

If you were to take a glance at my skincare stash, you'd see a wide variety of cleansers, serums, essences, sheet masks, clay masks, oils and AHA treatments. The one thing that many women swear by that you won't find is makeup wipes, or facial cleansing wipes.
Cleansing wipes are my least preferred method of cleaning my skin.
It wasn't always this way, though. In fact, there was a time in my life when I used cleansing wipes religiously. Once upon a time, when taking off my makeup at night was one big struggle, I just used a cleansing wipe, slapped on some sort of moisturizer afterward and drifted off to bed. Though I took the time to make sure I "removed" my makeup every night, my skin looked just as bad as when I didn't remove my makeup at all. This should have raised a red flag for me, but at the time, cleansing wipes were the new big trend, and I wanted to be one of the cool kids.
What Makes Cleansing Wipes Bad
Don't get me wrong, I totally get the appeal of using cleansing wipes, and that's why I started using them in the first place. They are easy to use, require zero clean-up and when you stumble home from a night out with your friends, you can just wipe and go to bed. It's literally every makeup-wearer's dream. But here's the thing: chances are, your cleansing wipes aren't getting rid of all the traces of makeup on your skin and they usually contain ingredients that may be harmful to the skin, such as alcohol and preservatives that are typically omitted from traditional makeup removers.
While it's definitely better to do something rather than nothing at all, I still cry a little on the inside when I see people wiping their face with a cleansing wipe and then just moving on with the rest of their routine. Though many cleansing wipes are advertised to remove makeup in addition to dirt and oil in the skin, your dermatologist would agree that cleansing wipes are not a substitute for actually washing your face and should be used sparingly.
Yes, they are saturated in ingredients that help to remove your makeup and dirt from the skin, but in order to make sure your skin is actually clean, you still need to cleanse your face afterward and preferably with a facial cleanser and water. Rinsing your face with water is what helps to remove all the dirt and makeup grime from your skin. If you are using a cleansing wipe but not properly washing your face, or at the very least rinsing it afterward, you're sort of just using the wipe to move makeup, dirt and bacteria all over your skin.
Properly removing makeup sets the tone for the rest of your skincare regimen. If your skin isn't really clean after using a cleansing wipe, all of the serums, moisturizers and oils you put on afterwards aren't really able to do their job effectively. Instead, everything just sits on top of the skin, instead of penetrating and absorbing. This can result in clogged pores, breakouts and dry skin. Since cleansing wipes have a long shelf life, most contain high amounts of preservatives and harmful anti-bacterial ingredients, which are not great for your skin.
What To Do Instead
If you love using cleansing wipes, the best way to incorporate them into your routine by using them to remove makeup, and then following up with a gentle cleanser to ensure your face is fully clean. I personally remove makeup with an oil cleanser and follow up with a gentle foaming face cleanser, and I am loving the results of it!
If you, too, are not satisfied with cleansing wipes as a method of cleaning your face, here are some great alternatives:
- Micellar water, made up of tiny balls of oil suspended in soft water, is an excellent cleansing option for those who wear lightweight makeup or have sensitive skin. Popular brands include Bioderma, Simple and Garnier.
- Cleansing balms are solid, silky cleansers that transform to a soft milky cleaner. They are great removing makeup, leaving the skin smooth and hydrated. Balm cleansers are great for those with dry skin. I love Clinique Take The Day Off and Banila Clean it Zero.
- Cleansing oils are just that, oils that are used to clean your face. It sounds counterintuitive, but when you use oil cleansers to cleanse your face and remove makeup, the oil binds to the oil and dirt in your skin. When you rinse your face, the good oil rinses off, taking all of the gross oil and dirt with it. Magic! My favorites are plain ol' argan oil or the Sulwasoo Gentle Cleansing Oil.
Cleansing wipes are extremely popular and will probably be around for centuries to come, but just make sure if you do decide to use them that you aren't jeopardizing the health of your skin in the process.
How do you feel about cleansing wipes? Let us know in the comments.
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Devale Ellis On Being A Provider, Marriage Growth & Redefining Fatherhood
In this candid episode of the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker talked with Devale Ellis, actor, social media personality, and star of Zatima, about modern masculinity, learning to be a better husband, emotional presence in marriage, fatherhood for Black men, and leading by example.
