus too. Oh, and one article said that Vicks Vapo-Rub may bring some relief due to the menthol and eucalyptus that are in it as well. And what about tinea versicolor? Well, when I got it, the doctor recommended that I wash my feet in a dandruff shampoo (because that helps to kill fungus) for several weeks — and yes, it worked like a charm.
10. Digestive Tract
And finally, Gastrointestinal Candidiasis (which is sometimes called Invasive Candidiasis) Out of all of the types of yeast infections that we’ve discussed, this is definitely the one that you should be the most concerned about. It’s an infection that can affect your stomach as well as your small and large intestines which can lead to symptoms like abdominal pain, bloating, cramps, white or yellow stool, chills, and/or muscle aches; however, if it hits your bloodstream, it can literally become life-threatening.
So, if you’ve been having any of these symptoms or lately, your vision has been blurry, you’ve got lots of unexplained headaches or even your memory is not what it used to be, make an appointment for your doctor to do some lab work. Also, if you’re wondering what could make you more susceptible to this type of yeast infection — a weakened immunity, steroid use, birth control, estrogen therapy, and a poor diet all top the list.
Anyway, if it’s a yeast infection that’s “only” in your gut, you may be given an on-10 version of a probiotic, be instructed to do something like a candida cleanse (which you can read more about here, here, and here) and also be prescribed with a medication like Nystatin (which is designed to treat intestinal yeast-related issues). If it is more serious than that, you will very likely be admitted to the hospital.
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Yeast infections. They’re typically not the topics that people are rushing to talk about. Still, the more you know about them, the better you’ll be at treating them — should they show up in your vagina or…anywhere else.
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