“I Wasn’t Present Emotionally”: Devale Ellis on Marriage Growth
Devale Ellis On Learning He Was a ‘Bad Husband’
Ellis grew up believing that a man should prioritize providing for his family. “I know this may come off as misogynistic, but I feel like it’s my responsibility as a man to pay for everything,” he said, emphasizing the wise guidance passed down by his father. However, five years into his marriage to long-time partner Khadeen Ellis, he realized provision wasn’t just financial.
“I was a bad husband because I wasn’t present emotionally… I wasn’t concerned about what she needed outside of the resources.”
Once he shifted his mindset, his marriage improved. “In me trying to be of service to her, I learned that me being of service created a woman who is now willing to be of service to me.”
On Redefining Masculinity and Fatherhood
For Ellis, “being a man is about being consistent.” As a father of four, he sees parenthood as a chance to reshape the future.
“Children give you another chance at life. I have four different opportunities right now to do my life all over again.”
He also works to uplift young Black men, reinforcing their worth in a world that often undermines them. His values extend to his career—Ellis refuses to play roles that involve domestic violence or sexual assault.
Watch the full episode below:
On Marriage, Family Planning, and Writing His Story
After his wife’s postpartum preeclampsia, Ellis chose a vasectomy over her taking hormonal birth control, further proving his commitment to their partnership. He and Khadeen share their journey in We Over Me, and his next book, Raising Kings: How Fatherhood Saved Me From Myself, is on the way.
Through honesty and growth, Devale Ellis challenges traditional ideas of masculinity, making his story one that resonates deeply with millennial women.
For the xoMAN podcast, host Kiara Walker peels back the layers of masculinity with candid conversations that challenge stereotypes and celebrate vulnerability. Real men. Real stories. Real talk.
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Calling All Lovers: October London, Tamar Braxton & Ro James Deliver A Soulful Serenade
If there was ever a night to pull out your best leather jacket, call up an old flame, and lean into your soft, sultry era, The October Nights: Calling All Lovers tour was it.
Presented by Black Promoters Collective, the show brought an evening of lush vocals, smooth grooves, and unapologetic grown-folks business to Atlanta—with Ro James, Tamar Braxton, and the man of the hour, October London, leading the charge. The energy? Sensual. The vibe? Intoxicating (literally and figuratively—more on that in a minute).
Ro James kicked off the night with his signature raspy vocals and a cool confidence that immediately set the tone. While “Permission” was the undeniable crowd favorite (with couples slow-dancing in their seats and people swaying with their phones in the air), he also dug deeper into his catalog, delivering seductive mid-tempos and moody ballads that reminded us he’s not a one-hit wonder—he’s a whole vibe.
Next up, Tamar Braxton took the stage with diva energy and vocal acrobatics that had the crowd on their feet. Her set was a perfect mix of emotion and edge—songs like “My Man,” “All the Way Home,” and “Love & War” hit every heartstring, but she didn’t stop there.
Tamar tapped into her earlier work, showing her full vocal range and reminding everyone that she’s one of the most powerful voices of her generation. Between tracks, she got personal with the audience, sharing laughs and stories like we were all cousins at the family reunion.
Oh—and in case you missed it: “Braxtons are coming back.” 👀 Consider that a soft launch if we’ve ever heard one.
Then came the velvet king himself: October London.
From the moment he stepped on stage, it felt like time slowed down. Backed by a silky live band and powerhouse background vocalists The Shindellas — Kaso, Stacy, and Tam, October’s set was pure R&B indulgence.
He opened with songs like “She Keeps Calling” and “Make Me Wanna,” blending retro soul with modern sensuality. Every note was intentional, every lyric soaked in emotion.
“Touch On Me” and “3rd Shift” had the crowd in a trance, while “Lovers Interlude” and “You Look Better” brought things to a tender, candlelit close.
And because this is October London we’re talking about—of course, he came with the charm. “If I come down there and sing with you,” he teased one woman in the front row, “you gon’ get pregnant.” The entire room screamed.
He also took a moment to introduce his newest venture—a signature whiskey that he’s currently promoting on tour. Smooth music, smooth vocals, smooth whiskey? A trifecta for the grown and sexy.
To top off the night, there was even a surprise pop-up from Tyrese, sending the crowd into full nostalgic overload.
By the end of the night, it was clear: this wasn’t just a concert—it was a love letter to R&B. The October Nights: Calling All Lovers tour captured the essence of grown-up intimacy, storytelling, and soul. No gimmicks. Just real voices, real feelings, and really good music.
If October London is the future of modern soul, we’re all in.
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